Bittersweet, they call it. One part terribly sad, and another part wonderfully happy. August 5 is that kind of day at Camp Skylemar.
After a week of Color War intensity, followed by traditional end-of-season Evening Activities that run way too late, the boys are exhausted. Last night’s Final Banquet, one of the most loved nights of the year, was especially memorable. Without being asked to do so, the boys “dress up”, which for the most part means a polo shirt with whatever on the bottom, that makes for a very handsome camp. The food is what they like best – burgers, barbecue chicken, corn on the cob, Caesar salad and brownie sundaes.
Speeches, awards, camp songs, laughter and comradeship make the Banquet special. The very best part is “Retrospect”. It’s a multi-media show projected on a 10’ foot tall screen, which highlights the entire summer. It’s produced by Skylemar’s best friend, alum Bruce Finkelstein. Bruce, along with his photography and video crew (Shannon, Leslie, Rachel, Nate, Josh, Bo and Joe) spend weeks putting the presentation together. You’ll be able to see a version online, but there’s nothing like watching it in the Rec Hall. 350 people cheering as they watch those they love on the screen makes for a one-of-a-kind experience. The standing ovation given at the end said it all.
As for this morning…it was one of those times which words can’t do justice. Even the most masculine, no matter how old or reserved, could not hold back tears. Campers and counselors from across the country and abroad, who never would have met each other if it wasn’t for our little slice of heaven here in Naples, Maine, were heartbroken to say goodbye to each other. At the risk of invading their privacy, these photos will give you an inkling of what the best men are made of.
Our heart overflows with love for these guys, and we are forever grateful to you for sharing them and for entrusting us with their care. There is no greater gift than this honor. It is you, our amazing parents, who make the Skylemar machine possible not only for your own child, but for others less fortunate as well. We are thankful that you’re part of our team who demonstrates that we can make a positive difference in the world, one kid at a time.
A special heartfelt thank you goes out to our loyal and dependable staff members, who have chosen to be a part of our world. Because we are surrounded by people who care, we are the richest in the world. Leslie, creator of our most soulful photos, and Aaron, this director’s trusty editor amongst other things, are two who work only for smiles. Speaking of Aaron, you didn’t really think I knew how to write like a sports commentator, did you?
Now that all are at least up in the air on their way home (except for Logan who had to turn around until tomorrow), is the sweet part of the day. We know that the joy each parent and their son feel as they embrace for the first time in a while is the greatest of all. No doubt, Skylemar boys have won the jackpot with parents like you.
Don’t be surprised if he sleeps for three days, lays on the sofa and doesn’t say much. Just give him some time and the stories will flow. When it comes to closing the toilet seat and such, he might need a reminder that he’s no longer in an all-boy world. But we’re confident he will remember manners and kindness, and certainly how to make his own bed.
We know you will, but just can’t help but say it: Take care of him for us. We miss him already.
