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See You Next Year!

6:30 AM came way too early for all of us.  It’s tough to get teary first thing in the morning, but the buses were ready to roll. 

“See you next year!” was heard over and over.  That’s the phrase that makes us feel better.  Just a few hundred days, and friends will pick up exactly where they left off.

Your camp director got teary today, too.  It happened as she walked onto a full bus to say her annual final good-bye.  “I love you guys”, she said, without thinking twice.   The touching words in response came from a chorus of seemingly tough and stoic guys who said, ”Love you, too, Arleen”.    

Words such as these are the greatest of gifts.

This evening was the first real rainstorm of the season.    It was an odd feeling to know that each and every boy didn’t need to be cared for, because he instead was safe and sound with the most wonderful parent in the world.

Thank you to so many who made the summer of 2026 the greatest in Skylemar history.  We’re most grateful for our wonderful parents, who entrust us with their most precious possessions.

The next thank-you goes to our energetic and incredible Skylemar campers, who warm our hearts and make us smile.  We believe in you, and are proud of how this summer you learned that you really can do it, whether it’s about improving in sports, becoming more independent or building better relationships. 

To every single staff member who cared for our campers in a hundred and one ways: Thank you for inspiring interest, for your patience, for reading chapter books at night, for nagging about teeth brushing, for managing a household of six to eight fantastic boys, and for doing whatever it takes to keep them all safe.

And finally, thank you to Lee and Herb for creating this special place in Naples, Maine, and for teaching us that we can make a positive difference in the world, one boy at a time.

PS A million thanks to the Color War ghost writer who’s up at 2 AM, editing this Blog.  Friends like these are hard to find.

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A Day of Thanks

There was a whole lot of love in the warm Skylemar air on this August 7.  Counselors and campers had activities as usual, but this time it was just a little more playful.  Everyone was appreciative and truly enjoyed being together. 

This was the last full day of the 2026 season, and we savored every minute.

Counselors took no periods off — but instead filled the courts and fields right alongside those who were many years younger. Playing together is what keeps our mind off of leaving the ones we care so much about.  You know the feeling.

Over 300 notes of gratitude were written at the Appreciation Station.  These notes are similar to Cool2Care shout-outs, but instead someone is thanked for something specific (or as general as “thank you for being a good friend”).  The writer then finishes the sentence that starts with “I will try and show my appreciation by….”  The guys are really thoughtful with this, and recipients will receive them after camp.

The Final Banquet was one to remember.  The Pavilion was spruced up with decorations, and the meal was especially delicious.  Fresh corn on the cob, barbecued chicken, juicy burgers, Caesar salad and brownie sundaes.  There were impressive speeches presented by a selected New Camper (Asher K), New Counselor (Amai), Old Camper (Brayden C) and Old Counselor (Milly).  Counselor Amai was especially touching when he said, “I wish I had known about Skylemar when I was a kid.”

Finally, it was the time we’ve been waiting for all summer…”Retrospect”.  That’s the spectacular end-of-season show that a team of six videographers and photographers, along with producer Bruce, have worked on for two months.  Not only is the show incredible, but to be in a room with hundreds of guys cheering and laughing together in friendship is one of those things that AI can never duplicate.  Simply the best.

It was also a night of songs, special awards and plenty of tears.  In just a few short hours we’ll be parting for a very long time – 323 days.

As sad as tomorrow morning will be, having a wonderful family reunion on the other end will make for a happy afternoon. 

Thank you for sharing your amazing young man with us this summer.  We are the lucky ones.

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Color War Day 5

If anyone needed evidence of why our Color War may be the fairest in the land, this one should be all the proof required.  Over 60+ contests, not to mention last night’s Songs and Cheers points bonanza, and again, inconceivably, we’re all knotted up.  That’s because the campers themselves not only vote for and elect the two Captains, but the Captains also then draft the teams themselves.  No Staff intervention or team affiliation, or any other rooting interest – they are referees, judges and officials only and have no part in picking or running the teams.  For 78 years it’s worked great, but this year may be the greatest of all!

Both teams have had hot streaks, charged in front, then WHAM — been abruptly caught and passed in the next AM or PM session.  The situation had already created enough intensity that we really didn’t need the scorcher that Mother Nature dialed up for us today.  But that it was, and the boys responded in a big way….it’s the stuff legends are made of.

The morning meetings were extra-hyped up.  The noise level reverberated all over the 200 Skylemar acres.  Captains TI and Joaquin asked for one more morning of Herculean effort from their boys, and also let them know how proud they were to stand alongside them as teammates and brothers.

But today was it  – the last day.  Everything was on the line… so time to go win this thing!

And out they went on the fields and courts for the very last time this summer.  A full morning schedule and then the ultimate closer – TUGS of WAR — left to decide it.

Cubs Baseball, Tigers Golf & Bocce, Freshmen Hockey, Sophomores Soccer, Juniors Football, Seniors Tennis and Stars Basketball said the schedule – and anything less than a split might put one team on the ropes.  The Red Tigers dispatched Gray quickly, putting them out in front once again.  When Red then won both Freshmen Hockey games soon after down in the Rink (3-0 and 3-1),  it looked like they would run away with it.  But Gray Seniors aced their way back winning Tennis before word came that Red Sophomores held on for a 2-1 Soccer victory over at Sky II.  Red was putting the hammer down, but Gray’s littlest guys scored a late run down on the Freddie Pierce to tie the game, enough to stop the Red run.  Then Gray pulled off a double-header sweep on the Upper and Lower Hoops courts to stay alive.  Red was flying into lunch with the lead, awaiting the all-camp Archery results to pad it ….or shrink it, but they’d have it either way.  This very crucial Archery point went Gray’s way, reducing  Red’s advantage after such a strong morning to only 1 ½ points.  And since each Tug this afternoon would be worth 2 points, we were still virtually tied –  in likely the closest Color War ever.

The teams were called to their pre-tugs team meetings – Gray to the Tennis courts and Red to the Hockey rink. A few minutes later, chained up and holding #1s in the air, each team marched to the Snow Field in competitive defiance, ready to give more than they have all week for their brothers.

Shep called the Captains to the front, and not only acknowledged the way each had represented their teams and Skylemar but thanked everyone for giving camp the closest Color War ever.  There was a magnificent display of sportsmanship throughout.  It was already the stuff that legends are made of, so a lot of accolades, applause and appreciation went around before anyone touched a rope.  Then Shep explained the process.  Each of the 7 Divisions would tug (best 2 out of 3), with each Division worth 2 points. Based on the score from the past 5 days,  it would take winning 4 of the 7 Divisions to win Color War, for EITHER TEAM!   We would start with the youngest guys and work our way up to the Stars for the first Tug round , then run it back with a switch of sides for Round 2 and go from there.

Shep then called, “Tuggers to the Rope!”, one Division at a time.  When pulled across the line, George’s whistle would signal each win.  And pull they did!

Faces tweaked, muscles popped, eyes bulged … it was hard to tell who was screaming more , the cheering teams or the pullers themselves.  The boys used up every ounce of strength and energy they could muster, and then some.  “Pull” –  “Harder” – “Dig”  — “Keep Pulling”  ….the energy was electric! The teams were yelling louder than ever, cheering wildly, and the spectators (our Staff and several Alums among others) may have been screaming even louder.  It was that exciting!

And no wonder!  The very first Tug (Cubs/Lions) seemed like it lasted forever,  before Red’s little guys prevailed.  So it went….Red won the little guys, Gray won the Tigers.  Then Gray took the Freshmen tugs before Red won the Sophs AND Juniors to pull within one Tug of glory.  But just as they have all week long, Gray “lit the fuse” (as their fight song says) and won the Seniors Tug to pull even once again – with just the Stars tug left to go. 

And……{whistle}.…GRAY wins Color War 2026 ! (Final Score: 42 — 41 ½ ).

Gray stormed their oldest, now drained warriors in victory celebration while Red’s faithful did the same, though their leaders were swarmed in consolation. And here’s where the magic begins — the exhilaration, emotion and exhaustive relief on display crossed over with hugs shared all over… and lasted for all of about 10 minutes. Then in a show of solidarity, both Captains were carried to the Waterfront and “tossed” in as they have now for 78th time, with all participants close behind — a cleansing, traditional jump in Trickey’s soothing water to finish it!

The most magical night of the year officially closes Color War week.  Waterfront Night washes away the competitive spirit of two teams, blending us back together to celebrate not only the past week, but the Skylemar experience.  The two torch-bearing Captains were followed in solemn, but loving procession as they passed down the Bunkline on way to the lake.  There, they both addressed the camp with messages of gratitude and appreciation before everyone placed a candle-lit Wishing Boat in Trickey’s water.  Legend tells us that if you make a wish for someone other than yourself, that wish might just come true. After Shep delivered his own message of gratitude and appreciation to the entire camp, all were dismissed to an evening of campfires, camaraderie and a lot of love. 

Once again, Skylemar is one.

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Color War Day 4

Back and forth we go – Day 1 saw Red jump in front, followed by an afternoon Gray comeback and a tie by nightfall.  By the end of Day 2, Red had again seized control….until the next morning (Day 3) when Gray stormed back and  took command at the midpoint.  Then yesterday afternoon, Red answered with a dominant PM session of their own and took back the lead, although by just a single point as we all retired for the night.  


Today brought more of the same.  Both teams have shown quite a knack for coming back from behind, and Gray kept the pattern going. After they drew even with a win in Freshmen Waterfront, their Sophomores served up a win in Tennis.  Red bounced back with a 6-2 win in Tigers lacrosse, but over at Sky II, Gray did just enough to hold on in a well-played 2-1 showdown in Seniors Soccer. The Cubs/Lions displayed some future NFL moves on both fields.  Red won on the Bunkline, Gray on the Rec Hall field,  to split the point. Red outlasted Gray in a dramatic 8-7 Juniors win on the Fred Pierce Field, but then Gray Stars won both Golf and Bocce, and recaptured the lead.  All broke for lunch and the first of two Songs and Cheers practices today in preparation for this evening’s most important night activity of Color War.

Gray didn’t even have a chance to sit on the lead, as this time Red came out of the break fired up to take it back.  And that they did.  Wins in Tigers Tennis, Freshmen Baseball and both Seniors Hoops games once again put them ahead.  Their Stars won the first of 3 Stars Hockey games, but Gray rallied to win Games 2 and 3 and stop Red’s run.  Then Gray’s littlest guys won both Soccer games down on the Snow Field to keep them right in the thick of it, just a point back as we headed to Songs and Cheers.

Eight Points ….8 very BIG points.  That’s what was at stake tonight when each team took the stage to perform a set of 6 musical numbers, each with its own assigned point values in Color War’s annual Songs and Cheers Competition.  The presentation included a Team Cheer, Camp Cheer, Team Fight Song, Old Camp Song, Original Camp Song and Production Number. The team leaders have been holed up for days behind the scenes writing material and putting their song sets together, then had 6 rehearsals to get their teams ready for tonight.  And that they did. Both teams sung their hearts out — voices strained by Color War’s excitement over the last 4 days somehow blended in “perfect” harmony.   Judges Barney, Suzie and DMan had the toughest job of all, and their decision handed to Shep quieted the anxious crowd – Gray wins the night 4 ½ – 3 ½.

Day 4 is in the books. One more morning of athletic contests ahead before tomorrow’s traditional, climactic afternoon closer…TUGS of WAR!

How could it be any closer?  It can’t.  Inconceivably, the score is tied… dead even!  Rarely, if ever, would this seem possible.  Looks like we’re headed for an epic finish!

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Color War Day 3

After yesterday’s weather interruption, it was nice to get back on track with another spectacular Maine day, the norm for this 2026 camp season.  Red had surged ahead and was poised to add to their lead.  This time, it was Gray’s turn to set the record straight.

Captains TI and Joaquin called their troops together for the pre-game meetings before heading out for Day 3.  Based on this morning’s response by Gray, they might want to bottle up their meeting content and offer it to a few professional sports teams in dire need of some inspiration.  Needless to say, Gray came out smokin’ hot!     

Two wins in Freshmen Football on both the Bunkline and Rec Hall fields, a nip and tuck win in Juniors Tennis and the first of two Seniors Hockey games not only went Gray’s way, but they now had the lead.  Owen B and Leo P were gridiron stars, and the Tennis was settled when Gray won the last two matches in tiebreaker comebacks to steal the point.  In the Rink, Brayden scored twice and Dillon F hit the net from the defensive end in Gray’s shutout win.

A bit smitten, Red’s Seniors then came back from a 1-0 deficit with a pair of last period goals by Jonah B to stem the tide, avoid the Hockey sweep , and win 2-1.  It looked as though Red had flipped the momentum when they followed with a big win on the lower court in Tigers Hoops behind the strong play of William DM.  But just when you thought they’d retaken command, Gray withstood a late rally to win 21-20  in the Upper Court game.

And then Gray poured in on with wins in Stars Lacrosse over at the Hejduk behind Archie’s stellar play in the cage  – and a dominant performance at the Waterfront by the Gray Sophs who won all 3 elements (more on  that one later) for the victory.

Finally, our littlest guys gave us the biggest charge of the morning.  After Gray chipped their way around the SkyLinks course to win Golf, the rest of the Cubs/Lions were entrenched in the most dramatic Bocce match in years.  Each team had won a game as the venue shifted up near the infirmary area for the deciding 3rd game.  Red desperately needed another win as each team’s supporters rallied around their own 7/8-year olds.  The focus both on and from these youngest competitors intensified as the crowd hushed on every throw until each team had won 4 points with the Bocce point hanging in the balance of the last throw. Red’s ball was only an inch or so from the target, with Gray’s Simon left as the last to go.  The crowd quieted even more … waiting for the final throw – a win or lose proposition. 

For a bit of history, Bocce play began at Skylemar 78 years ago, when Founder Herb Blumenfeld brought the simple game to Naples.  Herb often played with the boys just outside his Skylemar residence as a super way to get to know them up close.  They loved him ….and the game of Bocce, too! It’s a game everyone can play and is lots of fun.  Well, Herb must be smiling from above as all watched Simon’s epic toss.  The ball rolled up under the big SkyChair, knocked the Red ball aside and nestled less than an inch from the target to win Bocce.   Gray supporters went off, mobbing Simon, chanting his name, and hugging everyone in sight.  

As we broke for lunch, Gray had stormed from behind, taken the lead, and seized control as we hit the midpoint of this Color War.

Lunch and another Songs & Cheers practice, and the boys once again gathered before hitting the fields, courts and Pond for the afternoon session.  The tone of the meetings for both teams flip-flopped  from earlier this morning, and so too did their messages.  Red was now looking up at Gray for the first time….and their resolve would be tested.  Gray was hoping to keep it going, and seemed confident, if not cautiously optimistic.

And for good reasons – several in fact, namely the full points won this afternoon in Cubs/Lions Tennis, Stars Waterfront, Seniors Lacrosse, Freshmen Golf and Bocce, and Juniors Basketball – all by Red.  Gray Juniors did win the first of a Hockey double-header 1-0, only to drop the second one 2-0. 

Red also  dominated Sophomores Basketball winning all 3 games of a triple-header played on the Upper and Lower courts of Sky I and the Gym over at Sky II.  Pablo, Spencer O, Hunter and Liam D starred for the winners.  Gray salvaged the afternoon by coming back with a late goal to tie Tigers Soccer and split the point, 2-2. 

There are too many amazing  plays, outstanding performances and thrilling finishes to cover them all. The best part of the week for these eyes is watching the boys’ wonderful competitive spirit blend with the constant display of our trademark Skylemar sportsmanship. The story of one such example spread all over camp today.  

In this morning’s Waterfront activity down at Trickey, there were a few boys competing who spent most of the summer learning to swim (in shallow water only) and had never traversed the 25-yard lap in the swim lanes without a life jacket on, not even once.  Not only did each decide to give it a try in the pressurized challenge of Color War racing, but all also made it successfully across.  But here’s the rub – one of the boys was placed as the anchor in the last relay race of the meet.  His team was way behind already when it was his turn to dive in (a skill he learned in a very quick practice session just before the event). Swimming alone for the first time ever, and with the race’s winner already determined before his entry, all the Division’s participants (the entire Red AND Gray teams) joined together on all 4 sides of the swim dock, wildly cheering him on with every stroke until he made it across. No one felt more like a winner.  In fact, they all won today.

After a topsy-turvy day where both teams held sizable leads, Color War couldn’t be closer.  Unbelievably, only one point separates the teams with tomorrow night’s critical Songs and Cheers competition looming.  Don’t go anywhere  — this could be one for the ages!

And ….

This evening, we put Color War “on pause” for an amazing performance directed by Suzie and her assistants Roxy and Jayden.  “The Jungle Book” was absolutely incredible.  The acting, set design, costumes, choreography, singing…all was the best.  Don’t know how they found time to learn so many lines during Color War!

Congrats to performers Elton, Declan O, KJ, Zeke, Knox, Theo Q, Luke M, Jonah P, Drew F, Billy, Michael L, Dylan S, Jamie, Alfie, Shay, Owen B, Noah W, Seth R, Seth F, Alex B, Everett K, Paul M, Max W, Sebastian, Leo S, Jack G, Garrett, Alexander D, Ethan P, Quinn C, Troy, Micah, Beckett, Max H, Leo P, Skyr and the counselors who were the bottom half of elephants.   

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Rainy Color War Day 2

Wet weather forecast for the entire day almost came true. The boys woke up to a steady rain that was supposed to last through this evening.  Although Color War would have to wait, the fun would not!

While half the camp would play in the Gym and Lodge, the other half would paint their Bunk plaques and play our favorite rainy-day game, Flamingo Bingo!

It’s Bingo with a Skylemar twist.  Fill your card with a row, column or diagonal, and holler out  “Flamingo Bingo”!  That’s the cue for the JC’s (wearing onesies) to jump out from hiding. They run around the Pavilion blowing whistles and banging drums while squirting the kids with water guns.  Then the winner comes to the front and picks a Counselor Stunt Card.  Stunts are challenges for the counselors that are really funny.  Some had to lip sync, dance, sing or improve.  If your counselor does the stunt successfully (which all Skylemar counselors do), your whole Bunk gets a prize.

There were squishy balls, wind-up toys and mini basketball games.  Best prize was the umbrella hats that ended up being used throughout the day. The “Groucho Glasses” were a big hit too, even though the kids have no idea who Groucho Marx was.

The AM washout had the boys chomping at the bit by around lunchtime when the rain finally stopped. Mother Nature’s morning curveball did little to deflate the energy and spirit of this Color War.   There was more rain headed our way, but the best meteorologist anywhere (aka Shep) knew that although we may get a few light showers this afternoon, it would hold off long enough to get in lunch, a quick first rehearsal for Songs & Cheers Night (coming Day 4), and the full slate of afternoon activities. Good call.  

And here’s what happened….

With the score now tied, Gray’s confidence was soaring. They had come back from an early hole and were determined to take their first lead.  Red had other ideas….

… And let their feet do the talking!  Both the Snow and Hejduk Soccer pitches hosted 3 matches between them this afternoon. The Freshmen played a Soccer double-header down on the Snow Field. Red scored a pair of goals in the first few minutes and dominated Game 1 before teammate Luke W hit the lower left corner on a PK to win the 2nd one, 1-0.  Although not much offensive help, Gray goalkeeper Hendrik was outstanding. Over on the Hejduk, the Stars hard-fought battle also ended in a Red victory behind the outstanding overall play of Nabil, not to mention a fantastic header goal by Bernie.

Red also won Waterfront when their skiers navigated today’s choppy waters well enough to settle it after the two teams split the Swimming and Boating Race elements.  But Gray responded in a big way with a convincing 56-38 blowout in Seniors Football.  Sam P may be our best QB at any age, running and passing the pigskin all over the field to lead the victors, despite David G’s amazing 4-TD day for Red.

The littlest guys strapped the equipment on and played a very exciting Lacrosse game.  Although Red jumped out to a 3-0 lead in the first half, Gray answered late behind Knox’s end-to-end hustle, and 3 goals of their own, and split the Cubs/Lions Lax point.  Just down below on the Freddie Pierce, Bradley’s hitting and Gray’s pitching were untouchable in the Red Sophomores Baseball win, but the biggest blow was delivered by Alex (B16) bases-clearing, 3-run triple. 

And finally, the only weather-related schedule adjustment sent the Upper and Lower Court hoops games over to the Sky II Gym for Juniors Basketball.  Henry B was a force throughout, and teammate Myles F hit a long three-pointer to break open a tight game in Red’s Game 1 victory.  Then once again Gray responded with a victory of their own in Game 2. A special shout-out to Leo, who must have snared 20+ rebounds, dominating the boards with his unrelenting effort – and keeping the Gray right in it. 

Still very close. Red will now sleep on the lead….after Movie night, just to take the edge off a bit.

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Color War Day 1

It was like the first day of camp, all over again, and Mother Nature did her best to cooperate with a glorious Maine morning.  The boys from both sides (Sky I and II) were running all over the place well before Reveille.  Red or Gray?  Everyone wanted to know who was on which team, what color shirt to wear (not that it matters), what’s our first activity and …. do we have to have inspection today (of course we do)?  An incredible vibe was felt from our youngest seven-year-olds all the way up to the Stars who drafted them.  Hugs and high-fives galore, and all well before the annual breakfast special that kicks off Color War week – the infamous Red & Gray Buffet!

After breakfast and inspection, the anticipation had reached a fever pitch waiting for the call on the PA system – Gray Team to the Pine Grove, Red Team to the Mailhouse.  Captains Joaquin and TI gathered their teams for the first time, for the first of several “psych-up” meetings meant to bring unity and inspiration to their squads.  A few minutes later, Shep called all participants to the Fred Pierce Field, where, as tradition dictates, everyone would watch the first inning of the Stars Softball game before heading out to venues all over camp for their own divisional contests. 

Shortly after meeting with the Captains on the field and the ceremonial first pitch thrown by our multi-talented Challenge Course Director Trout, we were all ready for the call.  Umpire Shep bellowed “PLAY BALL”, and Color War 2026 was off and running.

And it didn’t take long for Gray to make an early statement as Thomas L went deep in the bottom of the first to give Gray the lead.  Then in the 5th, Gray clean-up slugger LA Coop looked like Babe Ruth and broke it open, crushing a monstrous 3-run shot high and deep into the forest behind the right field fence that proved to be the game winner. And that was just the start……

Elsewhere, the Cubs/Lions were in the Rink for a pair of Hockey games.  In Game 1, Gray’s Porter completed a hattrick by scoring with 10 seconds left to forge a 3-3 tie.  But in the 2nd Game, Alex B scored twice in Red’s 3-1 win, giving Red its first full point of Color War.   In Freshmen Hoops, Max H and Alex D starred on the upper court, while Red’s defense dominated on the lower court to sweep both games for Red.

In an extremely well-played Juniors Soccer game over on the Hejduk at Sky II, it took a pair of 1st half goals by Nadal to offset a skillful Gray offense and hold them off for a 2-2 draw and spit the point.  Down at Trickey Pond, there are 3 elements to the Waterfront activity – swim races, kayak races and waterskiing.  Gray paddled and swam just a bit faster (with a late rally in the 100-yd free relay) to win 2 of the 3 and secure the Seniors Waterfront point.

The most exciting contest this morning came from Tigers Football.  Everett K had dominated the Rec Hall Field game on defense with 2 first half “Pick Sixes” leading the Red to victory, setting them up for a big morning. But on the Bunkline gridiron in front of a packed sideline full of spectators, Gray came roaring back to take an early 4th quarter lead.  Five lead changes in the 4th quarter alone had the crowd in a frenzy as time ticked toward the finish.  When the clock hit :00 as Gray was driving for a potential game-winning TD, the Red constituency stormed the field to celebrate a thrilling 53-50 triumph….and give Red the lead as we all headed to lunch.

The boys, rejuvenated from lunch and a much-needed rest hour, once again gathered as a team before hitting the fields, courts and Trickey this afternoon.  Gray made some quick noise with a boisterous victory, a whitewash in Seniors bocce, and closed the Red out on sand (in the Gaga pit!).  Red bounced right back, though, with a dominant performance by their lineup in Seniors Golf.

Down on the Pond, our littlest guys showed how much they’ve improved this summer with some outstanding performances both in and on the water – but in the end, Red was just a little faster and won Cubs/Lions Waterfront. In Juniors Lacrosse over at the Hejduk, Gray scored early and took a 3-goal lead into halftime, then settled in and cruised to a 7-4 victory.  Elliot R and Wyatt N led the way with 5 goals between them for Gray.

Freshmen Tennis also went Gray’s way, but with a bit of suspense.  They held a slight edge after the individual matches were played, then watched their teammates protect that lead with some clutch rallies in the skills competition. Over at the Rink, the Sophomores split a pair of games, and the point. Matthew M hit the back of the net 4 times in Red’s Game 1 win, but Gray prevailed in a 2-1 dogfight in Game 2 to spit the point.

The Bunkline field hosted this afternoon’s Football contest and as usual, the oldest kids flashed their wares, showing speed, versatility and lots of pass-catching talent.  The two Captains played QB and had little problem directing their respective offenses or dissecting the opposing defenses.  Too much talent on one side of the ball led to a most exciting high-scoring affair that fittingly ended in a 48 all tie, splitting the Stars Football point.

It seems like this could be the Tigers year for high-drama contests, because like this morning’s football clash, this afternoon’s Baseball game had boisterous spectators hinging on every pitch.  Once again most of the other activities had ended, so these Tigers were under the microscope of the largest crowd of the day, with Gray clinging to the lead. But this was the Theo Q show as he homered in the first inning, then pitched brilliantly with great support behind him to polish off a complete game shutout – and another point for Gray.

Incredibly, just a point separates the teams as we looked forward to the final event of Day 1 – tonight’s always popular Ping Pong competition.  Surrounded by teammates in the Table Tennis Bowl (aka the Pavilion), the night rocked with music and competitive fun.  The docket showed 21 matches to be played, 3 in each Division – first one to win 11 matches gets the point.  And it took quite a while, but finally, Asher N closed it out for Gray.

Talk about even … fair ? Amazing! After 17 contests filled with action and excitement in a long Day 1, we are deadlocked – the score is tied!

Stay tuned… this is looking to be quite a week!

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Behind the Scenes

As a parent, we hurt when our child hurts.   In fact, in some situations we’re even more upset than our child is.  This Blog writer knows.  She has been there before.

For those of us who have a fifteen-year-old son who has wanted to be Captain his entire life, it’s a tough time to be a parent.  He must be devastated, you think to yourself.  Will he be ok? 

So…here’s what happened after Elections.  As a group, they stayed in the Rec Hall until all had left.  Then, as a group, they walked back to Sky II.  Together, they “hung out” and talked about Color War stuff and anything else that teenagers speak of.  Yes, there were a few who were more disappointed than others, and did their best to pretend they were fine.  But true friends saw through the façade and stood by in support.  Before long, every single Star was smiling and joking around as always.

At lunch today the Captains selected their Lieutenants:  two for each team in each Division.  On one hand, it’s an honor to be a Lieutenant.  On the other hand, for the 25 or so in each Division who were not selected, this could be a big disappointment.  A parent might ask, why do they always pick the same people?  Why not give my son a chance?  

Here’s the bottom line:  Skylemar’s Color War is fair.  Participants pick the Captains.  Captains select their Lieutenants.  Captains, with feedback from the Lieutenants, secretly draft the teams.  Adults are the referees, umpires and judges who follow specific rules written and approved by each team.  There’s no grownup intervention, “fixing” of teams, or directives from parents. 

There are some years the moms who work at camp wonder if the kids made the right decision on who they elected or who was selected as Lieutenants.  Perhaps someone else deserves the chance to shine, or someone else could have led in a more positive way.  Nevertheless, Skylemar’s Color War Election demonstrates democracy at its very core.  Those in the camper population are the decision makers, and they cast a vote for Captain using whatever reasoning they wish.

Now for the important part.  The lesson we spoke of yesterday.  Perhaps the most important takeaway from Color War, and one they will take forward for the rest of their lives.  It’s one that cannot be taught in a classroom, with a book or even a deep conversation with loved ones.  It’s a lesson that you have to feel and then decide within what to do with those feelings.

And here it is…

You don’t need a title to be a strong leader.  Leadership, like happiness, comes from within.

Think about it.  It’s all over life.  In the workplace, it’s not necessarily the one with the title who is most valuable to the corporation.  In politics, it’s not necessarily the elected official who makes things happen.  In a movie, it’s not just the actors who make it a smash hit.

Life is about decisions.  People decide to do their best at making a positive impact.  They decide to be leaders who care about others, wise, strong and dedicated.

In Skylemar’s Color War, each participant strives to be the best he can be.  That’s how we roll. 

Tonight, is a magical Skylemar tradition.  Once the teams are secretly drafted and all are asleep, it’s the hour of “pinning”.  The Captains will go into each Bunk and pin either a Red or Gray ribbon to the appropriate pillow of each camper to designate which team he’s on.

Quite a wakeup call!  It will be an exciting and early morning.  We can’t wait!

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The Election

The chants and table banging have been going on for a week.  “SEVEN MORE DAYS!”.  Then “SIX MORE DAYS!”.  Then five, four, three, two, one…and then “NO MORE DAYS!” because TODAY IS THE DAY!

COLOR WAR ELECTIONS 2026!

For those in the Stars Division, it’s a rollercoaster of a day.  They bounce between excitement and butterflies, thinking about the evening ahead.  This is the night that determines which two Stars campers will lead the teams of Red and Gray.  Many have been waiting all summer for this possibility.  Some have been waiting for years.

There are 21 fifteen-year-olds in the Stars Division.  Truth is, every single one of them would be an outstanding Captain.  But there can only be a total of two, and the election will determine who they are.  Each camper, no matter the age, has an equal vote.  Skylemar’s Election is pure and fair.

The Lobster Lunch switches the vibe.  All of Sky II plus the JC’s have a feast of their own, celebrating friendship by just hanging out together.  There was lobster, corn on the cob, Junior’s famous chicken tenders, and giant chocolate chip cookies.   

Lots of shout-outs at dinner, like about our 10U and 11U Lacrosse teams bringing home big wins in intercamp games. Same with 10U Baseball.   And in the Grand Slam Camp Tennis Championships held on the Sky I and II courts during the past few days, Aidan Q and Billy G won their age group titles, and Oscar once again proved he’s the best player in camp. 

Now we’re ready… bring on Red & Gray!

By 8 PM, the camp filled the Rec Hall, every Bunk sitting on a bench of their own.  On the stage facing the audience sat the Stars, each wearing the jersey of their choice.  Shep welcomed all, and the entire room reverberated with cheers, whistles and claps. 

He explained that Elections are one of our oldest and favorite traditions.  It is the participants, the campers, who will decide who will lead our two teams.  The spirit of Color War gets down to this…fair play and friendship.

It’s a unique situation in sports.  You’re competing hard and wanting to win against those who you care for.  Typically, you might respect the other team, but you haven’t lived with them in brotherhood.

In Skylemar’s Color War, it’s fine to play your very hardest on the fields, courts and lake.  But here’s the rule:  none of this happens inside the Cabin.  The Captains draft the teams, one Division at a time.  So it’s conceivable that in one Bunk there are five boys on Red, and just one or two on Gray.  Inside the Cabin, it’s family life as usual.

Shep introduced the audience to the many alumni in the back of the room who have returned for Elections.  He asked for anyone who was elected Captain to raise their hands.  Only one went up.  Then he asked for all those who were on the Ballot but not elected to raise their hands.  Many hands shot up around the room.  “Gentlemen,” Shep declared.  “This is our honor roll.”

As the Stars casted their own vote and were dismissed to the Garden Cabin, Shep added, “These are the guys that each of you should be like one day.”

Now it’s time for the Secret Ballot.  Each camper would be called to the foot of the stage to write down two names of those on the ballot who they believe would be great leaders.  First candidate to get one more than half (a simple majority) would become Captain… in this case, the magic number was 99.

Once each camper wrote the names of two eligible campers on the slip, he put his slip into the ballot box (the traditional white pickle barrel).  The votes were then read aloud and tallied, one at a time.

When one Star was up to 90, the boys stood and started the countdown.  As they got closer 99, they moved closer to the door…3 , 2, 1 more … and welcomed our first Captain — Jonny “TI” Horowitz!  “TI! TI! TI!”, they chanted as he came running into the room and was clamored with high fives and hugs from the wildly cheering crowd.

But then, we needed a second Captain.  So the votes continued to be read aloud, until…. all votes were counted, and no other candidate had reached the magic number of 99 votes. So we started the process all over again, except this time, since we needed only one more Captain, the boys only had to write down one name on each ballot slip. Once again, after all had voted, the ballots were read aloud and tallied, one by one, until….the countdown from 10 began again. The crowd was recharged and ready when our second Captain — Joaquin Davalos — was mobbed entering the Rec Hall.  “Joaquin! Joaquin!  Joaquin!”, they chanted.  He too was surrounded by love and excitement.

The 19 other Stars returned from the Garden Cabin and were greeted with applause.  They gathered in the back of the Rec Hall, and chained up their arms, shoulder to shoulder in brotherhood.  

The flip of a ceremonial coin determined that TI will lead Red, and Joaquin will lead Gray.  The Captains next chose their Stars Lieutenants, two for each, who will help lead their teams — Spencer B and Oscar for Red, and Archie and Jordan G for Gray.

Although each Star not elected may be disappointed and some get teary, they have each other to lean on.  These are the brothers who share what no one else can understand.  Little do they know, in the days ahead they’ll be learning a most powerful lesson.  More on this tomorrow….

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Trips, Talents & The Big One

Welcome home, Skylemar trips!  Rave reviews were shared from our happy and tired campers and counselors.

Cubs and Lions had a day trip to the Maine Mineral and Gem Museum.  So much to learn and they were genuinely interested.  For example, the docent explained why meteorites can teach us how our solar system was created, and they touched one that was over a million years old.  They learned about the history of mining for gems in the state, and how Maine is home to some of the most incredible stones.  A trip highlight was that they got to touch a real piece of the Moon as well as a piece of the planet Mars.

The Acadia State Park overnight was “amazing”, as per several in the Juniors Division.  They hit the road after an early breakfast, and on the way stopped at the Fort Knox Observatory.  It’s taller than the Statue of Liberty, so it offers some fantastic views. 

The beach at Bar Harbor was beautiful, that is until it turned really foggy.  That happens a lot there, when warm, moist air from the south blows over the much colder waters of the Gulf of Maine.  The fun continued, despite being inside a cloud.

The campsite was comfortable, and the boys enjoyed sitting around the campfire eating chicken quesadillas, grilled cheese and s’mores.  Morning breakfast of bacon and eggs was delish as well. 

The Stars have returned from the trip of a lifetime to Quebec.   What makes the trip so memorable is going with guys who have been your close friends for almost a decade.  The historic Old City is fascinating, and it feels European because the primary language spoken is French.

Highlights included the many street performers, dozens of restaurants and shops, the Plains of Abraham (historic battlefield), Chez Marie Bakery (freshly baked bread from outdoor stone ovens), Montmorency Falls (taller than Niagara), and the Sainte-Anne-de-Beaupre Shrine. 

Visiting the Shrine was especially memorable, because suspended from the ceilings were crutches and wheelchairs of the hundreds of thousands who have come in hopes of being healed.  It’s a powerful testament of faith that those of any religion are touched by. 

Also touching for us was to hear that the guys decided to give their leftover cash to the attendant at the ice cream store they visited each night.  The size of the tip was such that she’ll be forever grateful to this great group of Stars.

Back at camp, the biggest fish in Skylemar history was caught by Liam A!  Congratulations – it really was THIS BIG!

Talent Show Part II tonight.  35 acts!  Most were quick little skits, probably just to get the participation prize.  For us in the audience, the best part was watching them have fun on stage.  Simon R recited Pi, Ryan G demonstrated how to eat a banana, Leo P and Grant M did body tricks.  Alfie sang “Piano Man”, and Quinn C and James P did diabolo tricks.  David G, Drew F, Sawyer, Ari F and Seth F played the piano.  Ethan P and Micha R sang, while Jonah P, Paul M, Reuben and Blaine danced the Macarena.  Lots more too – we had to get more prizes before the night was through.

It was a joyful evening here at Skylemar, with a certain energy in the air.  That buzz is about tomorrow night – the most important night of the year.   Stay tuned!

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Woof!

How great it is to be a dog at Camp Skylemar.  You’re lavished with love, and underneath the picnic tables is a Disneyland of scraps.  You might just say Skylemar is dog heaven here on earth.

There’s Slugger, Skylemar’s most popular four-legged friend.  He’s a French Bulldog who just can’t get enough balls.  Any size, any type.  Even pictures of balls get him excited.  The tennis court is his Shangri-La, and he can’t decide which yellow one to chase first.  But those playing football or soccer must beware – any inflated ball he comes across will soon be deflated.

Moose, our all-black Newfoundland is the oldest and wisest.  The boys say she’s “chill”.  One day she was barking up a tree, and we couldn’t imagine what animal had her attention.  A closer look found half of a hotdog in a bun on the lowest branch.  We’ll never know exactly how or why it got there.

Moxie, our Newfoundland with the white paws, is in the “terrible twos” phase.  She’s another one who would love to get into the action of whatever the kids are playing, so she has her own camp counselor named Allison. 

Finn is our jolly, gentle and fun-loving Golden Retriever.  He spends most of the day under the desk in The Bunker (the programming office) and is always happy for attention.

Trix, the little Cavalier King Charles Spaniel, is sweet and is very willing to be held.  However, she steals items from the people she likes (shoes, shirts, bags – whatever she can reach) and hides them away.  It’s fun to watch her try and scurry away someone’s boot or lacrosse glove.

Delilah lives with Boating Director Gallo, so she spends most of her time at the lake.  She’s a well-behaved, gentle mixed breed, who follows Gallo wherever he goes.

Chiquenia belongs to Junior the Chef and stays at his place all day.  She’s an independent Chihuahua, and the little guys are happy to catch a glimpse of her.  Junior’s a tall, strong man, and Chiquenia is a teeny tiny thing – quite a combo.

Ruby is the star of our show.  She’s a perfectly trained Golden Doodle who belongs to Lexie and Mitch.  She knows every command perfectly, responds to hand signals, and is quite impressive with agility stunts.  Like any good role model, Ruby is the one that we hope influences the rest of the pack.

What’s most impressive about all of these dogs is how they consider everyone at Skylemar as their family.  But if you’re not a camper or counselor, you’re greeted by a whole lot of barking.

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Eggcitement!

It’s the final week of Clinic Signups for 2026.  The Commercials were as funny as ever, and it’s great to see more and more campers asking to be a part of the skits.  The counselors were happy to oblige!

The Sky Regatta will be a special part of Sailing, while the Ski Dock will focus just on skiing.  Also on Trickey Pond will be Competitive Swimming.  Lots of beat-the-record opportunities here.  Weightlifting & Conditioning will focus on balance and core.  Match Play in Tennis, and Color War Prep for Golf, Soccer, Basketball and Hockey.  There will be Football Games plus Hurdles, Long Jump and Throwing.  Shep’s Reading Clinic is the perfect time to get summer reading done.  Absolutely Everything at the Ropes Course, or maybe Props & Scenery for the upcoming production of Jungle Book.   Yellowhorn will feature a Pontoon Boat Party every day.

Speaking of Yellowhorn…The tin foil stuff in recent photos is actually a solar oven.  The guys have been making nachos with cheese melted by the sun.  Problem is they forgot about them and left the ovens outside overnight.  Director Michaela stayed up late to re-build them in time for morning and no one knew the difference.

One more bit of Yellowhorn news.  Michaela had leftover eggs, so the boys made Pavlova.  Maybe your son will remember enough to make it for your next dinner party.    

It’s the Pine Cone Auction!  Each Bunk finds pine cones, and that becomes the medium of exchange for an auction of prizes.

But here’s the twist…there are no pine cones this year.  They skip a year sometimes, dependent on weather conditions.

So what do we do?  Hide colored eggs instead.  985 of them.

The Skylemar golf course was sprinkled with pink, purple, blue and yellow.  Teams were made up of an older cabin and a younger cabin.  On your mark, get set, go!  Five minutes to collect!  The guys got super creative with ways to carry the eggs back to their crate, because you could only use what was on your body.  Lots of backwards hoodies out there.

Eggs were officially counted by the impartial “eggsperts”, and the total determined how much the team had to bid.  Each group had a bidding paddle to raise when the time was right.  As each prize was advertised the team had to decide together if they were going to bid, and how much.  The Pavilion was louder than ever!

There was an assortment of prizes, advertised by our glamour girl hostess, Suzie.  For example, the Snack Like a Champ Gift Bag came with 20 packs of Goldfish crackers and a case of yellow Gatorade.  Sade’s Palace Snack Smorgasbord included pretzel rods, ice cream and root beer.  There was a giant bag of balls, and the ever popular staff t-shirt assortment.

One group won a 6th Period Experience of making candy sushi rolls with Luci.  Another won an After Hours Kitchen Raid with Arleen.  Fast Pass Skylemar Edition was a high-ticket item.  It lets you go first all day for meals as well as the canteen line at Movie Night.

There was Chilltop Party with Mary Beth.  That was bracelet making with snacks and music.  Slugger’s Birthday Party was a great one to bid on if you didn’t have a summer birthday in your Bunk.   Delish pizza and Goody Bags too.  There’s Make Your Own Sundae’s with Barney, VIP Chocolate Factory Period with Holly and Kristen, and Fresh Baked Cookies Warm from the Oven with Cory.

Highest number of eggs went for the Red Cabin Hang Out with Beags and Cory.  That’s a Skylemar classic that everyone hopes for. 

Worked out perfectly that every bunk ended up with a prize.  Everyone’s happy, except maybe for the counselors of the bunks who won a bag of giant balls.  Sorry about that, Holden, Shane, Cooper and Mack…

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Trips Out & In

The Tigers went to College!  Bates College that is, where Blake Shep and several former counselors attended.  Blake also worked as a teacher at Bates, so he has inside access to bring our guys to campus. 

It’s about a 40-minute drive from Camp, and the first thing they did was hit the turf.  Rachel organized a really fun relay race on the track, while others played a massive game of Steal the Bacon on the lax field.

As college students for the day, they swiped into “Commons”, which is the name of Bates’s award- winning cafeteria.  It’s ranked 6th in the nation for “best food” by Princeton Review.  The Commons was a pretty amazing experience for these guys.  Seven stations of the kinds of food that boys like, plus international offerings as well.  The fountain soda was super fun because you could mix your flavors.  Best part:  the all-you-want soft serve ice cream with assorted toppings.  After filling his bowl Declan O said, “I’m gonna go to Bates.”

All eyes were on the Tigers, since it’s not every day that 40 guys in Skylemar shirts take over the place.  The manager complimented our behavior, as did a table of professors. 

To walk off all that ice cream, they split into groups to tour the campus.  They have a beautiful pond there, with ducks you can feed.  Next the group headed to the nearby movie theater for “Minions & Monsters”, and counselors made a wise decision – no more sweets.  The movie got thumbs up from the kids, and down from the staff.

The Appalachian Mountain Club Hut trip for the Seniors has returned!  They’ve been hiking in New Hampshire the past couple of days.

At Carter Notch (a mountain pass in the White Mountains), they covered about four miles of gradual incline, which was about a two-hour hike.  Every time they took a break a “refreshed” leader was selected.  He set the pace, decided when to rest, and when to get moving again.  He also shared what he thought made a good leader, and then picked the next one.

Once at the top, they enjoyed fishing, exploring, and playing assorted games outside of the Carter Notch Hut.  This High Mountain Hut is part of a system of eight, very rustic buildings along the Appalachian Trail that provide warm beds and hearty meals.

The huts are maintained by workers known as “The Croo”, who carry in supplies and prepare the meals. Dinner was lentil soup, kale salad, honey roasted chicken and focaccia bread.  And guess what – they ate it and they loved it.  Especially the chocolate cake!

There were two small ponds nearby, as well as a tremendous boulder field called “The Ramparts”.  Some fished (Trout caught a trout!) while others climbed through the ancient rocks.  By 8pm they headed to their “bunk house” with bunkbeds inside.  No turn down service here – just a couple of blankets and a pillow on the end of each sleeping surface.  There’s no electricity inside, so a flashlight is essential, especially for getting to the bathrooms which were located outside.

Counselor Kyler read pages of a book he found, and the 14-year-olds eagerly listened, clamoring on his bed like the old days.  Before long, all were asleep.

At 6:30 AM the Croo starts singing the wake-up song.  The yummy hot breakfast was followed by the Croo’s skit, which explained how to clean up.  All trash had to go into your backpack to be carried out, and blankets needed to be folded in a specific way:  hotdog, hamburger, hamburger, hot dog (think about it next time you fold a blanket and it will make sense).  The idea is for the Hut to be welcoming for the next person who comes along, just as it was for you.

A two-hour hike back down, some time for soccer and frisbee at a local park, pizza and then a movie.  Yes, it was “Minions & Monsters”.  Once again, there’s no need to rush out to see this one.

Back at camp, all were welcomed back with a favorite Skylemar dinner.  Wing Night — 480 pounds served!

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The Other Side

Oh, to live at Sky II.  It’s a really big deal at Skylemar, and something that all kids aspire to. It makes you pretty darn important, and one of the coolest guys on camp.

The address is exclusive, and only those who live at Sky II are supposed to be in the cabins.  That is, unless you have a special invitation.  One such invite went to Bunk 3, after they took showers and cleaned their own cabin.   The little guys were especially enamored with the large wooden bunk beds and sliding glass windows, plus all the cool sports stuff that really cool guys have.

There are six cabins on the Sky II Bunkline, for ages 14 & 15 that make up the Seniors and Stars Division.  Inside live our Skylemar role models, who those on the other side hope to be like one day. It’s a big responsibility to undertake, and they do it with pride.

The neighborhood is “prime”, with close access to the Gym, Lodge and Tennis Courts.  Each little green building has its own covered porch, with a large, shared yard for casual lacrosse and soccer.  It’s a bit of a distance to get to meals, but no one complains.  The “freedom” is worth it, they say.

With added responsibility comes privileges as well.  Bedtime is later, and waking up is more of a last-minute thing.  Best of all, they have Happy Hour. 

Happy Hour is 6th Period, when Sky II has two choices:  Waterskiing & Swimming, or supervised “hanging out”.  Although the Sky II guys love to play sports, nothing compares to hanging out with good friends. 

While rainy days at Sky I means creative programming outside of the Bunk, for those over at Sky II it’s the perfect time to catch up on rest.  Code word “Bunk Games For Sky II” over the PA means exactly that.

Next week is Color War, and that has strong meaning for those at Sky II.  It’s their time to lead Camp Skylemar, and they’ll do so with strength and kindness. 

These once-upon-a-time cute little guys are now almost adults.  We’ve watched them grow into outstanding young men, and we’re grateful they’re here. 

We love each and every one of them, to the Sky and back.

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IT FLOATS!

Yay!  It’s GACU!  Says no one, except for the mothers on camp.  But honestly, the guys don’t complain.  It’s just one of those things that has to get done, like taking a shower and making your bed every morning.  And GACU (Great American Clean Up) is just once a week.  Plus, the Staff makes it fun.

In case you’ve forgotten, when you’re scheduled for GACU here’s how it works. First, you take a power-shower.  Then you go to The Spa for nail clipping, and then on to the Infirmary for a health check. 

Funny story about the Skylemar Spa:  There once was a perspective parent who called with questions.  After asking the basics, she said she was concerned that maybe we were a bit too “fancy” for them because she heard we had a spa here.  “Is that true?” she asked. 

Well, if you consider buckets of soapy water on a front porch with some dedicated staff members who are brave enough to clip toenails “fancy”, then I suppose we are.  Plus, we do serve cucumber water and play the weird mood music that’s supposed to be relaxing.

Other than GACU, it was a beautiful day for sports and activities!  The 16U Tennis Grand Slam is already exciting. Shout-outs to all those who entered!  Congrats also goes to the group who competed in the intercamp swim meet held at another camp’s lake this afternoon.

Band of Brothers dinner this evening.  It’s fascinating to see the relationships built at the dinner table within each team, made up of boys from assorted age groups.  The team challenge was to make a floating boat out of tinfoil that would hold as many quarters as possible without sinking.   Way to go, Bald Eagles, with 84 coins afloat!

The big rafts made in Yellowhorn were driven down to the lake by the maintenance department.  They floated too.  At least sort of…. Turns out the “Huckleberry Finn” book makes raft building sound a whole lot easier than it actually is.

Blow-up Carnival for Evening Activity!  Hejduk Field at Sky II was filled with giant inflatable games, slides and obstacle courses.  Since you needed to be in bare feet for all the blow-ups, each Division left their shoes together by their sign so they’d be easy to find at the end.  Otherwise, just imagine how many times we’d hear the phrase you might have heard before: “I can’t find my shoes!”

Baltimore Snowballs were the special treat.  Ice gets shaved in a machine and then is put in a big cup (not a cone).  You pick either cherry, banana, blue raspberry or cotton candy flavoring, and then marshmallow goes on top.  Several boys not from Baltimore said, “I waited a whole year for this!”

When kids got back in line for seconds, it was pretty obvious who were the repeat customers.  Blue or red mouths gave it away. Bring on the toothbrushing!

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In the Now

Ferry Beach Extravaganza for the Freshmen today — what an amazing trip! 

It began at Take Flight Aerial Adventure Park, which is best described as a giant jungle gym. It’s an impressive complex, owned by our friend Charlie who also owns the company who inspects and trains on the Skylemar Challenge Course.

What’s fun about Take Flight is that it’s enormous, and lots of people can participate at the same time.  You wear a harness and helmet, and the interlocking system lets you move directly to the connecting element.  Everyone tried going up, and some who didn’t like it came right back down.  But what made us especially proud was that many of those who did come down at first decided to go back up and give it another shot.

Following a picnic lunch, they headed to Ferry Beach State Park to play in the ocean.  The free-ee-zing temps of the water didn’t stop most from jumping in.  Others played football or just buried Grant M in the sand.

A quick change of clothes, and on to the movie theater.  This cinema had a self-serve popcorn machine.  Yikes.  Clearly the management never ran a boys camp…

The Tennis Trip had our boys put on their “Wimbledon whites” as they headed south to Prouts Neck Country Club for the day.  Congrats to William DM, Billy G, Alex B, Amp, Aiden Q, Lionel, Miles B, Henry G, Miles M, Jack H, Oscar LR and Coop who played hard and did a fine job representing Skylemar.

Back here at camp, we were happy to welcome home a number of Skylemar alumni: LJ, Evan W, Adam and Casey F, Alex K, Austin K and Zach N.  Sam R even brought his beautiful fiancé. Welcome to the Skyfamily, Rachel!

We continue to be blown away by the “Meal Minutes” presented by members of the Stars Division.  Each 15-year-old speaks with such poise and wisdom.  Although every speech is totally unique and there is no repetition, there is a common thread woven through each in some way or another.  It’s a simple message:  Take advantage of all that Skylemar has to offer.  Don’t wait until you’re a Star.  Do it now. 

Heard this today…

Said a visiting grandmother:  “Do you miss your video games?”

Camper: “Nope.  When I’m home and I’m not in school I don’t have anything else to do.  When I’m here, I have lots of stuff to do.”

… only at Skylemar.

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INSPO

The Sophomores are back!  They had an amazing time on their two-day trip to New Hampshire.

First stop was the Cranmore Mountain Resort.  Not only was there a chair lift that went up and down the mountain, but a Mountain Coaster as well.  It’s sort of like a little car on a track, and you control the speed.  The two-person Flying Eagle zipline went across the park and was super fun.  Lots of inflatable trampolines and obstacle courses too. 

After a stop for ice cream at Trails End at the Intervale Scenic Vista, they headed to the campgrounds.  The boys got an impromptu Capture the Flag game going in a field, while the seven tents were raised.  Dinner was delicious:  Burgers and Dogs, followed by s’mores over the campfire.  It was an especially beautiful night.

At 6 AM, DT and Frog had waffles cooking on the griddle.  Bringing our own flat top grill was a genius of an idea.  The boys did an outstanding job of taking down the tents, cleaning up and getting rid of every speck of trash.  Nicely done!

Off they went to hike Franconia Ridge.  After a steep trek up, they landed at Lonesome Lake.  A few were brave enough to swim – it’s cold in the mountains.  The stunning lake and views reminded us yet again how fortunate we are in so many ways.

Once down, it was pizza time and then off to see Toy Story 5.  There were 42 of us in the theater with only three patrons we didn’t know.  Our apologies to those three, but the boys were very respectful.  Counselors only shushed them a few times.

Back at camp, it was a lovely weather day, packed with lots of activities.  Our boys are on the move pretty much non-stop.  There’s Rest Hour midday, but very few ever really rest.  Whether on a trip or back at camp, we have so much to be grateful for.

Campers in our Stars Division, our oldest group, remind us of this in their speeches called “Meal Minutes”.  This is a time when those in the Division can sign up to give a quick talk after a meal.  It’s one of those powerful things that we wish you could hear – there’s nothing more inspirational that a 15-year-old sharing their feelings and thoughts in front of 350 people.  The Pavilion is silent and respectful.  Every word is remembered.

Talk about inspiration…meet Julie and Will.  Julie was our fantastic camp nurse for many years and continues to come for a few weeks each summer.  She was the district school nurse in Wisconsin for decades, but now is the individual school nurse for one particular child who needs round the clock care named Will.  Eleven year-old Will is legally blind and deaf, and until not too long ago, was wheelchair-bound with a trach for breathing and a tube for feeding.  Thanks to Julie and his family, Will can now walk, speaks (with difficulty), breathes normally and is learning to eat on his own.

Why are we telling the tale of Will and Julie — because they’re here at Skylemar for a couple weeks and serve as an inspiration for all.  There’s Will, who celebrates life’s most basic moments.  He joyfully reads, with a paper just an inch from his face.  He’s proud to kick the soccer ball, despite missing a few times.  He’ll patiently repeat his words, so that the listener understands.

Then there’s Julie, who demonstrates patience, compassion, respect and dignity, while still having a great sense of humor.  Julie is an example of a person who gives her entire self to caring for others.

The campers in Will’s age group go about their business, but Will is never ignored.  For example, Julie has a microphone that she wears around her neck, which amplifies her voice in Will’s cochlear implants.  The kids take turns wearing the mic and speaking into it, “so Will can hear me”, as one friend said.

No microphone was needed tonight… at our loud and boisterous Evening Activity.  It’s the Super Duper Game Show!   Characters Barnicus, Laundricus and Suzicus were sensational MCs for this fantastic competition between the Divisions.  Challenges were a combination of trivia as well as physical games. 

Questions covered sports, general knowledge, pop culture and Skylemar lore.  In between each trivia round was the egg toss, potato sack race, Oreo cookie forehead-to-mouth drop and human ring toss.  Favorite part was when each division got to “style” their counselor’s hair with shaving cream.  Congrats to counselor Brock, who has volunteered for this event four years in a row!  Like we said, counselors do just about anything for their kids.

Heard this today…

Said a camper with an adorable lisp about Will, our special visitor described above:

 “He’s learning to speak, just like me!”

…only at Skylemar.

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Found!

It’s the Wild Game Hunt!  That’s when the staff hides and the campers seek.  Each counselor is given an animal name and is worth a certain number of points.

The counselors, as well as Shep for example, take this very seriously.  They take tremendous pride in hiding in trees and under things (but you can’t be under, inside or on top of a building or car).  One of the most successful hiding places was inside of a duffle bag lying right in the middle of the office porch.  It was so obvious that no one found him.

This year’s hunt was a special one.  Sixteen years of never being found, but tonight Shep’s streak was broken.  After seven summers of seeking, Spencer B was determined that his 8th year at Skylemar would be the one when he found the sought after prize.  And he did!  Congratulations, Spence!

One of the many activities that’s really taken off this year is Track and Field.   Obviously, the skill of running is very important in most sports, and Director Rachel has a way of making running super fun.  For example, it’s not just about going around the track.  Rachel created a Track Scavenger Hunt — a timed event, so you had to move fast.  First, a run to Shep’s cabin to find the name of the fish on the Trickey Pond poster.  Then a sprint over to the Basketball courts to get the signature of a coach.  There was a whole list of stops across our 200 acres.  There were Track related questions for the handful who wanted to take it slower too.

This week Coach Rachel introduced shot put and discus throw.  It’s one of those activities that many don’t have the opportunity to try outside of camp.  Rachel and her staff focus on form and function.  The sport of throwing is harder to do correctly than most people think.

Form is a big part of Strength and Conditioning too.  Coach Tom, who runs a year-round Strength & Conditioning/Personal Training program, is the best in the business.  He also has a fantastic handle on working with boys of all ages.  We’re so very fortunate to have him at Skylemar.

One of the best parts of Strength & Conditioning is that each 50 minute session is packed with an assortment of creative activities, so you never know what to expect.  Tom makes it clear that the goal is for each person to be their own best self, as opposed to being better than the next guy.

Same concept for Waterskiing, Wakeboarding and Wakesurfing.  The Ski Dock staff works with each camper individually in stages.  First-timers practice Waterskiing on the dock, and then the counselor helps you into skis.  You start out holding the Boom, which is a pole that comes off of the boat.  That way you can hear the instructions clearly and get the feel of how it all works.  Next comes short rope off the Boom.  Now you’re ready to try behind the boat – knees bent, arms straight and let the boat pull you out of the water.  It usually takes a number of tries, but the staff is extra patient.  When you finally get up it’s the best feeling in the world for both camper and staff.   Once you come out of the water everyone on the dock welcomes you back with cheers and high-fives.

Before long, you’re ready to drop a ski.  Many of our guys become outstanding slalom skiers.  Others prefer Wakesurfing.  That takes a special boat that makes big waves, which we only use in the center of the lake or closer to our property, because we don’t want to bother the neighbors.  The wakesurf board is tricky because there’s no shoes for your feet.  After many tries, a number of campers can get up with the rope.  Then they let go, and surf the wake hands-free. 

Back on land, there were “Jungle Book” auditions for all ages.  It’s easy.  You just tell Suzie if you prefer a small, medium or big part.  You recite some lines and sing a little, and then Suzie takes care of the casting.  It’s a cool thing to have guys of so many different ages and abilities working together.  There’s something for everyone here.  That’s the Skylemar magic!

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NEVER A DULL MOMENT

Lots of moving pieces at Skylemar today.  The Cubs and Lions headed to Goss Berry Farm for blueberry picking.  Weather conditions must be perfect for blueberries, because they came back with enough to serve the entire camp for breakfast tomorrow.  Of course they ate quite a few while harvesting.

Juniors went on a day hike on Long Mountain and really enjoyed the sense of accomplishment and spectacular views of the Presidential Range.  It was a rigorous trail, so the ice cream stop afterwards was well deserved.  Meanwhile, Bunk 26 had an overnight at Sebago Lake State Park.  Fortunately, the tents are brand new.  Lots of rain this evening. 

Bunk 28 spent the morning at the Naples Food Pantry.  These guys were a tremendous help to the volunteers, moving around cases of food that are then divided and distributed to the clients.   

Wilderness Survival Skills at Yellowhorn today.  Director Michaela set up a mock scenario, where they pretended that counselor Ian was hurt.  They talked about evaluating the situation, and how to call 911 on a phone that doesn’t belong to you.  They covered how to take a pulse, how to stop bleeding, and how to cover with a “space blanket” (or tinfoil) if signs of shock are detected.  They also talked about severe allergic reactions and when to use an EpiPen.  Using a trainer EpiPen, each boy got to practice “blue to the sky, orange to the thigh”.   Good stuff that might come in handy one day.

Kicked off Second Session Clinics with those silly commercials describing what each department is offering.  For example, there were lots of great opportunities at the Waterfront.  The Ski Dock will be rockin’ as usual, and offer all first-timers as well as the boys who’ve just arrived an extra chance to get up on skis,    The Swim and Sail Docks will combine forces with a couple of “dry” activities up on land that’s sure to keep Trickey Pond busy. “Boating Bracelets and Buppies” will bring the Chilltop (arts & crafts) crew down to the Sail Dock where the boys can sail, paddle, or make bracelets and necklaces out of paracord and gimp right there on the dock. 

Back by popular demand, Yellowhorn will again have raft building and then hopefully floating.  For the first time ever, the lacrosse guys will put on suits and lax it up in the water at the “Wa-crosse” clinic.

Lippy the Zippy’s “Super Awesome Chocolatey Fudge Mega-Coated Super Awesome Specialty Ropes Clinic” will have all way up in the trees’ higher elements with extensive use of the Zipline and Giant Swing.  Fitness and Weightlifting will show the proper techniques to push and pull some challenging weights. Track and Field will focus on efforts to get faster and build endurance, potentially setting some new camp records while doing so.  

Those interested in Golf can work on clubhead speed, the biggest factor in driving it longer and farther.  Baseball will spend time circling the bases with lots of inside tips on baserunning skills.   The Football folks will not only score lots of TDs but will showcase their own touchdown celebrations.  Over at SkyDeck, Adam Shep will help the Sky II guys prepare some healthy takes on classic dishes.

Tennis will offer a Singles Clinic in preparation for the Skylemar Tennis Championships set to begin next week in all Divisions.  And just behind the courts, the Table Tennis Challenge is looking for anyone to beat either of the undefeated Mandel brother counselors…or just have lots of fun playing ping pong.  

A few former graduates from “Sleeveless University’ were on hand to help sell Sheppy’s Reading Clinic.  The Goalkeeper Clinic in Soccer not only will work with the goalies but offer a great chance for interested shooters to test them with lots of PKs.  And finally, the Hoops courts will be packed as usual, this week with “3-on-3” Basketball tournaments at every level.  

Lots of great options all over camp to explore, develop, improve and most importantly… have fun!

Heard this from a mom on Parent Visiting Day…

Mom:  So, what don’t you like about Skylemar this summer?

Son:  My only complaint is that it’s going by too fast.

…only at Skylemar.

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Sky Heroes

They say that parenting is the hardest job in the world.  We beg to differ.  Try being a Skylemar camp counselor.

For parents, it’s a gradual process.  Nine months of preparation, and you get to start out with a tiny little guy.  You’ve had 84 months of on-the-job experience by the time he’s ready for Skylemar.

For a counselor, it’s two weeks of training and then BAM – he’s here.  And it’s not just one, it’s septuplets.  Although they’re delightful, funny and sweet, these babies also have opinions, strong wills and most likely don’t listen.

“Home” is a one-room cabin for eight, with no double bed, kitchen or office get-a-way.  The place has to be tidied every morning, which is no easy feat with a house full of kids.  Six sets of teeth to be brushed, dozens of shoes to keep track of, and no electronics to give you a break.

On Day 1, counselors are a bit overwhelmed, kinda like you when you brought home that baby.  No matter how many classes you take it’s a whole lot harder when it’s real live kids.  But at this point in the summer they have it all figured out and are incredibly in-sync with each in their care. 

It’s heartwarming and impressive to have a meeting with counselors to talk about their kids.  They truly adore them and go above and beyond to help each succeed.  The feeling is mutual.  To a Skylemar boy, his counselor is his hero… a mother/father/brother/coach and teacher combo he can depend on.

Like a parent, a counselor can make a poor decision or lose his cool.  Most of the time that can be fixed with an apology, or by spending a little extra time together.  Both counselor and camper learn a tremendous amount living as a family, and the takeaways are skills that they master:  improved sensitivity, tolerance, acceptance, negotiation, communication and most importantly how to have good, wholesome fun.

Yup, counselors are the most fun people in the world.  Sorry, folks, but these guys and gals have older folks beat when it comes to being cool.  Take tonight’s Staff Talent Show.  18 acts (that’s 50-some people), all focused on entertaining the kids.  Some have real talent, but others have more talent on the fields.  There were impressive musicians and singers, as well as some guys in tutus attempting ballet and someone juggling nothing but air. No matter what, it’s all for the kids.

“It’s the hardest job you’ll ever love”, is the line George says when he speaks to each counselor in the hiring process.   When counselors return for a visit many years later, they often tell George that he certainly was right.

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Winners!

The Skylemar air was buzzing with excitement.  At breakfast, the most asked question was “who’s coming in our cabin?”  When names were shared, whether known or not, the response was always “Yessss!”

Bags were unpacked, beds made, job wheels configured and welcome signs went up.  After a grilled cheese lunch, they slowly arrived!  50 friends, both new and old, jumped right into Skylemar 2026.

But there was one twist, you might say.  Normally we’d be giving tours and getting right out on the fields and courts.  But today it was Spain vs Argentina, so we just had to watch the World Cup.

There are a handful of much-loved campers from Spain here at Skylemar.  Diego, Enric, Cosme, and Mateo, Mark T, Jacobo, Juan and Ignacio are huge soccer fans, and we’re on their team.  Even those with Argentine heritage felt the connection to their Skylemar “brothers” who come all the way from Madrid and Barcelona each summer.

We watched in the Rec Hall and felt every play.  There were moans and cheers, depending on what the ball was doing.  And then…after two dinner delays for overtime, they WON!  Lots of leaping into the air, high fives and hugs.  Our guys from Spain were the celebrities tonight, and we’re so very happy for them.

After pizza, we jumped right into 7th period.  Choices were Baseball, Flag Football, Gaga, Golf, Hockey, Hoops, Lax, Soccer, Tennis, Volleyball, Ultimate, Archery, Viking Chess and Steal the Bacon. 

Evening Activity was the Welcome Campfire.  This one was especially fun.  Cory, the greatest MC of all time, kicked it off with her famous repeat-after-me song called “60’s Party”.  There’s lots of body actions that go along with it, so it’s a song that gets the crowd pumped.

Then comes the skit.  The hysterical one with the JC’s wearing togas and doing a supposed “water ritual”.  You had to see it for yourself to understand, but it involved perfectly choreographed filling mouths-with-water and basically becoming a human water fountain.

Once the laughter settled, Nick explained Skylemar’s motto, Cool2Care.  For example, it’s cool to care about yourself and want to win, but it’s also cool to care about others, especially your Skylemar friends who weren’t as lucky.  Our oldest campers, the Stars Division, stood around the campfire, linked arm in arm.  Nick had each one fill in the blank and complete this sentence:  At Skylemar we _____________, and that’s Cool2Care.  The camp then responds with “thigh slap, thigh slap, clap”

Here’s some samples…

Joaquin said, “At Skylemar we try hard, and that’s Cool2Care”.  Camp says “slap, slap, clap”.

TI said, “At Skylemar we have great sportsmanship, and that’s Cool2Care”.  Camp says “slap, slap, clap”.

Leo said, “At Skylemar we make people smile, and that’s Cool2Care”.  Camp says “slap, slap, clap”.

Nabil said, “At Skylemar we have good manners, and that’s Cool2Care”.   Camp says “slap, slap, clap”.

Coop said, “At Skylemar we share the fate with guys who are great (which are the worlds to a Skylemar song) and that’s Cool2Care.”  Camp says “slap, slap, clap”.

Next up:  Counselor Carson of Bunk 3 on the guitar with a song we all knew, “Sweet Home Alabama”.  He blew our minds with his talents.  Carson’s a kind, soft-spoken type, so when he turned it on as a musician and singer, we were amazed and very impressed. 

The weekly “Aristishaw” song, S’mores and a visit from Adventure Man.  He taught the whole camp how to shuffle a deck of cards.

So far, so good on the first night of camp for some of our friends.  As of now, not a tear in the house.  Can’t wait to get tomorrow going!

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PVD!

The explosion of love just had to be felt from coast to coast!  That’s what happens when several hundred of the greatest parents in the whole wide world come to Camp Skylemar!

A few things we know for sure: 

First, the best part of being apart is getting together again.

Second, every parent deserves to feel the joy of a child leaping into their arms after not seeing each other for a while.

Third, every Skylemar camper has won the parent lottery.  No boy could ever be more loved.

Of course, not all parents were able to make it.  And some boys declined a visitor because it’s just too emotional.  All that just meant that the love had to travel just a little father to touch those we adore and miss.

Thank you to those who were able to make the journey.  The boys and counselors were proud to show off on the fields, courts and lake.  We were grateful that the weather was comfortable, and the rain held out until the day’s end. 

It’s an exhausting day, and in some ways, it was totally fine to postpone the Carnival due to rain.  Instead, we played an exciting game of Flamingo Bingo.  It’s like the regular game at first, but after you holler “bingo” you pick a stunt for your counselor to perform.  If he does the stunt, the whole Bunk gets a prize.  Sample stunts:  pantomime the National Anthem, sing your favorite Back Street Boys song, dance the worm, recite the ABC’s backwards and so forth.

We split up for Movie Night into three locations.  It was BYOC (bring your own candy), and many fell asleep right on the floor. 

It’s quiet on the Bunkline, far earlier than usual. Everyone’s wiped out from a big day.   Shep just finished saying his “goodnights” to 30 cabins, as he does every single night.  This Blog writer will try and get just a little sleep too.

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Good Mood Day

Two spectacular Maine weather days in a row!  Warm sunny temps and low humidity put everyone in a great mood. That’s how we like it!

Rounds of hugs and high fives this morning, as we said “see you next year” to first session campers.  On Sunday we’ll welcome new friends in all age Divisions.  That’s exciting!  Several counselors from last summer will be coming in for second session as well.  That’s exciting too!

But first — Parent Visiting Day tomorrow!  We’re happy to welcome many of our moms, dads and siblings to see Skylemar live and in-person.  The boys will be showing off, showing around and introducing from 10 AM to 3 PM.

As you know, there are a number of boys who won’t have visitors.   They’ll be well taken care of as always, but we do ask that guests stay out of the Bunk in consideration of this.  The plan is for all activities and lunch to be outdoors, so hopefully the much-needed rain will hold off until departure time.  Just in case, we have Rainy Day Activities “in the hopper”.  It’s amazing that we haven’t had a single rainy day since June 28.

Parent Visiting Day is an emotional one for all.  Plenty of joy … and sometimes tears.  When the clock strikes 3, it’s Carnival time!  Giant inflatable obstacle courses, games and slides have a magical way of turning things right-side up again.

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Encore!

Some years ago we were interviewed by a Princeton doctoral candidate whose thesis was about the positive impact that a theatre program has on children at a sports-oriented summer camp.  Don’t remember exactly how she found us, but we do believe she was spot on when it came to that thesis.

At Skylemar, it’s not your typical drama program.  Ours belongs to Suzie, the greatest Drama Director of All Time!

It all began decades ago, with a much-loved director named Craig Gerhard.  Craig was the first to make being in plays “cool” and fun at Skylemar, and did so for 40 summers.  When Craig passed on, those who replaced him just couldn’t get it right.  That is, until 2012 when Suzie joined Skylemar.

Although Suzie and Craig never met, it’s as if Craig’s been whispering in her ear.  There are secrets to running dramatics at a sports-oriented camp for boys, and Suzie knows all the tricks.  For example:

  1. Certain things come first, like intercamp games, trips or World Cup soccer.
  2. Rehearse in bits and pieces that fit into the puzzle of skiing to basketball to tennis.
  3. From auditions to staging to scenery to props, its gotta happen in two weeks max.
  4. Those backstage just have to peak out and make silly faces.  That’s how we roll.

Suzie has it all down and does it with a giant smile.  She can make the most off-key voice sound just right, and choreograph dance moves for those with no rhythm.  She inspires confidence, cooperation and radiates positive energy to everyone lucky enough to be in her presence.

A talented actress, singer and dancer herself, her role as a teacher is what makes her most impactful.  With Suzie as mentor, boys learn about teamwork, they build confidence, understand about responsibility, become comfortable with public speaking and improve focus. 

Most importantly, they have fun.

One of our many traditions at Skylemar is to be supportive of whoever’s on stage.  When they laugh, we laugh.  When they struggle, we’re patient.  No one ever comes across nervous.  After all, they’re performing for their brothers.

It’s not just the actors who get all the fame. Thanks to Ethan K, Nate and George H who run the lighting and sound.  There’re Suzie’s assistants Roxy and Jayden … and her her set designers, like Mary Beth and Layla.   And of course…there’s the stage crew.

It’s a coveted job to be part of the crew, and there’s often a line to sign up for the role.  Maybe the cast party pizza has something to do with it, but they do take their role seriously.  Each crew member has things to move at certain times, and they do so quite smoothly thanks to those backstage whispering “go! go! go!”.

As our Skylemar boys grow into adulthood and return as alum, they often tell similar tales.  It’s the plays and skits and the songs that they sang, plus the greatest collection of counselors and campers in the whole wide world that make them who they are today.

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Intercollegiate Day

Let’s play JEOPARDY!

Round:  FINAL JEOPARDY


Category: SPECIAL EVENTS for the WIN.

(Reminder:  Reponses must be phrased in the form of a question)

And here is the clue:

The Virginia Tech Hokies, Maryland Terrapins, Michigan Wolverines and LSU Tigers

Answer:  What are the four institutions of higher learning that will be represented in the latest edition of one of Skylemar’s oldest traditions – INTERCOLLEGIATE DAY 2026!

This time-honored annual event pits four Universities from around the US (selected by each of the team’s leaders) in a frenetic day of sports action followed by a night of competitive entertainment on the Rec Hall Porch Stage.  And what a day it was!

It actually began a few days ago when all participants were divided up into 4 teams and announced to the participants, so that they could begin rehearsing their songs and cheers, which ultimately would determine today’s winner.  But first, let’s back up a day and see how the tone was set for today’s excitement.

During yesterday’s 3rd period usually meant for the daily Clinic options, the entire camp headed to the Waterfront to cheer on their collegiate leadership, each of whom had constructed a boat from 3 basic materials – duct tape, cardboard, and trash bags. The task was to paddle that boat across the swim lanes from one side to the other, a mere 25 yards.  You’d think that should be no problem, but based on last year’s inaugural race, we hoped for better.  This time, with a little Yankee ingenuity, the teams did not disappoint as all four boats made it safely across, with passengers and their boats still intact.   When the LSU boat “ran aground” (got caught in the ropes) close to the finish, Asher whisked his boat to the finish line, giving Virginia Tech the jumpstart and the early lead. 

Just after dinner, the 5K Relay Race had all eight Divisions racing from the Red Cabin at Sky II to the Sky I Waterfront and back, then over to the Sky Hoops and Hockey complex for the exciting finish.  The batons passed effortlessly as the Cubs, Lions, Tigers, Freshmen, Sophomores, Juniors, Seniors and Stars, with many of their teammates alongside, raced all over the roads of Skylemar.  When bedtime came, the boys were well-stoked for today’s competition. 

After breakfast and morning inspection, IC Day Director Nick Shep called all four schools to the Snow Field for the Dash – set to be run for the 78th time.  Each of the eight Divisions sent their fastest to run a 60-meter sprint and get this day rolling.  Dash winners included Blaine (MD), Logan D (LSU), Max R (MD), Ben B(VT), Alex Sw (VT) and in a photo-finish, Max P (LSU).  The inconclusive videotape review and stopwatches which showed less than a few hundredths of a second separation (if any) between Max from Nabil earns them both the title of “fastest men in camp”.  Just too close to call.

On to the activities where points for each team would continue to cumulate:   As soon as all Dash divisions were complete, the boys moved around to six different venues, with mini tourneys in each to determine how many points scored for your team (points awarded for 1st thru 4th in each sport).  All team members would participate in all six events….some were played in the morning and the rest in the afternoon, but all six activities were played by everyone.  Games were competed in Blacktop Hoops, World Cup Soccer, Volleyball (Newcomb for the youngest), Steal the Bacon, Gaga and Buoy Ball.   The games were quick, fast-paced and spirited – and according to most everyone, lots of fun!  There was one other point-scoring opportunity — the annual Golf Long Drive competition for the oldest division.  After lunch, Songs and Cheers rehearsal and a shortened “rest hour”, Nick summoned all teams to the front of the Rec Hall to see how far their leaders could hit it. When done, Maryland’s TI stood alone with a nearly 300-yard beauty.

At dinner, the scores were announced and the Hokies held the lead.  But less than a dozen points separated the top and bottom teams, so it looked like anybody’s day when the evening Songs and Cheers performances began.  An hour or so later, all four teams had brought their best effort to the stage, singing their hearts out.  Each team had to perform a set of five musical numbers:  Team Cheer, Camp Cheer, Team Fight Song, Old Camp Song and Original Camp Song.  Team leaders had been preparing for quite some time, and the boys responded with energy and enthusiasm when they took the stage. They poured so much emotion into each song, and when it was over, the three judges chosen by the teams (Susie, DT, and Mary Beth) had a very tough call.  When Nick reappeared on stage, the crowd hushed as he read the decision. 

Congrats to the winner of Intercollegiate Day 2026 – the Michigan Wolverines!

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Attitude of Gratitude

Your camp director’s office is one of a kind. There’s a couple of cozy sofas (slept on many a time), toys, games, a dog crate and an old-fashioned soda machine from our earliest years.  There are tricks of the trade, like “sleeping stones” for those who have bad dreams, little plastic monkeys to go in pockets to remind one to be kind, and a treat drawer with exploding Zotz candies to put a bunk disagreement in perspective (when we get along the candy tastes sweet, when we argue it explodes, and when you apologize it gets sweet again).

Some might call the space cluttered, with such a multitude of this and that in every direction.  Truth is, this Farmhouse office is jam-packed full of the most valuable stuff … treasure, from floor to ceiling. 

Much of the treasure is made by little hands, like a duct tape phone case that’s way too small for what should go inside.  There are trinkets from various countries, old bottles and metal toys found in renovations, awards and plaques and the insides of things that kids wanted to know about (like what’s inside of a golf ball).  In a frame is a letter from Ronald Regan.  Another holds a Spiderman comic book signed by Skylemar friend, Stan Lee. 

There are quotes pinned to the wall of sensible words that were said by a sensible person, right here at home.  To share just a few…

“The greatest power is gentleness.” 

“Life responds to effort.”

“Build people up, don’t tear people down.”

“Make each day a masterpiece.”

Most importantly, there’s an air of gratitude within this space.  For the constant flow of campers and staff who use this office as a thruway, or for those who pull up a chair or curl up on the couch, you are the positive energy that fuels this Blog writer until far past midnight.

The attitude of gratitude extends to so many at Camp Skylemar: To each and every counselor, who does whatever it takes to keep their boys safe.  To the nurses and doctors who tend to the unexpected, the housekeepers who redo every bathroom after the kids try themselves, to Ed and Marc who are the ones we call when boys try flushing a tennis ball.  To the teachers and coaches who give up their summers back home to inspire the campers and staff of Skylemar.  To our loyal volunteers, paid only in smiles, who devote countless hours to help keep the Skylemar machine humming.  To our photographers and videographers who try their best to share Skylemar magic with those on the outside.  To Nate who saves the Blog at 2 AM, to Bunk 29 who set up shelves at the Naples Food Pantry and were happy to do so, to the boys who fill our hearts with pride, making us smile all day long…Thank you.

And thanks to you, our incredible parents, for sharing your amazing son with Camp Skylemar.  We are honored by your loyalty and trust, and will never take that for granted.

As the older boys say when they start out a speech, “I’d like to thank Lee and Herb for starting this place”.  It’s a statement well said, and we truly agree.  Not a day goes by without us thinking the same.

To those named above and the 300 who weren’t mentioned, please know that you are loved and appreciated, from this Farmhouse office and to the beyond.

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SOUND OF THE LOON

We love our Skylemar babies!  The cute ones on land, and the two littlest ones on Trickey Pond.  Our mama loon has two babies!

The mama and chicks can often be spied at our Waterfront, and we’re extra careful while boating to stay out of their way.  Loons are amazing divers, and they’ll often disappear under the water while hunting for five minutes or so.  Just when we wonder if the chicks have been forgotten, up she pops.

Known for landing and taking off like seaplanes, the sound of the loon is heard as far away as the Bunkline just about every night.  It’s a beautiful sound that the boys try to imitate but just can’t get it right.

At a SkyPines overnight, we fall asleep to the music of the loons.  The tents overlook the lake, and the star-filled sky makes a natural nightlight.  When you go to SkyPines it feels so far away, but you’re also close enough to have a sleepover in the Lodge if the weather changes.

It begins the day before in a period called Backwoods. That’s when you learn the campcraft skills like fire building, orienteering, shelter building and water filtration.  Directors Sam and Jack inspire all of us with their knowledge of the outdoors.

A SkyPines overnight starts at 6th period, when you pack up gear and walk to the Sky II waterfront.  Tents are set up, and then it’s time for the Badge Challenge — when the boys take what was learned in Backwoods and actually demonstrate the skill.  For the Fire Challenge, they’ll build a fire that burns through rope.  For the Orienteering Challenge, a compass is used to search for clues needed to find materials to build their own compass.  For Shelter Building, they must create a shelter that sleeps one person, has access to food and water, and can withstand weather. And for Water Filtration, they’ll create a filter that makes water clear and clean for a glass of lemonade.

Swim and fish.  Fish and swim. Dinner over the fire comes in between.  The group decides the menu of either walking tacos, quesadillas, hot dogs, grilled cheese or pizza.  More swim and fish.  We catch and release, so no fish for dinner. Sticks for marshmallows are easy to find.

S’mores time!  At the Fire Talk each boy shares something they liked so far and what they’re looking forward to.  We brush teeth at the spigot, and get snug in sleeping bags until ….

6 AM wake up to Hobo Pockets, over the fire pit.  It’s an egg scramble made in a tin foil pocket.  Even those who don’t usually like eggs give these a try.  But not to worry – sleeping bags are rolled up and the boys make it back in time for a regular camp breakfast too.

Sebago Lake State Park overnights are super fun as well.  It’s a little bit farther away- about 3 miles – so you get there by van.  The camping area has lots of trails for hiking and biking, and there’s a nice beach close by the tents.  It’s a great little getaway, and if you’re really lucky, a girls camp might be there too.

Another Brother Sister dinner tonight!  We try to get everyone together on one day, but that’s pretty impossible with each camp having their own schedule. 

The older boys had Socials, but for the rest it was Movie Night.  That’s been a Skylemar favorite Evening Activity for 77 years.  In the old days we were inside the Rec Hall watching a reel-to-reel film, which had to be ordered months in advance and sent to us through the mail.  Now it’s a drive-in movie on the hillside, with the loons wailing in the background.  Whether 1948 or 2026, it’s still a special night with popcorn, candy and lots of camaraderie.  There’s nothing like watching a movie under the stars with 200 friends.

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SKY CHEFS

Sunday’s an important one here, because it’s LAUNDRY DAY!  That’s when you take the clothes out of your Bongo Hamper and put them into your customized laundry bag, zipper it up and put it in front of the cabin.  Why do we use a Bongo instead of putting dirty clothes right into the bag?  Because dirty clothes are far more likely to end up in the right place if they’re “tossed” into a hamper, as compared to opening a bag every time. 

The style of laundry bag we use is an amazing invention.  You put the clothes in like a traditional bag, but when the bag comes back from the service a few days later, you open it with the zipper on the side just like a suitcase.  Inside are perfectly folded clothes that just need to be put away.  That’s some kind of magic!

6 AM:  another round of Polar Bear, this time for the older half of camp.  Congratulations to the 79 boys who swam across Trickey Pond.

At breakfast…he’s here!  SustainaBatman!  He arrived by bike to bring us lessons about environmental sustainability.  Today’s reminder was about turning out lights when you leave the room and bringing back your cereal bowl when you want seconds. 

Speaking of cereal, just about everyone stops by the Skylemar Cereal Bar at breakfast.  There’s five choices plus granola.  One is healthy (which only a very few take), one is lower sugar (some people take), and three others are by far the fan favorites.  No surprise there.  The top “seller” is Frog Loops (aka Fruit Loops), followed by Lippy Charms (aka Lucky Charms). 

At lunch, the “Bar” switches to salad.  There are mixed greens, protein (like beans), and veggies like cucumbers, carrots, peppers, tomatoes and so forth.  Assistant Chef David cuts vegetables for the Salad Bar all day long.  The most popular toppings are cucumbers and croutons.  These are not ordinary croutons.  They’re the special ones that Junior makes out of leftover grilled cheese.  Yum!

Campers are cooking too!  When your Bunk has SkyDeck with Adam, it’s a great day.  One Bunk has breakfast, and another has dinner.  They scrub their hands clean, and pay close attention to Adam’s directions.  At breakfast, they learned how to make Migas, which is a Mexican egg scramble with homemade tortilla chips.  Dinner was from the same genre:  Elote (Mexican street corn) and Mojo chicken tacos with homemade tortillas.  Dessert was Yonanas fruit ice cream. 

The Juniors Division did a special kind of cooking today.  They made a meal that will feed 70 people at Crosswalk Community Outreach Center tomorrow.   Working in teams of three, they sliced, diced, layered and packaged.  The lasagnas came out beautiful and the pans of garlic bread smelled fabulous.  Bunks 21-23 took this task very seriously, and everyone was excited to make a positive difference for others.

Evening Activity was a Skylemar first.  The whole camp gathered below the hockey rink, to find a raised, square stage surrounded by ropes and turnbuckles.  It’s a wrestling ring!  Music pumped and the announcer warmly welcomed the North Atlantic Wrestling Association.  The crowd went wild with every choreographed thud. 

After the exciting show, we gathered in the Pavilion for a surprise party of sorts.  This is the time of year when we celebrate Shirley’s birthday.  Shirley was the wife of Skylemar’s founder, and she loved ice cream.  We remember her with a delicious treat – make your own sundaes.  That’s our kind of Sunday!

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TRIPLE PLAY

It was a triple-play of a day at Skylemar:  an energizing morning, a fiercely competitive afternoon, and a chivalrous evening.

At 6 AM, lots of our neighbors were watching.  It’s exciting to see Trickey Pond filled with Polar Bears.  There were 67 of them from Bunks 1-15, plus another 41 staff members who made it possible for these Polar Bears to safely swim across the lake.

The “herd” was divided into 14 groups, each with a lifeguard, kayaker and adult swimmer.  They put on their life jackets and jumped right in.  It’s a half-mile distance, and a huge sense of accomplishment.

The destination is Bunk 71, a cabin owned by a wonderful Skylemar family.  As each group proudly arrived and climbed out of the refreshing water, they were greeted with high fives and a yummy donut.  Motorboat rides back and it was time for breakfast, Inspection, activity periods, lunch, Rest Hour…

And then….

Bacon Fest 2026 all afternoon!  It’s a super fun 10U “Steal the Bacon” tournament played right here on our Hejduk Field.  A number of other camps participate, and it’s something that many look forward to every year.

What is “Steal the Bacon” (or STB as those in-the-know would say)?  Best way to find out is to ask the expert – your son.  Basically, opponents stand in a line facing each other, with a tennis ball in the middle.  That’s the bacon.  Each player gets a number, and when the Ref calls yours, opponents run out and both try to steal the bacon without being tagged.

To be clear – this is a highly competitive event taken very seriously by every player, ref, coach and fan.  Kinda like the Super Bowl, World Series and World Cup combined.  We play with heart and strength, and give it our all.  So the moment when SKYLEMAR “brought home the bacon” (aka Tourney Champion), of course they dumped the water jug on the coaches.  Congratulations to us!

Power shower for every player because…

Brother/Sister dinner tonight!  This was one of several evenings when sisters who attend nearby camps come to visit.  More will come tomorrow, as well as later in the week.  The siblings share a meal together, play Pickleball, hang out and then it’s time to go.  It’s a beautiful thing to have girls at Skylemar!

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SKY SPORTSCENTER

Dateline;  July 10, 2026

Subject: Sports, sports and more sports

Age Groups: All

A chance for everyone to give it a go in Intercamp Sports competition today – from our youngest guys all the way up through our oldest.  Even the Counselors got to join in the fun!

We hosted a Tennis Tourney for 3 age groups: 11U, 13U, and !5U on both the SkyI hard courts and the clay courts over at SkyII.  It all began just after breakfast, and our boys performed well in each of the 3 divisions.  In the youngest group, both Skylemar singles players swept thru to the final, where Alejandro edged Federico in a very tight match for the title. In the 13U group, once again our boys dominated. Misha was outstanding in the singles, while  Miles B and Henry G teamed up to run through the doubles bracket, winning both titles for the Red and Gray.  Then, in the very competitive, high-level 15U group, Coop showed how strong a player he’s become, and Reed and Archie were quite formidable as a doubles team as well, all reaching the finals.  Tennis Director Ted was most proud of our guys – we seemed to be loaded with enthusiastic competitors at every age level.  Well done.

Moving over to the Hoops courts, Skylemar hosted the annual 10U Basketball Tourney.  The interest was as strong as ever, so we fielded two well-rounded teams to participate.  Both teams did quite well, with each splitting a pair of games.  Bode W and Micah R led the way for Coach Noah and his Hoops squad, who were most impressed by how much some of our guys had improved their game since we arrived.  

Our first intercamp Hockey for the 12U group saw them go on the road a 4-team round robin event. These guys battled through a couple of tight, well-played games, but it was our youngest guys who stood out the most.  Coach Ben gave a huge shout-out to the twins Luke and Jack G , who represented Sky like they’ve been here for years, with efforts worth another mention here.  Cheers to all the Hockey guys – very well done.

And finally, our world-class Soccer Director Paul Harrison has transformed our very talented, older guys into a most cohesive unit.  Most of today’s group, the 14U squad, have already had a few matches at the 15U level.  With Paul at the helm, we are watching some of the best soccer ever played by this age group.  Once again, against some very tough and talented clubs, our guys took control after a shaky start in game 1, a come-from-behind 3-2 thriller.  Looking up from a 1-nil early deficit, then 2-1 later, Ignacio ignited a burst in the last 5 minutes to push us over the top in a 3-2 victory.  Leopold once again stayed aggressive to the ball and created much opportunity for others throughout. In the Championship match,  our steady improvement as a team really showed, gelling beautifully at the perfect time, beating Cedar handily 4-1.  Maybe the most improved player we have, Max P even caught the keeper snoozing away from the net and scored on a long shot from nearly midfield.  David G played superbly in both games, adding a couple of more  wins to his very busy season in the goal.

Bravo to all our boys!  Putting on a Skylemar jersey clearly means a lot to them.  They continue to represent us with great sportsmanship, teamwork, and effort — showing class in victory or defeat. We couldn’t be prouder.

And if that action wasn’t enough, tonight was a chance for our outstanding, well-celebrated Hoops Staff to put on a show, in the Counselor All-Star Game.  Fryeburg Academy’s B-ball Coach (and Luci Shep’s significant other) DT and his gang took on St. Paul’s HS Baseball Coach (close enough – and schedule guru) Barney and his squad of hoopers in a rollicking, fun-filled night activity for the entire camp to enjoy.

And what a show it was!   Music, mascots, creamsicles, and a cheering crowd with a spectacular sunset in the horizon.  Each time a player sunk a three-pointer, a name of a spectator was pulled from the giant raffle drum, and the lucky winner got some Skylemar swag. There was a Slam Dunk Contest, a 3-point Shooting Contest, and a Half-Court Shot Contest for the Seniors & Stars Division.  Jake M hit the half-court shot and all the older guys stormed the court.  It was like a scene out of a movie, and we’re all lucky to have shared in the moment Jake will remember the rest of his life.  Blake Shep was the Master of Ceremonies, and a great time was had by all.

As for the game, Barney’s team led throughout the 4th Quarter and had it up to 7 with 2 minutes to go.  After a rebound follow shot by 7’ Dut brought them within 5, Coach DT drove for a left-handed layup, then hit a 3-pointer to tie it up.  A 3-point miss put the ball back in DT’s hands with the game on the line … and he delivered with a baseline floater that rolled around the rim and splashed through at the buzzer to win.

We all won today!

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Here, There & Everywhere

Skylemar hits the road!  Lots of comings and goings just about every day. 

The Stars and Seniors took a trip to Tabers Mini Golf and Driving Range.  It’s a really cool family-owned place that you feel good supporting.  The ride is just about an hour long, and the food’s really good.  After hitting buckets of balls, they went to Range Pond State Park.  Nothing like hanging out at the beach with good friends.

The Tigers headed to the Ossipee Valley Fair.  It’s an old-fashioned country fair with lots of animals, an oxen pull, egg toss and so forth.  The highlight was the frog jumping contest.  We didn’t bring frogs, but one gentleman was kind enough to loan us a few.  The kids quickly learned how to make a frog hop (you sort of hit the ground nearby) and Skylemar was well represented with five ribbon winners:  Henry R (B7), Theo Q, Alex F (B6), Troy and Dillon L.  Note for next year:  We need to come up with some frogs!

Arethusa Falls was the main destination for the Freshmen.  They hiked through Crawford Notch State Park to get to the tallest single drop waterfall in New Hampshire.  It was the perfect place to be on a 90-degree day.

Back at home, we remembered to drink a whole lot of water to stay hydrated.  Ate some popsicles too. 

Fishing in Trickey Pond with Jack is so much fun.  And when you catch a big one it’s even better.  Bunk 15 caught 20 fish in just one afternoon!   First things first when you get to SkyPines…the safety talk.  Jack teaches everyone the correct way to cast and how to bait the hook.  Most use “fake bait”, or you can dig up your own worms. 

Our guys are typically good for about 20 minutes max of fishing.  It’s tough to stay still for so long.  So they swim, snorkel and paddleboard too.  There’s the giant hammock to hang in as well. 

In other news…

Chilltop, our crafts program, has a new toy.  It’s called a ChompSaw.  The boys love to create masterpieces with recyclables, and now it’s even more fun to work with cardboard. And there’s lots of it available at Skylemar, between cases of food and what the counselors order from Amazon. The ChompSaw cuts the cardboard into whatever shape you want.  Soooooo much better than scissors and a whole lot safer than an X-Acto knife.

Chocolate Factory!  Yay!  That’s when you go to the Garden Cabin with Kristen and Holly to make sweet treats.  Of course you get to eat just a little in the process.  A batch gets made for your bunk, and then the boys pick another lucky bunk to surprise with a snack.  

Food Science at Yellowhorn with Michaela! Today, they picked blueberries behind the Bunkline and made both vanilla- and blueberry-flavored ice cream.  To make the vanilla they split open Madagascar vanilla pods and scraped the insides into cream, milk and sugar.  Then they learned how rock salt lowers the temperature, and makes the mixture freeze quickly without forming ice crystals.

The boys take tremendous pride in watching things grow.  Whether it’s the abundant wild blueberries along the rock wall, what’s in Adam’s vegetable garden, or in the sunflowers they just planted — growth is rewarding.

That kind of development is what we see daily at Skylemar.    Your son is growing taller, wiser and more accomplished right before our eyes.  Wait till you see!

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YUM!

Skylemar’s Top Ten:

Junior, Superman, Tony, David, Juan, Benjamin, David , Miguel and Harry.  Rich too, on Jr’s day off.

This is the all-star team that works harder than anyone else here, there and anywhere.  They are the one and only Kitchen Staff of 2026.

Feeding 375 people three meals a day is daunting.  Skylemar campers are fussy customers too.  The food has to taste great and be served hot to everyone all at the same time. 

Think about the effort it takes to make Thanksgiving dinner.  Junior does this once every couple of weeks, for 375 houseguests.  It takes 18 turkeys, 100 pounds of potatoes (that need to be mashed), and 12 giant sheet pans of stuffing. Only 25 pounds of peas – not a big seller with most of the boys.  Plus, on this same day he still has to make breakfast and lunch.

He and his assistant chefs get to camp a couple weeks early to unpack the kitchen and make 9,000 meatballs.  Of course we could buy frozen, and that’s what we’re told “everybody does”.  But that’s a hard “no” for Junior, who believes that quality comes first along with cleanliness.  Plus, he combines ground beef and ground turkey, so each ball is flavorful while the fat is reduced.

It’s a well-oiled machine, thanks to the dynamo combo of Junior and Superman.  Junior is one of the most talented chefs in the country.  He never needs a recipe, and has incredible physical strength needed to stir, toss, and lift.  Try carrying a pot of hot oatmeal for 250 people and you’ll get the idea.

Junior is also the master of the warming oven.  These are giant boxes, set to 180 degrees. To make scrambled eggs he needs to crack 1,260 eggs and then uses the giant mixer to beat.  Scrambling on the big flat top is strenuous with such a load. The eggs must be cooked until a specific point where they can then be put in the warmer an hour before serving, so that all the batches of eggs combined are hot and perfect. 

Superman’s name says it all.  He’s the superhero of clean and does the work of three men.  His job is to keep every single piece of the kitchen immaculate, and trains and supervises a crew of 9 people to maintain his high standards.  That’s why the Health Inspector loves us, and each year says that we have one of the cleanest kitchens in the state.

Every day he washes 1,200 cups, 1,125 plates and 3,375 pieces of silverware.  The enormous pile of pots, bowls and sheet pans never end until around 6pm.  Superman teaches his crew to make these pans shine as they did when brand new.

Meals are based on what the kids like, with plenty of side options for those who don’t.  For example, there’s always pasta at every dinner.  Some like it with parmesan cheese, some only butter, but only a small number go for the sauce.

Breakfast always has a hot option (like pancakes, waffles, French toast sticks, cinnamon rolls, eggs, etc.), oatmeal, fresh cut melon, yogurt, Wow Butter and jelly sandwiches, whole fruit and The Cereal Bar.  There’re five kinds of cereal, so there’s something for everyone.  Frog Loops (aka Fruit Loops) is top fave, with Lippy Charms (aka Lucky Charms) a close second, followed by Frosted Blakes (aka Frosted Flakes).  Alas, the two healthier cereals don’t have too many takers.

Fan favorites for lunch are teriyaki bowls, ramen bowls and THE BEST chicken tenders anywhere that many enjoy with Junior’s Special Sauce (secret recipe, of course).  Also popular are tacos, grilled cheese, chicken sandwiches, sliders, pizza bagels and steak subs.

Skypotle (just like Chipotle) and Wing Night are the #1 dinners, followed by grilled chicken, chicken lo mein and a traditional cookout.  If you don’t like the entrée there’s always the pasta or salad bar.

Just about every brand we use or way we prepare has a reason behind it.  For example, take Wow Butter.  Sure, Sun Butter’s cheaper, but we did our own study.  For taste, texture and appearance, the Skylemar experts (our counselors during pre-camp orientation) select Wow Butter.

Quantities are staggering – boys love to eat.  Spaghetti Dinner takes 80 pounds of pasta and 1,600 homemade meatballs.  Tacos take 120 pounds of meat, 125 tomatoes and 36 lettuce heads.

The prices this year are staggering too.  Blake and Danny do inventory and ordering, and they spend about $13,000 per day.  How’s that for a grocery bill?

Nevertheless, the importance of good food can never be underestimated.  Of course, we can’t please everyone all of the time, but we come pretty darn close.  Something delicious has a way of making even the rainiest day seem a little bit sunny.  Lucky for us, Skylemar has the greatest kitchen staff in the whole wide world.

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Showing Up & Off

Did you know that one in five children don’t have enough food to eat?  And did you know that it’s estimated that there’s 10 billion dollars of loose change sitting around houses in America? 

That’s what we learned today from Matt Hoidal, executive director of World of Change (WOC).  WOC is a non-profit that encourages kids to donate coins to help other children.  You might recall the Cool2Care change bags we sent home.  We’re proud of the many Skylemar campers who filled their change bags and brought them to camp.

Matt drove the WOC Jeep to camp today.  It’s an automobile that’s been outfitted with coin collectors, sort of like the coin baskets at toll booths in the old days.  Campers deposited their contribution and got to decide if they wanted the money to go towards food, housing, education, health, animals & nature or play.

Thank you for helping the boys with their Cool2Care change bags this year.  Smiles were beaming as they poured change into the truck.  It feels great to do the right thing.

Meanwhile, Bunk 30 spent their morning helping the community of Naples.  This is something we do every Tuesday.  The Naples Food Pantry appreciated having them to move cases of food that were to be distributed to those in need.  They also did some floor mopping and seltzer-sorting.  Afterwards, one of the regular volunteers sent a note saying, “Thanks for the help today.  Made a huge difference.  Should have named your camp “Camp Grace” because your campers are amazing.”  We’ll keep our name but take the beautiful compliment.

Sophomores traveled to Morse Mountain and Seawall Beach.  The 2-mile hike was fairly easy, and the beach was so empty that it felt like it was our own.  They enjoyed making a Steal the Bacon court in the sand and had a great time swimming in the Atlantic Ocean.

More intercamp action today as the 13U Baseball club played our version of a day/night double-header, highlighted by an outstanding Cy Young performance by Orlando – fanning 7 in 3 no-hit innings of work to protect our 3-0 lead.  The 15U Soccer team proved to be a competitive force in a 4-team round robin tourney.  Leopold led the offense, while Oscar, Santi and Max P held down the back end allowing only 4 goals in 3 games.

Another great time was had by all at the Skylemar Talent Show.  There were 20 acts, and about half had real talent.  The other half was just silly stuff, but the kids had a blast performing no matter what they did.  Plus, all participants get to pick from the Super Prize Bag after performing.

We have tremendous respect for those who got on the stage and sang, like Shay (B9), Ethan P (B5), Michal R (B8) and Seth R (B2).  The pianists were impressive:  Drew F (B1), Seth F (B9), Campbell (B16) and Asher (B27).  Tag (B9) was excellent on the guitar.  Blaine (B5) and Paul M (B4) danced the Macarena.

Alfie (B4) and Marcus (B13) did magic tricks.  Jonah P and Micah (B8) were fabulous on the diabolo.  Beckett (B10) did something that no camper has done in at least 40 years.  He can wiggle his ears!

Silly skits were done by Theo (B8), Jonah (B8), Kash P (B5), Tag (B9), Alex B (B5), Deigo (B5) and Jonah M (B4), William DM (B6), Bodhi (B6), the JC’s, Jack G (B6), Luke G (B6) and Bunk 28.

But the one who brought the house down was Maksym in Bunk 26.  He did push-ups with one hand; then did some traditional Ukrainian dancing.  Absolutely amazing.

Best part of the Talent Show is how the audience cheers — doesn’t matter what you do on Suzie’s Stage.  You’ll always feel proud afterwards.

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Early to Rise

There are two kinds of boys at Skylemar.  Those who wake up way earlier than the counselors, and those who sleep until just before Flag Raising. 

The really early risers head out of their cabins and go over to Shep’s porch.  Shep’s up around 5, so that gives this small group a place to hang until The Sunshine Club opens at 7.

The Sunshine Club has five “zones” (general locations) to select from.  You check in with the staff member in charge, and then you can choose to go to zones for Hoops, The Shack, Tennis, Golf or the Garden.

This morning also had “Zone 6” – The Murph and the Mini-Murph.  Murphs are fitness challenges at The Gym which balance proper form with a fast pace.   The full Murph means you run a mile, do a total of 100 pull-ups, 200 push-ups, 300 squats and then run another mile.  Of course, modifications are encouraged.  The Mini-Murph means you run a half mile, do a total of 100 TRX band rows, 200 inclined push-ups, 300 squats and then run another half-mile.

Congrats to Murph Finishers:  Enric (B25), Jacobo (B26), Marc T (B29), Jake P (B30), Ryan F (B21), Diego V (JC) and all of Bunk 17: Ben B, Conor D, Juan L, Jack M, Miles W.   And congrats to Mini-Murph Finishers:  Alfie (B4), Misha (B20), Ka’Mari (B20), Lionel (B20), Mihailo (B21) and Caleb D (B10).  Way to go!

Lots of comings and goings today.  The Cubs and Lions took a trip to Smiling Hills Farm.  It’s a beautiful petting zoo and dairy farm, and they have the best homemade ice cream.  The milk comes in glass bottles and tastes much better than any in the grocery store. 

Bunks 13 and 15 took the first hike of 2026 to Douglas Mountain.  It’s about a mile steeply up to a stone observation tower at the top which has a beautiful view of the entire Sebago Lake region. 

Back at camp, Bunk 18 had a new activity called SkyFuel, led by nutrition NBC’s (non-bunk counselors) Katie and Claire.  They baked healthy muffins, but here’s the twist.  Instead of using traditional measurements like cups and teaspoons, they used sports equipment.  Huh, you might ask?  For example: add a softball of flour, a baseball of sugar and a quarter golf tee of salt.  Results were “interesting”.

A full slate of afternoon intercamp action began today with the 10U Hockey, 12U Lacrosse and 14U Basketball teams taking it on the road.  Our calendar is packed with opportunities for those interested in competing against other camps, so stay tuned.

Tonight, we all went to another camp.  Camp Fernwood for Girls.  Each year we alternate home or away, and join together for a co-ed evening.  This year Fernwood graciously hosted our very clean and well-dressed young men.  Even our Cubbies made us proud, with hair combed and shirts tucked in.  As Holly says when the boys can’t find their belongings, “they’re not good lookers but they sure are good-looking.”

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Clean & Cool

GACU!  It stands for Great American Clean Up, and it happens once a week at Skylemar.  It’s a scheduled time when you take a shower, clean your water bottle, see the nurses for health check, and then you go to The Spa.  The “technicians” at our Spa are the strong and steadfast staff members who are not afraid to scrub feet and trim nails.  Now that’s dedication.

Clinic Sign-ups for the week ahead offered lots of fun all over camp.  Topping the list of creative new activities will be the “Sky Ropes Olympics” which combines Challenge Course activities along with Yellowhorn gravity experiments. They’ll be dropping eggs and watermelons from way up high! 

Out on the fields and courts, options include Football (QB play/passing), Tennis (match prep), Baseball (hitting) and Lacrosse (cradle/dodge/finish).   Track and Field (running/sprinting), Strength and Conditioning, Basketball (dribble and shoot, intercamp prep) and Soccer (shooting/finishing) will all be focused on technique.  Golf will concentrate on the tee ball and putting for the week.

Shep offered his “Reading Road Trip” that will travel all over camp.   Next weekend’s Steal the Bacon tournament will see plenty of boys 10 and under sign up to prepare.  The Waterfront will be jammed with action on the Ski Dock,  Sail Dock (Pirate Battles) and of course, all the inflatables around the Swim Dock.   SkyDeck will prepare cuisine from the Southeast Asia region, and finally, those interested in helping put on the “Sponge Bob Musical” can join the Props & Scenery crew.

Yellowhorn update:  The raft floats!  At least for a few minutes!  Congrats to the creative group who put a whole lot of effort into this fun Yellowhorn project. 

More future engineers were in the Pavilion this evening during the Band of Brothers Challenge.  Band of Brothers is one of the ways that everyone at camp gets to know each other, no matter the age.  There are 12 Bands named for animals native to Maine (Deer, Dock Spiders, Bald Eagles, Loons, Otters, Foxes, Moose, Bats, Lobster, Wolves, Owls, Bears).  In each Band there are two campers from every Division, and those in the Stars Division are the leaders.

Every once in a while, we have a Band of Brothers dinner where each group sits together.  The older guys are given prompts ahead of time, with suggested topics of conversation to get everyone talking (the basics – what’s your favorite activity, etc.).  After dinner, there’s a BOB Challenge, and that’s where the engineering comes into play.  Each group was given pasta and marshmallows, then tasked with building the tallest structure.  Older guys are the coaches, and the younger ones do the actual building.  Some were astonishing – 18 inches tall! Other teams were better at eating the marshmallows…

Spirit Night for Evening Activity.  That’s our chance to slow it down as we gather outside in front of the Rec Hall stage and celebrate the values that we care about most.  We talk about the big stuff at Sprit Night– appreciation, compassion, kindness and so forth.

Tonight we were reminded that there are three steps in making friends and having fun.  First, you need to smile.  It’s the universal language, it doesn’t cost anything, and smiling is contagious.  Second, you need to play and be involved.  Third, you should say to others only what you want to have said to you.  Take these three steps and you’re guaranteed positive results.

Nick explained the Cool2Care Chain and reminded everyone about the C2C Cooler.  When you see someone who demonstrates Cool2Care, you can write a card that nominates them for the weekly C2C Chain.  This card gets put into the Cooler and helps to guide us when selecting the awardee.  Zaye, Zeke, Campbell, Aiden, Cooper and Levi all received shout outs.  This week’s C2C Chain goes to two guys who are super kind and being around them makes everyone feel better:  Benny (B7) and Max H (B10).

It was a beautiful thing to see each Division casually huddled together as the sun went down.  We sang songs, listened to Shep and Counselor DMan talk about resilience, did some responsive reading, and sent positive thoughts to those we love at home.  For the most part, the guys are quiet and well-behaved at Spirit Night.  They know that giving thanks is the right thing to do. After all, it’s cool to care.

Heard this today…

During the Band of Brothers Dinner, 8 year-old Zeke leans inches away from 15 year-old Cooper’s face.

Zeke: Hey, Coop… you know what country I hate?

Coop:  Tell me.

Zeke:  Colorado

…only at Skylemar.

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Magical Waters

Let’s talk Trickey Pond.  

Considered to be one of the cleanest bodies of water in Maine (out of over 6,000), Trickey is the crown jewel of Skylemar.  The spring-fed lake is a little over two miles long, a half mile across and doesn’t connect with any other body of water.  Around the shoreline is just us, some residential homes, a campground and visiting fishermen who come for salmon, trout, bass, splake and perch. 

Trickey Pond is deep – 57 feet in the center, and 30 feet off our docks.  That’s one of the reasons we wear life jackets outside of swimming lessons.  The other reason is so all can safely play together, regardless of swimming ability.

Known for exceptional clarity, Trickey Pond ranks among the top 5% clearest lakes in the state, and receives the highest rating for water quality from the Maine DEP.  It’s so clean that we drink it… all day long.  There’s an elaborate filtration system, and Skylemar’s phenomenal Maintenance Director Ed is our “certified water operator” (which means he went through extensive schooling and testing – not easy stuff!).

Mostly we play and learn in these magical waters. 

Peter’s in charge, along with his assistants Paige, Lexie, Gallo and Quinn.  Together they train and manage a staff of 14 accomplished swimmers, sailors and water skiers, who are lifeguard certified before the rest of the staff arrives.  It is during this pre-camp period that they learn not only how to teach, but about safety procedures for swimming and boat driving.

The boys come to the Waterfront for a double period just about every day.  Peter divides them into groups — some go to swim lessons, while others either head to non-motorized boating (sailing, kayaking, stand-up paddleboards, canoes) or to the ski dock (water skiing, wakesurfing, kneeboarding and tubing).  There’s always time for playing on the Beast (giant inflatable Slide), Iceberg, Rocket and Pontoon as well.  Our second waterfront, over at SkyPines, is where we go fishing and snorkeling.

Some have asked why the name is Trickey Pond as opposed to Trickey Lake.  In Maine, there is no difference between a lake and a pond – it’s just a word.  Ecologically, a pond is water that’s shallow enough for sunlight to hit the bottom.  Trickey is not shallow, but because the water is so clean and clear, you can see all the way down.

As for the first name, Trickey, we’re not really sure.  Some say once upon a time there was a family with the last name.  Others say the name is misspelled, and it’s fisherman’s lore – the ice can be solid one day in winter and next day there’s a hole from the springs making it tricky to cross. 

Why are the waters so clean?  The experts say it’s in large part due to us.  We have well over a mile of tree-lined shore frontage, and no development.  Neighbors across the lake have referred to us as the “protectors of the pond”, a title that brings us great pride and sense of responsibility. 

Speaking of neighbors – those on Trickey Pond are especially wonderful.  We truly care for each other and are grateful to share this gift with such incredible people.  That’s why we got involved with a non-profit called Trickey Pond Environmental Protection Association (TPEPA), to do our part in keeping the lake clean and sustainable.

Because sound travels across the lake, our kind neighbors have little choice but to hear our bugles and announcements throughout the day.  Then again, as one neighbor said, “Thanks to Skylemar, I know when to wake up and when to go to sleep.  When you close for the season, I have to go back to setting my alarm.”

Big question is…why are the waters considered magical?  Because they heal.  Having a lousy day?  Feeling embarrassed?  Made a mistake, apologized and need a fresh start?  JUMP IN!  These special  waters wash away troubles and energize the body.

Tonight was one that you felt the magic and tremendous sense of community.  The whole camp was comfortably seated by the pond.  Surrounding our Waterfront came dozens of boats from down and across the lake.  Most were decorated with red, white and blue holiday décor, and our kids cheered for each as they blew their horns and cheered right back. 

First was the pre-game.  We stood at attention and sang along to Gallo playing the National Anthem.  Next came the Counselor Belly Flop contest!  What a riot!  The campers screamed for their counselors as they jumped and flopped.  The crowd winced with “oooohs” as each participant smacked into the water.

When the sky finally grew darker, our neighbor Greg floated a barge to just outside our inflatables.  From there, Greg launched a wonderful fireworks show for all of us on the lake to enjoy.  This time it wasn’t just us for Evening Activity.  It was good to feel the sense of togetherness that goes beyond our Skylemar world.   

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Hot Hot Hot

Here’s the secret Santa doesn’t know.  The very best toy for a boy is a garden hose.  A bucket of water, too.  Maybe a sprinkler.  And of course — Trickey Pond.

These are some of the tricks of the trade used by our counselors today during athletic periods.  It’s just too darn hot for a Flag Football game, so why not huddle around some spraying water?  Basketball’s a lot more fun on day like this when a pail of water gets dumped. 

How about changing up the routine with a waterslide?  Start with a leap, and down you go.  Smiles and squeals every time. 

Time to rotate periods?  Take a short cut through the Garden “car wash”.  Stay in as long as you dare till the bucket tips, and then you’re refreshed.

Spring-fed Trickey Pond is cool and invigorating.  Whether you’re jumping, diving, splashing, boating or skiing, it’s all spectacular.  Maybe you’ll even catch a fish or a bit of wind in a sail.

Meanwhile in the Office, Holly and Kristen were organizing tickets and counting out the cash.  Luci and Cory matched up one or two specific campers with every staff member.  Shep assigned leaders for the seven buses and four vans. All because…

WE’RE GOING TO THE SEA DOGS!

There’s nothing like taking 350 of your favorite people to the ballpark.  It’s Hadlock Field, home of the Boston Red Sox Double-A affiliate Portland Sea Dogs.  Tonight, we took on the Altoona Curve.

We do the Sea Dogs differently than other groups.  For us, it’s our chance to show off how amazing our guys are, and we demonstrate this with our great manners.  As you know, reputation matters. 

An older gentleman randomly came up to Nick and said, “I come to this game every year on July 3 and seeing your guys is the best part”.

To open the game, the stadium announcer bellowed, “Throwing the first pitch will be Camp Skylemar’s Dylan S (Bunk 15) and Alex B (16)!”  Seeing Dylan and Alex on the mound made us feel prouder than ever.  Way to go, guys!

Remember the Sea Dogs Swag Clinic at Hilltop?  The posters, custom t-shirts and hats caught the eye of the Sea Dogs videographer who put those with the swag onto the jumbotron.  Maybe, just maybe, they’ll start selling Sky designs. 

When the game was over (the first-place Dogs pounded out a 9-3 win), the players came out and tossed balls to the fans.  Quite a few from Skylemar were the lucky ones, and it warmed our hearts to see older campers give the balls they caught to a Cub or a Lion.

The fireworks were stupendous — perhaps the best we’ve seen in the 20+ years we’ve been taking this trip! 

Between the heat and the Sea Dogs, our crew is exhausted.  The bus ride back was a whole lot quieter than the one to Portland. Most fell asleep, sweetly leaning on a staff member or a friend. After all, counselors had precious cargo to carry to bed.

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Sade’s Palace!

Of course you’ve heard of this establishment.  It’s been famous for at least 40 years. 

VIPs from around the world never miss an opening.  Everyone who’s anyone is there.  After all, it’s the place to see and be seen. 

ID is required – you  must be 21 or under to enter.  Dress code is costume-room casual.  This renowned casino is one of a kind.  Everyone who enters is given $100 just to get going.  Best of all, the house never wins!  It’s…

SADE’S PALACE!

Customers burst into the gambling parlor, with wads of cash in hand.  They couldn’t wait to hit the tables for Roulette, Craps, Poker and Blackjack.  There were dice games, Bingo,  Chess and Checkers.  Slot machines dinged and donged, while the music boomed.

Not sure what numbers to play?  Sade’s provides fortune tellers to give you the edge.  Just peer into the crystal ball to see the future.

George’s Grill served up the traditional five-star fare:  Strawberry ice cream cups, root beer and pretzel rod cigars.

The entertainment was spectacular.  Karaoke stars Cooper & Jake, along with Alex & Max, performed live from the Garden Cabin Porch.

The paparazzi was occupied with special guest appearances by the entire cast of Scooby Doo and Harry Potter.  Also spied were Al Kaline, Thing One and Thing Two, a Giant Grape and nurses in pink tutus (not sure why but they were very cute). Santa and Mrs. Claus, Ted & Marge Look-a-Likes, a referee, Thor, James Bond, Apollo Creed and some guys in onesies were mingling with the well-dressed high rollers of Skylemar.

The biggest winner of the night was Luke P of Bunk 16, winner of a million $kylebucks in the raffle.  As they say, you gotta play to win.

By night’s end, pockets were bulging with cold, hard cash.  These big spenders took it right to the SkyBank and traded up for prizes.  Balls of all sorts, inflatable guitars and saxophones, light up keychains, mini basketball hoops and assorted trinkets and treasures.

Oh, what a night.  Wish you were there, but you’re a little too old.  Maybe next year!

Heard this tonight…

Said to Paul, dressed in a tux as James Bond,

“Are you a waiter?”

…only at Skylemar.

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Hot Stuff

The steamy hot weather was perfect for ice skating.  Our older guys had the Bridgton Academy rink all to themselves.  Seemed crazy to bring a sweatshirt along on this kind of day, but they appreciated it inside.

The Tigers took an air-conditioned van ride to the Maine Wildlife Park.  It’s a sanctuary for injured, orphaned or human dependent animals.  They saw moose, bears, porcupines and lots of other rescued animals.  On the way home they stopped at the Causeway Dairy Bar, a Skylemar favorite.

Back at camp we played sports at half-speed and focused on staying hydrated.  The Sunscreen & Water Wagon was always on the go.  Of course, the Waterfront was as popular as ever, for swimming, sailing, kayaking, stand up paddle boards, waterskiing, knee boarding and wake surfing.  Our six motorboats were cruising! 

Temps were a bit cooler in the trees of the Challenge Course.  Trout, Lippy and their team run a phenomenal program, and their encouragement is what gets so many to bravely climb high and traverse across the elements.  The Zip Line and Giant Swing are the most popular parts.

Even cooler was Chaotic Cocktail making at Yellowhorn.  They squeezed oranges, lemons and limes in an old-fashioned hand juicer, and created delicious beverages with fruit and tiny umbrella garnishes. There’s so much to do at Yellowhorn, thanks to our awesome director Michaela (aka a talented physical therapist who is also an incredible science teacher).  Also today were candy games and Alka-Seltzer explosions.  Several cabins baked raisin cinnamon bread.  Yum!

While the Seniors and Stars went to a social at a nearby girls’ camp, it was a….

WORLD CUP WATCH PARTY!  The kids grabbed their Crazy Creeks, and got comfortable at our drive-in movie on the Bunkline.  The guys were so animated and excited about the USA vs Bosnia & Herzegovina match shown on the big screen that it almost felt live.  Soccer Director Paul kept us entertained with group chants and trivia whenever the commercials played.

Lots of plans are in the works for alternate programming the next few days while it’s so very hot.  The SkySlide is pumped and ready to go!

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The Honorable Win

The Skylemar Code of Honor.  It’s a pledge that everyone buys into during the first few days of camp.  Here’s how it reads:

Skylemar is all about being together with friends, enjoying the outdoors, playing games and showing kindness.  At Skylemar, I promise to be the best person I can be, and agree with the following:

  • The Directors, Counselors and Staff are responsible for my safety. I will do my best to listen to them when they ask me to do or not to do something.
  • I will do my best to treat everyone kindly– the way that they wish to be treated. 
  • Everyone is entitled to have fun. I promise not to ruin someone else’s fun.           
  • It is my responsibility to tell Shep or Arleen if something is wrong. It is also my responsibility to politely remind others to be kind if they forget.
  • I will respect others’ property, as they will respect mine; this includes body and belongings.
  • If someone asks me to “stop”, I will.
  • Skylemar is about people, not about electronics. I promise I do not have a cell phone or any electronics with internet access or video capability.
  • I understand why we have these rules at Skylemar and agree to follow them.

This is how we set the tone.  Of course, there are many times in a day that parts are forgotten and mistakes are made.  Abiding by rules comes easier to some than to others.  After all, they are children.  Skylemar’s pledge is to make a positive difference, one boy at a time.

Manners matter here, and so does appreciation.  As the boys go through the buffet line, “please” and “thank you” is what we say as plates are held out to servers.  Every single time.  After lunch today, Shep spoke to Camp about our hardworking kitchen staff, and how grateful we are to have them here.  The kids gave them a standing ovation, and Shep sent each of the eleven chefs and crew members through the “Skylemar Walk of Fame”.  That’s when the honoree walks through the center of the picnic tables, and the boys put out hands for high fives.

The picnic tables were filled with unusual items tonight, collected for the Skylemar Scavenger Hunt.  Two bunks are assigned to work together: one older with one younger.  It’s a great way for those of all ages to get to know each other. Each team then needs to go to six locations to unlock clues.

For example, at the Infirmary, they had to tell the nurses the temperature of a person who is not sick, and name three muscles of the body.  Then they had to show them two pieces of clothing with a ball on it, something neon and a wildflower not planted by Kristen.

At Mary Beth’s station they had to do the chicken dance, show five letters in ASL, and show her a pair of Adidas sneakers, two sports cards and a pair of multicolored socks.  At Trout’s station you had to guess her real name – this stumped everyone.  At Frog and Noah’s station you had to tell a joke to make them laugh and show them two candy wrappers.  Making them laugh was easy but the candy wrappers were harder to come by than some might think.

All of this had to be done fast because there’s a lot to collect.  At evenings end the items were counted, and judges determined the winners.  Congratulations to Bunks 15 and 18!

Heard this today…

SkyPines leader Jack was explaining to Bunk 6 about making a fire with steel and flint.

Luke G asks, “Do you get the flint from the dryer?”

…only at Skylemar.

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Jam-packed Day

Presenting….Barnicus and Laundricus, Skylemar’s Warriors of Clean!  As they arrive after breakfast, the camp welcomes them with “Clap, clap, clean!  Clap, clap, clean!”  The back and forth comical banter between the two ancient characters teaches the boys the seemingly impossible – how to clean a cabin.

It’s called Inspection and we do it every morning.  Campers make their own bed, and then each “family member” has a chore — sweep, dustpan, toilet, sink, trash, etc.  Sunscreen gets applied, stand by your bed, and the inspector comes to give you a score.  The bunk in each Division with the highest score gets an ice cream party. 

Then off to activities they go! 

Lots of Tennis, Golf, Soccer, Lax, Baseball, Hockey, Track & Field, Volleyball, Challenge Course plus Strength & Conditioning. Pontoon Boat Party for Bunk 8, and fishing for 9, 20 and 21.   Bunk 9 also had Backwoods where they learned to make fire with flint and steel.  It really worked!  There was a treasure hunt at Chilltop for the little guys, and then they decorated the treasure chests to hold what they found.  Raft-making at Yellowhorn gave us some truly awesome creations.

At the Waterfront, swim evaluations are just about done.  Our phenomenal and much-loved Waterfront Director Peter Solomon (aka longtime collegiate swim coach and recent inductee into the College Swimming and Diving Coaches Association Hall of Fame) leads his top-notch staff in making sure that each camper is comfortable swimming some laps, so they can be placed in classes appropriately.  The instructors get in the water with the kids and swim along, so no one feels intimidated.  These guys and gals are the best.

Groups were scheduled for Porch Time with Shep throughout the day.  That’s when you hang out with Shep, have some Scoobie Snacks, share thoughts and listen intently.  Today they went over the Skylemar Camper Code of Honor and made sure everyone was clear on the importance of kindness, being safe, and listening to counselors.  Each camper has the responsibility to speak up to Shep,  Arleen or the other directors if something isn’t right for them.  It’s made clear that the adults at Skylemar are here for each camper, 24 hours a day.

Clinics kicked off too.  That’s the choice period that comes third, when each camper selects one activity out of 17 choices to really work on for a week.  For example,  Tennis Director Ted and his staff are focusing on groundstrokes and volleys.  The energetic and super cool Basketball staff is working on ball handling and shooting skills.

Out on the SkyLinks golf course, they’ll have the chance to work on their swing and hit lots of balls.  Frog’s Football crew will have the boys running pass routes and working on their receiving skills.  On the Fred Pierce Field, our Baseball staff will keep their focus mostly on fielding and throwing techniques.  Lots of science experiments at Yellowhorn featuring volcanoes, elephant snot, ice sculptures and remote-control cars. 

Our world-class Soccer Director from “across the pond” Paul Harrison will hold our own World Cup, filled with daily skill games and fun-filled mini-competitions, matching the participants with a  national team to represent throughout the week.  Keeping the theme, Adam Shep will be cooking up the Food of FIFA over at SkyDeck  — each day, the opponents of that day’s World Cup games will inspire the cuisine.  Right here at home, Mary Beth and her Chilltop team will have the boys craft up some Sea Dogs Swag (signs, shirts, bucket hats) just in time for our annual visit to the Portland Sea Dogs Baseball game.

 “Sheppy and the Books”(sung to the tune of Elton John’s “Benny and the Jets”) is Reading Clinic.  It’s BYOB (bring your own book) or you can help yourself to one of Shep’s.  3v3 Hockey tournament all week and Coach Bruce promised to take those interested in Lacrosse to another level, with extensive training in all aspects of the game.  Track and Field enthusiasts will learn how to ‘explode out of the blocks”, and how significant that kind of preparation and effort can help in other sports as well, too.

Our most fearless campers will surely be lured by the excitement way up in the trees on the Ropes and Challenge Course.  The high ropes, zipline and Giant Swing will get a ton of action. Always a most popular option, the Waterfront offers fun all over Trickey Pond.  The Ski Dock this week will be packed with first timers as well as veterans who’d like to knock off the rust.  Over on the Sail Dock, campers will learn all the basics, from rigging the boat to its basic operation.  And finally, the Swim Dock not only gives all a chance to get wet, but play on all the toys (the Pontoon, Beast, Iceberg, the Rocket and the Tramps) while doing so!

Whew…  The hardest part is deciding which to pick!

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And We’re Off!

Yes!  The perfect Maine day to kick off Camp Skylemar 2026!  Warm temps, low humidity, clean air…and a couple hundred amazing boys.  What could be better?

Some woke up at the crack of dawn and headed straight to the fields and courts, while others slept soundly until reveille.  Early morning activities (aka the Sunrise Club) include tennis, basketball, golf, board games in the Garden Cabin and a pre-breakfast snack on Shep’s porch.

Each day at Skylemar is a brand-new adventure.  Our incredible Program Director Barney (who’s also known as the MIAA high school baseball championship coach of St. Paul’s School in Baltimore) spends his entire summer at Skylemar creating a custom plan for everyone in our town of 350 people.  Some say that AI could do this, but we’re not buying it.  Barney puts his heart and soul into making sure the Skylemar schedule runs smoothly, so each person knows exactly where to be at any moment in time.

Pictured above is a copy of today’s schedule.  These “newspapers” are placed on each table, but the guys never need to memorize anything because every period is announced over the PA.  There are also counselors assigned Foot Patrol, to make sure everyone where’s they’re supposed to be. 

The schedule looks complicated, but for us at Skylemar, it’s easy to read.  Across the top are the Bunk and Division numbers.  Down the left are periods 1-7.  The names under the activities are the counselors who are running the period.

Take Bunk 12, for example.  First period they have Archery with just their cabin, but second period they have Lacrosse with Bunk 13.  Next comes Clinic Sign Ups, which happens only on Sundays.  That’s when the counselors do skits (called “commercials”) advertising what they’re offering as a choice during this third period.  After Rest Hour, Bunk 12 then has a double period of Waterfront, along with the entire Freshmen and Sophomore Division.  Sixth period is Basketball.  Seventh period is the daily choice.  On this day they’d decide between Baseball, Football, Gaga, Golf, and so forth across the page.

Tonight’s Evening Activity was the “Welcome Fire” at The Ring of Champions.  That’s when the whole camp comes together for a really fun and special campfire.  Cory, our talented and brilliant Assistant Director (aka one of the greatest teachers in the state of Colorado), kicks off the upbeat vibe with a favorite “repeat-after-me” song called “60’s Party”.  Next comes a hilarious skit, featuring the Grinch, Sponge Bob and Bruce the Shark from “Finding Nemo”.  You’ll see…many of our creative “performances” are based on whatever Drama Director Suzie (aka an incredible member of the Disney team) has in her costume room.

The meaningful part of the “Welcome Fire” was presented by Nick Shep, who introduced “Cool2Care”.  It’s the slogan we live by at Skylemar, which means that it’s cool to care for yourself, others and the world around you.  The “Cool2Care” hand signal is middle and ring fingers down, which means “I love you” in sign language.

Nick also introduced the Stars Division, our oldest campers who are the leaders of Skylemar.  Each Star proudly stepped forward and shared his goal for the summer.  Cooper said, “I just want to spend my summer in the 04055 with my Skylemar bros”.  Leopold said, “I don’t just want to be at camp.  I want to be for camp”.  Oscar said, “I want to be the reason why people smile.”

Then another repeat-after-me song called “Aristashaw” (thanks to counselor Eli), s’mores for all, and a visit from Adventure Man.  He taught everyone how to give a proper handshake, even if you’re a lobster with claws. 

With Ev on the guitar, Trout playing the harmonica, and Cory’s beautiful voice, the song “Take Me Home, Country Roads” has never sounded better.  Campers linked arms in brotherhood, singing along and swaying to the music.  It’s times like these that make us realize that we are the luckiest people in the universe, way up in Maine.

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They’re Here!

They’re HERE! 200 of the greatest guys in the whole wide world have arrived — and we’re ready to go!

Counselors have been training, preparing and practicing for weeks.  But nothing could truly prepare them for this explosion of genuine joy.  Old friends leapt into each other’s arms, while new ones were greeted with warm high fives, handshakes and hugs.  

Many traveled by car or bus, while escorted groups flew from BWI, PHL and LAX.  What do you do with 30 boys at a Southwest gate for a very long time?  You find an empty area and play a subdued game of a Skylemar favorite, “Steal the Bacon”.   Once the plane was in the air and the pretzels were served, the boys beamed with pride when the Captain praised them for having excellent manners over the PA system.

By dinnertime just about all had arrived, and each cabin sat down to the traditional opening night meal of spaghetti and meatballs.  Salad and garlic bread too. After some Bunk time, the whole camp gathered for a really fun rendition of Opening Night Staff Intros.  The boys sang, chanted and cheered wildly for their counselors.

And then…one person saw it.  Then another pointed.  And we all saw it.  The most beautiful rainbow in the Skylemar sky.  It was as if those we love from far away were smiling down on us.

As our nightly song goes, “Day is done…”.  All are cozy in bed, and at least so far, there’s not a tear in the house.  Now you can rest easily too.

Bring on tomorrow!

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The Season Ends

It’s Appreciation Day at Skylemar.  It’s the last day of the season to really soak up how lucky we are.

Activities were extra playful and fun, with the counselors participating instead of their usual coaching.  There was enough happiness here to last for a very long time.

In between sports, plaque-making, showers (which included removing a whole lot of Red & Gray eyeblack) and cabin cleaning, many stopped at the Appreciation Station.  That’s where you write notes of gratitude to anyone at camp.  The simple letters are especially loved by staff members, who get them in the mail from us in the fall.

The Final Banquet was one to remember — lots of awards, speeches, delicious food, and best of all…Retrospect.  That’s the end-of-season show that’s produced by alum Bruce Finkelstein and his staff of 7 photographers and videographers.  It’s shown on a jumbotron-sized screen, and the energy of the audience cheering throughout is amazing.  You’ll get a link to watch at home, but honestly, that won’t compare to seeing it live.  It’s like going to a movie theater with 200 friends, and you know every single person, place and happening on the big screen.

As the Banquet ends very late into the night, there’s a whole lot of crying.  Big, strong man-sized tears, which come along with knowing that friends will be separated for some time.  It’s impossible not to cry when you see them link arms and sing “Skylemar You’ll Linger” just one last time until next year.

These are truly the greatest guys in the whole wide world.  Thank you for sharing your amazing son with us this summer.

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COLOR WAR DAY 5

Last night’s Songs & Cheers results sure flipped this Color War upside down.  Red had taken 3 ½ days to build a lead, then in one afternoon Gray not only came storming back but did enough last night to wake up with the lead.  There was a nervous energy in the air and once again Mother Nature set us up with another picture-perfect day. The significance of this morning’s activities cannot be overlooked.  Red looked to close the gap while Gray hoped to extend the lead, as both teams anxiously awaited this afternoon’s finish – our TUGS OF WAR.

Gray’s momentum carried over.  Their Stars captured the Basketball point in a pair of wild finishes.  The lower court game ended when Gray’s Jackson faced a pair of must-make free throws after being fouled, down 2 points with a second left on the clock.  He calmly sank both, putting the Stars Hoops point on the upper court’s result.  Gray came back late in the 4th quarter to win and take Stars Basketball.  They followed with a sweep of 2 Freshmen Hockey games in the Rink.

Red was reeling when word of Gray’s sweep in Tigers Golf and Bocce came in, followed by their victory in Seniors Tennis.  It was looking like the rout was on, but then Red responded with a big win in Sophomores Soccer over on the Hejduk.  That left it up to the little guys to once again provide the most exciting, and for Red, the most important contest thus far.  They held on for an edge-of-your seat, 1-0 win in Cubs/Lions Baseball.  Off to lunch where Shep announced that Gray had won the all-camp Archery point as well.  Their morning success had put them in the catbird seat, as all headed back to their cabins for an extended “rest hour” …. in preparation for TUGS that would settle it all.

What a week we’ve had … and it would all come down to this.  Gray Team gathered at the Hockey court, Red Team at the Tennis courts for their last “psych up” meetings.  The noise reverberated all around camp and was heard by the huge crowd that had collected down at the Snow Field, a perfect arena for this, the traditional closing event of Color War.

When the teams marched down to the field, the atmosphere was already electric with the intensity built since Elections last Friday night. Shep called the two Captains together, then explained the process to the entire camp.  It would take 2 out of 3 TUGS in each Division to win the points (2) for each.  Gray’s hot streak coming in had them needing to win only 2 Divisions, while Red needed 6, a seemingly monumental task.  One by one, Shep called each Division’s “Tuggers to the Rope”. Once set, George blew the whistle and…“PULL!”

Each boy wants this win more than anything in the world.  He PULLS with every single ounce of strength.  Faces clench, contort, they yell – whatever it takes. Just PULL.  Muscles bulge…it’s as if they’d burst.  PULL!  Referee George carefully watches till one flag crosses the line and his WHISTLE BLOWS!  The winners leap into the air, screaming with joy.  The losers…slowly walk to the side lines.

Red reached down deeper than anyone thought they could.  In an incredible sequence of 2nd round tugs (after losing the first time through),  Red went from the brink of elimination to within a tug of gaining a virtual tie before heading to Round 3 (4 of the 7 Divisions would need a 3rd Tug to decide it).  Finally, it took 15 actual tugs to get it done … and GRAY is the winner of Color War 2025!

The Gray team cheered wildly, leaping into each other’s arms!  Lots of hearty hugs and high fives all around… the greatest feeling of their entire lives!  Until…they turned and saw their Red friends devastated.  Some on Red were hugging, but it’s a different kind of hug.  Some were crying, and some were face down on the ground feeling destroyed inside.  Gray friends found Red friends and offered a hand or an arm around the shoulder.

The oldest and the strongest lifted the Captains on their shoulders, and the Captains embraced.  This signified the ties that bind.  We are a Skylemar brotherhood.

This one will be remembered for the triumphant class with which Gray won, and the valiant display of heart and inner strength shown by Red in defeat. We’re so proud of the sportsmanship showed by both teams and for doing it the Skylemar way.

The Captains were carried down to Trickey Pond, with all the campers following.  Once on each side of the dock, Noah, Max and their Stars Lieutenants jumped into the water.  They swam to each other in the center, embraced and then it was everyone else’s turns.  Groups of three, four, five and six linked arms and leaped in with gusto!

That’s when the magical waters did their thing.  Trickey Pond washed away the competition, and again we are one.

After dinner and a 7th period of activities, the sun sets, and the evening becomes very special.  Tonight is the culminating event which is loved by generations…Waterfront Ceremony.  The Captains led the torch-lit silent procession, adding each cabin of boys to the long line which snaked down the hill.  A bonfire roared on the lake, as we sat under the pines.  Skylemar songs were sung from out on the Pontoon, which set the warm and comfortable mood.  Captain Noah, Captain Max and Shep each spoke about gratitude.  Shep urged all to consider it a responsibility to share the Cool2Care message far beyond the hallowed grounds of Skylemar.

Now for the extra special part:  Each bunk was brought to the water’s edge for Wishing Boats.  It’s a block of wood with a candle on top.  Our legend holds that if you put the boat in the water and make a wish for someone other than yourself, that wish just might come true.

Seeing all the boats with flickering lights was a sight to behold.  There were hundreds of positive wishes for those other than ourselves.  And that’s how a kid changes the world.

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COLOR WAR DAY 4

Yesterday’s action had separated the teams a bit for the first time since we began this Color War.  Red had taken command and were oozing with confidence.  Gray wasn’t going down without a fight and had taken a few runs at the lead.  But each time they got close enough, Red was able to respond.  This day would go a long way to determine the outcome, especially with the most impactful night of Color War, Songs & Cheers looming.  The boys had been rehearsing for days, but tonight’s performance could give one team the momentum it needs going into tomorrow’s finish.

But first, there was another full day of activity to report.  Gray might be scrambling to recover tonight if they couldn’t dent the lead, and Red could really put the pressure on….Here’s what happened:

Gray made another move early by winning two of the closest Cubs/Lions Football games we’ve seen.  A couple of last minute interceptions by the defense closed it out on both fields as Gray escaped last minute drives that would have won both for Red.  Again, Red kept Gray at bay with another win down at the Pond in Freshmen Waterfront.  They followed that up with a win in Sophomores Tennis, and it began to look like a tough day for Gray.

In Junior Softball, though, Gray poured it on, scoring in all but one inning in a rout on the Fred Pierce diamond.  Then, they surprised everyone by holding the heavily favored Red squad scoreless in a very well-played, but defensive 0-0 Seniors Soccer tilt over on the Hejduk.  Gray further swept both Stars Golf and Bunkline Bocce (a new venue for this one) to get back in it.

However, once again Red withstood Gray’s comeback attempt with a frantic one of their own in Tigers Lacrosse, erasing a 2-goal deficit with 5 minutes left to win 3-2, and keep Red in control as all headed to lunch.

Teetering a bit from the Lax comeback that closed the morning, Gray still looked refreshed as Captain Max and his Stars leaders encouraged their boys to dig a little bit deeper as they hit the fields and courts this afternoon. Red Captain Noah urged his boys to keep the pressure on and not let up.  Gray would sure keep coming and more than capable of turning it around.

Quickly, the Gray Cubs/Lions sparked a fire by winning the first of two Soccer games on the Snow Field handily,  only to see Red respond with a dominating performance in the 2nd to halve the point.  Red then followed it up with a win in Tigers Tennis that went down to the last match.  Gray Sophomores bounced back and  won a nail-biting Lacrosse game at Sky II.  Ari F was the savior, stopping a one-on-one shot from the crease as time expired to protect the 1-goal win.

Two fantastic, thrilling finishes in Seniors Basketball finally gave Gray the spark it needed,  On the lower courts, Red was down 6 late, but made back-to-back 3’s to tie it at 27, leaving the upper court  to decide the point.  The game was tight from the opening tap, with neither team able to build more than a 4-point cushion.  A put-back shot with 14 seconds left gave Gray a 1-point lead before Archie saved the game with a last second, spectacular blocked shot at the buzzer to preserve the win, 33-32 for Gray.

At the Rink, the teams seemed as evenly matched as the final score in the first game of a double header in Stars Hockey, and tied 3-3 – again leaving it up to the Game 2 winner to settle it.  Matt N and Jackson each lit the lamp twice for their respective teams. After Jacob R  scored 4 times in the 2nd  one to lead his team to a  6-3 win, Gray was now roiling.  Over on the Links, Gray continued its surge by quickly dispatching Red in the Juniors Golf matches, then swept both games in Bocce to draw within a point of the lead.

In Freshmen Baseball, when Hunter knocked a two-out, two-strike pitch into centerfield with a man aboard in the top of the last inning to knot the score at 1, it appeared Gray was poised to finally draw even. But Red rallied for a run in the bottom half that would win it and keep Red ahead.

Gray was more than back in it though, sitting just a couple of points off the lead, with a chance in tonight’s Songs & Cheers competition to grab it.  Each team would perform 6 “songs”: a Team and Camp Cheer (1/2 point each), Team Fight Song and Old Camp Song (1 point each), an Original Camp Song (2 points) and a Production Number (worth 3 very big points) – a total of 8 points that will surely give one team the momentum it needs to go for the gold tomorrow.

Under another sensational, Maine moonlit sky, the boys put their collective hearts and souls into every note, lifting their performances way above any level they had shown in rehearsals.  One of the more amazing, repetitive features of every Color War is how both teams seem to miraculously put it all together on the Rec Hall stage, whether inside or outdoors, when the pressure is on.  And tonight was no different.

With so much on the line, Gray has come all the way back, winning the night 6-2 and seizing the lead.  What a turnaround!   We can’t wait for tomorrow’s finish… a last morning of athletic contests followed by the ultimate closer – TUGS of WAR!

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COLOR WAR DAY 3

Somehow the weather broke overnight, and we all woke up to an overcast, sweatshirt kind of morning.  The  boys went through the typical routine and team meetings but were anxious to get going again.  And that they did.

Gray was hoping the late Red surge yesterday had cooled off as well and seemed determined to make their push for the lead.  When Gray cruised through the Cubs/Lions Golf matches, they were off to the start they were looking for.  But Red won the little guys’ Bocce in the Garden, before their Juniors won Tennis, reminding Gray that it wouldn’t be an easy climb to the top.

In Tigers Basketball, it took 3 games to settle it, but again, Red was up to the task winning  2 of the 3, and the Hoops point.  Dylan S scored 7 straight points to lead Gray to victory on the upper court, while Lincoln V carried Red to a win on the lower court.  In a very close contest in the Gym, Maddox was the difference in a 2-point victory for Red in the clincher.

On the Hejduk, Red had just a bit too much for Gray to handle in their 7-3 win in Stars Lacrosse.  Will A chipped in with a pair of goals for the winners, while Lucas had a pair of his own for Gray in defeat.  The tide then turned when word came that Gray had swept all three elements at the Waterfront, including the closest set of Kayak races in history.  Both the single and double kayak races produced an overall time differential of only .74 seconds, completing Gray’s sweep down at Trickey.

The Freshmen split a pair of Football games.  Spencer O was the Red Star on the Bunkline,  weaving his way all over the field when running it, and found Ka’Mari often and open when he needed to throw it. On the Rec Hall field, Gray’s defense was the story, stopping Red on the doorstep a couple of times late in the game to win it.

Gray then polished off a two-game sweep in Seniors Hockey at the Rink to hang close. Luke BR did the damage for Gray in Game 2 after TI (2 goals), Oscar and Reed (1 each) hit the back of the net in a 4-2 win in Game 1.  No real change to the slim Red lead this morning as all headed to lunch, another Songs and Cheers practice, and a brief “rest hour”.

As the sun came out and the temperature climbed this afternoon, we wondered which team would heat up as well. Our answer came quickly as the Red Cubs/Tigers stroked their way to victory on both the Sky I and II Tennis courts, then swept both games in Sophomores Basketball and Juniors Hockey.  Ethan K was stellar in the cage and Braden scored both goals in the Game 1 shutout.

After Red also carried Stars Waterfront, Gray needed a boost to fight their way back – and got it!  The Gray Freshmen swept both Golf and Bocce as their Seniors were dominating in Lacrosse at the same time.  Ryder N scored 3 first quarter goals to set the tone in the 11-2 romp for Gray.

Down on the Snow Field, the crowd had grown as the other contests were complete, leaving only the 2nd game of the Tigers Soccer twin bill  left to be played… and what a game it was!  Red had won the first game earlier in a blowout, but the atmosphere for this one felt like the World Cup final. The teams traded goals back and forth, until it was all tied up at 5 late in the 2nd half.  When Owen B scored to give Gray the lead with about a minute remaining, it appeared Gray would get the win and needed split to keep them within arm’s length of the lead.  But with only seconds remaining, Alex Y volleyed home a loose ball in the box off a corner kick as the final whistle blew, securing a 6-6 tie and preserving the Soccer point for Red. The Red contingent stormed the field in another frenzied celebration — and had bumped their lead just a little bit more.

We’re just past the halfway point with plenty of athletic events to go, not to mention the critical Songs and Cheers competition (8 points up for grabs) tomorrow night.  It’s still way too close to call….

But tonight, Color War gets put on the backburner for some good, old-fashioned entertainment — the Skylemar Players presentation of “The Lion King”.

Once again, Suzie, her assistant directors Roxy and Jayden, the incredible cast and crew, blew us away with a fabulous production.  How did they ever learn the lines, songs and choreography while trips and Color War were going on? A full show in just a little over two weeks!

The costumes, the scenery, lighting, music – all to make the kids on stage shine.  Plus it was so much fun to watch.  Many said this was the best play they ever saw at Skylemar.  Bravo to these stars:

KJ & Alexander P – Rafiki

Ari F – Mufasa

Henry Z – Sarabi

Palmer – Zazu

Jake P – Scar

Garrett – Baby Simba

Declan O, Alexander D, Bud – Simba

Ethan V, Max A – Nala

Sawyer – Timon

Elton – Pumbaa

Morgan M, Mason W, Fede, Leo, Henry B, Dylan S, Owen B, Luis, Quinn C, Lincoln M, Liel, Troy, Keats, Alfie, Michael L, Noah W, Levi W, James P, Blaine  were the elephants, giraffes, birds, antelope, zebras, lions, hyenas and wildebeest.  They can dance too!

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COLOR WAR DAY 2

It’s not like we hadn’t generated enough heat on our own yesterday, but Mother Nature brought us a bit more today.  The boys awoke to another glorious morning to set us up for Day 2, with the score all knotted up.  Same routine today… breakfast, inspection, and a quick team meeting to put their game faces on.  Then off they went from Trickey to the Hejduk and everywhere in between.

The Tigers played a pair of closely contested Hockey games in the Rink, but both went Gray’s way. In the first, Gray scored a pair in the first period, then locked down the rest of the way to hold on for a 2-1 victory.  In the other, Robbie scored the game-winner with just under a minute left to win it.  However, Red answered by winning two of the three Hoops games to win the Cubs/Lions Basketball.  Micah, Jonah and Theo Q were the scoring leaders in Red’s pair of wins.

In Sophomores Football, Dash led Red to a most exciting back and forth victory on the Rec Hall field, overcoming a spectacular TD catch by Gray’s Theo R late in the game that put the outcome in doubt. Ethan V then caught a 4th and goal TD pass with less than a minute to go to seal it for Red.  Red Stars also swept the singles matches and carried the Skills competition which put another point on their side of the ledger.  And further, they overcame a strong performance by Gray swimmers with wins in the Ski and Kayak elements to carry Juniors Waterfront.

Over at the Hejduk, Gray dominated the first of two Lax games 8-1, led by James K, Matthew and Solomon. In the best finish of the morning, Red’s Sam E saved the day, coming out of nowhere with an incredible sliding stick check on the crease with a second to go, preventing a certain tying goal and holding on for a one-goal victory, and splitting Freshmen Lacrosse.  Down on the Freddie Pierce, Coop went deep over the right field fence to provide the early lead, while Thomas T made a couple of sliding catches in left field to protect It for Gray in their 9-4 Seniors win to close the morning activities.

Lots of elusive runs, great catches, incredible shots, tight races, spectacular plays, and close finishes have highlighted the action so far … and we’re only a day and half in.  Time for some nourishment and a good rest as the boys broke for lunch with Red now ahead.

This afternoon was more of the same.  Red extended the lead further with a 3-0 win by their Stars on Sky II’s Hejduk Soccer pitch. On the Sky I lacrosse field, Gray responded by winning the first Cubs/Lions Lax game, 7-5 behind the outstanding midfield play of Larkin and Lockett. But Red mitigated the loss with a win of their own in Game 2, to spit the point.

Red again surged ahead by winning another Waterfront meet, this time by their Tigers strokers and boaters.  But Gray responded convincingly by winning both Hoops games on the upper and lower courts.  Sam P and Nate F had it going and led all scorers in the wins.

Gray inched a little closer when they blew out Red in a hitting onslaught on the Freddie Pierce in Sophomore Baseball.  Then results came in from the Bunkline Field where Joaquin ran and passed his way all over the field in a 56-30 rout in Seniors Football for Red.

The most excitement of the day was down on the Snow Field.  The Freshmen went toe-to-toe in a double-dip of amazing nail-biting Soccer games.  In the first, there were 5 lead changes in a very well-played contest, filled with fantastic team play from both sides.  In the end, Gray scored with seconds to play to tie it up 4-all, leaving today’s last point on the shoulders of the Game 2 Freshmen participants.  With all other games finished and everyone on the hill overlooking this venue, the stadium atmosphere was electric.  The tension grew as no one could find the back of the net well into the second half.  With only two minutes left, Gray finally broke through a disheartened Red squad and their highlight-reel goalie Declan C who had kept them in it.  A wild celebration ensued, and some of the exuberant Gray onlookers had to be cleared from the field.  Then, with about a minute left, Red scored the equalizer, which not only tied it up but set off its own Red on-field explosion.  It was the Red celebrants that now had to be cleared just as Gray had a minute before … and alas, this one also ended in a tie, halving Freshmen Soccer.  What a finish!

Movie night under the stars, maybe the most picturesque, moonlit night of the summer was a perfect antidote for a most exhilarating, spirited action-packed day.  Red will sleep on the lead, but has Gray nipping at their heels.  Still just a couple of points separate the teams.

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COLOR WAR DAY 1

It was like the first day of camp.  By 6 AM kids were up and out of the cabin, sharing which team they were on.  “I’m on Red!”…“I’m on Gray!”  Excitement was in the air everywhere!  And what a beautiful, bright sunny Maine day it was!

But first, our annual Red and Gray Buffet for breakfast.  What a spread! Just what’s needed to boost their energy for an exciting day ahead.  After the usual morning routine (inspection, etc.), the PA blared, “Red Team to the Mailhouse! Gray Team to the Pine Grove!”

Both teams gathered for their first of several “psych up” meetings that they’ll have throughout the week.  That’s when the teams link up and encircle their Captains and Stars leaders.  It’s a fever pitch – think loud music, lots of chanting and cheering, with the oldest guys yelling messages of maximum effort and team unity at decibel levels unheard of ‘til now.

Everyone to the Fred Pierce Field for the official opening of Color War 2025!

Both teams watched the first inning of the Stars Softball game, the traditional start of every Skylemar Color War since 1948.  After Shep brought the Captains to the field for some last minute instructions, the Gray team took the field as Shep bellowed “Play ball!”.  The honor of the ceremonial first pitch was given to Paige, our do-it-all Waterfront specialist, who threw a perfect strike!  After the 1st inning, each Division moved to their specific venue for their morning contests.

The Gray Stars got the juices flowing early though. Not only did Luke S jump on the first pitch he saw with a blast into the right field trees in the bottom of the first, he followed up with a grand slam in the 3rd giving Gray a 5-run lead.  But Red battled back within a run, before leaving the bases loaded in their final at bat to succumb 7-6.

The Seniors were down at Trickey Pond where the Red team swam, kayaked and skied just a little faster than Gray to win the Waterfront point.  In Juniors Soccer over at Sky II’s Hejduk Field, goalies David G and Orlando were stellar in the nets before Max P slipped a shot by late in a very tight, well-played game for a 1-0 Gray win.

Over on the links, Sophomore Golfers displayed some real talent in splitting their matches, while in the Bocce Theatre, Gray dominated in the first of 7 matches to come.  The Tigers split a pair of games (and the point) in Football. Mac (R) and Leo (G) both had a “pick 6” on the Bunkline field won by Gray, while Shay led the charge for Red on the Rec Hall gridiron.

The Freshmen also split a pair of B-ball games on the hoops courts and left it up to those at the Gym in Game 3 to decide it.  On the upper court, Pablo and Spencer were a tough tandem for Red, although Owen S put up a heroic effort in defeat.  Grady A and Mason answered by leading Gray to a victory on the lower court.  But over at Sky II, Bud dominated to win the Basketball point for Red.

But the most exciting contest this morning was down at the Hockey rink, where our littlest guys, as they seem to every year, provided our most thrilling finish.  And it took three games to settle it.  Ari B and Billy G scored in a 2-0 win for Red in the first game of a triple-header, then Porter tallied a hat-trick to lead Gray to a 4-0 Game 2 victory.  By the time Game 3 began, all other morning contests were complete, so most of the participants from all over camp had converged to the rink to watch our youngest group battle it out for the Cubs/Lions Hockey point.  After a scoreless 1st period, Red’s Junior scored in the 2nd to take a slim lead to the 3rd.  But 6 goals later — another by Junior and a pair by Alex B for Red, not to mention 3 late tallies by Gray – and Red barely held on for an edge-of-your-seat 4-3 win.   In a wild celebration, the Red supporters heaped all kinds of love on their youngest teammates, and took a ½ point lead into the Pavilion for lunch.

After the meal and rest hour, the teams again gathered for pre-game “psych up” meetings, freshly rejuvenated to go at it again.  Back and forth all afternoon, all over camp they went.  As you will see, this one looks to be as evenly matched as ever.

This time, the little guys headed to the Waterfront where Gray won the Swim and Boating elements to carry the point.  The Juniors went back to the Hejduk, where Red bounced back from their tough loss in Soccer this morning to win 13-8 behind the division’s top laxer, Brooks.

The Red then picked up a ½ point in the Bocce Garden, but Gray Seniors won Golf at the Links.  On the Tennis courts, Tennis Director Ted witnessed the most exciting finish of his decade+ of Color War action.  After the Freshmen split 3 singles and doubles matches on both surfaces (hardcourts and clay), the Skills competition on the Har-Tru at Sky II would settle it.  The final tally was so close, Ted had to check and double check his score sheet, confirming Gray’s 127-124 win in a contest of strokes and accuracy. Wow!

Gray Tigers also won Baseball on the Freddie Pierce, 6-1 behind the pitching and hitting of Morgan.    The Sophomores split a doubleheader at the Hockey rink.  Red won 4-0 in Game 1, but Gray returned the favor with a shutout of their own, 2-0 in the 2nd behind a pair of goals by Myles F to split Sophs Hockey.

The Stars then lit up the scoreboard, although Red was unstoppable in an 80-56 rout.  Carson found himself in the middle of 8 total TDs (passing, running and a “pick 6” to boot).  What an offensive show!

This War is already shaping up to be a good one, as only a point separates the teams after a full day of activity on the fields, courts, and Pond.  Tonight’s Ping Pong competition, with another point up for grabs, will tell us who, if either team, will sleep on the lead.

And apparently, it’s neither – Red won Ping Pong and after Day 1, we’re all tied up!

 

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Scouting Day

To the Skylemoms and Dads of those on last night’s ballot (other than the two who were elected):

Bet we know what you were thinking as you read The Blog last night. Maybe something like, “Oh, man, he wanted this so badly.”  Or, “He’s been talking about it for years.  It’s all he ever wanted.”  Followed up by the big question… “Is he ok?”

He’s totally ok.  In fact, he’s a better person now because of it.  No one likes to be disappointed, but part of growing up is learning to bounce back and make it to the other side.

There were 23 excellent candidates, and only two could be chosen.  So what happens to those who may be heartbroken?  They stand up tall, give hugs, handshakes and high fives to their friends, old and young. Few words are needed – just about everyone understands what they might be feeling.

And today is more of the same.  These guys are 100% their regular selves, joking around and having a great time just being together.  They are the team players who will try their very hardest to bring home a win for Color War 2025.

After lunch, the Captains announced the names of the Lieutenants they have selected, two for each team, in each of the seven Divisions.  Congratulations to those who were awarded this privilege of leading an age group.  But then again, what about those who were not selected?  Despite being miles away, you too, might be feeling his disappointment.

But here’s the thing.  There’s a tremendous life lesson wrapped up into all of this.  They will learn that you don’t have to have a title to be the leader of a team.

The lesson holds true in all facets of life.  It goes along with sports of course, but also the work world and certainly in politics.  Being a leader is a lot like happiness.  It comes from within.  It’s a decision you make.  Doesn’t matter what you’re “called”.  Everyone has the possibility of being their very best and helping others to shine.

Tonight the Captains and their Stars Lieutenants will meet secretly and draft the teams.  Please remember this, moms and dads: the elected Captains, along with their two assistants, are in charge.  No rigging, no requesting, no family connections. Teams are divided by age group, not bunk.  As mentioned on Election Night, the entire camp understands that within one bunk there could be five boys on one team and just one on the other.  It could mean that in the case of three brothers, two are on one team and one on the other.

Trust us – it works.  If this Color War is like those of the past 77 years, this process is why the teams will be fairly matched and games competitive.

As soon as the draft is completed and camp divided, the magic happens.  In the very late hours tonight as Skylemar sleeps, the Captains will sneak into each cabin for “pinning”.  The boys will awaken to find either a Red or Gray ribbon pinned to their pillows, signifying their team for Color War 2025.  Can’t wait for morning!

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Elections 2025

Today was the day.  For many, it’s the most important one of the summer.  For some… the year.  And for two… their lives.

The boys have talked about today since they arrived at camp.  In fact, they’ve chanted a countdown for the past 10 days.  Yesterday they cheered wildly, hollering “ONE MORE DAY!  ONE MORE DAY!”

The traditional Sky II Lobster Lunch helped to calm nerves.  It’s a meal of camaraderie, with lots of laughter and good vibes.  Over many summers, these now 15-year-olds have come to accept, understand and admire each other.  We can even think of a few who asked not to be in a bunk with this person or that, only to see now that they are very good friends.

It was a beautiful, Maine-like afternoon, with clear skies and comfortably warm temps.  Perfect for casual play, taking some ski runs and hanging with friends.  Dinner was delish — spaghetti and meatballs, marinara or alfredo, Caesar salad and garlic bread.  Eat big, guys… could be a long night ahead.

IT’S COLOR WAR ELECTIONS 2025!

Evening Activity couldn’t come soon enough.  The whole camp gathered together in the Rec Hall, the building that stands strong and tall, protecting our Skylemar family.  Wearing their favorite jersey, each member of the Stars Division sat proudly on the stage.

Shep welcomed all, and explained how Color War Elections is one of Skylemar’s oldest traditions, whereby the participants choose their leaders.  “You, the campers, will vote for two of these great guys by secret ballot, each one being the kind of person that we hope you will be like one day.”

He explained that the spirit of Red and Gray began with our founders and is based on friendship and fair play.  Color War is a unique situation, because this time you’re competing with all of your heart against people who you care about.  That doesn’t happen too often in life.

Skylemar’s competition happens only on the fields, courts, lake and stage, but not in the cabin.  There will be a winner of each and every game, as well as an overall winner of our 5-day Color War.  Whether you win or lose, Shep reminds that you must not over-react.  Don’t gloat, and don’t ruin someone else’s fun — sincerely shake hands after the game.

The Captains will be selecting their teams in secrecy on Saturday night.  It’s done by draft, which is what makes the teams fair in each Division.  It could be that brothers are separated, or that bunks are not at all equally divided.  The Captains strategically select each boy, with one goal in mind – winning.

Shep asked all former Captains to step forward.  A few did so.  Then Shep asked for all those who were on the ballot but did not become Captain to step forward.  In this category there were many.

The candidates were each introduced, and truth is, we love them all.  Each would be an outstanding choice for Captain.

Simple majority wins.  When one candidate gets one more than half of the eligible voters, than he is elected.  The magic number is 100.

Those on the ballot cast their own votes and then headed to the Garden Cabin to wait it out.  Each Bunk came up to the foot of the stage, and every camper wrote down two names on a piece of paper — then dropped their votes into the ballot box (white pickle bucket, circa 1994).  Once all the votes were in, Shep read off every one as Nick kept the tally.

The exact number of votes each person received is something we don’t talk about.  But what’s interesting about this year is that there was a much wider spread of votes throughout the Stars Division than in any previous year we can remember.  It took two full rounds of voting to elect two Captains, proving that there really were several great choices.

The vote tally grew and grew for the first Captain, the crowd started jumping, hands rose in the air…  and it’s… NOAH KLEHR!  The crowd mobbed him as he comes through the door.

After a second round of voting and reading off names (meaning that by now it’s 10 PM), the crowd again rushed to the door to welcome the second Captain… MAX BAUM!

Coin flips determined who chose color, as well as the order of picking Stars Lieutenants.  Max selected Gray, along with Cosme and Jacob R to stand with him.  Noah picked Carson and Jack L. to do so for Red.

Camp Skylemar, these are your leaders for Color War 2025!

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Glad To Be Back

The trips are back to home sweet home.  After a very rustic couple of days, the camp cots and bathrooms in our bunks are something to appreciate!

The Seniors just returned from Carter Notch in the White Mountain National Forest.  It was a very difficult four-mile hike up the mountain, at a very steep incline.   A new leader was assigned during every stretch of trail.  When it was time for a rest, that camper shared what they believe makes a good leader.  Interesting stuff!

Sure, along the way some complained.  But in the end, each hiker felt a sense of accomplishment and we bet they’re glad they did it.

It was especially cool when they got to the top and found a beautiful pond.  Now that was a real cold plunge… Brrrrrrr!  There were rocks to climb, as well as a naturalist, who explained how the rock formations came about.

Also at the top was the AMC Hut where they’d be staying.  It’s like a super rustic cabin with wooden bunk beds, a mattress, blanket and kitchen.  The “Croo”, a group of 4-5 who runs the hut and does the cooking, carry all of their supplies in every week.  Our meal was enchiladas, magic bars for dessert and the best lemonade the kids ever had.

After dinner, it was board-game time.  There were other guests there besides Skylemar (sorry, folks), and we were proud when they commented about how respectful our boys were.

No morning reveille at the hut.  Instead we woke to a fiddle!  Breakfast was served at 6:30 — bacon, eggs and pumpkin bread.  There are no trash cans at the top of Carter Notch.  Any bit of paper waste goes in your backpack to throw away at the bottom.

The Sophomores went to Mt. Cranmore, also in the White Mountains.  We took the easy way up…chairlift!  Coming back down was lots of fun on the Mountain Coaster, which was like a little car on a track.  You could control how fast or slow you went.

The boys stayed at Franconia Notch State Park Campground.  After setting up the tents in teams, Ethan V and Ari F helped the staff cook what Leo V said was “the greatest burger I ever had”.  Afterward, all enjoyed a campfire, smores and a cozy sleeping-bag night.

Breakfast was bacon, egg and cheese sandwiches, which fueled us up for their own four-mile hike to Lonesome Lake… and yet another awesome cold plunge!

The staff of the Cranmore Mountain Resort said we were “the greatest camp group that ever came through”.

Many of the Stars Division have returned to the United States!  They were in Quebec City for a few days and had an amazing time.  What’s especially unique about Quebec is that because it’s French, you really feel like you’re in a European country.  There were numerous sights to see, foods to sample, jerseys to buy.   Skylemar’s been taking this trip for 77 years!

It was really a wonderful cookout dinner here at Skylemar, with everyone back where they belong.  Evening Activity was the Final Talent Show.  We had to have it inside the Rec Hall on the Gerhard Stage, because it was raining hard at this point.  It was a solid show, but with far more silliness than talent.  For example, Brothers Lincoln M and Morgan chugged water.  Hunter S chugged too.  They’re ready for college.  Jacob W screamed. Imanzi twisted his fingers.  Bud did hula hooping.  There was quite a variety of skits, jokes, songs, sports, dances (sort of, although not really sure what they were doing) and general silliness.  They love to use a microphone.  And they love to be on stage, with everyone laughing with them.

Nevertheless, there was some real talent in the show.  Feddie and Billy were incredible with diabolo yoyos.  Seth F and David G played the piano.  Seth R impressed by reciting Pi.  No matter what, those on stage had a great time.  You could see it in their faces!

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760,000 Hours

They say it takes 10,000 hours for a person to become an expert.  How lucky are we to have 37 of them on the Senior Staff, 17 in the Maintenance Department, 12 in the Kitchen and 10 on the Medical Team.  Year after year, Skylemar is blessed to have these outstanding teachers, coaches, carpenters, chefs, nurses and doctors return.  They do so to make a positive difference in the world, one boy at a time.

The businesspeople call it the “trickle-down effect”.  For us, the very top will forever be Lee and Herb, who laid the foundation of Skylemar values as we know them today.  Arleen and Shep worked under their guidance for a decade before taking over for the next 35 years.  Skylemar’s focus on sports with an emphasis on sportsmanship has never wavered, nor has our most important tenet:  kindness.

The difference between then and now is the number of people it takes to lead Skylemar.  Our counselor staff has grown to over 100 strong, and we’ve doubled the number of campers.  And like with the rest of the world, things have gotten a whole lot more complicated.  As the CEO of a major athletic shoe and apparel company once said, “Your job’s a whole lot harder than mine.  I’m just responsible for products.  You’re responsible for people.”

We believe that caring for our Skylemar nation is a privilege and an honor, which we never take for granted.

Those leaders we mention, who train, guide and motivate our counselors, are called Senior Staff.  These are the trickle-down specialists, who do whatever it takes to make the Skylemar machine hum.  They are truly the finest child development experts, who shine with all of their light, all of the time.

Some are school administrators and those with decades of working with children and young adults (Cory, Mitch, Peter, Thom, Ted, Jim, Bruce and Joel).  Many are phenomenal teachers (Lillie, Barney, DT, Paige, Ky, Dox, Mary Beth, Suzie, Holly, Spencer, Sam, Marge, Adam, LJ, and Josh).  Several are in counseling (Myke, Lexie, DRC).  Quite a few are Skylemar professionals who are “naturals” when it comes to working with kids (Frog, Lippy, Luci, Blake, George, Nick, Rook, Kristen, Rachel).  Then of course there’s our fantastic Registered Nurses (Mindy, Nadine, Josh, Marianne and Ami), plus our most trusted and brilliant Medical Directors, Docs and PA (Drs. Jeff, Brooke, Brad, Obie and Lillie).  Last but never least are our devoted alum — Aaron, Leslie and Bruce.

These are our unsung heroes, and the backbone of Skylemar.   They devote their time both during the camp season and well before, to your son and the counselors as well.  Each works tirelessly to care for our boys, because they know what we know — that if we teach boys at camp to be the very best people they can possibly be, then the future is bright for all of us.  Woven through every ski run, performance, SkyPines overnight, and daily inspection are lessons of compassion, sensitivity, resilience, confidence, independence and a whole lot more.

For every training you’ve led, burgers you’ve grilled, advice you’ve given, van you’ve driven, tears you’ve dried, lost & found you’ve collected, trip you’ve taken out, time you’ve spent…. Thank you, Sr Staff, to the Sky and back.

 

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The Magical Waters

When we need to turn a day around, it’s down the hill we go to Trickey Pond.  Jump on in, and you’ll feel the magic.  There’s something about these waters that seems to wash away the blues.

About two miles long and a half mile across, Trickey Pond is our Skylemar gem.  It’s a lake that’s referred to as a “pond” because sunlight penetrates to the bottom.  Trickey is considered to be one of the clearest and cleanest bodies of water in the entire state that has over 6,000.  The center is 55’ deep, and you can see clearly down to the last ten.

Fed by underground springs, the water is naturally filtered.  In addition, Skylemar has a filtration system of our own, because Trickey Pond water is what we drink every day.  Interestingly, in blindfold taste tests against bottled water (Poland Springs, Aquafina, Deer Park, etc.), what comes from our lake is the #1 favorite.

Why is Trickey Pond so pristine?  In large part, it’s because of us.  Since Skylemar’s woods cover most of one side, there are no homes and roads to pollute the lake.  There are some homes across, and they are some of the most wonderful neighbors.  It’s a solid community, and we’re proud to support the Trickey Pond Environmental Protection Association.

We do our share to protect the lake environmentally.  You may have noticed that big green bushes have replaced the sand at the shoreline, to help with catching any pollutants from our dirt road.  Our maintenance department has installed “rubber raisers” which divert water from the road into the woods and culverts.  It’s fun to watch how they do their job after a big rainstorm.

Temps today were in the 90’s, so Trickey Pond was the place to be.  But since we have 350 people here, we couldn’t all go at the same time.  Sooooo…. we set up our many hoses and gave it a go!  It’s A Wacky Water Afternoon Rotation!

Hoses, sprinklers and baby pools.  The giant SkySlide.  Water balloons for H2O Baseball.  Bubble making too.  There’s a “car wash” that you get inside, and best of all, there’s a plunging pool for ice baths.

The best way to make a boy happy is to squirt him with the hose… or with permission, let him pour water over his counselor’s head.  We have orange buckets for that.  It’s interesting how boys like to be just a little bit daring.  That’s where the ice bath comes in.  Can you sit in it?  Can you dunk?  How about with a fresh bag of ice thrown in?

Treat of the day was a Baltimore Lemon Stick — take half a lemon and put a peppermint stick in the middle.  The peppermint is used like a straw for pulling up the juice.  It’s a lovely combo and perfect for a hot summer day.

SkyPotle for dinner (fan favorite) and Campfire for Evening Activity.  There’s nothing better than to see everyone up on their feet performing whatever actions go with the songs or laughing hysterically as they watch a skit.  We loved the “Moose Song” and DT’s  Repeat-after-me “Burrito” classic.  We sang along to “Wagon Wheel” and are amazed when the guys chain-up and sway, shoulder to shoulder.  No one asks them to do this.  It just kinda happens.

“Day is done, gone the sun”, and we’re ready to bring on a joyful day tomorrow.

 

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Come As Friends, Leave As Brothers

As you walk thru the archway at the Skylemar office, a sign hangs that says, “Come as friends, leave as brothers.”   That truly is the way it is here.

Sure, there are those you find annoying or frustrating.  And perhaps there are some who you prefer over others.  Yes, there are times when someone says something they shouldn’t.  One may be insensitive, and another might struggle with letting a comment roll off their back.

But when you get down to it, as summer brothers, we do care about each other.  When someone hurts or feels sad, we feel it too.  As Jack L said in his Meal Minute, someone is always watching out for you at Skylemar.  Could be a little guy looking up to someone older, or a counselor watching over their campers.  Could be a nurse tending to cuts and bruises, or a chef making sure all are well fed.  Could be our maintenance director fixing the screen that a ball magically went through, or maybe a dog greeting you warmly.

One of the warmest and most welcoming places at Skylemar is the Waterfront.  Peter Solomon, the world’s greatest Waterfront Director, is also one of those hard-to-find people who’s the whole package:  he’s kind, brilliant, sensitive, caring, fun and supportive.  Along with his fabulous assistants Lexie, Paige and Quinn, Peter supervises and trains a staff of 20+.  Everyone working at Trickey Pond has been Lifeguard certified, and they do whatever it takes to make being in the water safe, fun and empowering.

Some kids come to camp already comfortable in the water.  But others may be timid or don’t know how to swim.  Rarely does anyone know how to sail or ski before getting to Skylemar for the first time.   The staff knows that Skylemar is the perfect place to learn, no matter your level.  In fact, the main reason we wear life jackets while playing is so that everyone can have fun on the inflatables, not just the strong swimmers.

The Waterfront Staff feels great when the kids feel great.  They get in the water with the boys, patiently explain and come up with creative plans to make things interesting.  Whether someone is a beginner or advanced, the staff at Trickey Pond shares the pride when a boy does well.

Tonight’s Viking Pine Cone Auction was Bunk pride all the way.  When our Viking leader (Shep in costume) raised his sword, everyone ran across the Golf Course and gathered colored eggs.  The eggs became the medium of exchange for each bunk to go home with a prize.  Up for auction were t-shirts, indoor and outdoor games (like a glow-in-the-dark basketball and Monster ping pong), gift certificates (breakfast burrito making with Cory) and assorted snacks.  Each bunk went home with something special.

As we sang “Taps” tonight, as we do regularly, we thought about so many who we love and are fortunate to have watching over us.  Through ups and downs, ins and outs, at camp or home, there’s one thing we know for sure.  We are blessed.

 

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Band of Brothers (and sisters too!)

It was tough to figure out the weather today.  It was hot until it wasn’t.  Then it rained until it didn’t.    Although we made it through morning activities, by lunch it was a Rainy Day Schedule.  There were Lodge Games, Dodge Ball in the Gym, Lego, Cupcake Decorating, Sushi Making and Board Games.  Meanwhile, the Freshmen went Ice Skating and the Sophomores took a trip to Mt. Cranmore in New Hampshire.

And then… the sisters arrived for dinner.  Brothers were in assorted indoor places around camp, so we needed to do a round-up.  Once gathered, they had a cookout dinner inside, and then it was dry enough to head to the Lodge to hang out.

For the rest of us, it was a Band of Brothers dinner.  Kids of assorted ages sat as a “BOB”, with the Seniors and Stars doing an amazing job of helping those younger feel comfortable.  These occasional gatherings in Band of Brothers groups definitely support getting to know each other.  The Tin Foil Boat Building Contest was super fun too.  Each BOB got an 8” square of foil, and the idea was to turn it into a boat that would float and hold as many coins as possible.  The winning boat held 40 quarters!

On another note, it’s the last week for Clinics of 2025! At Sunday Signups it’s clear what’s on the mind of many as Color War prep dominated the sports offerings. Golf and Tennis will hone the swings a bit more and offer match playing tips in advance of both Camp Tourney and Color War matches.  Football and Basketball will both work on game-type situations as they get ready for Red & Gray contests to come.

Those choosing the Waterfront have plenty of options. The Sail Dock includes the full complement of paddle choices besides the sailboats, while the Ski Dock will see many on the long rope looking to sharpen their runs for Color War.  The “Trifecta” on the Swim Dock: 1) Catching thrown balls while leaping off the inflatables; 2) Olympic Time Trials to prep for the races ahead; and 3) Trickey Pond Records for those wanting a shot at breaking them. All will get plenty of action.  Let’s not forget Fishing on Trickey over at SkyPines, where the season-long contest for which bunk catches the most fish nears the finish.

Lacrosse will focus on the little things that go into being a great team player – ground balls, hustle and other “unsung” things necessary for team success.  Soccer will work on footwork and ball control in “El Futbol”. Baseball will play with every ball we have here, except a baseball or softball (i.e., lax balls, tennis balls, beach balls, volleyballs, etc.) in games of fun! And Archery will find those wanting a last chance to shoot before their score really counts in Color War.

Rafiki stopped by to see how many Chilltoppers would like to work with Props, Scenery and Stage Crew on our 2nd session production of “The Lion King”.  “Who Let the Dogs Out” will have a different resident canine visit with this group at Shep’s Reading clinic every day, while Yellowhorn’s  “Old Favorites” will have the boys reprising their favorite (exploding) experiments of the season.

Track & Field will look to set new records in running, hurdling and shotput. The first camp “Strong Man Combine” will be held in the Strength & Conditioning clinic.  And Ziplining with Zippy and the Ropes course crew will give everyone plenty of opportunities to fly through the trees.

By 7 PM this evening we needed a switcheroo on Evening Activity due to the rain.  We pulled down the big screen and had an old-fashioned movie night inside the Rec Hall.   It’s the perfect place to be on a damp one like tonight.

 

Heard this today…

While waiting their turn for showers, Bunk 3 was coloring with highlighters at Arleen’s desk.

Arleen:  That’s really nice.  What’s it a picture of?

Blaine:  I do abstract.

Arleen:  What’s abstract?

Blaine:  It means you don’t know what it is.

… only at Skylemar.

And this…

One of the Lions had a remote appointment with a very prominent doctor in NYC, who is difficult to get an appointment with.

When told what time to be ready, the Lion said, “He’s just going to have to wait.  I have basketball.”

… only at Skylemar.

 

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C2C

A friend texted today asking “Is Cool2Care still a Camp Skylemar thing?”  You betcha.  We refer to these three words every day.  We have it on our bracelets, wear it on our t-shirts and feel it in our hearts.

It’s not just something that we say… It’s something that we do.

We might not talk about it in every Blog, but you can feel it in what we write.  You can see it in the photos – kids genuinely caring about each other.  You’ll often see the C2C hand symbol: the thumb, pointer and pinky up, which means “I love you” in American Sign Language.  For us, it’s as natural as a peace sign or thumbs up.

In case you missed what it’s about, here’s a refresher.  C2C means that it’s cool to want to win and play your very hardest. When you do win, it’s not cool to over-react.  Instead, you need to remember what it feels like to be on the other end.  It’s the little things that matter, like giving a hand to someone who falls, no matter what team he’s on.  That shows that you care.

It’s cool to participate and be a part of it all.  Doesn’t matter if you’re good at it or not, or even if you don’t like a game.  When you participate it makes it more fun not just for you, but for everyone else.

It’s cool to care about your friends here as well as your family at home.  On a bigger level, it’s cool to care about the world around you, and do your best at keeping things tidy and not create waste.

Not sure if we use the term as a verb or an adjective, because sometimes they’ll say “that’s not cool to care” if someone’s rude.  For the most part, what we do is try our best to “live the motto”.

Take a look at our Stars, the oldest campers.  Today’s Meal Minutes were delivered by Diego V and Jack L.  They demonstrated that it’s cool to care for those campers younger than themselves and talked about how proud they are to now be a role model.  They thanked those who helped them over the years at camp and reminded all to be someone people can look up to.

For this week’s Cool2Care Chains, here’s what was said about each recipient:

Sometimes it’s the smallest folks that make the biggest impact.  This kid does the right thing consistently, whether someone is looking or not.  He’s kind, fun, warm, listens well and is wise beyond his years.          Paul M (Bunk 2)

This kid always has a smile and positive attitude.  He was incredible at the basketball intercamp the other day, showing outstanding sportsmanship, encouraging his teammates, being respectful to refs and congratulating opponents after the games, win or lose.  He competes hard and loves even harder.                      Matthew M (Bunk 18).

Speaking of respecting the refs, today’s POW for Bunk 17 was all about them.  POW stands for Person of Wisdom, and basically, it’s a class in something practical that boys need to know.  For example, yesterday’s POW was about changing a tire.  Soon they will learn to parallel park a golf cart too.

Now back to the refs:  Bunk 17’s POW was all about how to be a referee.  Athletic Director Mitch is very involved with refereeing in Wisconsin, and he taught the guys about how the job is a lot harder than it looks.  Our hope is that through experiences like this one, we’ll all be more respectful to referees when we get home.  After all, there is no game without a ref.

The Blow-up Carnival this evening was the opportunity for everyone to participate, and they did.  It was like a giant party on Hejduk Field. There was the Mega Obstacle Challenge, the Triple Threat Course, Toxic Lava Run, Dual Sports Bungee Challenge, Gladiator Joust, Sports Arena and Disco Dome — and great music too.

Best of all, there were snowballs, Baltimore-style.  That means the ground ice goes in a cup, your choice of flavor (yes, you can have some of each) and marshmallow cream on top.

Blow-up Carnival is a shoes-off event.  When you get to the field you leave your shoes in front of the sign that says your Division name.  That way you know exactly where you left them when it’s time to go.  Like we said, it’s those little things that show that you care which matter so very much.

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Trip Season

So many comings and goings.  It’s trip season!

Beach Day for the Freshmen!  But first, some community service.  They volunteered for an environmental nonprofit called Friends of Casco Bay and were assigned to pick up trash at Riverbank Park.  Once the work was done, they headed to Crescent Beach State Park for relaxing on the sand and splashing in the very cold ocean.  Next it was on to the movie theater for “Jurassic World”.  A few who took a pass on the movie instead had a card game marathon with Blake.  New for this year is the Portland Hearts of Pine professional soccer team, so the group caught a game at Fitzpatrick Stadium.  Lots of fun to root for the home team, especially at such an awesome venue.

The Lions headed to Portland for lobster fishing.  They loved wearing the heavy bibs that the lobstermen use and actually got to pull a trap… and throw one in as well.   Lots of interesting lobster facts such as — Did you know the ones we eat are at least seven years old?  The traps have an opening for lobsters to come in and out of, until they reach the size that they can’t fit through the hole.  So over the years the lobsters think it’s a good place to get free food, till that one day when they get too big and that’s all folks.   Once the Lions returned to shore,  they cooled down in an air-conditioned movie theater for the new version of “How to Train a Dragon”.  Then they met up with the Freshmen at the soccer game just long enough to grab some pizza and watch a half.  These guys were exhausted.

The Tigers went to Bates College and saw what it was like to be a college athlete for the day.  They played a full flag football game on Garcelon Field in the center of campus.  Lunch was at The Commons, which Princeton Review considers to be one of the top college cafeterias in the country.  Our guys thought it was the best because you could put lots of different kinds of soda into one cup.  Funny part for the staff was that there was a psychology conference going on, so our sweaty boys got to mingle with the professors.  Then on to the movie theater to see “The Smurfs”.  No need to see that one again….

The Acadia Trip was an overnight, which departed long before breakfast.  The Juniors reported that the 2.5 hour drive was well worth the ride.  As they drove to the Fort Knox historic sight, they had a powerful discussion about rural America and got to see a wide variety of ways that people live.  Once at Acadia State Park, they headed to Sand Beach for a giant Junior cold plunge.  There were rocks to climb and shells to find.  Counselor Leo is a marine science major, so he taught the group a bit about marine life.  They even got to see a seal.

Back at the campground, it was chicken quesadillas for dinner.  During the campfire, each camper took a turn speaking about who they aspire to be like and why.  Quite a few said mom or dad.  Dion Sanders and LeBron James were mentioned too.  In the morning, they hiked Beech Mountain and took in the spectacular ocean views.  They too stopped at the movies on the way back.  The new “Superman” gets excellent reviews from the Skylemar critics.

Half day trips have been lots of fun too.  The Cubs went blueberry picking at Goss Berry Farm.  These berries actually grew on tall bushes, sort of like small trees that were bigger than the kids.  They were proud to bring back 65 fresh-picked boxes for the entire camp to enjoy.  Blueberries, yogurt and granola are now the most popular part of breakfast.

Some of the Stars had a special afternoon at Camp Sunshine.  That’s a camp for terminally ill children and their families, where we have the honor of volunteering.  Our guys played with their little ones, and helped with craft projects.  Very impactful.

And finally…congrats to Miles B, Oliver G, Elliott SR, Palmer, Ryder K, Jack L who traveled to the Chess Intercamp Tournament.  Elliott SR made it to the semi-finals!

Speaking of trips…Bunk 27 learned how to change a tire today.  And Bunk 9 learned how to distill water.  You just never know!

 

Heard this today…

After lobster fishing, eating an ice cream cone and spilling something at dinner, a certain Cub refused to change out of his shirt and put on pajamas at bedtime.  “But my mother always lets me sleep in my dirty clothes”, he explained.

… only at Skylemar.

And this…

A camper in Bunk 27 (which means there are 8 possible teenagers) comes into the office and says, “I need the thing that covers my mattress.”

“You mean a sheet?” Cory asks.

“Yeah,” he replies.  “I think that’s what it’s called.  It’s the thing with the four corners and one of them always pops off.”

… only at Skylemar.

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Dog Days

 

To be a dog at Camp Skylemar is a pretty sweet gig.  Plenty of pets, pats and belly rubs from the boys.  And if you get the opportunity to be in the Pavilion after a meal, there’s a plethora of scraps to find under the picnic tables.  Trickey Pond’s great too.  It may be extra hot wearing a permanent fur coat, but nothing feels better than a doggie-paddle on a steamy day.

The little Cavalier Spaniels are the oldest, and they like to be held.  That’s Cubbie, named for the closet we keep our clothes in, and Trix, named so because “Trix are for kids”.  Moose is the well-behaved Newfoundland, and Moxie is the one that’s not so much.  She’s a 140-pound puppy, now in her “teenager” phase.

Summit is the blue-eyed Siberian Husky, who would run to NY if let off the leash.  Finn is the joyous Golden Retriever, who seems to always be smiling.  Ruby, who belongs to Lexie and Mitch, is an obedient Golden Doodle, who spends much of her time at the lake.  Mello’s another perfect little pooch, who’s a therapy dog for the Infirmary.

And then there’s Slugger, the ultimate camp dog.  He’s the Frenchie who thinks he’s a camper.  You see, Slugger absolutely positively loves balls.

Tennis balls, lacrosse balls, volley balls, soccer balls.  If it’s round and it rolls then he loves it, surprisingly far more than a piece of cheese or any dog treat.  Even just a picture of a ball gets him excited.

Slugger’s happy to ruin a lacrosse game or interrupt a basketball game.  Put him on the court at the end of a tennis period and it’s like a kid in a candy store.  He overflows with happiness – there’s just so many balls to pick from!

This brings us to today, when we faced a challenge… and Slugger had the solution.

Tennis Director Ted complained as he does every year that many of his balls have “disappeared”.  He knew exactly where they were…  in the cabins, in the woods and on the paths – wherever a boy tossing a ball could end up leaving them.  And here was the solution….

During Rest Hour, bunkmates collected balls and wrote their cabin number on each.  The more balls you collected the more chances your bunk had to win.  At 3:15, the whole camp came to the Bunkline Field, tennis balls in hands.  Slugger was waiting.

On the count of three, everyone threw their balls at the same time, and Slugger was elated!  Whichever numbered ball Slugger ultimately grabbed and brought back to the crowd would be the cabin to win an ice cream party.  Lucky Bunk 24 was written on the one Slugger picked… and lucky Ted – he now has 300 more balls back in his hopper!

In the post-game wrap-up we did hear some stories about creative strategies. Our favorite was the guys who gobbled up some beef jerky so that they could roll their tennis balls in the jerky crumbs.  Was that you Bunk 24?

Another super fun all-camp game played today was the Super Duper Game Show for Evening Activity.   It was Divisions playing against each other, answering trivia questions and performing stunts.  Questions that we were surprised players knew the answer to included:  Which country went to every single World Cup?  Brazil.  What country has won the most winter Olympics?  Norway.

The stunts were the really fun part.  Counselors from each Division got to do marshmallow catching and the Oreo-on-your-forehead-and-into-your-mouth stunt.  Another one involved turning your counselor into a mummy with toilet paper.  The very best came last.  One brave counselor and two campers from each division came to the stage and were given a can of shaving cream.  The task was to use the shaving cream to give your counselor a new hairdo in under two minutes.  Special thanks to counselors Ava E, AJ, Cozmo, Brock, Chase and Zac.  This proves that you truly will do anything and everything for the boys of Skylemar.

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Sky Power

Almost in a league with the Navy Seals are Skylemar’s special forces.  40-strong, this elite group of master minds are able to inspire and motivate, plan and execute, organize and lead.  Frankly, they leave many of our warriors in the dust.

They are the SkyWomen.

On one hand, they are sugar and spice and everything nice.  Each is truly beautiful, inside and out, and the boys and staff adore them.  On the other hand, they command respect and are of the highest integrity.  They understand the rewards of doing for others, and demonstrate compassion, dedication and a get-it-done attitude.  As we like to say… they “get it”.

Each is a specialist in a particular area (like Waterfront, Chilltop, Basketball, Volleyball, etc.), but also has a clear understanding of doing whatever it takes to make the Skylemar machine work. MVL’s (most valuable ladies) often work behind the scenes (like in the office, bus driving, or housekeeping), with the intent of making others look better.  Let’s just say that this is the squad we count on to make the magic happen.

Honestly, it takes a certain type of girl to work at an all-boys camp, and it’s not for everyone.  We get five female applicants for every one male, so it’s tough to get a job at Skylemar.  Having brothers at home does give you a bit of a “leg up.”  When we ask, “how do you feel about burping and farting?”, their reaction gives us a clue.  Laugh and you’re good to go forward.  Come across as uncomfortable with the question, then a boys’ world just isn’t for you.

They juggle their specialty with NBC (non-bunk counselor) duties, like putting the kids to bed, helping them clean, sitting with them during meals, and so forth.  They’re extra good at noticing the little things about each camper — like who wore the same shirt two days in a row, or who might feel a little left out.

Most importantly, they truly love each Skylemar boy.   They give these guys the most valuable gift – their time.  Together they play games, read, talk, laugh, solve problems and celebrate successes.    They are the greatest big sisters and summer moms that anyone could ever ask for.

They take care of your sons (as well as their camp director) in the most incredible ways, and figure out ways for each to succeed and be proud of himself.  There is one thing we know for sure…no camp in the country could ever be as lucky as Skylemar.

Like the biggest star in the Sky, our world shines brightly, thanks to Lillie, Paige, Mary Beth, Abby, Suzie, Rachel, Lexie, Holly, Kristen, Sam, Margie, Luci, Cory, Leslie, Maya, Calais, Ava E and G, Roxy, Leah, Karina, Cassidy, Bella, Hannah, Lauren, Annabelle, Kate, Mindy, Ami, Marianne, Nadine, Brooke, Betty, Mary, Vicky, Joni, Serena, Heather, DJ and Toppa.

These gals are the greatest!

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Message From The Heart

Grandma, Mimi, Ga and Honey.  Grandpa, Poppy, HaHa, Pap Pap.

Ducky, Kiki, Pi, and Gigi.  Abuelo, Fubby, Pep and Big Daddy.

Grandy, Cucu, Bubbie, Yia Yia.  Grumpy, Papa, Cat Grandpa, Papou.

Lolli, Gigi, Suggie, Grammy.  Pop, PeePa, Ollie, Gdaddy.

Po Po and Ghong Ghong, Nona and Nono.

Didu and Dudu, NiNi and YeYe.

Malu and Juan Papa, Halmoni and Harabouji.

We call them by assorted names, but for Camp Skylemar, grandparents are our MVP’s.  After all, none of our remarkable boys could have been invented without them.  These extraordinary role models are our superheroes, advisors and cheerleaders, who love our boys forever and always.

Ask anyone here about grandparents, and their face softens with a special warm glow.   Ask the Cubs and Lions questions about them, and your heart might just melt.

 

Question:  What does your grandmother do all day?

Favorite Answers:

“She shops.”

“She goes to restaurants.”

“She does something in Florida.”

“She’s a therapist.  She makes people talk.”

“She hangs with her friends and plays Bridge.”

“She does plants.”

Question:  How about your grandfather… what does he do?

Most Frequent Answer:  “He golfs.”

Cutest Answer:                 “He eats.”

Most Honest Answer:     “He naps.”

 

They share that Grandmothers “cook really good.”  But it’s when they spill the beans on Granddad that we see the twinkle in their eye.  “He talks to me about sports”,  “he lets me watch TV”, “he taught me how to gamble” and “he always sneaks me candy.”

When asked, “What do you like best about your grandparents?”, several said “they let me have sleepovers”.  One said, “they never yell” and another said, “they’re always proud of me.”   A few said, “they let me stay up late.”  But most importantly, many kept it simple and said what matters most: “They love me.”

So favorite Nanny’s and Pop Pop’s,  Mom Mom’s and Grand PaPa’s or whatever you’re called, please know that we’re grateful.

Whether you’re nearby or as far away as heaven, we ask for your blessings.  Please watch over us always, and know that we love you to the Sky and back.

 

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Like Singing in the Shower

One of the best parts of Skylemar being just for boys is that it’s old-t-shirt, worn-in leather-couch comfortable.   It’s all so easy – just be kind, be eager to play and smile.  That’s really all it takes.  Of course we play to win, but when the game doesn’t go your way,’ you know you can get back at it tomorrow.

It’s a boy’s world here — the food (lots of it), the sports (shirts optional on a hot day), the movies (Minecraft), the songs (loud) and the bodily noises that get them all laughing.  Best of all, nerves seem to disappear when you’re part of a skit or a show or even just speaking in front of the group.  At Skylemar, you can let your guard down and be yourself.

You see it in the counselors for sure.  Those who were more reserved the first few days of staff training now feel totally at home and are willing to do just about anything to make the kids smile and laugh.  Take tonight’s Super Spectacular Staff Talent Show.  Most of the acts were the kind of things we all do when we’re in the car or shower singing along with the radio, feeling like our voices sound pretty darn good.  There were skits, songs, raps, dances and sports tricks.  Sam O showed how strong he was by lifting campers.  Jayden sang so incredibly that we felt like we were at a live concert.  And those guys in colorful costumes and crazy hair who worked the audience singing “Let It Go”…you just had to be there.

The counselors brought this same kind of positive energy to Sunday Signups Even Though It’s Monday. A full slate of Clinic activities for the coming week were “advertised” today by their practitioners (AKA Counselor/Staff who specialize in each).  Each commercial is an effort to entice the campers to choose their activity for the week, many with great creativity and humor.

Here’s the rundown of the choices:

The Ski Dock will host a “2nd Session Refresher” for those that just arrived, while the Sail Dock’s “Americas Cup” will focus on jibing and tacking skills.  In between the docks, The Swim crew will hold a Lifeguarding clinic, and of course, offer lots of fun on the inflatables.

“MB Dox and Rocks” will bring Chilltop (Arts and Crafts) to the Ropes and Challenge course for climbing the Wall, hunting for rocks, then painting them.  Archery will find campers “Hunting Big Game” on the course in the woods beyond the targets.

There’s Baseball “Face Off”, a focus on pitching and hitting, and our Volleyball squad will work with our most interested diggers and setters.  The Football staff entertained us with some awesome touchdown celebrations, perfect for  getting to work on your own in “Catching TDs and Making Big Plays”.  Lacrosse for those wanting to join the formidable “Legends of SkyLax” will target shooting, defense and goalie play.  With netminders in mind, “Goalie Wars” sounds like a blast on the Hockey rink.

Over at Sky 2, Fishing will have anglers casting at SkyPines.  Strength and Conditioning in the Gym continues to work on proper form, working with kettle bells as  they move to techniques in dead lift and bench press. Sprinting and Hurdling in Track and Field fill the rest of the fitness offerings this week.

Hoops has “All Star Challenge – Beat the Professor”, where all who sign up will test their skills in ball handling and shooting — with a chance for prizes in both 3-point shooting and dribbling contests against their coaches.  “Everything Soccer” needs no explanation and remains a popular choice.

Shep’s Reading clinic will rediscover the works of Dr. Seuss, an all-time favorite!  SkyDeck will go “Around the World” to teach a bit of cooking and sampling from all over, limited to the Tigers division (bunks 7-12) only this week.

Golf will again focus on the fundamentals of the swing, with plenty of chipping and putting on and around the green.  Finally, the Tennis courts on both sides will be full of those prepping for the last Intercamp matches, and our own Camp Championships.

Hardest part is choosing!

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From Catapults to Cookie Baking

Come as friends.  Leave as brothers.  That’s what it says on the arbor as you enter Camp Skylemar.

Today we welcomed 80 new friends from Maryland, Massachusetts, New York, Connecticut, Oklahoma, Louisiana, Texas, Maine, Colorado, California, Pennsylvania, Georgia, Florida and Washington DC.  Those who traveled especially far came from Venezuela, Austria, Mexico, England, Spain and France.

It feels so very great when everyone finally gets here.  Many thanks to those at home and camp who drove, flew and escorted, and did whatever it took to get the boys safely to Skylemar.

As the drivers arrived, the sky opened up, thunder rumbled and down came sheets of rain.  It was a scramble to get duffel bags inside, and instead of the kids coming to greet, we brought the new friends to the indoor activities.

Program Director Barney scrapped his outdoor plan for the day and instead pulled out a Rainy Day Rotation.  Groups went from one building to the next, with super fun activities in each space.

There was Catapult Building in the Rec Hall.  Once each group created a catapult, there was a contest for whose worked the best — mighty impressive structures!

Lego – the best toy a boy could have, and we have lots of it!  Even the counselors are excited to play with our mountains of pieces.

Lots to choose from at Board Games in the Pavilion, Garden Cabin and Batcave.  All the classics – Monopoly, Life, Trouble, Uno.  Each year we get the new ones too, but these stand the test of time.

What’s not to like about Cookie Baking?  Best part is you get to eat them too.

The Lodge was a fun place to hang.  Here there are pool tables, ping pong, foosball and darts.  Dodge Ball in the Gym was also a blast.

By 8pm the rain had stopped, but it was too damp for an outdoor campfire.  So we had one indoors.  Too warm for the fireplace, but Cory had a better idea.  While all the campers sat in Crazy Creek chairs and watched, she sprinkled Fritos (which Adventure Man taught us made for a decent firestarter) on top of some counselors.  Then a fire-breathing dragon took a great big breath and “lit” the flames.  Turns out it was a human fire, made of Ky, Andy and Rook, dressed in orange, yellow and red.

We sang “60’s Party” with Cory, which is an opening tradition.  Then came the best part.  Bunk 25 did a synchronized swimming routine.  They entered wearing bathing suits, goggles and rain jackets.  Off came the jackets and they “dove” into the blue tarp “pool”.  Arms up, fan to the side. Feet up, big kicks. More swan dives.  But the funniest part was the noises they made as they “swam” the wood floor.  Let’s just say they did anything for a laugh, and that they received.

Back by popular demand, counselor Eli K led us in the “Aroostasha” song. It was great to see everyone, even the guys who just got here, laughing, singing and doing the hand motions.

George, Barney and DT added a SNL-type skit called “Session One Update”.  Then Nick led the Cool2Care segment, where the guys of Bunk 30 talked about the Cool2Care moments that stuck with them.  For example, Eli said that during a baseball game a younger camper struck out three times.  He was crushed.  One of the oldest guys, who wasn’t even on either team, walked up and said, “You didn’t give up… that’s what matters”.   Max said, “It’s not always big, dramatic stuff.  Sometimes Cool2Care is just a high five, a saved seat, or a look that says, ‘You’re not alone’.  We all have the chance to live it every day.  Be the reason someone feels included.  Be the reason someone smiles.  Be Cool2Care”.

The all-camp song was a fantastic version of “Let It Be”, with Cory on the piano.  As we sang, the positive energy vibrated in the sturdy walls of our beloved Rec Hall.  It was a safe, warm feeling of community tonight.

There were lots more at the Campfire, likes s’mores of course.  Adventure Man came, showing all of his gadgets.  He taught how to go down an incline when you don’t want to fall.  Instead of going sideways, dig your heals in and go ahead.

Can’t wait for tomorrow.  Heard that the sun will be shining!

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The Power of Love

Of course, it made sense.  The most beautiful day of the year was saved for the greatest parents in the world.  There was so much love in the 04055, it was if it overflowed into the bright blue sky.

Boys of all ages leaped into outstretched arms of excited moms and dads.  Little brothers and sisters were lifted into the air.  It was a round of meaningful hugs for all!

Now let’s get to it — time to show off!  There was Hoops and Tennis, Gaga and Hockey… Lax and Soccer, Baseball and Football, too.  On to Trickey Pond for Skiing and Sailing – hurry up, there’s so much to share.  These are my counselors, here are my friends and that’s my bunk.  Let’s go!

Down the hill and now back up.  Whew!  Thank you, hayride.

Lunch at noon gave the chance to finally sloooow down.  Whether you picnicked on a table or on a blanket, enjoying a casual meal together was extra special today.

Still more time to show off in the afternoon, although the pace felt just a bit slower.  Our guys definitely know how to tire out the grownups. The clock struck three at just the right time.  Hugs, see-you-soons, a few tears and then…

IT’S CARNIVAL 2025!

The fields were filled with inflatable obstacle courses, axe throwing (the pretend kind), slides, things to jump in and the always-a-favorite dunking booth.  The chefs invited all into the big kitchen for fried dough, but first you had to dance to get some.

Power showers, 7th period and finally…Movie Night.  The kids love sitting outside together to watch whatever movie’s trending, and the adults love that the kids are sitting.

Thank you to all who made it to Skylemar today.  For those who were unable, rest assured that your son was just fine, and promise he was lavished with love and care as well.

As Shep made his nightly rounds, he found not a tear in the house.  Just a whole lot of absolutely exhausted boys, counselors and a couple of camp directors.

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The Showstoppers

Despite minor interruptions like trips, intercamp games, power showers and letter writing, the show must go on.  And it sure did!  “Finding Nemo” was a smash hit on the Skylemar stage.

It’s amazing what our magical Drama Director Suzie can make happen in just a few weeks.  Singing, dancing, music, acting, set design, lighting, costumes, learning lines and best of all, lots of fun.  That’s theater, Skylemar-style.

Congratulations to an all-star cast, including Shay, Ethan P, Nolan, Quinn C, Ethan V, Cooper E, Eli D, Jonah P, Jake P, Sawyer, Levi, KJ, Henry Z, Jack G, Noah W, Seth R, Lajuan, Lincoln, Sam S, Kash, and Alfie.  Counselors Ed, Frog, Noah, Wyatt and Ben were great as seagulls too.

The best part of a Skylemar musical is watching how much fun the actors have on stage.  They do an amazing job of learning so much in a very short time.  Well done, everyone.  The audience loved it!

Also on stage tonight was Bunk 19, who led Spirit Night.  Shep read an inspirational story about two-time Olympian gymnast Aly Raisman, whose brother was a Skylemar camper for many years.   Here’s a side note that Shep didn’t share:  When she was in her first Olympics, the Raisman family went along to London, while Skylemar watched on TV.  We were all so proud of our SkySister!  The timing was such that our Final Banquet fell on the same day as Closing Ceremonies.  Despite the celebrations surrounding Aly winning the gold, brother Brett, our camper, really wanted to be back to the US for Final Banquet.  So… Aly’s father did whatever it took to get on the first plane he could with Brett, rented a car and drove for hours, pulled into our parking lot and Brett ran to greet his bunkmates for dinner.  Meanwhile, dad took a well-deserved nap in the car.

Point is, and the one that Shep did talk about, is that a parent’s love for their Skylemar boy is bigger than the biggest of the big.  Tomorrow is Parent Visiting Day, when many get to perform for their parents on the fields, courts and lake.  It’s the opportunity to show love for those who are visiting, and also the opportunity to show love towards those who don’t have visitors.

We look forward to welcoming the greatest parents in the whole wide world to Camp Skylemar.

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The Hardest Job You’ll Ever Love

They say that parenting is the hardest job in the world.  We beg to differ.  Being a Skylemar camp counselor might just be a whole lot more.

You see, becoming a parent is almost always a slow process.  In most cases you have nine months to prepare, and then the rest comes gradually, year after year.  For the most part, parents have a whole lot of time to figure it out.

As for a camp counselor…he had just two weeks to get ready.  Then…BAM!  The kids appear and they’re already seven, or ten or thirteen years old.  Not just one to care for, but WHAMMO… Septuplets!

For a cabin of six, that’s 192 teeth to get brushed morning and night, and way too many times to nag about wearing sunscreen.  There are shoes to find and socks to pick up.  There are beds to make, a floor to sweep and a toilet to clean.  Try doing that with all of your kids in the house.

Sometimes there are tears to dry and poorly timed questions to answer.  A fair share of arguments to settle, especially between “brothers”.  Lots of directions to repeat, and repeat, and repeat.  If only they’d listen, a camp counselor thinks.  Sound familiar?

There’s no privacy for a counselor, no home office to hide in or video to keep the kids occupied.   No master bedroom with the bathroom adjacent.  Just a kid-sized cot for a full-grown man, and bathroom shared by the whole family.

Some counselors are quiet, some are loud.  Some are “chill” (as per the older guys) while some run a “tight ship”.  Some take to the job naturally, while others have more of a learning curve.  Some who grew up with us are experts at all-things Skylemar, while a few might forget that they are now the adults who must do whatever it takes to care for those other than themselves.

No matter the style, we know for sure that each Skylemar counselor truly cares for those under his wing.  Like you, they hurt when he’s sad and worry terribly when something doesn’t seem right.  They call them “my kids” and feel a tremendous sense of pride when one of their own conquers a challenge.

Just like a parent, every once in a while, a counselor loses his cool, or perhaps says something in frustration.  Those are the times that they ask for a “re-do”, and almost always do what it takes to clear the slate and trrrrrryyyyy again.

A counselor learns far more in a summer than any college course could possibly teach.  Not only have they learned about caring for others and what it takes to keep them safe, but they also master the arts of negotiation, self-discipline, strategy and organization.  Take it from us, if you’re looking to hire, these are the finest.

Their shirt says it all.  “Staff For A Summer — Hero For A Lifetime.”  It’s for these heroes we are eternally grateful.  We love them to the Sky and back… and hope you will too.

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Intercollegiate Day 2025

Ann Arbor, MI… Knoxville, TN… Madison, WI and Charlottesville, VA – homes to four of the most prestigious state universities in the nation.  Today, all were well-represented in Skylemar’s 78th edition of our Intercollegiate Day.

If the temp for this competitive day had begun to rise with yesterday’s 5K Relay and Boat Races, Mother Nature stepped in to cook us up a bit more.  After the usual morning routine, IC Day Marshall Nick Shep called the Michigan Wolverines, Tennessee Vols, Wisconsin Badgers and Virginia Cavaliers down to the Snow Field for the official start of this time-honored tradition.  Nick explained how the day would work, with each of six Divisions competing in 6 uniquely formatted team events. Only the Dash and the Seniors/Stars Long Drive competition would have a select few individuals represent their schools.  Then, for Evening Activity, each university would take the Skylemar stage to perform a set of Songs & Cheers with the entire day’s results producing the eventual winner of IC Day 2025.

And the Dash started us off in front of a raucous crowd supporting each of their sprinters.  Winners included Wisconsin’s Bodhi, Max R and Max P, while Tennessee’s Lionel and Alex Sw also impressed with blazing runs to the finish line.  In the oldest Division, Nabil (Virginia) ran away from the pack to claim the podium’s top spot as the “fastest man in camp”.

After the Dash, each Division begun a rotation through their 6 activities for the day, with a midday break for lunch.  The morning vibe was electric, with fun-filled excitement at every venue.

In the afternoon, all gathered in front of the Rec Hall only to be “wowed” by the majestic drive that won it by Wisconsin’s Matthew R.  Off to another Songs & Cheers rehearsal (the boys have been practicing for 3 days) and some rest, before attacking the afternoon activities with refreshed energy.  It seemed unlikely on such a hot, steamy day, but the rousing school spirit continued to build for each team as the day went on, and the yelling and cheering, hugs and high fives were non-stop throughout.  Of course, it helped that the 90’ Skyleslide as well as Snow Cones were available to all participants as they moved in and around the various activities all afternoon.  The events were not only competitive, but most importantly as was heard all day, lots of fun.  Here’s a rundown:

The little guys (10U) favorite, Steal the Bacon, contested though in all 6 Divisions.  Clearly, the older guys really miss the game based on their enthusiastic play.  As in all the other contests, each “sport” was bracketed with a semifinal and final to determine the winners.

Blacktop Hoops felt like a Final Four in each Division, with highly competitive basketball action in 4 on 4 and 5 on 5 play.  Buoy Ball, another Skylemar favorite, had the boys competing on the Middle Diamond and Fred Pierce Field, and seemed to generate the most noise as runs were scored with each swing of the (buoy) bat.  There was a Gaga tourney, using both sandpits, and Volleyball too (Newcomb for the youngest group). Finally, World Cup Soccer provided some of the closest, most exciting matches of the day.  Best of all, each and every camper participated in all 6 events – now that’s really something!

When the daytime activities had ended, the score was so close that all 4 teams had a legitimate shot to win it all. Exactly 50% of the scoring remained for tonight’s Songs and Cheers, as everything thus far accounted for the other half.

The counselor team leaders have been writing original songs and cheers since late June when camp began, but that’s only a small part of how much they put into tonight’s performance.  They not only write the songs, but they have to somehow teach the words and tunes to their boys, all with just a few total hours of practice.  It’s a monumental task. The late-night hours of collaboration and creativity leading up to this night seem impossible – yet for 78 years, they get it done!

And they did it again.  Under a beautiful Maine sky, each collegiate team took the outdoor Rec Hall stage to perform five songs: Team Fight Song, Original Team Cheer, Camp Cheer, Old Camp Song, and an Original Camp Song.  The performances were a treat for all, and the spectators and entire Skylemar community responded with heartfelt applause and appreciation for what was presented. Each state university represented today would be proud of all the boys for a fantastic competitive atmosphere filled with teamwork, sportsmanship and fun.

And the 2025 Intercollegiate Day winner is …. the University of Tennessee Volunteers!

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The Right Attitude

If there’s one thing we hope that a boy brings home from Skylemar, it’s an attitude of gratitude.

It starts with the little things, like manners in the buffet lines.  There are typically 10 stations (main course, two sides, two options, pasta, sauce, wow & jelly, salad bar and dessert). As a boy approaches each server, he says “yes, please” or “no thank you” every single time.  Yes, every single time.

Everyone matters most at Skylemar, and we appreciate each person’s contribution to our community.  Shep frequently recognizes those behind the scenes, like the maintenance department and those who work in the very hot kitchen.   One day Fernando, a groundskeeper, was surprised that some kids asked him to play basketball when he was weed-whacking nearby.  Our response:  So did you play?

The natural beauty around camp is something we never take for granted.  Ed and his maintenance department (Marc, Jimmy, Fernando, Mary, Betty, Myron, Vicky, Jonathan, Toppa, Emilio, DJ, Heather and Jeff) take tremendous pride in keeping everything looking and working just right.  Then there’s Kristen, our horticulturist, who puts her heart and soul into every flower and all things Skylemar.  Seeing beauty in every direction definitely has a positive impact on our mood and well-being.

Speaking of well-being…everyone appreciates our nurses and doctors.  Where else besides Skylemar  do you have a talented medical team available to you round the clock, with no appointment necessary?

We cheer for friends and staff members at least a hundred times a day and give public shout-outs after meals.  When someone has the nerve to speak to the whole camp in a meaningful way, they are given a standing ovation.

Take today, for example.  Three meals and three Meal Minutes, thanks to Bode, Eli and Tristan in the Stars Division.  Through their words, they truly demonstrated their attitude of gratitude.

Each spoke about their camp experiences, and what they learned over the years that they wish they had realized in the beginning.  For example, Bode learned that we should advocate for ourselves, that there’s always an appropriate time and a place, that your past does not define you, that it’s a good idea to ask people questions about themselves, and that you don’t always have to be the loud kid who is the center of attention.   The audience appreciated his advice, and gave him a standing O.

Eli talked about his earliest years at Skylemar, and how at first, he didn’t always participate because he was worried about not knowing how to play the game well.  He now knows that you can’t let your fear get the best of you.  He said, “At Skylemar, everyone wants you to play.”  He found that he enjoyed himself much more when he gave it try.  He said, “Don’t fear something new, but instead take it as an opportunity to have more fun.  Who knows – you might really like it”.  The audience appreciated his honesty and guidance, and gave him a standing O.

Tristan, our only camper from France, spoke about how scared he was when he came to Skylemar for the first time.  He was all alone in a country that spoke a different language.  He had to remind himself that he trusted his parents to find the right camp, where he would be well cared for.  He spoke about how grateful he was for every staff member and camper, who patiently answered his questions and made him feel welcome.  We adore Tristan and are grateful that he and his parents took a chance on us.  Standing O!

As for Skylemar parents, these are the ones for which we are most thankful.  We are confident that each of us here have won the lottery by giving us those who love us more than anything imaginable.  Although for some it can be hard to say, we know that each Skylemar camper is grateful to those at home for the opportunity to be here.  Your camp directors thank you to the Sky and back, for sharing with us your most precious possession.

Today we were especially grateful for Nick Shep.  He has spent a tremendous amount of time creating  some exciting new elements to our Intercollegiate Day program.  He kicked off tomorrow’s big day with two newfangled events:  The 5k Relay and the Cardboard Boat Race.  These were the first points-earning opportunities, so the team spirit was evident in both exciting races.

The 5K Race had kids running from the furthest points of our 200 acres, and everywhere in between…a 3.1-mile track meet! Congrats to Noah K who was the first to cross the finish line.  On the pond, the Boat Race was as entertaining as it was competitive, as all 4 state university teams (another first) wildly cheered on their paddlers.  Three of the four collegiate vessels actually made it cleanly across without a piece of the boat, or their “captain”, from falling off!  When it was over, the Volunteers of Tennessee had claimed both events, and will take a lead into the full day/night of activities tomorrow.  More then, stay tuned!

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Twists & Turns

Most of the time things are juuuust right… like when our sisters who attend nearby camps come to visit.  The siblings give each other warm hugs, have dinner together, meet friends, play tennis and hang out til it’s time to go.  They’re happy to see each other, then seem equally happy to return to routine at their very own camp.  Perfect.

The 30-minute drive, the one hour hike, and the 1.5 mile trek up Douglas Mountain was ideal for the Cubs and Lions today.  At the top was an observation tower built by the former owner of the land, who donated the property to the town for all to enjoy. The view was spectacular, and you could see as far away as Portland.  They talked about the Latin phrase that was carved into the stone — “Non Sibi Sed Omnibus”.  That means “not for oneself, but for all”.  Now that’s C2C!

Also “just right” is our Stars Division.  This is a group who truly takes advantage of the leadership opportunities offered at Skylemar.  The younger guys look up to them, and the Stars just about always remember the importance of this.

A Meal Minute, which takes place during announcements after a meal, gives any Star who wishes to do so the opportunity to practice public speaking.  The Stars camper writes his own motivational message about something related to camp and presents to all.  Way to go, Palmer and Noah, who both did a fantastic job.

As mentioned before, the older guys also lead their own Band of Brothers, which puts them in charge of 12-14 kids of assorted ages for a special dinner. After the meal they painted flags with their team insignia and played a giant trivia game.   The insignia is also on the bracelet each camper proudly wears.

Now for the twists and turns of the day…

As mentioned yesterday, the Intercollegiate Cardboard Boat Race was supposed to be today.  The oldest guys on each team got together to make a boat out of cardboard, duct tape and trash bags for their college team.  The whole camp was supposed to go down to the lake to watch the Stars “sail” their boats, but 13U and 15U Hoops as well as 11U Soccer were a bit delayed and still competing at another camp.  So the schedule was adjusted to instead do the race right after dinner.

The North Atlantic Wrestling Association Show was to be our evening activity.  A giant ring was set up for this on the Mini Lax Field below the hockey rink, and all were excited to see these pros perform.  There was a 30% chance of rain, but multiple weather apps seemed to guarantee we had a window of time to stay dry right after dinner.  So the Boat Race was again postponed, and we headed straight from the meal to the wrestling ring.

But this time Mother Nature outsmarted the weatherman.  Buckets of water poured from the sky, so back inside we went.  It was disappointing to miss two fun events right after the other, but you know Shep always has a Plan B.

It’s a Tootsie Roll night!   Bunks sit together at their table, and those in Tootsie Roll costumes hand out laminated playing cards to each group.  The game is played like Bingo, with Shep (also dressed as a Tootsie) calling out the cards (i.e. “Nine of hearts!”).  Get three in a row, and you holler “Tootsie Roll” to win.  Prize is…you guessed it.  Even though Tootsies are nowhere near as cool as Sour Patch Kids, tonight they were extra special.  You would think they were playing for gold!

 

              Heard this today…

Walking with several of the Cubs, Lions and Tigers after Strength & Conditioning Clinic, they were discussing braces and palette expanders.  “I’m getting braces,” Keats proudly affirms.  Pointing to his front teeth he innocently asks, “See how these two are social distancing?

… only at Skylemar.

 

Heard this today, too…

While playing “Would You Rather”, the question was asked “Would you rather be royalty or a Rockefeller?”  “What’s a Rockefeller?”, one of them asked.  “I don’t know”, said another.  “Maybe it’s a rock collector”, said the wisest.  (names withheld to protect history teachers).

… only at Skylemar.

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Trrrrrryyyying Again!

We’ve talked about Cool2Care, and how it’s the motto we live by at Skylemar.  We try our best to be kind, respectful and care for others.  But here’s the thing.  We’re regular people so we also make mistakes.

There are times when we might say something that offends someone, or we maybe leave a bunkmate out of a game.  We might forget to listen and could even come across disrespectful.  That’s when we apologize, and trrrrrryyyyyy again.

At Skylemar, there are three steps to an apology.  You feel sorry, say you’re sorry and do something to show you’re sorry.  It seems harder to do than it turns out to be, because we’re big on fixing mistakes.

Every time someone digs deep and shares how they’re feeling, it brightens our world.  Take this morning for example.  Peter made a big announcement:  The record has been broken for Polar Bear Swim!  98 bears from the older half of camp swam this morning.  If you add in the staff involved, the total number rose to 150!

When Peter finished congratulating, tennis counselor Ulrich took the microphone.  In front of all, he thanked swim counselor Annabelle for helping him to make it across the lake.  Ulrich, a varsity athlete in college, was brave enough to share with the whole camp that it wasn’t until he got to Skylemar that he learned how to swim.  He made us all feel proud.

It’s Sunday Signups!  New Clinics were advertised today.  Lots of popular favorites, and some combinations that seemed to spark quite a bit of interest.  For example, our Soccer and Baseball staff will run a Skylemar Kick-ball week which sounds like lots of fun.

Chilltop will take their creative energy down to the Sail Dock for Boating and Bracelets.   SkyDeck and Yellowhorn  will join forces for Food Science, a unique way to explore what they’ll eat. On the Tennis courts, the focus will be on footwork, positioning and tracking the ball to better your game.

With a couple of intercamp matches this week, Volleyball will prep both the 13U and 15U squads.  Lacrosse will cater to our younger guys who just love having a stick in their hands.  Kettlebell workouts are on the Strength and Fitness docket, while Track and Field will focus on running (sprints) and throwing (shotput and discus) techniques.

Rumor has it that Robin Hood will make an appearance at Archery.  Shep’s clinic, Skylemari Safari, is a “backlot discovery” of the many behind-the-scenes places that you don’t usually see at camp.  They’ll tour the entire maintenance department, visit the big kitchen, go in attics and basements.  Those who sign up for US Open Golf clinic will shift from the practice tee to plenty of on-course match play.

The Football staff will welcome those who want to learn in game-like situations.  Pistol Pete Hoops is where ball-handling and dribbling under pressure will be the main focus on the Basketball courts.  Down on the Pond, both the Swim and Ski Docks will be as popular as ever.  “Splish Splash Sports” off the Swim Dock will include basketball, volleyball and 3v3 water polo along with plenty of time on the inflatables.  The Ski Dock will be focused on advanced skiers, boarders, and surfers.

The most entertaining commercial was for the Super Awesome Chocolaty Fudge Mega-Coated Specialty Ropes Course Clinic.  Lots of fun in the treetops!  All sorts of options … with  something for everyone!

More Sunday news:  It’s the Intercollegiate Day Kick Off!  The big day is Wednesday, but preparations started after dinner.  It was exciting for campers to find out their college team — either Wisconsin, Tennessee, Michigan or Virginia.   The teams will be competing on the fields, courts, waterfront and stage.  Song practice started this evening, and they already sound amazing.  We can’t wait for the Cardboard Boat Race tomorrow!

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Polar Bears & That’s Not All!

On a misty Saturday morning at 6 AM, 55 polar bears are spied in Trickey Pond!

Ranging in age from 7 to 10, the giant pack is accompanied across the lake by 42 lifeguards, kayakers and boat drivers.   It’s a half mile swim across, and everyone wears a life jacket just to be safe.  Once on the other side, you end up at Nate and Benny F’s house, which is directly across from Skylemar.  High fives and donuts await, and then the motorboats bring you back to camp in time for breakfast.

Being a Skylemar Polar Bear is a tremendous accomplishment.  We’re grateful for each camper who gives it a try, as well as to the many staff members who sacrifice sleep time so that the kids can succeed.  The older half of camp has their turn to swim across tomorrow.

Throughout the day it was activities as normal, but there was something out of the norm.  For the one and only time this summer the schedule read “Welcome Camp Fernwood” in the 6th period slot.

Here’s the story…

You may have heard the old folk tale about a farmer who complains about his noisy house to a Rabbi.  Rabbi advises bringing chickens inside.  He does it and the house is even more chaotic, so he goes back to the Rabbi.  Rabbi says to bring in a goat, he does it, it’s worse, and again he returns.  Rabbi says to bring in a horse.  Same thing happens and he’s told to bring in a cow.  And on it goes until it’s unbelievably loud and there’s no space left.  What should I do, he asks.

The Rabbi says to now take all the animals out of the house.  He removes each, one by one.  It gets quieter and calmer, and when he’s left with his own children, it’s SO very silent and serene.  He never complained again and lived happily ever after.

This story “checks out”, starting at 5:00 this evening.  Before then we always thought our house was loud.  But afterwards, when the beautiful ladies from Camp Fernwood came over for dinner and a social, our house got a whole lot noisier.

After dinner, we got through “the awkward stage” with the Super Duper Counselor Game Show: Fernwood Edition.   It was our counselors vs theirs, for trivia, hula-hooping and egg toss.   Everyone loved cheering for their own.

Sky II had a beach party with Fernwood’s oldest, while the rest of us hung out on the front lawn.  There was volleyball, badminton, mini golf, pickleball, ladder ball, cornhole and frisbee.  Chilltop was packed with boys and girls, making bracelets and watercolor paintings.  The ladies dominated Karaoke, but everyone sang along.  For some Sky guys this just wasn’t their jam, so they stuck together and tossed a ball as usual.  But others kinda huddled in small packs — and together got the nerve up to talk to a group of girls.  Those with sisters at Fernwood gave our guys the extra boost of confidence.

Towards the end there was some sharing of phone numbers (but they don’t have phones…) and some trading of bracelets.  When they loaded the buses and drove away, we felt like that farmer in the story above.  Skylemar…is now…so…very…quiet.

At least for now!

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Future’s Looking Bright

Lots of Intercamp action the last few days.  We hosted an 11U Baseball twin bill and sent teams on the road in 12U Basketball and 13U Soccer.  On the Fred Pierce Field, the 11U group was led by the pitching arms of Morgan, Colin, and southpaw Jonah P.  At the plate, Bradley C was the clear star, smacking a home run over the Freddie Pierce fence into the right center field trees to become maybe the youngest Skylemarian ever to do so – amazing!

In Hoops action, Lance led all scorers and rebounders while Nidal proved to be like a coach on the court, handling the ball and running the offensive show.  Alex B (B13) was shouted out for not only his hustle on the court, but his inspirational team spirit from the sideline.

In Soccer, the 13U squad were led by goal scorers Ignacio L (4 goals),  Sam P  (twice), and Nolan. David G was outstanding in the net delivering back-to-back shutouts  – and the team brought home our first championship trophy of the season!  Congrats to all participants who wear the Red and Gray with such pride, displaying the tradition of Skylemar spirit and sportsmanship no matter the results, and wherever we go!

Meanwhile, several trips have gone out too.  There’s been several successful overnight campouts at Sebago Lake State Park.  The park’s just a few miles away, but it feels like much farther.  There’s a nice campground, bike trails and a shallow beach to splash in.

The Sophomores took a trip to Morse Mountain, a research and conservation area in Phippsburg, Maine.  They hiked four miles!  Every camper had the opportunity to lead the pack and set the pace.  When their turn was done, each got to name a specific way they would try to live the values of Cool2Care when they got home.  Elliot R (Bunk 21) said “I’ll accept that change is a natural way of life”.  Henry Z (Bunk 19) said “I’ll do a better job of going to bed when I’m told”.  Deep stuff!

After the long trek they finally got to their destination.  The ocean… and water that was absolutely freeeeeezing!  Super fun to talk yourself into going in.  The ice cream stop on the way home was the ideal way to end a fantastic day.

The Tigers went to the Ossipee Valley Fair.  It’s a good old-fashioned event, with animal exhibits, oxen-pull, and a frog jumping contest.  Of course… we had to enter, and guess what?  Beckett (Bunk 7) was the champion!  He came home with a blue ribbon.  Some of the boys thought this would be a good activity for camp, but where in the world do you get giant frogs?

At this evening’s Spirit Night, Roshan K and Elijah E were awarded the Cool2Care chains.  Two great guys who take advantage of every opportunity on the fields and courts, while also truly caring for others.

The Sermonette was given by counselor Patrick (aka RPG in Bunk 10).  Patrick, a college football player, talked about the challenges of spraining his ankle a week ago.  He said:

“This made me realize something very quickly that I hadn’t thought of before.  When you come to Skylemar, you’re more than just a camper or a staff member.  You’re a part of a family that shows unconditional caring, love and kindness.  This family accepts your weaknesses and strengths, and builds you up and helps you grow not only as an athlete, artist or student, but most importantly, as a person.  We all have the ability to grow and nurture one another so we can all be our best”.   

He ended with a quote that his dad often used: “Show me your friends and I’ll show you your future.”  From what we’ve got going on here the future’s looking bright!

 

 

Heard this today…

While getting his feet scrubbed by hard working, brave staff “volunteers” who run The Spa at GACU, Caleb D lays back in his rocking chair and says, “Can I just stay here forever?”

… only at Skylemar.

 

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The Sky Restaurant

There are just two rules when it comes to the food at Skylemar:  1) It has to be delicious; and 2)  You can never ever run out.

With a combined 83 years working here, Head Chef Jr, Superman, Benjamin, Jairo, Julio, Tony, David, Byron, Miguel, Juan and Cesar make up the staff who know exactly how to get it right.  Plus, they know how to keep a kitchen sparkling clean.  Just ask the Health Inspector who visited last week.  “Beautiful”, he said.

After decades of cooking for growing boys, there are a few things we know for sure.  For example, the way it looks, and the texture makes a big difference.  Always keep the sauce separate.  Have plenty of options.  Boys like to know what’s happening next, so Shep tells them the meals the night before. Quality definitely matters.

In fact, there’s lots that we do from a quality standpoint that our “food procurement consultants” say is “crazy” from a cost perspective.  For example, we crack our own eggs (900 for scrambled) and make homemade meatballs from scratch.  And ‘lots’ is what we prepare.  It costs $9,800 per day to feed the Skylemar family, and well worth it too.

We’re excited to share some great news — this year the boys have eaten more vegetables and fruits than ever before.  We’re talking double!  In one afternoon the salad bar alone goes through a treasure chest-sized bin of a spring mix, romaine and iceberg lettuce combo, 110 cucumbers (most popular), 85 tomatoes, plus much more.

The Senior Staff serves the food, which gives 30 of us the chance to see each boy in one of four buffet lines, at least three times a day.  Abby and Bella are in charge of special diets and picky eaters.  They custom make meals for those with dietary restrictions in a way that makes them feel just like anyone else.  They’re also great at coming up with an agreeable option for those with limited “likes”.

There’s definitely something for everyone in the buffet lines.  If you don’t like the main entrée there’s pasta, with sauce and parmesan cheese on the side.  Just about all of our boys like pasta with butter, with many adding some parm.  Only a few take the sauce, notes this pasta-server.  We make 40 pounds as a side dish, and 100 pounds for a full meal.  Bowties, penne and spirals leave spaghetti in the dust….

180 WB&J’s, cut into triangles, get made in a day.  That’s Wow Butters & Jelly, since we do our best to be peanut-free.  Our panel of experts determined that when it came to taste, texture and appearance, Wow Butter beat SunButter hands down.   Plus the name is really fun to say.

Mexican is our most popular category:  tacos, burritos, quesadillas and Skypotle.  Italian comes next, as in pasta, lasagna and pizza.  Asian is third, with chicken lo mein, egg rolls and beef with broccoli the highlights.  Then there’s good old American, with chicken tenders, steak subs and grilled cheese right at the top.

In addition to all the old favorites, newcomers to the menu these past few years are “Bowls”, which are super popular.  There’s Teriyaki, Asian and KFC.  It’s a big black bowl that you fill yourself.  Ingredients for Teriyaki bowls include rice, chicken/steak, edamame, carrots, broccoli, cabbage and wonton crisps.  The Asian bowl has lo mein noodles and broth, plus the add-ons above.  KFC bowls are Thanksgiving dinner (21 turkeys) leftovers – roast turkey, real mashed potatoes and gravy.

Caesar Salad is always a hit, and we go through a huge quantity.  It takes 72 heads.  Here’s the secret recipe to try at home :  Toss romaine in garlic powder — add Ken’s Pepper Parmesan dressing (not Caesar) — toss again — add parmesan cheese — add homemade croutons…. and toss again.

Jr’s grilled chicken is always perfect, every time.  Both kids and adults love it because it’s plain yet flavorful, and never too dry.  First, a chicken breast is cut horizontally… then in half, and pounded just a bit.  It’s marinated overnight in Ken’s Italian. Each piece is grilled just until charred, and then into the warmer it goes (which would be the same as an oven with a pan of water in the bottom) at 100 degrees for 2 hours. This process makes it juuuust right!

MPD (most popular dinner) goes to Wing Night.  They come in two flavors of buffalo: “hot” or “not” —  600 pounds for just one meal.

Lots more secrets to share when it comes to feeding our amazing boys, so you’ll have to stay tuned.  Thank you, Kitchen Staff!

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SGT – Skylemar’s Got Talent

If you really want to know the Skylemar ethos, you just gotta check out the Talent Show.

Tonight’s show included 32 acts!  That meant a total of 57 campers were brave enough to go on stage and perform in front of the entire camp.   Some acts were super impressive and proved that Skylemar really does have talent.  Some…not so much, but lots of fun, nevertheless.

None of the performers seemed the least bit nervous, and they comfortably danced and sang as if in their own living room.  Well…that’s because they were.  It’s just that now they have a couple hundred brothers along.

Every act got cheers, applause and whistles.  The audience was attentive at all the right times and joined in the laughter with those on stage cracking up.  You see at Skylemar when the performers have fun, the audience does too.

Participants of all ages and abilities took the stage, and each act was celebrated for whatever it was.  Take the wide age range of piano players for example.  Alfie is in Bunk 2, Seth F is in Bunk 5, Campbell’s in 13 and Asher’s in 24, and the audience loved them all.

Intrinsic rewards went along with performing.  Plus, there’s a tangible incentive as well.  Everyone who went up on stage got to pick a trinket from The Super Prize Bag… even for a friend who held the microphone too.  Judges named the Top Prize Winners at the end, and all received a very coveted, staff t-shirt.

In addition to the pianists, here’s some of our most talented:

Ethan P (Bunk 2) and Micah (Bunk 6) were the very first singers.  They sang “Waving Through the Window” and were amazing.  Grant (Bunk 16) was impressive singing, “Country Roads”.  Sawyer (Bunk 20) sang an incredible acapella version of “What a Wonderful World”.  Nolan played the ukulele and sang along to “Hey There Delilah”.  Amazing!

Ryan Frumin (Bunk 18) blew us away (no pun intended) on the trumpet.  He played the theme songs to “Jurassic Park” and “Home Alone”.

Lots of magicians in the house.  Best part about card tricks is that they always start with “May I have a volunteer?”.  Hands shot up everywhere with excited ‘Oooh! Oooh!’ and ‘Pick Me! Pick Me!’ echoing all around.  Nice jobs — Hunter (Bunk 17), Luke (Bunk 13), Declan O (Bunk 5), Alex B (Bunk 3), Bash (Bunk 12) and  Grady (Bunk 18).

Talented, or perhaps not so much, included:

  • Max A and Theo R (Bunk 19) drank three cups of water.
  • Skyer (Bunk 6) and Owen B (Bunk 7) did lacrosse tricks, sorta. Other sporting talents — Gabe (Bunk 4) demonstrated how not to play lacrosse. Blaine, Lincoln and Kash (Bunk 3) played basketball with a human hoop.  Ari, Ethan and Henry (Bunk 19) did a baseball skit. Henry, Alexander and Beckett (Bunk 7) did something with soccer.
  • Levi and Chase (Bunk 12) danced, kinda.
  • Lionel (Bunk 14) walked. Said he was practicing for weeks.
  • Twins Jack and Luke (Bunk 4) ran around pulling an imaginary string.
  • Bud (Bunk 14) read an entire book in 7 seconds, with fuzzy dice on his head.
  • Shay (Bunk 8) is double jointed, so he spun his arms 360 degrees.
  • Theo Q and Jonah P (Bunk 6) sang along to “I Bought it on eBay”.
  • Alex and Ulrich (Bunk 13) flipped cups.
  • Brothers Lincoln and Morgan jumped rope and tried to juggle bananas.
  • All of Bunk 24 did some kind of cooking show using Bongo hampers and lacrosse sticks.

Jack M did leg farting.  What’s a Skylemar Talent Show without bodily noises?  Some acts never go out of style!

 

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YEAH!!!

It’s one part Shep, one part all the counselors, one part older kids … and it becomes contagious.  Immediately the rest of the camp catches it.  And that’s how we make it Skylemar….

It’s the vibe!  It’s the cheers and laughter.  It’s that upbeat positive atmosphere that you feel most of all at Skylemar meals.  Yes, our boys are loud.  At meals it’s a happy, feel-good, joyful kind of loud.  There’s the silliness of the little guys and the sarcasm of the Sophomores and in no time everyone’s laughing.

We cheer wildly at post-meal announcements.  It’s the kind where you stand up and maybe even jump up and down.  Like today it was announced, “Laundry’s back!”.  The crowd roared with delight!  Bet you don’t get that at home after you do a load.

The laundry service here is a luxury that would be nice to have year-round.  The boys toss dirty clothes into their Bongo (a popup hamper), because we’ve learned that more clothes end up in the right place if they can “make a basket”, as opposed to opening a draw string laundry bag.

Sunday is outgoing laundry day.  That’s when you empty your Bongo into the specially designed laundry bag, and it gets taken away in a big truck.  Here’s what makes the bag special — you fill it from the top, zipper it up, and on the side there are straps to turn it into a backpack.  But that’s not all….

The truck comes back two days later (today), and your bag awaits on the porch.  Once at your bed, this time you open it with a three-quarter zipper on the long end, like a suitcase.  Inside are your clothes, nicely folded and in perfect piles ready to go in your cubby.  It’s magic!

More great news today:  Arlington and Lance have won the Green Arrow at Archery!  Everyone clapped and cheered.  “He’s in my bunk!”, someone hollered.

Wing Night for dinner!  ” Yeeeeaaah!!!” they roared.  Even the ones who don’t like wings were clapping.

Barnicus and Laundricus came to announce the winners of the Clean 300.  It’s Bunk 11 and Bunk 26!  Yes, Bunk 26 – clean 14-year-old boys!  Definitely something to cheer about!

Now on with the day!

Cubs and Lions went on a trip to Pineland Farms.  They had a barnyard tour, and learned about the animals on a working farm.

Bunk 26 volunteered at the Naples Food Pantry.  They were a huge help carrying cases of food that would be distributed to thirty-some families in need.  The regular workers were very appreciative of the extra hands, and raved about how polite our boys were.  We hope to do this every week.

It was activities as usual at camp, but the humid air felt like a storm was brewing.  And it was.  By afternoon there was thunder and rain, which meant routine safety procedures for staff.  When the weather’s in question, all are called to their cabins with counselors, and Senior Staff are assigned to areas of awareness.  There are always 30+ handheld radios on air at any one time here, so we can easily communicate.  Communication at a time of need is one of the reasons our counselors do have cell phones in the cabin.  Sure, that may mean that they’re texting when they shouldn’t be, but for us, safety takes priority.  Turns out it was just a passing storm, so on to dinner.  Pizza, pasta and salad tonight.

“BESTEST” was the Evening Activity.  Lots of cheering at this one!  It’s a competition by Division.  The MC gave a prompt, and each Division selected volunteers to perform the response.  Here were the prompts:

Show us your “bestest”…

– Impression of a mosquito hitting a windshield

– Impression of a hibachi chef

– Air band performance

– Impression of a fish being caught in Trickey Pond

– Handshake between three members of your team

– Best impression of an argument between a zip tie and a roll of duct tape

Where do they come up with this stuff?

 

Heard this today…

Assistant Director Cory gave 7-year-old Kash a high five at breakfast.  His hand was covered in syrup!

                                …only at Skylemar.

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Home & Away

What’s Murph Monday?  It’s what the brave, strong and dedicated do at 7 AM.   You run a mile, do 100 pull-ups, 200 push-ups, 300 squats and then run another mile.  It’s fine to break up the exercises 5-10-15, and then do that set 20 times.  Wowza.  Congrats to Max P, Asher, Dillon F, Nate F of Bunk 24.  Eli D, Jake P, Ignacio L of Bunk 26, and Iggy, Leopold and Marc T of Bunk 27 and Yago of Bunk 28

As usual, the Clinics Commercials were lots of fun to watch.  The counselors really try hard to put on a show that makes everyone laugh, and hopefully entices campers to sign up for their Clinic.  Today we kicked off:  Long Rope Skiing, Farm-to-Table Skydeck (today they picked basil and tomatoes and made Caprese salad), Wimbledon Tennis, Reading Road Trip (when you read in lots of different places), Props & Scenery for “Finding Nemo”, Football Plays, Splish Splash at the Waterfront, Back2Back Lax Champ U15 Practice, Golf Under Pressure, Intercamp Take Down Baseball, Drop It Like Its Hot (as in things like watermelons. etc. from high up in the Ropes Course), Learn to Sail, Pass-Set-Spike Volleyball, Soccer Shooting, Robin Hood Archery, Cohesive Hoops and Strong Man Conditioning.

Leaving Sky for the day were the Freshmen who went on a day hike.  They headed over to Arethusa Falls in New Hampshire.  It was an uphill trek for 1.5 miles on a very balmy day, but well worth it when you got to the top.  Trip Leader Mitch said the guys were amazing and stayed together as one group the whole time.  No complaints up or down.

Intercamp Tennis here at Sky and Soccer game away. Meanwhile, the first two foursome’s of the year headed to Bridgton Golf & Country Club.

Also “intercamp”, but definitely not a game, was the social with a nearby girls camp for the Seniors.  For the younger guys here, it was Rock Gardening at Chilltop, where they painted a special rock for the garden in front of their cabin.  Way to go, guys!

“I said a boom chicka boom”, goes the favorite Campfire Song!  It was a super great night at the Ring of Champions.  DT’s “Burrito Song” was a huge hit, and Myke did a dramatic reading of a Drake song.  We sang “Country Roads” with Cory on the guitar.  The audience chanted “Aroostisha! Aroostisha!” so counselor Eli had to perform a reprise of last week’s song.  It’s a good one, for sure.  Adventure Man taught us all how to build a shelter with garbage bags.

Bunks 1 & 2 did an adorable skit called “Invisible Bench”.  Sammy J came out, and squatted like he’s sitting.  Ethan said, “Hey, Sammy!  What are you doing?”.  “I’m sitting on an invisible bench.  Come join me!”, Sammy urges, and Ethan squatted next to him.  The rest of them came out one at a time, reciting the same lines, and squatted next to the others.  Alfie followed with the punchline, “They moved that bench last week!”, and all fell down.  That’s our kind of humor!

 

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Planning Makes Perfect

At Skylemar, it’s rare that someone knows the time of day, let alone the date.  No need for clocks – we go by our stomachs.   If we forget, there’s a bugle for breakfast, lunch and dinner, and a reminder for snack on the way to Third Period.

For the most part, time flies at Skylemar.  But because our “year” equals six weeks, everything is magnified.  So much gets packed into daylight hours that a day basically equals a week, and a week therefore equals a month.

Our calendar is planned far in advance, and each day is meticulously orchestrated by Barney, to the point where every one of our 350 people here know exactly where they should be at any moment of time.  But as happens in the regular world, things come up that we don’t expect.  Therefore, we always need to create the following:  Plan A, Plan B and Plan C.

Here’s an example…The camp had been booked for a 6 PM Seadogs game since the schedule came out in the winter.  Hundreds of tickets were purchased, 7 buses and drivers were reserved, and the entire staff was on duty so that there would be a ratio at the ballpark of one or two boys for every staff member.  That was Plan A.  Things were to go pretty much the same way they had for the past 35 years.

Then on July 4th, the day when the bus company was closed, we find out that the time of the game had been miscommunicated, and it was actually going to be played at 1pm.  Although the Seadogs were apologetic and offered for us to attend on an alternate night, that would mean complications with staffing.  Sticking with the 1pm game also meant we’d need to change the buses, which didn’t seem possible since it was already a holiday weekend. Sherlock Shepherd (aka your camp director) texted with a friend of a friend of a friend, and ultimately got the cell number of the bus dispatcher.  We rearranged buses, changed the daily schedule,  switched around meals, sprayed every child with sunscreen and loaded the buses for the hour drive to Portland.  That was Plan B.

Turns out today was the hottest day so far this season.  There was a breeze at camp, but nothing in the ballpark.  Seats were sweaty, faces were dripping and even the Seadogs announcer reminded the crowd to hydrate.  Although the campers were their joyful selves, Shep could sense sunburns and “the crankies” coming.  It was way too blistering to enjoy a game.  After giving it a four-inning-try (about two hours) which was enough time for the kids to spend their $30 on ballpark food, the decision was made to rally the buses and head back to camp.

Plan C:  Once we were home sweet home, we had to get these guys cooled off.  Amen for Trickey Pond.  We grabbed swimsuits and headed to the lake for quick dips.  The dinner menu was changed to build-your-own Super Subs, with chilled watermelon and orange slices for dessert.

After a long day with our energy zapped,  Evening Activity as planned was postponed.  Instead we did what any good parent would do.  We put on a movie (wink wink).  All will sleep well tonight.

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Sky Spirit

Let’s take it backwards…

After a day filled with good, hard play, we slowed it down with Spirit Night for Evening Activity.  It’s a weekly time when the camp gathers together on the Rec Hall field for a non-denominational service focused on gratitude, love and appreciation.

Each week a different bunk gets to lead Spirit Night. Tonight, it was Bunk 24.  First, we sing “We Meet Again in Gladness” and then the opening poem is read.  The candle is “lit” (battery operated), and the responsive reading goes like this:

“We light this candle in fellowship with our friends.  We light this candle with love for our families.  We light this candle in gratitude for all those who have helped us.  We light this candle in hope of peace, kindness and compassion.  We light this candle to reach out to those in need.  We light this candle for those who are not here now.  We light this candle to see within and brighten our days ahead.”

There’s a Prayer for our Country, and we sing a patriotic song.  This week’s reading by Shep was about the courage of Margaret Bancroft, who was a pioneer in educating those with special needs.  We say a Prayer of Thanks and silently send out positive energy to those we love at home while Cory plays the piano.

Tonight’s “Sermonette” was presented by counselor Eli K. of Bunk 14.  Eli was a Skylemar camper for seven years before becoming a staff member two years ago.  He read a selection of his college essay, which reflected on his experience as a camp counselor.  He inspired us with describing how he never let his medical condition define himself at Skylemar, and encouraged us to face challenges, try something new at camp, push yourself and then push a little farther.  Wow – now that’s a Skylemar counselor.

Next came Nick’s Cool2Care presentation.  Cool2Care (C2C) means that it’s cool to care about yourself, others and the world around you.  It’s cool to want to win, because it’s important to want to do well.  No matter how it turns out, you gotta keep it classy.  Nick explained that in every sport you either win or you learn.  Losing gives you an even bigger opportunity to get better.

Nick read a number of the C2C cards out of the C2C Cooler.  When you notice someone demonstrating kindness, you can write an acknowledgment and leave it in the cooler.  Two campers were awarded the highest weekly honor – the Cool2Care Chain.  Despite the big age difference, both are campers who similarly care about others and go out of their way to make others feel good.  Both Nico PH in Bunk 29 and Ethan P in Bunk 2 truly make our Skylemar world a better place.

Speaking of Cool2Care, remember those red money boxes that were sent home in the spring to collect coins for our favorite charity, “World of Change”?  The director of this children-helping-children nonprofit came to camp with his special “World of Change” truck.  It’s sort of like an old fashioned toll booth on wheels.  The boys tossed in their coins, and soon we’ll find out how much we collected.

Continuing backwards…

Earlier in the day was when we “practiced what we preached”.  Here’s how that went down…

The U10 Steal the Bacon Tournament held here at Skylemar is always one of the most exciting and spirited of the year.  Several camps attend, and there are numerous teams.  Our campers and their coaches practice for this and put their heart and soul into winning.  Despite it all, this was one of those times to learn instead of win.  In true Skylemar form, we kept it classy.  Starting tomorrow we take advantage of the opportunity to get better.  STB 2026 belongs to us!

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July 4th at the Sky

How do we celebrate the 4th of July at Skylemar?  We start by cleaning up!  It’s GACU – The Great American Cleanup.  Shep calls it “the trifecta of clean”.  First you take a power shower, next head over to The Spa, then it’s on to the Infirmary for a health check.

Where is this Skylemar Spa you might ask?  It’s on the porch of the Garden Cabin.  Mellow music plays, cucumber water is served, and the boys sit in rocking chairs.  Their dirty, yucky feet go in tubs of water and then our warrior “manicurists” attack with nail clippers.  Many thanks to Adam, Rook, Ellie, Karina, Leah, Maya and Sam who went above and beyond to get the job done.

Weather conditions were perfect for every activity on the courts and fields, with low humidity and clear skies.  The wind was strong, which meant that the lake was choppy — perfect for tubing and sailing (and capsizing…).  Meanwhile, the Tigers went on a trip to the Maine Wildlife Park.  It’s a refuge for over 30 species of local wildlife that can’t be returned to their natural habitat.

Dinner was delicious at the Band of Brothers Kickoff: pigs-in-a-blanket, barbecue chicken, corn on the cob, sweet peas and Greek salad.   In addition to a bunk and division, each camper is assigned to a “Band”.  It’s sort of a family within the overall camp family.  Each Band has a few campers from every age group, with two Stars as their Leader.  It’s one of the many ways that kids of all ages get to know each other at Skylemar, and it gives the older guys the chance to serve as role models for those younger.

There are 12 bands: Bears, Owls, Wolves, Deer, Bald Eagles, Otters, Loons, Foxes, Moose, Lobsters, Bats, Dock Spiders.  They officially get together for occasional competitions, Evening Activities and special meals where each Band sits together as a group.

Tonight’s competition was the “Spaghetti Mini Marshmallow Challenge”.  The goal was for each group to build a tower as tall as possible.  Twist was that only the little guys in the Band could do the building, while the older ones did the coaching.  Congratulations to the Loons – 26 inches tall!

After a traditional “7th”, the choice period with about 15 options, we headed down to Trickey Pond for a very special celebration.  Everyone was seated by bunk on either the beach or docks, where we enjoyed Patriotic Popsicles (red, white and blue).  Music played and we all sang along (i.e. “Born in the USA”).  The counselor Belly Flop Contest was hysterical.  Way to go, Preston, for being the champion.

When the sky got dark it was time for Skylemar’s fireworks display.  This spectacular display is shared with all our wonderful neighbors on Trickey Pond.  Many thanks to our good friend and pyrotechnician Greg who lives across the lake.

Nothing like a July 4th miracle!  Ten days ago, during Staff Orientation, a lost black dachshund was first spied at Camp Skylemar.  Since that sighting, the family has come daily, calling his name.  Staff members have been looking across our 200 acres (we never told the kids, of course), but at this point it was assumed the little dog moved on to another location.  With the smells of Skylemar’s chicken grilling and picnic tables with nibbles underneath, the assumption was that if the dog was here, at this point he would have been seen again.  A week has passed with no sign of him.

Then comes the miracle…tonight Sebastian was found underneath the Skylemar Rec Hall!  Program Director Barney and Waterski Director Quinn were the heroes who crawled on all-fours and did whatever it took to rescue the pup.  Goes to show you should never give up!

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Sade’s Palace!

It’s the hottest ticket on the East Coast.  The waiting list is 364 days long — definitely the place to see and be seen.  Hours are limited, so you must be on time.

Leaving the Bellagio in the dust, it’s the one and only gambling casino where the house never wins.  It’s…

SADE’S PALACE!

You must be under 16 to enter.

No money?  No problem.  All gamblers get $100, plus unlimited credit.

Dine without reservations.  The menu is exclusive, with just one frozen specialty available in chocolate, vanilla or strawberry.

All the beer (root beer, that is)  you can drink, and it’s on the house.

Step right in and check out the star-filled gambling hall.  Sightings tonight included Mickey Mouse, the cast from the “Wizard of Oz”, Mario, Yoshi, Bill Nye, Belle and her Beast and an Angry Bird.  Also spied was George Washington, Abe Lincoln, Thomas Jefferson, Harry Potter, Hermione and Ron.  There was Linguini from “Ratatouille” along with Vector and Minion of “Despicable Me” fame.  Moose and a Moose, and Bumble Bee, plus the real Shep, too.  Lots of other interesting and good-looking stars showed up, with all the above clothing courtesy of the one-and-only Suzie’s “Costume Attic”.  No wonder security was so tight.

The floor was  abuzz with activity.  There’s Blackjack, Poker, Wheels of Fortune.  Bingo, Craps, Roulette and Dice games. Slot Machines, Checkers, Guess the Jelly beans and Fortune-telling too.

Don’t know how to play?  No problem.  Most of the dealers didn’t either.  They made up the rules and did whatever it took to make sure that the customer always wins.

There was cheering and laughing, excitement and amazement.  The crowd stayed on the edge of their seats to learn who had won the 50-50 raffle… it was Luke S of Bunk 29!  Then, the drum roll played in suspense of the announcing who won the Guess the Jelly Beans contest (how many in the jar?), and the winner…. Dae of Bunk 11!  Yes – Dae was awarded all 1,662 colorful beans!

The patrons played to win… and win… and win some more!  And then….

What do you do with a giant wad of Skylemoney?  You go to the gift shop of course.  This pop-up’s packed with imports from faraway lands. Squishy balls and whoopie cushions.  Hacky sacks and wind up teeth.  Yo-yos and sunglasses.  Inflatable footballs, basketballs, soccer balls and baseballs.  Guitars and saxophones too.

9:30 PM and that’s all folks.  See you next year!

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We’re Talkin’ Sky

If you want to be the coolest parent in the world, it’s important that you know what you’re talking about. Here’s a cheat-sheet of assorted “SkyLingo” to set you up for success:

C2C – Our motto, aka Cool2Care.

Sade’s Palace – It’s tomorrow night… lots of casino fun for those 16 and under!

Drip –  hand sanitizer…. you “drip” into buildings and before you eat.

Happy Hour – the sixth period of the day when Seniors and Stars have a choice of supervised “hanging out” time, or can head to the waterfront.

Foot Patrol – Counselors assigned throughout the day to make sure that everyone is where they’re supposed to be.

STB – Steal the Bacon.  It’s a game you’ll hear more about soon.

GACU – A weekly health check, that stands for Great American Clean-Up.

Looney Tunes – the seven counselor teams this year… Tweety Bird, Road Runner, Taz, Bugs Bunny, Foghorn Leghorn, Yosemite Sam and Road Runner.

S&C – Strength and Conditioning with Coach Tom

PSH – Power Shower Hour (self-explanatory)

SkyDeck – our fabulous outdoor kitchen for learning the culture, cooking and sampling of some amazing international cuisine,

Chilltop — the place for creativity… home to all kinds of arts and crafts.

Batcave – Luci and Cory’s office.

SkyPines – a fun-filled overnight stay in tents near the Sky II waterfront.

Polar Bear – pre-breakfast morning swim across the lake.

IC Day – Intercollegiate Day…. a one day event when our four college teams compete on and off the field

Color War – may not seem unique, but never make the mistake of adding an “S” and calling it “Color Wars”.  That might be ok at other places, but Skylemar guys take these intensely competitive days in August very seriously.  There’s no messing with this name.

DT, DRC, H, MB – Daniel Thomas, John D’Arcy, George Houghton and Mary Beth Fedirko.

Frog, Bones, Beags, Barney, etc., etc.– nicknames for those Staffers who’ve been here the longest.

The list goes on and on…!

 

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Brand New Day

 

Hot, humid and so much going on!  The schedule was jam-packed in all Divisions…Cubs: Bunks 1-3, Lions: Bunks 4-6, Tigers: Bunks 7-12, Freshmen:  Bunks 13-18, Sophomores:  Bunks 19-21, Juniors: Bunks 22-24, Seniors: Bunks 25-27, and Stars: Bunks 28-30.

Lots of firsts today as well.  Marcus W (Bunk 11) caught the first fish of the season, and it was a big one!

The Tigers took the first trip of the year, to Ice Skating in Bridgton.  That’s a town about 15 minutes away that has an ice rink located at a boarding school.  The cool air and slippery ice were perfect for such a steamy day.  Skating with Skyfriends is super fun, whether it’s your first time or one of many.

The premier play of the 2025 season is “Finding Nemo”.  Those of all ages were invited to try-out, and Drama Director Suzie had the difficult job of deciding who gets what part.  It’s tough because there’s a lot of talent in this house.

First bullseye at Archery!  Congrats to Henry Z!

Pontoon Party Night for lucky Bunks 1 and 2.  That’s when you take a cruise around Trickey Pond to see the other side of the lake, probably for the first time.  It’s a relaxing way to spend 7th Period, and the snack menu is appropriate…Swedish fish.

The camp-wide Scavenger Hunt was an awesome and high-energy Evening Activity.  Teams were made up of an older Bunk combined with a younger Bunk.  Each team had to unlock the clue at a particular location by finding specific items, answering trivia questions or performing a stunt.  For example, to unlock Mary Beth’s clue they had to bring her a pair of Nike sneakers, two blueberries and a pair of colorful sunglasses.  They had to dance the Macarena, show five different letters in ASL and figure out how many years Mary Beth has been a teacher.

One more first — the first Intercamp action of the season saw our 15U Soccer club play a trio of games in a round-robin tourney on the road, finishing with a win a loss and a tie.  Coach Spencer lauded the total team effort, led by 7 different goal scorers – well done boys!

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Decisions Decisions Decisions

In any one Skylemar day there’s a whole lot of learning going on.  Certainly, we learn how to build relationships and live together as a community.  We learn about what it takes to be a good friend, take care of ourselves and the importance of doing for others.

There’s lots of games that may be new to many, and the counselors are amazing at passing on the knowledge of their particular sport.  The boys discover that Skylemar’s a great place to take safe chances, like trying a new activity that you’ve never done before or even one that you’re not so great at.  That’s why the daily schedule is a combination of assigned periods, along with a couple of electives.  The boys are encouraged to give all a try.

The best kind of learning is fun, and that’s the world of Skylemar.  For example, this morning the camp welcomed Barnicus and Laundricus, the Warriors of Clean, with the traditional chant: “clap clap CLEAN…clap clap CLEAN…!”  The two warriors spoke about Cabin Inspection, and what it takes to keep things tidy.  Each bunk has a Job Wheel that moves one space to the right each day, assuring that everyone has a particular job while things are kept fair.  The Warriors called on Dr. Jeff to speak, who told us about what it takes to keep ourselves healthy.  This included how to do a self-tick check, which means paying attention to creases behind the knees and elbows, as well as our hair and ankles.  Ticks are rare here because of our robust eradication program, but it’s important to check, especially after a day hike off premises.

Shep did some teaching at his Porch Times.  That’s when your bunk takes a break from sports and instead, hangs with Shep and has a treat of Scooby Snacks.  He asks lots of questions (like “what was your favorite activity so far?”) and always has an important message to share.  Today’s was about the “golden rule”, and how to treat others.  If you hear someone being unkind to someone else, it’s your responsibility to stand up and say, “that’s not cool”.

Good decision-making is something else we learn about at Skylemar.  We talk about the big long-term decisions that matter most, but on a daily basis, it’s mostly about the little ones.  For example, each week we have Sunday Sign-up, when the kids decide which Clinic to choose for the week ahead.  The sign-up is a special event within itself, because the counselors do “commercials” advertising what they’re offering.  Just about all of the skits are hilarious and include dances and even some mind-blowing acrobatics.

For example, this week’s choices include: “Ninja Warrior Course & the Monster Challenge” at the Waterfront, “Sultans of Swing” through the trees at the Ropes Course, “MVP Hoops” Basketball, Snow Field Soccer, “Baseball  Basics” with Professor Good Coach, “Mad Science” at Yellowhorn, Beach Volleyball, “Cultures and Cuisines of South China” at the Sky Deck kitchen, “Koolio and his Ski Dock Llamas” Waterskiing, “Reading Pirates”, Poster-making and other Sea Dogs Merch at Chilltop, “Full Pads” Lacrosse, “Sail the Seven Seas”, “Ground Strokes Week” Tennis,  “Swingmasters” Golf, “Nitty-Gritty” Football, and Steal the Bacon.

Which would you choose?

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And We’re Off!

“GOOD MORNING, CAMP SKYLEMAR!” roars one of the nation’s greatest sportscasters through the speaker in every cabin.  That’s the voice of the one and only George Simeon, producer and director of “The Morning Show”.  It’s sports radio at its finest, second in ratings only to The Rich Eisen Show.

The talent is spectacular and includes any Skylemar camper who wants to wake up extra early and shout out the national sports scores.  “Extra early” comes easy to the younger half of camp, while most counselors and older guys prefer to just listen to the show from the comfort of their cozy bed.

At 8:00,  the reveille bugle blows letting all know “it’s almost time to wake up”.  At 8:10, a second one signals that “it’s now time to get moving”.  The flag is raised at 8:30, then off to breakfast we go.

Today it was stacks of pancakes, eggs, oatmeal, cereal, yogurt, WOWBUTTER & jelly sandwiches and fruit.  There are four buffet lines, so all are fed in record time.  The 30+ directors and department heads enjoy doing the serving at every meal, giving each the opportunity to interact with every camper and staff member.  Music blasts and the vibe is high energy and lots of fun.

At the tables, the morning paper awaits.  It’s called the Daily Schedule, and it’s a complete step-by-step blueprint of how the day will look.  The schedule is carefully crafted by Program Director Barney and is so precise with specific staff assignments that it takes him about eight hours to create every day.  There are five assigned periods, two more choice ones, plus a big all-camp Evening Activity.

Once breakfast tables are cleared and after Shep’s Morning Announcements, all head back to the bunk for clean-up time.  Beds are made and each member of the “household” has a chore, like sweep, dustpan, sink, trash and the never-ever-popular…toilet.  Today was just a practice – inspection will start tomorrow.  The boys do give a try at cleaning, but for most it’s not exactly their “jam”.  Secret is that while they’re at First Period, our adored housekeepers come and re-do the bathrooms.  Thank you, Vicky, Mary and Betty!

Bunks 1-12 were at the Waterfront, with swim level evaluations, boat rides, kayaking and splashing about.  Meanwhile, others were at Baseball, Football, Basketball, Golf, Volleyball, Tennis, Lacrosse and Challenge Course.  In the afternoon there was Archery, Gaga, Soccer, Track & Field, Chilltop (crafts), Ping Pong, Yellowhorn (outdoor science) plus more.  In between it all was Rest Hour, when you hang in your bunk but hardly ever actually rest.  There’s Power Shower Hour too, and the name says it all.

Tonight’s Evening Activity was a weekly favorite – Campfire at the Ring of Champions.  It’s a night that’s upbeat and filled with laughter.  Lots of repeat-after-me songs with body actions, like “60’s Party”, “Aroostasha” (ask your son for a demo) and a hysterical sun dance skit.  Cory, with her beautiful voice, played “Wagon Wheel” on the guitar, and we all sang along. Nick explained the meaning of our motto, Cool2Care, and taught us the Skylemar sign of brotherhood: pointer and pinky finger up with other fingers down.  It means “I love you” in sign language. Powerful stuff for a bunch of guys.

A campfire just has to have s’mores of course.  Adventure Man came to visit too.  He taught the whole camp how to make a skivvy roll, and how the best fire starter is Fritos wrapped in a napkin.  Who knew?

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Welcome Home!

Now this was a DAY!  The weatherman said it was a rainy one in the 04055, but we didn’t mind.  Here at Camp Skylemar hundreds of happy smiles and warm hugs kept us feeling dry.

Planes were late and driving was slow, but oh, so worth it.  To see old friends jump into each other’s arms while 100+ counselors fully focused on welcoming the new guys was truly special.  Kinda like positive energy was what poured from the sky.

It was the Skylemar way, starting from the airport, bus or car.  In fact, one travel group created their own sort of baseball game using the silver numbered posts in an empty boarding area.  Sorry about that, Southwest….

Back at camp the games were in the Lodge (ping pong, pool, foosball) and Gym.  There was drawing and painting too.  The welcome signs were especially amazing.  A giant tarp filled the Rec Hall, with bins full of Legos dumped on top.  There’s nothing like Lego to keep boys and college students busy.

Dinner, by tradition, was heaping helpings of spaghetti with homemade meatballs, plus fresh, hot garlic bread… salad bar, too.

After a super fun Evening Activity to introduce the staff, all headed back to the cabins.  It was like coming home, because counselors had spent all of yesterday making beds and unpacking belongings.

As Shep made his first round of “good nights” for 2025, he found most tucked snug into beds.  Some were whispering and giggling, while others listened to the chapter books that their counselor read aloud.

Day is done, and all is well.  It was an exciting and exhausting one, and we can’t wait to see what tomorrow brings!

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We’re READY!

After three weeks of training, practicing, teaching, role playing, setting up, unpacking, laughing, playing, connecting, moving, listening and learning…

 

Skylemar’s amazing counselors are ready to Welcome Home

the greatest guys in the whole wide world to the 04055!

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Until Next Year

 

Bittersweet, they call it.  On one hand, it’s the saddest day of the year in the Skylemar nation.  Saying goodbye to those who have become so important to us over the past weeks is a very difficult thing to do.

On the other, the day does culminate in joy, as arms are wrapped around your most precious possession.  How wonderful it is to be reunited with those you love, forever and always.

Here at a very quiet Skylemar, our heart overflows with gratitude.  To you, who entrusts us with your amazing son, we thank you.  We are honored that you’ve selected Skylemar as his home-away-from-home and promise to do everything in our power to cherish him always.

To the most outstanding counselors in the country, please know that you’ve built men of character this summer, and we are forever grateful.

To so many others at Skylemar who help us make a positive difference in the world, one boy at a time, we love you…to the Sky and back.

See you next year, friends.  The countdown begins now!

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Brotherhood of the Sky

 

The power of love.

You could feel it in the Skylemar air, despite the messy drizzle falling.   There was packing and cleaning to do, but most of all, we just enjoyed being together.   Although we laughed and played as always, everyone knew that it would be a long time before most of us will see each other again.

There was a lot of gratitude going around today too.  The kids even wrote notes of appreciation to counselors, which become heart-warming surprises sent by mail over the winter.

As always, everyone was most excited about the Final Banquet.  It’s a special dinner, with speeches, awards and our favorite show in the world, “Retrospect”.

But here’s where the love really came in.

The entire evening was filled with opportunities to celebrate someone other than yourself.  And that’s exactly what they did.

Every speech received a standing ovation.  Every photo of a friend drew cheers.  Every name announced brought on a frenzy of applause.

It’s true.  They came as friends and left as brothers.

No boys in the world could ever be more loved.

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Color War Day 5

Once again Mother Nature gave us a picturesque, sunny beautiful Maine morning as the boys anxiously prepared for today’s final events. On the strength of last night’s Songs and Cheers win, Gray led by just a few points, though the outcome was still clearly in doubt.  The boys were a bit more torqued up for this, the final day, anticipating our legendary final closing event this afternoon. Maybe this last morning of activities would paint a different picture when done, so out they went after the regular morning rituals.

Gray pushed ahead with a 4-0 win in Sophomores Soccer and a pair of wins in Juniors Hoops. When Gray also won the first of two Juniors Football contests, Red was reeling.  But in Game 2, they mounted a 4th quarter comeback for the ages, erasing a 2 touchdown deficit with 3 late scores to win 52-45 and start another Red run. Wins in Seniors Tennis and Tigers Golf and Bocce kept in going before Gray’s little guys scored a run in the bottom of the last inning to break a 2-2 tie and win Cubs/Lions Baseball 3-2.  But Red came right back with a pair of wins in Freshmen Hockey to take the morning, cutting into Gray’s slight lead even more. Then came the announcement that Red had won the all-camp cumulative Archery point (each camper shot throughout the week) and unbelievably, with only the climactic finale left to settle it, we were for all intents and purposes, dead even.  Incredible!  We were right back where we started when Harry and Will were elected just a week ago – and ready for the big finale.

The Vince Lombari Trophy (NFL).  The Commissioner’s Trophy (MLB).  The Larry O’Brien Championship Trophy (NBA).  The Stanley Cup (NHL). The FIFA World Cup Trophy.  These are what the athletes in each of the 5 major world sports play for in football, baseball, basketball, hockey and soccer.  Winning one is the ultimate goal of all who participate and with it might come fame and fortune, and the adulation of fans far and wide all over the world.  The residuals are endless.  Whether the Super Bowl, World Series, or any other, none can compare to what comes with winning – and losing – this afternoon’s closing spectacle to our Color War…TUGS OF WAR.

We don’t play for any trophies.  No tangible rewards come from it, yet your boys will talk about it for the rest of their lives.  Even more so, the ultimate reward for battling with and against your brothers for the last 5 days is that when the cheers and tears are gone, the love takes over.  And it really only takes about five minutes for all to get there.   If you’ve ever been fortunate enough to experience it in person, whether camper, staff member or even Director, or feel it vicariously through your child, a friend or maybe this blog, then you have an understanding.  For those new to this, hopefully what you see, hear, or read will help you feel the love too.

Late this afternoon, Will called his Red Men to the Hockey Rink, while Harry gathered his Gray troops to the Tennis Courts for the last time. Shep called both teams to the Snow Field where the excitement of the last 5 days would soon be resolved.  One by one, each Division’s Red and Gray members would face off for the very last time. Shep reminded everyone that since the score was effectively tied, it would take winning 4 of the 7 Divisions’ tugs (best 2 out of 3 in each) to win Color War.  Beginning with the Cubs/Lions and working our way up through the Stars, Shep called the “tuggers to the rope” and when given the signal, George blew the whistle and tug they did.

“PULL!  LET’S GO!!!  PULL HARDER!!!!”, screamed their leaders, and each responded with all their might. Eyes wincing, bodies twisting, feet dug in, muscles popping.  They gave it EVERYTHING they had.  Those on the sidelines cheered wildly P-U-L-L-L-L, as if the harder you shouted the stronger they’d be.  Each Tug lasted seconds, but it felt like forever, until…the flag crossed… over the line…and George whistled it done.

Once through the lineup, then out again for Round 2.  Tug after Tug until finally, it was over – GRAY, the 2024 winner!

Gray swarmed the field, leaping and jumping into anyone’s arms in their path. On the other side, tears abounded for just a few minutes before joining Gray on the field.  Hugs and warmth were shared all over as the teams both congratulated and consoled each other before hoisting the two Captains on their shoulders for the trek down to Trickey.   The scene just oozes with emotion in every way. Tears of joy and those of sadness filled the eyes of not only the participants, but the well over a hundred plus onlookers as well.  The amount of love in the air was simply immeasurable.

Following tradition, all walked behind their leaders to the lake, checked in with the Waterfront Directors, and took turns leaping into the Pond.  You see, the waters of Trickey Pond are magical.  Jump in, and they wash away the competition.  Once again, Skylemar is one.

Waterfront Ceremony for Evening Activity is one of Skylemar’s most sacred and cherished traditions. On this night, we back it way down from the very hectic, action packed week of Color War, to give thanks not only to those who made our summer so special, but to all who made our being here possible.   A torch-lit procession to the lake led by our two Captains is how it usually begins, but tonight a steady rain forced us into a last minute detour to the Pavilion. There, after each Captain addressed the camp, Shep took us through the program as if we were down at the lake as a fire burned just outside one end of the Pavilion. Instead of setting a candle-lit “wishing boat” into Trickey’s water, each person in attendance made a wish and tossed a piece of birch into the fire.  Legend holds that if you make a wish for someone other than yourself, there’s a pretty good chance it just might come true. Then, instead of campfires outside the bunks, each had their own pizza party inside.  Still a wonderful night to cap off a great week and start the process of saying goodbye.

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Color War Day 4

Another sensational, bright, but cooler day in the 04055 – perfect for the Day 4 schedule in store. The boys went through their morning routine of breakfast, inspection and another pre-game team pep rally to get the juices flowing.  Gray had taken control, but Red was nipping at their heels, just a few points behind.

This morning’s action was filled with excitement all over the place.  On the Sky I Lax field, Gray ran away with the first game, then Red did the same in the second to split Tigers Lacrosse. Somehow, the teams also split the Stars Waterfront point after the Kayak races put up the same times down on the Pond. Back up top on the Freddie Pierce, Gray led 5-0 early before surviving a last inning rally for a 5-4 win in Juniors Softball.  The Gray Stars also chipped their way to a match play victory on the Links but dropped a close one in the Bocce Garden.

The Cubs/Lions again provided the most exciting, nail-biting moments.  They split a pair of Football games, but only after Gray came from a 38-24 4th quarter deficit to win the Bunkline game 42-38 in a thriller.  Red won a back and forth affair on the Rec Hall field, stopping Gray’s last ditch attempt to win it short of the goal line as time expired.  It seemed Gray had protected their lead until the results came in from Sky II.  Red Sophs swept Tennis by winning the Skills competition on the Har-Tru courts, and carried Seniors Soccer on the Hejduk as well, 4-2. Red not only wasn’t going away, but they had barely won the morning and drew even closer as we broke for lunch.

Afterward, the boys went straight to another Songs and Cheers rehearsal in preparation for tonight’s pivotal on-stage performances. But first they’d get a bit of rest and go right back at it again with an afternoon full of contests that tested them all.

The Juniors halved the Golf matches out on the Course, and Gray finally won stopped Red’s run of wins in Bocce.  At the Rink, Red won the first game easily, then scored the equalizer with under a minute left to tie the second 3-3 and carry Stars Hockey.  The teams each won a game on the Hoops court in Seniors Basketball, and Red served and volleyed well enough to win Tigers Tennis.  Over at Sky II on the Hejduk, Gray Sophomore Laxers won a low scoring, but very tough 4-2  Lacrosse game to again reassert its position on top.

Then Red rattled off wins in both Cubs/Lions Soccer games and another in Freshmen Baseball to close out the afternoon with only a point separating the teams.  4 days in, and we were now virtually tied!

Tonight’s Evening Activity out on the Rec Hall lawn under a star-lit sky would set the stage for tomorrow’s big finish.  For days, the teams have been rehearsing, as there would be 8 big points up for grabs. Each would have to perform a set of 6 songs – a Team Cheer and Camp Cheer (1/2 point each), Team Fight Song and Old Camp Song (a full point each), an Original Camp Song (2 points) and Production Number (worth 3 very big points).  It’s hard to comprehend how difficult it is for a few 15-year-old leaders to prepare, write, rehearse and put 95+ kids on-stage for such an impactful event, all the while competing so intensely for the past 4 days.  But that’s exactly how it’s been for 76 years.  And they did quite a job.  The two Production Numbers entertained us all. Gray gave us a Jackson 5 medley, and Red created a musical version of College Football’s Saturday GameDay.  When it was over, Gray carried the night 5-3 and will take a slight lead into tomorrow’s finale.

Way too close to call…. this one’s going down to the wire for a photo finish!

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Color War Day 3

Mother Nature once again had reared her head.  A bit of morning drizzle may have delayed our start, but it certainly didn’t dampen Gray’s spirit.  They had turned it around late yesterday and Harry’s Gray team was still flying high. The morning “psyche up” circles were charged with energy from both teams.  Will’s Red team may have been stunned by the flip, but he and his leaders let their boys know that they fully believed in them and what was inside each of their followers.  “In the heart, in the heart!” they chanted before heading out for Day 3.

Here’s the way the day played out:

Gray continued their command down at Trickey Pond.  On paper, Red Sophs had a swimming powerhouse, and it showed as they stroked their way to a sizable lead in the Swim element.  However, Gray edged them out in the timed Kayak races, then did the same at the Ski dock to win Sophomores Waterfront.  Up on the Bunkline Football Field, Gray’s defense told the story as ballhawk Julian had 3 interceptions in the first half alone to stop potential Red scoring drives, and key another Gray victory.

When Gray won Juniors Tennis, Red was looking for a spark, and it came from their youngest in the Cubs/Lions Division.  Cousins Benny and Seth (B3) became the unlikely heroes who provided it.  First Seth showed some real savvy in winning 2 of the 3 sets with superb Bocce throws in the Garden, then Benny came back from 1 down with 2 holes to play to win his first ever golf match on the Links, 1 up – securing both wins for Red.

Gray then answered right back with some heroics of their own in Tigers Hoops, but it took all three games to do so.  After each team got a blowout win on the outdoor courts. Gray’s overall teamwork, and a little extra boost from Bud in the Gym’s “rubber game” was just enough to overcome Alexander P’s remarkable one-man show, winning it 16-15 and the Tigers Basketball point.  The Seniors then split a pair of games in the Hockey Rink, where goalies Alex S and Dillon W shined on one end, and Luke S (hattrick) and Jackson C (twice) on the other.

Lastly, the Captain twins went head-to-head in their favorite sport over at the Hejduk. Both are destined for stardom at the next level, but it was Bobby’s hattrick and Henry B’s outstanding work in the cage that proved the difference in Red’s bounce-back 9-6 victory in Stars Lacrosse. We had reached the halfway mark of this Color War when we broke for lunch, and Gray had padded their lead just a little bit more.

After Songs and Cheers practice, Gray laid down  the gauntlet by racing further ahead with wins in Seniors Lacrosse and Tigers Soccer. In Lacrosse, Red put up a great fight and led by 2 before being outgunned by Will A’s 6 goals in a very entertaining 9-7 contest.  Their Tigers cruised in Soccer on the Bunkline pitch, 4-1.

Gray Hoopsters looked unbeatable on the upper court in a big win, then saw their Soph teammates knock down a couple of late buckets on the lower court to preserve the full point win in Sophomores Basketball.

Down but not out after Gray won Freshmen Bocce, Red’s heart began to surface just when they needed it most.

Their Freshmen duffers made short work of Gray on the SkyHills Golf Club links to start their own comeback,  It continued with a big win in Cubs/Lions Tennis on the hard courts in Sky I and the Har-Tru at Sky II.

You could really feel Red coming on when they finally broke through down at Trickey and captured their first win in the water this week.  It wasn’t easy, but Zane’s ski run was just enough to put them over the top and take Stars Waterfront.

They clawed right back in this thing with the most exciting contest of this War, witnessed by several hundred fans who packed the Arena over at the Rink.  All the day’s events were complete, including the first 2 of 3 games in Juniors Hockey.  Gray had won Game 1, despite the efforts of super netminder Thomas T, credited with at least 20+ mostly spectacular saves.  Red came back to take game 2 with a couple of goals from Jordan G and Jackson J, 2-1.  Each with a win, the Game 3 winner would decide it, setting up the scene for the most dramatic finish seen in years.

The contest remained scoreless through the first 2 periods, which only served to heighten the magnitude and importance of this game even more as the crowd had grown to capacity.   Each shot and save brought screams of support from both sides. The noise level intensified as the clock ticked on. Just a few minutes left and still neither side could finish their chances. Goaltenders Leo S and Ben W had stood tall, each withstanding a barrage of shots from all angles, including several point-blank attempts. The spectators had become so enthusiastic that crowd control from Hockey Director/Referee LJ was needed to back them away from the boards.  Then, with just under two minutes remaining, a screened slapshot from the point by Henry L slid by into the lower left corner of the net to give Gray the lead, and the jubilant Gray backers went bonkers. Less than a minute later, Red answered when Teddy dug the puck out of the corner and fed the slot where Jake M snapped a one-timer into the back of the net, sending the frantic Red fans into a frenzy.  A tie looked inevitable.  But less than :20 seconds later, Jake once again hit the net, this time unassisted, setting off an emotional celebration explosion to win it for Red, 2-1.  You’d have thought they had just won the Stanley Cup, only better!  Red had indeed come back to win the afternoon and was very much right back in it. So on we go….

A much needed respite from the Red and Gray activities of the day brought everyone together in front of the Rec Hall stage tonight for this summer’s second theatrical production – “Peter Pan”.  The cast, crew, set/tech team and directors did a remarkable job.  What’s most impressive about these actors was how on earth they had time to learn their lines in between days packed with sports.  And by “days” we really mean two weeks to put the whole show together.  How fortunate Skylemar is to have the best drama director in the world, Suzie.  She’s magical, and can even make Peter Pan fly (with a little help from Noah, Henry, Dut and G).

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Color War Day 2

The boys, rested and ready after Opening Day’s whirlwind of PM activity, awakened to a glorious, bright Maine morning. Red had made an early statement, and Gray was anxious to respond.

“Gray Team to the Pine Grove, Red Team to the Mailhouse” was heard over the PA just after breakfast and regular morning bunk Inspection. Captains Harry and Will brought their troops together for this morning’s “psyche up” meetings in advance of taking the fields and courts all over camp.  Encircled by their teammates with arms linking the youngest members with their older brethren, each team’s leaders challenged their group.  For Red, an acknowledgement of their success on Day 1, but they wanted more. “Keep the pressure on!  Our opponents will not roll over!”  Gray’s message was a bit different.  “We may be down, but now it’s our time!  Let’s dig a little deeper, we can do this!”   Both urged their teammates to give it their all, to play smart and composed, to try as hard as possible, and do so with the same SkySportsmanship as they have all summer long.  Win or lose, if they gave their absolute best effort, both were confident that doing so would translate into victory. “Bring it in!” the leaders yelled as each team squeezed together with hands raised and roared – Red!  Gray! And off they went.

Gray drew closer in the morning activities. The Cubs/Lions Basketball point was decided on Sky II just over at the Gym.  Red held on to win by 3 on the upper court as Gray survived a last second shot that rolled around the rim and out at the buzzer to win by 1.  But in the Gym, Gray’s size dominated Game 3 to win the point.

On the Hejduk, the Freshmen Laxers played a very tough, hard-fought contest. Although Elliot (twice) and Myles F  (his first ever) ripped the back of the net for Gray , two goals each by James and Eli W fueled Red ‘s win, 5-3. Then came news from down at the Pond that Gray swept the Swim, Ski and Boat competition to win Juniors Waterfront.

In Sophomores Football, Sam P was a superstar today, running, passing and defending in leading Gray to victory in a high-scoring affair, 45-34.  But on the Fred Pierce Field, Red bounced back with an 8-1 win, led by Noah K and Jared F.  In Stars Tennis, Gray Stars served and volleyed their way to victory to get back on the comeback track.

The most excitement of the morning took place at the Rink, where the Tigers played a trio of games.  Matthew had a hattrick in Gray’s Game 1 dominant win before Alex S hit the net twice for Red to win Game 2. Game 3 found the rest of the campers in attendance, with all other activities completed.  The Arena was packed and loud.  Both teams had several breakaway chances to take the lead. But stellar brick-wall performances by both netminders, Spencer S for Gray and Luke P for Red thwarted every opportunity, ending in a scoreless tie to split Tigers Hockey.

As the boys headed to lunch, a bit of rest and the first Songs and Cheers rehearsal (more on that later), Gray had cut into Red’s lead.

And they kept on coming …. The afternoon results came quickly when the Gray Freshmen answered their very tough morning Lacrosse loss, making short work of the Red down at the Snow Field, 7-1 in Freshmen Soccer. The other Soccer game was played over at the Hejduk, where the Gray Stars also won 4-1.  When word came from down at Trickey that Gray had won their 4th straight Waterfront point, this time by the Tigers, it was “game on!”

The comeback seemed to continue when Max B returned the opening kick-off for an amazing TD dash, twisting and turning through the entire Red defense. But Red kept their composure, settled down and took control to win Seniors Football by a couple of touchdowns.  Gray’s momentum was stopped….at least temporarily.

A double-header in Cubs/Lions Lacrosse at Sky1 showed us once again what we have to look forward to.  The equipment itself is bigger than some of the players, but they battled on, splitting a pair of very close games.  The results of both contests remained in doubt well into the 4th quarter, exciting the kids and many of their counselors, who just love to watch these little guys compete.

In a bit of an upset on the Hejduk Diamond, Gray jumped out to an early lead, then watched it begin to evaporate as Red mounted a last inning rally.  Red went to the bullpen and found their closer when Miles M took the mound and shut the door, preserving the 6-3 win in Sophomores Baseball.

On the Hoops courts, the Juniors showed why our incredible Staff of ballers labeled them as our best Basketball Division.  Two fantastic, well-played games on the upper and lower courts put the skills of so many on display. Red won one game 35-30 as Gray took the other 31-27.  Again, we’d let the boys in the Gym settle it, where Gray won in a blowout to take Juniors Basketball.  Comeback complete and then some….

Over 20 games in a day, and there’s only a few points difference in the score.  That’s been typical of Skylemar Color War for the past 76 years.  Wondering why?  It’s because we leave the picking of the teams to the fifteen year-old Captains and their Lieutenants.  No adult involvement whatsoever.  It’s a tradition that works.

Movie night to chill out a bit before we go right back at it tomorrow. Stay tuned….

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Color War Day 1

What better way to kick off Skylemar’s 76th Color War than the Annual Red & Gray Buffet – Chef Junior and his staff put out quite a breakfast feast!  Only problem was Mother Nature did not cooperate, dumping a steady rain through mid-morning, delaying the actual start of Color War. Barney quickly created a cool morning of inside fun at the Gym, Lodge, Pavilion and Rec Hall for all, while Shep, Nick and George huddled for what they hoped would be our last weather-related schedule adjustment of the summer.

The morning washout only served to build the excitement to get us going even more. In an effort to recover what the rain delayed, Shep jam-packed the afternoon with a double-dose of activities for each Division, set to begin just after lunch.  The rain was gone, and a beautiful afternoon was in store.

For the past 75 years, the teams would first meet separately, then march down to the historic Fred Pierce Field for our opening Color War event, the Stars Softball game. This time, all headed there directly from lunch, each gathering as a full team for the very first time, ready for the official start.  The buzz was electric with anticipation.  Red and Gray spirit filled the air!

Shep called Captains Harry and Will to the field for pre-game instructions, then quieted the crowd and bellowed, “Play Ball”, as the teams took the field.   All would watch the first inning together, but not before the ceremonial first pitch.  This year a perfect strike was thrown by Lillie, our super terrific Director of Yellowhorn.

Both teams then headed out to venues all over camp, from the Waterfront to Sky II and everywhere in between.  Hockey, Tennis, Golf and Bocce, Lacrosse, Football, Basketball, Softball, Baseball and Soccer on land, and Swimming, Boating and Skiing at the Waterfront.  It’s a wonder how we got it all in, especially with the amount of great action and close contests. Here’s what happened today:

Due to the time constraint of our double-headers of action, Stars Softball ended in a tie as Gray erased a 3-run deficit with a late rally, giving each team a half point.  The extra rest was needed though, when they moved to the Bunkline gridiron for a fantastic Stars Football game.  A very tight game throughout, Nick N stepped in at QB to give Gray a boost with his arm to help keep Gray close as a growing number of spectators had surrounded the field after their own contests had completed. The game was tied with the clock winding down when one Will hit the other, connecting on a Red TD bomb to take the lead with only 13 seconds remaining.  Gray moved the ensuing possession to the Red 10-yard line in two quick plays and  had a chance to tie it with one play left … only to see their potential game-tying completion ruled out of bounds at the back of the end zone, as Red held on to win Stars Football.

The Seniors afternoon started down at Trickey, where Gray dominated the Swim and Kayak portion to win Waterfront. They then went over to the front side of camp for Golf and Bocce. On the Links, three wins for each team in six well-played matches split the Golf point, then Red held off a late Gray rally in the Garden to win Bocce.

The Juniors traveled over to Sky II for a couple of games on the Hejduk Field. In Soccer, goalkeeper TI was great in Gray’s  3-0 victory.   After a short break, the players donned the Lax pads and helmets for a nip and tuck battle that ended in a 6-6 tie, splitting the Lacrosse point.  Joaquin hit the back of the net three times in the first half for Red, and Alan G scored a goal in both games.

The Sophomores began their activities on the Golf course, where Red had just too much talent and easily secured the Golf point, while their Bocce players also proved to be quite adept on the Lawn in winning Bocce as well.  They then moved over to the Rink for a pair of games and showed off some of the best Hockey played this year.  In Game 1, Pedro was an impenetrable netminder in a hard fought 1-0 victory for Gray (Enric had the lone tally).  Game 2 was scoreless into the last period until the teams scored four times (2 by each team), including a late goal by Red to forge a 2-2 tie – but not enough to keep Gray from winning the Sophomores Hockey point.

The Freshmen played 2 very close games on the Hoops courts.  On the upper court, Red thwarted a late Gray comeback effort to win by a bucket in a thrilling finish.  Red teammates held on for a 6-point win on the lower court too, winning the Basketball point.  A short time later on the Tennis courts on both sides of camp, an outstanding performance from Ari F highlighted the Skills Competition (8 of 10 serves hit the right spot) and helped Red to win Freshmen Tennis as well.

The Tigers’ day found them playing two Football games first before moving down to the Freddie Pierce for their Baseball game.  On the Rec Hall field, both Spencer O and CJ had a pick-6 for their teams, but Red scored 2 late TDs to win 31-26.  It was a different story on the Bunkline field where Elijah and Hunter ran all over the Gray in Red’s dominant win, splitting the Tigers Football point.  Then Max F was unhittable, combining with Lionel in pitching Red to a 4-0 shutout in Tigers Baseball.

Our youngest Division for Color War combines the Cubs/Lions into one group (Bunks 1-7), and somehow, they always seem to provide us with the most excitement and attract the largest crowds of wildly cheering spectators. They first played three Hockey games in the Rink.  The first game ended deadlocked at 1 (Henry M and Federico lit the lamp) as the crowd around the arena had grown quite vocal with older teammates intent on cheering them on. Games 2 and 3 saw each team collect a shutout win to split the Hockey point.

After a quick change, the boys headed down to Trickey.  The Waterfront point is decided by winning at least two of the 3 elements: Swimming, Kayaking and Skiing.  After Gray had won the Swim Meet, Red responded by winning the closest Kayak dual in Skylemar history.  A pair of races against your opponents and the clock – the two times are then combined to determine the winner.  Red won by less than 1 second, sending the group over to the Ski dock to decide it.  The decibel level reached by screaming 7-9 year-olds reverberated up the hill, until Eli B crossed the wake enough times on his final run to win Waterfront for Gray. You just gotta love these little guys, many tasting this kind of spirited competition for the very first time.

What an awesome afternoon!  The day’s activities were in the books.  Well almost…

After a well-deserved cookout dinner (and showers before and after for all), there was still one event left to play – our traditional 1st night Evening Activity.  The Ping Pong Tourney always closes Day 1, and with one point left to be decided, the players took to the tables under the Pavilion lights, encompassed by their teammates.  It would take winning 11 of the 21 matches to win, and it took a few hours to decide it.  Red won the point and will sleep on a very slight lead.

Whew! It’s only Day 1. Lots more to come!

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Scouting Day

Before it begins, Color War is sort of in the genre of professional sports. The guys talk about what they would do if they were Captain, just like sports pundits talk about coaches.   As people do with a fantasy sports league, the boys “practice” Color War.  They do mock drafts and talk about who should be “first pick” and so on.  It isn’t done in an unkind way – it’s just sort of factual when it comes to sports.

So please note:  Just like with professional sports, their predictions mean absolutely nothing.

Here’s how it went ….

The kids elected the Captains, all votes being equal — check.

The Captains selected the rest of their Lieutenants today, two in each Division — check.

Like with any competition, the goal is to win.  The two Captains and their lieutenants spent the day preparing for tonight’s draft.  In making their selections, they would  consider the factors that are most important to them.  It could be athletic ability, leadership strength and so on.

After Taps tonight, Shep supervised the actual draft itself.  Only the Captains, four Stars Lieutenants, Nick and Shep were present.  Again, the Captains based their selections on whatever they believe is important for a winning team.  For instance, they may have considered strength for Tugs, ability to sing for Songs & Cheers, leadership skills for the team, and athleticism.

The process took hours  — going through each Division, one by one, back and forth, until  all participants had been drafted.  By the time the teams were finalized, just about every camper was asleep.  That’s when “the pinning” happened.

It’s a magical moment when each boy awakens a bit earlier than usual, probably at sunrise  Pinned to their pillow is either a Red or Gray ribbon, signifying what team they’re on.  Some tried to stay up to catch the team leaders in the act, but like with the Tooth Fairy, most understand that the best plan was to just go to sleep.

Skylemar’s Color War is about far more than just competitive fun.  There’s lots of learning that goes on.  You learn how to win and lose with honor, how to bounce back when things don’t go your way, and how great it feels to give it your very best.

Perhaps the most important lesson to learn from Color War is this:  You don’t need a title to be the leader of a team.  In fact, as we know from politics and the workplace, sometimes a title can have little to do with leadership ability.  For example, a President is as strong as his Cabinet.  A CEO is as successful as the VP’s who’ve been  hired.

For the most part, the guys here realize this.  They understand what it means to do the right thing when nobody’s looking.  Certainly some were disappointed when their name wasn’t called out for Captain or Lieutenant.  Nevertheless, they cheered for the ones who were selected.  They’re excited for tomorrow morning and look forward to playing with all their heart for either the Red or the Gray.

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Election 2024

It was a fairly typical sweltering hot day in the 04055 — lots of waterfront action and shortened periods with plenty of shade time.  The sprinklers were on (today they were elephants), and refreshing treats were served. Lemon Sticks are an annual popular surprise here.  It’s half a lemon with a soft peppermint stick in the middle as a “straw”.  Peppermint and lemon juice make a great combo.

It was the kinda day best suited for taking it slow, playing some board games and maybe sipping on a cold drink.  When life gives you lemons, make lemonade…so we did.  We had a case of them, so Lillie and Myke shook up some delicious ice-cold cupfuls.

Sky II Lobster Lunch today, over at the Lodge.  There were big red lobsters, corn on the cob, chicken, salads and lots more.  It’s something that the oldest of camp really look forward to.

What made today different is that it’s actually one of the most important of the entire year.  If you ever went to Skylemar, then you’d know what we mean.  Just after 7th period was what we’ve been chanting about for days —

COLOR WAR ELECTIONS 2024!

24 candidates in the Stars Division, each of the highest integrity… experienced, honest, intelligent, fair, compassionate and likable.  If only our country had options like these!

Here’s how it happened…

We sat by Bunk in our most sacred space, the Rec Hall.  This “house” holds the greatest guys in the whole wide world, as well as their amazing counselors.

Shep explained how our tradition holds that the participants in Color War are the ones to decide who leads both the Red and Gray teams.  Each camper has two votes by secret ballot.

Skylemar’s Color War is based on the spirit of fair play and friendship.  It’s perhaps one of the few times you’ll be competing hard both with and against those who you truly care about.

All competition happens outside of the cabin.  Because the Captains draft by Division, it’s possible that brothers and close friends are on different teams.  There could be one camper in a bunk on one team while the rest are on the other.  It’s not an issue, because our Color War is kept out of the bunk.

Color War is the perfect opportunity to demonstrate Cool2Care.  It’s natural to be happy when you win and disappointed when you lose, but the key is to not overreact.  It’s fine to share your emotions, until you react so much that it affects someone else’s fun.

Shep explained that tonight we’ll be electing our two Captains.  Each camper’s vote carries the same weight.  He asked all former Captains from years past in the room to stand.  Only a couple did so.  Then he asked all who were on the ballot but did not become Captain to stand.  Many did so.  “This”, Shep announced, ”is your Skylemar honor roll”.

Those on the ballot voted first, then headed out to the Garden Cabin so the rest of camp could vote secretly.  Once they left, each bunk was called to the stage where every camper wrote two names on a slip of paper,  then dropped his ballot into the white pickle box.

After all had voted, Shep read the names on each ballot, one-by-one aloud.  One more than half the total number of Color War participants was needed to win.  Before long (in fact, it was the shortest Election in Skylemar history), we had our two Captains – Harry and Will Snyder.  As each ran inside, he was mobbed by adoring fans.

It was also the first time in our history that identical twins were elected.  Skylemar campers since the age of 8, we know that Will and Harry will be phenomenal leaders.  And we’re confident that their wonderful mother in heaven is beaming with pride.

As the Stars all returned inside the Rec Hall, they moved to the back and “chained it up” (linking arms).  The coin flips that followed determined the choice of color (Will is Red, Harry is Gray) as well as the order for selecting their Stars Lieutenants.  Red chose Zane Black and Carson Ray while Gray selected Cosme and Jared Rosenblatt to help lead their teams.

It felt like there was a little less disappointment in the air on the part of the other Stars this year as compared to others. Of course, some had hopes that they would be chosen as Captain or a Lieutenant.  But it’s hard to dispute the leadership potential of Harry and Will, and every Star will be proud to be on either team.  After all, it’s the players who make it happen.

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Talents, Trips and 1,000 Lengths

The Stars trip to Quebec was a tremendous success.  There’s nothing like going to a new country with 24 of your closest friends for a few days.  This is a trip that we’ve been taking for over 70 summers, and it never disappoints.

They saw the sights, shopped, ate, laughed and had adventures to remember forever.  Many thanks to the staff who chaperoned this 15-year-old crew. Those of all ages were fantastic to be with.

Way to go, Bunks 16, 17 and 18.  They spent the morning volunteering at the Bridgton Hospital.  The Hospital has a vegetable garden that was in need of some TLC.  We’re especially grateful for the Bridgton Hospital and try to do whatever we can to support their staff.  They always take great care of those from Camp Skylemar.

Sebago Lake State Park and ice cream for the Cubs!  Ice Skating for Bunks 11-15.   Both were ideal excursions for such a hot day.

Lots of action at Trickey Pond all day long.  Most exciting was celebrating Ethan K (Bunk 17) beating the Skylemar record for most laps swam in a season.  He swam over 1,000 laps (1008 to be exact) which equals 14 miles!  He had the crowd both in and out of the water cheering him on.

Those playing in the Skylemar Tennis Grand Slam did so despite the hot sun and humid air. U10 finished up this morning because the rain cut things short yesterday. In the quarters, both Max F and Federico saved match points against each other in the tiebreaker before Federico prevailed, then advanced to the final with a hard-fought semi win.  But in the final, Diego (Bunk 8) proved he’s our top 10U players with his victory. The 14U Tourney began (and ended) today and saw the most evenly played matches thus far.  However, Nate A swept through his side of the draw, then finished off the final in convincing fashion to claim the title.

Talent Show Part 2 tonight… lots of fun but s-o-o-o much different than the first.

If you recall, the first one was during Week 1 of camp.  That’s when we were in the getting-comfortable part of the season, and it took bravery to get on the stage for the first time.

Five weeks later it’s more like a bunch of brothers performing in their own back yard.  Even the guys who’ve only been here a couple of weeks jumped right in.  No one was nervous, and no one thought twice about being in front of the group.  In fact, there were so many interested in participating that Suzie had to put a cap on it — 34 acts… it was a long one!

Lots of group skits, where they ended up cracking up.  Lots of sports tricks (soccer, lax, etc.) where mostly, they ended up cracking up.  Good old magic tricks, burping, screaming, and regular older-kid silly stuff that they thought was hysterical.  Max A drank 4 cups of water.  Grady and Dash touched their noses with their tongues.

There was some real talent of course.  Simon recited the digits of Pi.  The crowd was blown away, and he won a staff shirt.  Some of the guys sang songs which was great, and several played the piano or guitar.  Best pianist is Asher for sure.  He’s truly talented.

We love both Talent Shows, but this one was especially heart-warming.  You could feel the strong connection between all of us.  That’s what family’s about.

 

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Good Times Outside & In

Wild Game Hunt last night!

That’s when the counselors hide in crazy places (like trees) and the kids have to find them.  Each counselor is worth points, and the Division who finds the most wins.  Can’t decide who loves this more – the counselors who dress up in wild game costumes and hide, or the camper “hunters” who find their favorite animals.

The Freshman Division headed to New Hampshire to the Cranmore Mountain Adventure Park.  They took the quad lift up the mountain for some spectacular views.  After lunch (you guessed it…chicken tenders) it was time for Bungee Trampolining.  That’s when you put on a harness and jump super high.

Summer Tubing!  It’s just like snow tubing with water instead of the white stuff.  The Mountain Coaster was lots of fun too.  Each person had their own yellow car and could go down the track at whatever speed they wished.

Spyder Mountain was a mesh maze that you climbed through.  The Soaring Eagle was a mountain zip line ride.  There was a Giant Swing like we have at camp, plus inflatable bounce houses.  Best part of the trip for Leader DT was all the compliments he got from total strangers on our manners.

Four vans returned the Juniors back to camp, safe and sound.  They’ve been gone the past couple of days for their trip to Acadia National Park.

First stop was Fort Knox and Penobscot Narrows Observatory.  Fort Knox is an interesting piece of history, which protected the state in the 1800’s.  The Penobscot Narrows is the tallest publicly accessible observatory at 440’.  Inside was a 360-degree view of the river and the Maine countryside.

After a picnic lunch, they headed to Sand Beach inside Acadia.  Most took the plunge in the chilly Atlantic Ocean.  Back at the campground, they made chicken quesadillas and roasted marshmallows for s’mores.  A representative from each of the four vans gave an oral argument as to why their van was “the most lit”.  Jonny H was the winner, based on his enthusiasm and his description of the diverse music selection.

Homemade egg sandwiches were the way to start the morning, and then off they went to hike Beech Mountain.  Leaders of the hike who led the way and encouraged all were Sebastian, Reed, Archie, Jonny H, Isaiah L and Joaquin.

The surprise stop on the way home was celebrated by all… Chick-fil-A.  What did the world do before the invention of chicken tenders?

They saw the movie “Twisters”, wrote a note of gratitude to a Skylemar role model, and headed for the 04055.  It’s good to have these guys back… way too quiet without them.

Here at camp we had a rainy afternoon.  It was kinda nice for a change.  Some watched the Olympic Basketball game, while others had a Gym/Lodge flip — part of the time you played dodgeball, and part of the time you played the games in the Lodge.

The Freshmen had the Catapult Challenge.  Each group of 3-4 was given popsicle sticks, rubber bands, spoons and just a tiny bit of tape.  Then it was up to them to build a catapult that could launch a ping pong ball the farthest — lots of future engineers in our house.

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A Day at Work

It’s an interesting question to ask a camper.  What does Arleen do all day?  Most frequent response: “She works.”

A more elaborate answer: “She works on stuff.”

The most specific answer: “She does papers.”

Favorite answer: “She walks around and says hi to people.”

Truth is, she tries to “do papers”, but sometimes accidentally pays Sysco $6,000 instead of $600 because some tears need to be dried, the kitchen says that the yogurt didn’t come in, a counselor’s car needs a jump start, the guys in the Sophomore Division started a water balloon fight while Myke’s on his day off, and some little guys waiting for the shower in her office want to know if she’ll play Uno with them.

You might say she’s the person behind the curtain who drives the engine of the Skylemar machine.   Except that her curtain is wide open, with an office that overflows with kids, counselors and dogs.

She does a lot of problem solving and “behind the back door” stuff.  Typically the goal is to look into an issue without anyone knowing who told her about it.

240 boys + 140 staff = a minimum of 76 mini kerfuffles to solve each day.

This summer marks 42 years of her loving every minute on the job, which means she prefers to not take a day off.  Relaxing is much too stressful.  So is sleeping, as you may have guessed from the timing of Blog posts.

They say it takes 10 years to be an expert, so that she is, four times over, when it comes to boys.  No expert has it right all the time, but here are some random observations pertaining to boys and parenting from just this week alone:

  • Perhaps we should replace the phrase “I just want him to be happy” with “I just want him to decide to be happy”.  Happiness isn’t a gift or reward.  It’s a decision that comes from within.
  • When it comes to big decisions, go ahead and make them.  It takes a huge load off your son.  It gives him someone other than himself to blame if things don’t go as he had hoped.
  • Practice really does make a difference in getting things right.  It’s not easy being a kid or teen.  Then again, it’s not easy being an adult.  Give your son the opportunity to practice “life”.  Let him share with you his challenges, but instead of solving, ask him what he can do about it.
  • Boys need something to “hate”, although the word is stronger than the feeling.  In fact, all people do. Best to make it something inconsequential, like making a bed, getting a haircut or wearing socks.
  • Boys like percentages.  If he complains about one person in his bunk, but really likes the other six, point out that 85% is a whole lot better than 15%.
  • Best advice to a parent trying to arrange playdates for a 6th grader coming to camp for the first time: “Mom, can I please pick my own friends?”
  • Best athletic advice a parent can give their son: “Be the hardest worker and the one having the most fun.“ Joel Shinofield
  • A glimpse into the thought process of an 8-year-old boy explaining why he hit another: “He said something mean to me, so I wanted him to feel like I did”.

And finally:

  • Love your job… whatever it is.  Love people… whoever they are.  Your son will follow the leader.
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In The Moment

Rain came today, and then went, and then came back, and then went again.  That meant flip-flopping between rainy day and regular schedules.  Of course there’s nothing wrong with playing in a drizzle, but we do need to be mindful of what might be slippery.  We subbed in Pickleball, Golf, Ping Pong, Chilltop and giant bubble-making at Yellowhorn.

The weather was actually fine for the Seniors, who had an overnight trip to Franconia Notch, New Hampshire.  They hiked the trail to Lonesome Lake, set in the valley of the Presidential Range of the White Mountains.

It was a two-hour trek, so there was time for leadership positions to be rotated.  The person in the front carried the lifeguard tube, and he set the pace for the group.  The person in the back carried the football and was responsible for encouraging and keeping tabs on everyone.

At the top, they went for a dip in the frigid cold lake (hence the lifeguard tube).  They talked about the importance of slowing down in life, as opposed to scrolling through it.  Everyone got the message and took in the moment.

They spent the night in the AMC hut.  It’s one of eight rustic lodges run by the Appalachian Mountain Club, that provides hikers with a hearty meal and an overnight stay.  The AMC “Croo”, as the staff is called, prepared a dinner of stuffed shells, vegetables, focaccia bread and chocolate cake.  Somehow even the pickiest of eaters are satisfied with whatever is prepared when it’s served in the Hut.

Phyllis, a 74-year-old naturalist, befriended the boys and told tales of hiking the entire Appalachian Trail twice, as well as the Pacific Crest Trail.  Our guys showed genuine interest and respect for her and asked lots of good questions.

After a hearty breakfast, and a hike around the perimeter of the lake, they paused for some writing.  They wrote three letters:  One to their future self, which they’ll get next year on the last day of camp; one to someone who gave them the opportunity to be at Skylemar; and one to someone who made their Skylemar experience special.

Once down the mountain, they had a Chipotle picnic in a park, where they invented a game called Ultimate Football Basketball.  They stopped for ice cream, and then home sweet home.   It sure felt good to be back in their own bed.

Meanwhile…

The Cubs had a trip of their own this afternoon.  They went to the Gem and Mineral Museum in Bethel, Maine.  The guided tour was exceptional, especially because the founder of the museum was there, in-person.  Upstairs was a world-renowned collection of meteorites, and in the basement, a research facility.  On the floors in between were fascinating hands-on displays of assorted gems and minerals, many of which came from South Africa.  This was a celebrity moment for camper Anton, because he’s from South Africa too.

Especially memorable was that each boy got to hold a piece of the Moon as well as Mars.  As a matter of fact, this museum is the only place in the world where you can touch both of them at the same time.

The boys were so into the gems that they didn’t want to leave.  That meant that they had to skip stopping for ice cream on the way home.  We owe them one.

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You just gotta love a Super Awesome Game Show, especially when Suzie, Barney and Mason are in charge.  It’s a divisional show-down, with lights, music and plenty of action.

Cubs, Lions, Tigers, Freshmen, Sophomores and Juniors competed against each other, in assorted stunt activities as well as trivia.   It was a totally fair game no matter how old you were, because let’s face it, there’s some things that little guys just do better.  Take hula hooping for example.  Plus, cheering for your counselors can be extra loud no matter how old you are.

But sometimes you just can’t tell who will win.  Counselors had to do squats for as long as they could, with a camper on their back.  You’d think that the winner would have a 45-pounder on him.  But tonight it was golf counselor Cooper weighted down with a thirteen-year-old Archie that took first place.

Extra smart in the trivia sections about geography and animals were Elijah E, Theo R, Bernie, Sawyer, Sam P and Lionel.  Brooks, Luke Y and Royal knew the most about Film and TV.

The Simon Says battle got down to two experts.  It was Grady vs Jacob W for the longest time, until one little, tiny slip and… Grady wins!

Counselors were great sports about the stunts, and all were willing to get dirty.  For example, the Egg Toss.  It’s crazy how far athletes can toss an egg and catch it — until one slight slip-up and…splat!

Highlight was the Beauty Parlor.  Each Division sent three campers and one counselor to the stage.  With a can of shaving cream, the kids had to give their counselor a new hair style… several mohawks appeared.

Earlier today was Clinic Sign-ups.  Commercials were at their best because this is actually the last week. Lots of Color War prep was offered.  Here’s the roster:

Waterskiing is for those who want to cross the wake.  Record holder is Tomas Z who crossed 184 wakes in 60 seconds.

Tennis will work on topspin, slice and backspin.  Lots of tricks will be shared at Lax.  They’ll learn to go behind-the-back and around-the-world, get better at coming up with ground balls and use the radar gun too.

The Vikings came to introduce Shep’s “Viking Voyage” for reading.  Sail Dock offered the last chance to learn to sail.  “Perfect Your Putt” at golf, “Cardio Football” out front, “Action & Skill” week at Hoops.  “Hockey Warriors” will work on in-game strategies.  Track & Field will cover the long jump, shot put and running a dash.

Soccer will cover it all.  SkyRopes will teach you anything and everything at the course.  “Robinhood Archery” and “Professor Good Coach Baseball” are other options.  The Olympic Training Center will teach about muscles —  lengthening, isolating and contracting.

Challenge the records at H2O’s “Olympic Time Trials” or “Be the Face” of Sky SportsCenter.  Last but very important – “Props & Scenery” for those who want to help Suzie with all that’s needed to make “Peter Pan” come alive.

We love all the choices

 

 

 

 

 

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