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Last night, while all were asleep, the Captains drafted the Color War teams for 2022.  It’s a complex and strategic process, with intentional decisions made with one goal in mind…to win. Commissioner Shep oversees, but he plays no role in the selections.

Following the Draft, the magic happened.  Long past midnight, the Captains and their assistants “pinned” the pillows of their teammates with the appropriately-colored ribbon.  The significance of this tiny slice of Red or Gray fabric is something that only a Skylemar camper or alum truly understands.

A few tried to stay up, but like with the Tooth Fairy, most knew it wise to go to sleep.  That’s because in the morning, there’s a fantastic surprise to find.

Beginning at sunrise we heard them shouting, “I’m on Red!”, “I’m on Gray!”, “What team are you on?” — over and over and over… as energetic and exciting as the first day of camp, and way before reveille had sounded.

Red & Gray Breakfast Buffet – the meal everyone’s been waiting for all summer!  The Sky Chefs and their assistants put on a huge spread of eggs, bacon, sausage, French toast sticks, hash browns, muffins, cinnamon rolls, bagels, and an enormous fresh-cut fruit salad.   It’s a delicious way to kick off Color War 2022!

After breakfast and the usual morning inspection, and with another spectacular Maine weather day in store… “Gray Team to the Mail House, Red Team to the Pine Grove” – the anticipated call for the official opening finally came.  The teams gathered for the first of several pre-session “psych up” meetings, where each team surrounded its leaders.  Inside the circles, words and cheers of inspiration and encouragement came pouring out of each Captain and his Stars support staff before all headed down to the Fred Pierce Field, home to the traditional opening event, the Stars Softball game.

After a few formalities, Umpire Shep bellowed “Play Ball!” as Red took the field (Chilltop Director Mary Beth threw the ceremonial first pitch).  It didn’t take long for Gray to jump out front when 3^rd hitter Soren tattooed the first pitch he saw high into the left center field trees with a man on for a quick 2-0 lead.  In the bottom half though, Red’s Isaac G led off with a homer of his own before Captain Jack blasted one well up in the treetops behind the left field fence to tie it up 2-2.  Eventually Red pulled away for an 11-5 victory, although Caleb W also went deep for Gray. After the first inning was complete, all participants scattered to venues all over camp to begin the 5 days of Red v Gray Divisional play.

The Cubs had a pair of games at the Hockey courts – James T scored twice in a 3-0 win in one game, while Alex K tallied the lone goal for a 1-0 game 2 win, both for the Red.

Down at Trickey, the Seniors split the Boating and Skiing portions, but the Swim meet races decided the Waterfront point for Gray.

Tigers Football went to Gray as well, with Hayes doing much of the damage both running and throwing it.  However, in Sophomores Golf and Bocce, Red duffers won 5 of the 8 matches on the SkyLinks to win Golf…before Gray outlasted Red in a Bocce match that went back and forth till the end.

The Freshmen played a Basketball triple-header.  Each team won a game played on the Sky I Hoops courts (JJ was terrific in one and Coop E starred in the other), but Red survived a Game 3 thriller in the gym to win Frosh Basketball, the difference being a half-court, 3-point field goal by Ben W…Wow!

The Soccer action over at the Hejduk was as impressive as we’ve seen all summer.  In a pair of Juniors contests, Red stormed back from 3-1 halftime deficit to win the first game 5-3 in an extremely well-played match; then Gray answered back when Ben G provided all the offense needed in a hard-fought 1-0 victory.

The boys then broke for lunch with Red on top, and after a much-needed rest hour, the afternoon session moved them had them moving again.

Gray might be establishing some control down at the Waterfront as their Cubs won Gray’s second point of the day there. After Red won the Swim Meet part and Gray took the Kayak Races, it took Jacob W’s winning ski run to decide it.

Gray followed up with wins in both Seniors Golf and Bocce to draw even.  And then they took the lead with a win in the first of two Juniors Lax games over at Sky II, where twins Harry and Will showed their overall lacrosse prowess in all facets of the game.  But Red quickly responded in a low scoring, defensive battle to win Game 2 and split Juniors Lacrosse.

Orlando pitched the Gray to a 4-1 victory in Tigers Baseball on the Freddie Pierce with Jagger providing the key, late inning hit to break a 1-1 deadlock.  On the Hockey courts, Soph Will O scored a hat-trick as Gray cruised to a 5-1 win in the first of 3 games.  Then, after the teams dueled to a scoreless tie in the 2^nd, Red won Game 3 to split Sophomores Hockey as well.

Each team won a Stars football game too.  Red came from behind to win on the Bunkline field, but Malibu threw for 6 TDs and ran for a few more to outlast Red in a high-scoring affair on the Rec Hall gridiron.

And finally, the most spirited contest of the day came from the Sky 2 Tennis courts of all places. After the Freshmen had split the singles and doubles matches over at Sky I, all hustled over to watch the Skills competition on the Har-Tru courts at Sky 2 to decide it.  All could hear the cheers from everywhere as the Red crowd erupted when Tennis Director Ted announced the final results in their favor.

Tonight’s annual Ping Pong competition was still left to be played. An exciting evening under the Pavilion lights surrounded by spectators and a wonderful, upbeat but casual vibe felt in the surrounding casual environment (think music, Garden games, and great camaraderie from both sides).  Red won some early matches to surge ahead, and eventually held on to win the Ping Pong point.

Great plays, great action and excitement, great competitive spirit and great fun.  Incredibly, after all that activity, we’re deadlocked, the score is tied, dead even….and this was only Day 1!

This goes out to the concerned parents of the Stars who did not get elected Captain:

And also…

To the parents of any camper who has ever experienced a blow of disappointment, especially when you think he didn’t deserve it:

Your son is good to go, and he’s better for the experience in the long run.   Just ask anyone of the 1,500 grown men on our alumni roster who were not selected.

Here’s what happened last night after the Captains were congratulated…

The 21 Stars who didn’t get chosen were bummed.  A couple were stunned or maybe even angry – they were supposed to win.  A few were heart broken, at least for now.   Some were relieved that the decision was over with.

As they shuffled in, it was a round of “bro hugs” (dap in front + quick embrace) for all.   The 223 brothers and 131 staff members surrounded them with love, with most having at least some understanding of how it might feel when things don’t go your way at an important time.  The Stars who were disappointed swallowed back tears and carried on with carrying on.

They stayed to clean up the room, carrying benches and picking up trash.  Physical activity, especially when you can keep your eyes down, is helpful when you need to sort out emotions.

Heading back to Sky II, many walked together arm-and-arm.  They laughed and joked, added a bit of teenage sarcasm, and perhaps talked about things going as expected or conversely how they should have gone.

Bottom line…they bounced back.

Psychologists call it a “coping mechanism”.  The writers of articles on parenting call it “resilience”.  We look at as “learning to play the cards that you’re dealt”.

We’re never too old or young for exercising our “disappointment muscle”.

Most importantly, those who were not elected will learn a powerful life-lesson over the next 5 days.

That is…You don’t need a title to be a leader.

Think about it.  In politics, it’s often the cabinet members and staff who make it happen.  In the workplace, sometimes the CEO or chairperson is more of a figurehead than a motivator.  In sports, the unsung hero is just about always the most valuable on the team.

Today at lunch the Captains will announce who they’ve selected as Lieutenants for each Division.  Again, some boys will be disappointed.  The adults watching will cringe when the same top athletes who were chosen last year get picked again.  Why not give someone else a chance, we’ll wonder?  We will be the ones disappointed when we believe that a poor decision was made by the Captains.

Then we remember…you don’t need a title to be the leader of the team.

Countdown complete.  The day was finally here!

There was a buzz of excitement in all directions.  Everywhere you turned someone was talking about it… the special event they’ve been waiting for all summer.

At Skylemar, it’s bigger than any mayoral, gubernatorial or presidential one — no electoral college and no party affiliation.  It’s democracy as it should be.  Just plain and simple — vote for two young men in the Stars Division who will lead Skylemar in a positive way.

It’s Color War Elections 2022!

This year, 23 outstanding candidates on the ballot, every one fully qualified for this leadership position.  It’s the job many have dreamt about since being in Bunk 1.  Each had hope that maybe, just maybe, he’d be selected by the camper community to be the 147th or 148^th Captain of Camp Skylemar.

To ease the tension, Sky II and the JC’s had their annual Lobster Lunch at The Lodge.  It’s a happy, relaxed afternoon, that serves to remind the guys of the special bond of friendship they have together.

At 8 PM, the official time had come.  We gathered in the Rec Hall, with those on The Ballot sitting on the stage.  Each proudly wore his jersey of choice, selected especially for this evening.

Shep welcomed all to one of Skylemar’s oldest and favorite traditions.  For Skylemar’s Color War, it is important that the participants are the ones to decide who will lead them.

Shep continued to explain that Color War is unique from any highly competitive experience that the boys will have throughout their lives — and that’s because they will compete with and against those who they truly care for,  including the “brothers” they’ve been living with….

Therefore, everything competitive in Color War happens outside of the bunk and away from the picnic tables.  It’s fine for you to play your hardest and want to win, but no one needs to overreact.  Of course it’s fine to react when you win or lose, but you don’t want to overreact.  Where’s the dividing line on that?  That’s when your reaction affects someone else.

The spirit of Red and Gray comes down to fair play, friendship and kindness.

Once elected, the Captains will draft the teams.  Brothers and good friends may be on opposite teams.  It’s possible that within one cabin, there might be five guys on one team and only one on the other.  That’s what makes Color War so competitive, fun and fair – the adults have nothing to do with who’s on which team.

Shep then asked for any former Color War Captains present to please stand.  Two staff members, Dixon and Blake rose to their feet and were recognized with applause.

“Now,” Shep went on, “will all those who were on The Ballot but not elected, please stand?”  It’was quite a powerful moment when dozens around the room stood.  Point is, each year there’s a field of outstanding choices, while only two can be elected.

Turning to the great guys on the stage, Shep proclaimed — “Camp Skylemar, these are your candidates for Color War 2022!”

To begin the process, the Stars casted their secret ballots, then headed off to the seclusion of the Garden Cabin while the rest of camp continued.   Each camper wrote the names of two Stars Division candidates on the official voting paper.  The paper was then folded once and put into the ceremonial pickle pail.

To be elected, a Star needed one more than half of the constituency.  This year’s “magic number” was 113.  One by one, Shep read off each name who received a vote.  When one got to 100, the room heated up.  Closer, closer, closer…5, 4, 3, 2, 1 and —

Jack Perlman was the first elected Captain!  The boys jumped up and down, cheering wildly as they mobbed him at the door!

The crowd subsided, and the tallies continued for the second Captain until he closed in —  again, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1…

Grant Nilsen was elected next and he too was engulfed with hugs and high fives from all over as he reentered the Rec Hall as our 2nd Color War Captain.

Jack and Grant each gave a quick acceptance speech, and then the coin was flipped for color selection.  Grant won the toss and chose Gray, so Jack became Red.  The coin toss for selecting the 4 Stars Lieutenants was next, and  Jack won this one, choosing to select 1st and 4th — and with the first pick selected Bosco to help lead the Red.   Grant selecting 2nd and 3rd, chose Soren and Hunter for Gray before Jack then selected Joey to complete the process.

What a night!  Two excellent choices were made by the campers of Skylemar.  The excitement has just begun!

The Maine Wildlife Park was a fascinating place for the Freshmen to visit.  The park is home for injured and orphaned animals that game wardens have determined can’t survive in the wild.  The boys saw bear, moose, deer, cougar, lynx, coyote, bobcat, fisher and skunk.  The last one reminded us of the time Shep’s bunk got skunked.  That was an unforgettable morning.

Tigers headed to Portland for lobster fishing!  The crew on the Lucky Catch was amazing with our guys.  They taught them how to bait and toss the traps, and then how to pull in the lobsters.  The kids were mesmerized by the process and had a fantastic time.

The JC’s left at 6:30 AM and headed to Acadia National Park.  They hiked from Thunder Hole (a natural wonder where waves crash into rocks with a thunderous boom) to Sand Beach.  They spent time on Cadillac Mountain, which is the first place in the US that you can see the sunrise.  Once down, they explored the town of Bar Harbor.

An afternoon Sebago Lake State Park trip made if for an hour, and then came along the thunderstorm warning.  We didn’t want to take any chances, so left the beach and instead made some stops in the little town of Naples.  A treat from C’s Ice Cream Stand is especially delicious.  The “C” stands for Cole, the nephew of the owner who’s an awesome Skylemar camper.

The rain unfortunately stalled our 14U Tennis Camp Championship, with over 120 guys entered to play.  That’s quite a testament to Ted, the greatest Tennis Director in the world, along with his outstanding staff.  They make tennis periods exciting and fun, and tremendous improvement takes place over the summer.

The storm brought some boomers, but no issues at all.  We did have to stay in cabins for a bit, and dinner was delayed…. that just made the grilled chicken extra tasty.  Staying indoors also gave time for each bunk to work on their entry for tonight’s Evening Activity — Lip-Sync Battle.

Each cabin picked a song to perform.  We turned the Pavilion into theatre-in-the-round and laughed hysterically along with each lip-synced performance.  Tonight demonstrated good old-fashioned fun, along with counselor creativity and dedication.  It warmed the heart to see how hard these college guys and gals worked to make sure each of their kids shined in the spotlight.  Just a one-minute song, but these are the minutes of joy that count forever.

As they say, “One more day!  One more day!”.  Tomorrow it is!

No matter how much experience one has as a parent or camp director, there are always surprises.  At Skylemar, each season is unique, with new reasons to celebrate and challenges to figure out.

On the other hand, some things never change.  Kids will always want to be loved and valued, and adults will forever be frustrated that “they just don’t listen”.

Fads come and go, and we’re always surprised when some last longer than others.  Rubik’s cubes, sports trading cards and Crocs have stuck around longer than expected, while the fascination with a counselor’s cell phone has definitely dwindled.

When it comes to working with kids, we learn lessons every day.   Over the years we’ve compiled a list of random suggestions that we’re confident are good for the world of parenting.  Take ‘em or leave ‘em…

• Play and let him play. The real kind, not virtual.  Outside, creatively, traditionally.  Can’t think of much good that screens bring to the parenting table.

• Speaking of tables…have dinner together every night when you can. One meal for all, or help yourself to cereal or PB&J.  Play “roses & thorns” (name 2 good things and one not so good about the day) or something that gets everyone talking.

• Manners matter. It’s never ok to be disrespectful to anyone including siblings and you.

• Say “no”, “not now” and “let me get back to you”. They’ll still love you; we promise.

• Laugh at your mistakes together…like the time we made lemon chicken and it was too lemony.

• Talk to your kids with the lights out at bedtime. In addition to stories, it’s also a good time for “what if” scenarios for the purpose of building confidence for the day ahead.

• Simple traditions are fun. Appetizer night, a birthday sign, a secret handshake, etc.  Celebrate people!

• Remember the double standard — if you don’t want him on his screen, then put yours away too.

• Two important words that every kid should understand: “unacceptable” and “inappropriate”.  Save them for when you really need them.

• Resist the urge to help with homework or projects more than just a tiny bit. He’s the one who’s being educated, and that includes getting it wrong.

• Let them feel bored. Let them not like something.  Let them feel bad.  Kids need to know how to handle these feelings and what to do about them.

• Do community service together. It’s a wonderful thing to share.

• Kids might believe everything they hear, but that doesn’t mean we should believe everything they say.

• Forget about time limits when it comes to correction. If you decide to take something away, give it back when he’s proven that he’s ready, not for a certain amount of time.  You decide.

• The 3 steps of an apology: Feel sorry, say you’re sorry, do something to show you’re sorry.

• Say “I love you” over and over and never give up.  That’s the easiest of all.

The camp chanted at every meal…”3 more days! 3 more days!”  Tomorrow it will be two more.  Then just one.  And then…. stay tuned!

Meanwhile, it was a sparkling, sunshiny Maine day here in the 04055.  Temps were hot, but with far less humidity.

67 participants in the 16U Tennis Camp Championship!  Tennis Director Ted was thrilled with the level of play.  Outstanding players included Aaron P, Caleb W, Grant N, Jack P, Jacob R, Sam M, Cosme, Holden F, Sam D, Eli K, James E, Toby, Leo D, Gaines and Charlie F.  Bosco and Alex N met in an impressive final with Alex prevailing to become Camp Champ. The 14U tourney is set for Thursday, with nearly half the camp  signed up to compete!

Sophomores had their Bones Adventure that started with FunZ Trampoline Park in Lewiston.  After jumping for a couple of hours, they headed over to Bates College for lunch.  They had a blast scrimmaging on the football field …with big props to Max N, who won the field goal kicking contest.

The Tigers enjoyed an afternoon at Sebago Lake State Park.  The water’s shallow, so it’s perfect for tossing a ball or Frisbee.  Plus, it’s fun to be a band of brothers in public once in a while.

Back at camp there was League Hoops and just about every other sport.  The fishermen record for caught fish in a session over at the Sky II waterfront has now risen to 29!   We wonder…is the same one getting caught over and over?

Lots of interesting conversation at Gentleman’s Academy.  One of the topics covered was the difference between “bullying” vs “not nice”.  The group came to the conclusion that it’s never ok to not be nice, but it happens when you live together.  One person might let something roll off their back, while another takes “joking” personally.  Somebody might “push someone’s buttons”, which can definitely be mean.  Sometimes the person who occasionally teases gets really upset when it’s their turn to be teased.

On the other hand, “bullying” is a much bigger deal.  That’s when a person with more power targets someone weaker, over and over.   If this ever happens it’s our responsibility to stand up and set things straight, no matter where we are.

The guys also had some thoughts about screen time.  They were asked to pretend that they were in charge.  After building a daily schedule together, they decided no screen time during the week is best, unless it’s homework.  Weekends should be as much as they want, outside of sports and playing outside.  It’s always fascinating to ask them “what would you do” questions.

Seniors and Stars had a Social tonight, with real, live girls from a nearby camp.  They hung out on the Ski Dock, and those who wished went for boat rides.  From what we saw, our guys were perfect gentlemen.

It was a stormy start to the day.  After Inspection, we moved into Rainy Day Activities.  There was a Karaoke Party in the Lodge, Lego Land in the Gym, and a movie in the Rec Hall.  The oldest guys had “bunk games”, which is the code word for “sleep”.

The skies cleared by midday, just in time for our sisters at Camp Mataponi to visit.  They stayed for lunch, and their brothers gave them a tour of Skylemar.  Meanwhile, our boys with sisters at Camp Fernwood went out for ice cream.  For those of you with daughters at either of the two camps, rest assured that we found them to be beautiful and happy!

Just before dinner, long after the girls left, a giant storm blew in… lots of thunder and lightning.  In fact, the flagpole in front of the office took a direct hit.  The electricity went out, but we have a couple of giant generators that kicked on immediately.   Amazingly, the storm left as quick as it came.  We were even able to have our Talent Show outside as planned.

Like the first Talent Show, the audience was appreciative and supportive.  Everyone cheered no matter what, and there were rounds of “high fives” for all the performers.  Plus there was a prize from the Super Prize Bag for each who went on stage.

What’s different about this Talent Show is the slight shift in the vibe.  Now that we’ve been brothers for a month, no one has the slightest hesitation about performing in front of the crowd.  After all, we’re family.

Ethan V opened the show with breakdancing.  Next came Sawyer and Chase with their exercise skit.  Best part was Sawyer cracking up.  Charlie L and Wes K played a duet on the piano -“Heart & Soul”, of course.  Henry G gave us a Skylemar first… blindfolded Origami.  Cutest part was that he duct-taped the inside of his sunglasses (hopefully not Ray-Bans) so that he couldn’t see.

Carter S and Mason M wore matching Skylemar uniforms as they sang together.  They looked and sounded great.  Theo G, Atticus and Jake K mesmerized us with diabolo tricks.  Very impressive!  Isaac F asked a volunteer from the audience to give him three random words which he’d include in his freestyle rap.  Kareem gave him “hot”, “random”, and “blue”, and… he did it!

Kudos to counselor Tojo for choreographing an adorable dance for Bunk 1.  Cutest part of this one was seven-year-old Beckett saying, “We’ve got this, guys!” to his bunkmates as they headed to “the green room” (the side porch).

Cooper F, Archie, TI and Spencer B acted out a dunk contest.  Brothers Eli and Noah W sang beautifully to “What A Wonderful World”.  Jonah K and Everett played the piano beautifully, and Owen B and Lionel did a super-quick baseball handshake.

Rubik’s Cubes continue to make a showing at the Talent Show, year after year. Tonight, Dillon F  showed his Rubik’s talent, and James T played piano music in the background as Dash H and Miles B lined up the colors on their cube.

Emmett P and Elliott R did a magic trick with a disappearing rock.  Spencer S, Walker W and LT showed off some fantastic dancing.  Cole S did a stand-up comedy act.  Max P, Hayes, Orlando and Asher did lots of practicing before they performed.  They wrote and sang an original camp song, accompanied by Asher on the piano…. who then played again for JJ, who sang his own original rap.

Skylemar’s best dancer, Kyle Y-A, did the Cha Cha Slide, and the audience joined in.  Kyle always makes it look easy.

Congratulations to all our Skylemar stars.  You made us so proud!

Another undeveloped skill set, thanks to the pandemic … shopping in a real store.

Sky II had their Senior Trip today.  After several hours at a water park, they relaxed at an air-conditioned movie.  Then their wish came true…to go to Walmart.  Why Walmart, you ask?  To buy junk food of course.  It’s the kind of rule we’re willing to break for the old men of Skylemar.

But when it came time to pay, this is where we saw the deficit.  Most had no idea how to do the self-checkout.   They didn’t know that the carts are all supposed to be in a line and not a massive traffic jam.  One innocently started to walk out the door without paying.  Plus, we gave them cash to spend, and who uses that these days?   This is what happens when you’re used to cyber-shopping.  When it comes to ordering online, we bet these guys are the experts.

Back at camp, it was another half-speed day.  Each period had three water breaks, and we used record-breaking amounts of sunscreen.

Another shattered record was at SkyPines.  Bunk 5 caught 28 fish in less than two hours.  Size doesn’t count, and maybe it was actually 25.  Fisherman’s tales…

Clinic sign-ups!  This week’s offerings include Baseball “Wrap It Up”, “SkyCombine” at Football, “Cool Reading”, “Happy Gilmore” Golf Clinic, Lax Shooting, Soccer Scrimmaging, “Last Call” Ski Dock, “Emerald City” Props and Scenery, Ziplining, “The Pump Water Weights” at the Lab, “Viking Chess”, Free Swim, Tennis Tourneys, Kayaking, Hockey “Color War Prep”, Fishing and “Ball Handling” on the Hoops courts.  Decisions, decisions!

“Super Duper Game Show” for Evening Activity.  The game’s a divisional challenge, with trivia and mini games.  It’s super fun, and there are many ways that someone can shine.  Even just volunteering to be a contestant in front of the whole camp is something to be proud of.  Isaac C knew sports trivia best, and he made lots of points for the Sophomores.  Shout-out to Caleb V who knew the highest possible score in bowling — it’s 300, in case you get asked.

Here’s some more:

What’s the most-visited website in the world?  Google (Archie)

What’s the highest-grossing film of all time? Avatar (Harry S)

What’s the longest-running sitcom?  Simpsons (Nolan)

Mini games included Egg-on-Spoon Race (Dylan J), Oreo Forehead-to-Mouth Challenge (Lucas V) and a Potato Sack Race (Boden)

Best part was the finale.  Captain Game Show asked for a counselor volunteer from each division who wouldn’t mind having his hair messed up.  A counselor, plus three camper/stylists, plus a can of shaving cream.  Bet you get the picture!

We know that exercise makes us stronger.  To be a champion, you need to go the extra mile.  The very best are first to arrive at the gym, and the last to leave.  They add the extra set, the extra rep, and take the extra time.

At Skylemar, we have lots of those.  The champions are our counselors like D’Arcy and Cole, who play tennis with early risers, even though they weren’t assigned to do so.  Or QLew, who has such a positive attitude that it rubs off on others.  There’s Holly, Cory, Luci and Kristen who do everything from picking up lost & found, fixing a pair of glasses, making snow cones, to drying tears…none of which are in their job description.  Then there’s those who don’t even have an official job title, like Aaron, Bruce, and Leslie who just do whatever it takes to help camp, with asking only for smiles in return.

Physically speaking, at Skylemar we certainly see the positive effects of exercise.  Between sports all day and just walking from place to place, we watch the boys grow upwards in ways that make us proud.  Some lose weight, some gain and some stay the same, but that’s not the point.  It’s about standing up straighter and walking taller than they did the first day.

Conversely, sometimes we forget about the power of exercising the brain.  We’re not talking about Sudokus or crossword puzzles – we mean real life experiences that help boys to practice for what comes along in the future.

At camp, all is certainly not perfect.  But when little things don’t go your way it exercises the brain, which is good practice for life.  For example, suppose a boy would prefer to be in a different cabin.  Or perhaps he feels offended by what others say to him.  Or maybe he finds certain kids incredibly annoying.  If we solve it for him by simply removing him from the situation, he never learns how to correct, adjust, understand and handle stressful times.  Instead, here we strive to guide a boy when times are tough, hopefully teaching him to advocate for himself and make the best out of a situation — let something roll off his back, accept those of all types, and to bounce back when feeling down.  We all, young and old, learn that happiness is a decision you make, not something that’s given to you.

Like physical exercise, some might want to avoid brain exercise.  It’s hard stuff that doesn’t necessarily sound fun.    But if you show up and try your best, this practice makes you stronger than ever, getting you ready for whatever comes next.

Our “next” was the Blow-Up Carnival, 10U Intracamp Tennis Championship, 14U Volleyball Intercamp, Water Balloon Catapults and GACU.   In between were a dozen sports and 100 opportunities for becoming stronger than ever.

If you see your son making a hand symbol with his index and ring finger down, know that it’s a good thing.  It’s sign language for an “I”, “L” and “U”, meaning “I love you”.  It’s a reminder that it’s cool2care.

Another reminder were periods of “Porch Time” with Shep.   It’s hang-out time, where Shep brings up a topic to discuss, Scooby Snacks are shared, and then it’s question time.  Today’s discussion was about ok vs not ok.  If you’re not sure if it’s appropriate, ask yourself if you’d do or say it in front of Arleen or Shep.  At the end, the questions are always interesting.  Sometimes they’re about “the old days” when Shep was a counselor.  A lot of times they ask about his hair: “Did you ever have any?  If you did have some, what color would it be?”

At “Gentleman’s Academy”, there was lots of discussion as well.  That’s when you have a period with this camp director at a pretend “restaurant”.  You learn about setting a table, how to be a waiter (serve from the left, clear from the right), napkins on laps and wait till all are served, etc.  What’s the proper way to let a waiter know you’re unhappy about something?  What do you do when going out to dinner with a friend’s family and the parent insists on paying even though your mom or dad said to use the money they gave you?

“Gentleman’s Academy” usually starts with a walk-through of the big kitchen.  The guys are amazed by the giant dishwasher.  It’s always cool (literally) to go inside one of the walk-in freezers on a day like today.  Today we ended up selecting Ed’s Maintenance Barn for the restaurant.  A round of “Thorns & Roses” (when you name two things that you like and one that you don’t) always gets us talking.  “Would You Rather” questions and answers are really fun (and funny) too.

It was “Tie Dye Factory” at Chilltop today!  All ages love to make these shirts.  It’s a laid-back project for the campers, but anything but for Mary Beth.  She has to twist, rinse, wash and dry each one of them.  Thanks for making it look easy, MB!

At Bruce’s “Cool Tools” some fantastic projects are being made.  Check out the wooden games that the boys built.

The 13U lacrosse team had an awesome day at the Hejduk field today. The team showed up with over 30 guys, a great sign for the future of Skylemar lacrosse. The boys impressed in a pair of games of intercamp contests coming away victorious in both.  Aidan R represented us well in net, with brother Jared alongside as one of our toughtest defenders. TI helped control  the faceoff X, while the Snyder brothers produced well on the offensive side of the ball, and the energy remained high on the sideline throughout.

Spirit Night began with Cool2Care honorable mentions, which included Jake M, Ollie R, Eli D, Nico PH, Dash H and Diego.  The chain went from Jacob N to Dylan S, who was described by others as “a hall of famer when it comes to kindness and good manners”.  Dylan was awarded a jersey representing  one of his counselors’ colleges, which symbolizes how a counselor helps to mold you into a man of fine character.  Tonight he wears a University of Maryland shirt with the name Butler on the back.  Well deserved!

Have you ever played Handball?  It’s a fast-paced game that’s especially popular this summer, especially with the older guys.

Although traditionally played on a court, we play on the Snow Field between two goals.  The area used is about the size of a basketball court.  Some say it’s a cross between soccer (but only the goalie can use his feet) and Ultimate Frisbee.  We typically play 5-on-5, plus goalies.

When you get the ball, you can run to make a goal until you’re tagged.   Once tagged, you can no longer shoot, but can take three steps and pass to a teammate.   There are two twenty-minute halves, and you play with a specific ball.  It’s a fantastic game that’s been played regularly for decades in Europe. It could be the next hot game here too.  Remember where you heard that…

And hot it was today.  Forecast says temps will continue to climb.  The boys want to play no matter what.  As long we drink plenty of water, keep up with sunscreen and slow down the pace, we’re good to keep going.

In the shade of the trees is Belay School at the Challenge Course.  In Belay School, campers learn how to use specialized equipment and follow rules to keep everyone safe on the High Ropes.  The entire group works together down on the ground, while each camper then gets the chance to master the Giant Swing.  It’s especially rewarding for eight people to work as one unified team.

Working together is also what we do at SkyPines.  Feathers of Fame are awarded to those who are a part of the rustic overnight.  Here Sid and Sam teach some basic survival skills and help all to feel comfortable sleeping in a tent.  This short time away from the physical cabin can help to solidify relationships.

The Cubs had a bit of time away together in the afternoon.  They went blueberry picking!  The 100 pints they picked will be perfect for blueberry pancakes tomorrow.  Meanwhile, the Stars took a journey to Bridgton.  It’s a cute little town about 10 miles away that has a public beach, a some places to eat as well as a few stores to check out.

All-Star Game for Evening Activity!  It’s our own “home version” of a Seadogs game, with two teams of staff members.  The players wear crazy costumes, the field is decorated with giant cut-outs of fairy tale and Disney characters, and the rules are a bit creative.  The camp cheers on the sidelines, while enjoying a special treat of Sea Biscuits.  Each time someone’s “out”, Sid the Prize Man raffles off a door prize.  There are mascots dancing and silly challenges between innings, like a dog race between Trix, Cubbie and Moose.

It was a beautiful scene at the Fred Pierce Field.  A giant group of brothers cheering for their counselors, with a stunning sunset on the horizon.

If there could only be one toy available on a blistering, sticky afternoon, we vote for a garden hose.  Just ask Cory.

Cory’s one of our amazing directors who does a million and one things every day at Skylemar.  When it’s super-hot, she becomes the Water Hose Wizard.   The kids squeal with delight as she sprays a fine mist or a giant arc that gently lands on them.  But for those who taunt or try to swipe her nozzle, it’s a steady spray directed in their direction.   It’s a blast, literally, for both campers and counselors too.

We certainly can’t complain about the weather.  A drought works just fine for sports, as long as there’s a lake to keep us hydrated.  But by afternoon, it can be tough to keep moving.  That’s when we change up the schedule and switch to a Wacky Water Wednesday, as we did today.

It’s a three-way rotation by division for the Cubs/Tigers, Freshmen and Sophomores.  First, there was the group at the Waterfront … splishing, splashing, sliding, swinging and leaping.  It’s s all about good, safe fun at Trickey Pond.

Meanwhile, another group was at the SkySlide.  Shep and the counselors manned  the hoses by the hockey rink, keeping the Slide slick and fast.  One by one, they jumped, dropped and sped down feet first, with the JC’s ready to catch each slider at the bottom.  Some guys could really fly!

Up top at the Garden was the Water Hose Wizard, sprinklers and old-fashioned baby pools.  We really got them for making life-sized bubbles at Yellowhorn, but the guys came up with all kinds of ways to have fun with them.  There’s the “how many can we fit in it” game, while others used them as giant shields to protect against Cory’s spray.

The snack was a Skylemar Lemon Stick, which actually is an old Baltimore tradition.  You take half a lemon and insert a Bob’s Peppermint Stick.  The stick is porous and becomes sort of like a straw.  The lemon juice mixed with the mint makes for a refreshing treat.

Where were the Seniors and Stars?  They relaxed at the Sky II Waterfront all afternoon.  It’s what they like to do – hang out.

And where were the Juniors?  They were off camp on a Bones Adventure.  That’s when Blake takes you on a surprise trip.  Today’s outing ventured to a chocolate factory (well kinda — it wasn’t really what was advertised, but they did enjoy the chocolate),  then off to a beach before heading to a very well air-conditioned movie theater.  Best part was that the theatre was reserved for Skylemar only.

Evening Activity was a Drive-In Movie on the Bunkline, under a starry sky. Life is better than good.  It’s great.

Gigi, Nanny, Abuela, Mooma.  Pops, Gramps, Saba, Paw Paw.  Ga, Honey, Ducky.  Pap Pap, Popsicle, Ha Ha.

If you ask a Skylemar boy what he calls his grandma or grandpa, his face lights up.  He glows with adoration and is eager to share the special name.  Although just about all live far from here, our unconditional friends like Grammy, Poppo, Baba and Bubbles are VIPs in the Skylemar world.

Grandparents are the ones we missed most on Visiting Day.  Thank you for understanding that this just wasn’t the year.  Nevertheless, your love-waves were with us from the lake to Sky II.

The boys warmly talk about adventures with Nanna, Nonnie, Abuelo or Grumpy.  Mimi bakes the best banana muffins, and Poppy lets us play in his hot tub.  Grumpy teaches card games and gambling, while YaYa doesn’t make us eat healthy foods.  Most importantly, Pipa, Opa, Sir and Popsy know what we know… that the gift of time is what a child values most.

Grandparents are our forever cheerleaders, and every boy is grateful.  Bragging is perfectly fine when you lend an ear.   Whether it’s about sports, a play or something that was crafted, Grandy, GPK, Bubbi and Fluffy are always proud.   Near, far or up in Heaven, each of us is lucky to be guided by your watchful eye.

Thank you Memaw, Meme, Nonno and Dude for believing in Camp Skylemar, and for making this summer possible.  In more ways than one, we couldn’t be here without you!

Lovey, Birdy, Jaddi and Buddy.  Geebee, Obo, Zayde and Gdaddy.  Can’t forget Lolly & Pop!

It’s fascinating to go through the list of what’s selected for Clinics.   Most of the time it’s a totally independent choice, and kids from the same cabin usually go in different directions.  Many of the activities end up with a variety of ages participating.  If it matters, like in the case of “Basketball Tournament Play”, “Mini-Lax” or Soccer “Skills Training”, the kids would be broken up by age group.  If it doesn’t matter, like in the case of “Ski Dawgs Waterskiing”, “Paparazzi Photo”, “Boating & Bracelet Making” or Reading, it’s an especially great way to get to know each other.

Skylemar is family, and our brotherhood happens organically.  No matchmaking required.  The older guys know that it’s their responsibility to help those younger.  The little guys feel safe with the big ones and are frequently getting piggy-back rides.  It’s just how we roll.

“Sports Trivia”, for example, should be interesting.  Out of 16 boys, 9 are from different cabins.  The ages range from 9 to 13.  It’s mind-blowing to hear how versed some of them are, no matter the age.

Other Clinics this week include “Golf Bend and Rotation”, Football “Mini Games” (like Razzle Dazzle, Red Zone and Football Newcomb), Hockey “Goalie Clinic”, Volleyball “Intercamp Prep” and “Camp Championship” Tennis.  Baseball Barney offered an “All-Star Week” on the Freddie Pierce Field.  He’ll pull out the radar gun to see how fast you throw from the mound.

There’s “Under the Sea Snorkeling” at Trickey Pond, and “Decaf Dave’s High Challenge Course”.  Sid will offer “Map Making and Orienteering”.  Erik will teach his group to play “Viking Clash”.  It’s a lawn game that’s popular with the counselors.  The Lab will take place at the lake with “Water Weights”.  The SkyDeck Clinic will cover “indigenous cuisine of North and South America before European interruption”.  Not sure what that means, but we know it will taste great.

Luckily, it didn’t start raining until after Clinic Sign-Up was complete. Some went ice skating in Bridgton, while others played with a huge amount of Lego.  There were games at the Garden Cabin and Pavilion, and fun things to make at Chilltop.  The Sophomores and Juniors played games at the Gym and Lodge.  As for the Seniors and Stars?  The schedule said “Bunk Time”.  That’s code word for “sleep”.

It’s our friends the Harlem Wizards, back again this year to challenge Skylemar Counselors!  We loaded up the buses and headed a few miles down the road to Lake Region High School.  It’s so much fun to fill the school gym and show off our Sky pride.  We’ve loved the Wizards for many years, ever since our founder Lee brought them to camp in the mid-70’s, and this latest edition still brings their Globetrotter-brand of entertainment with every performance.  We not only saw some incredible long-range shooting and lots of flashy dribbling and passing, but a dazzling display of thunderous dunks which nearly bought the house down – and that was just from our guys!  The Wizards were amazing as always – and not only put Hayes on the court long enough to score a bucket for their side but held a quick “knock-out” game at the center court circle won by Bunk 1’s Henry (and a new basketball prize). The boys loved every second, cheering for their Skylemar stars…. wonder who had more fun?  Congratulations to counselors LT, Will, Coby, DT, Mike, Myke, Jacob, Nate and Rob.  You made the show better than ever.

Today was hot enough to fry an egg on the basketball court.  Or so we thought.  Turns out it’s not the best way to cook an egg, and instead just makes for a messy hoops period.

But at SkyDeck, they know the way to cook eggs.  Bunk 2 had a great time making Egg Cups with Adam.  They flattened bread and squished it into muffin tins for the crust.  Adam taught them the proper way to crack an egg, and they listened intently.  Noah W. did it perfectly on the first try!  Next, they added crumbled turkey bacon, topped it with cheese and baked.  Try it at home – they loved it!

At the Ski Dock, Walker M got right up on the boom for his first time.   It doesn’t usually happen that way on the very first try, but the Ski Dock staff is especially patient.  When asked how he did it, Walker said he had been watching other people since he got to camp and did exactly what they did.

For our second session guys, today was their first day of camp.  It was exciting and fun to welcome new friends!  They came from Maryland, DC, Mass, Maine, New York, California, Rhode Island, Connecticut, Virginia, Missouri, Kansas, North Carolina, and Florida.  Mexico and France too!  For some, English is their second language, and we know they’ll sharpen their skills this summer.  Hopefully, the rest of us will learn at least a little from them… Spanish, French, Ukrainian and Arabic.

Also new today was an activity called “Throwing”.  It’s directed by our phenomenal NBC (non-bunk counselor) Paige, who throws in college.  Not just anything of course – it’s discus and javelin.  It’s especially fascinating for all of us, because throwing a discus or javelin is something that most have only seen when watching the Olympics.  We found out today that it’s definitely harder than it looks.

Third period was “Red Zone”.  That’s when there are three choices for each age group that are located sort of near each other.  For example, each Cub got to pick between Football, Gaga and Golf.   Tigers got to pick from Baseball, STB and Mini Lax.  Freshman choices were Hockey, Volleyball, Spikeball/KanJam.  And so it went for the other Divisions as well.

It was a Welcome Campfire for Evening Activity.  Cory, her staff and Adventure Man were as entertaining as ever.  Avery sounded fantastic on the guitar, and we all sang along with “Lean on Me”.  Funniest skit of the night was the JC’s.  They came out of the woods wearing togas and did some kind of rain dance.

We sure do need the rain.  Hoping for some tomorrow!

John Lennon had it right.  All you need is love.  And we had plenty of it at Skylemar today.

Whether you were here spreading the positive vibes or you sent them from home, love was in the air.  We believe that there are no boys in the universe more adored than those who go to Skylemar.

The balmy, wonderful day was “just right”.    Thanks to our rule-following guests, all went according to plan.  The boys had the opportunity to do exactly what we had hoped – show off.  We’re especially proud of them, and know you are too.

Sure, there were some tears, but we also were surprisingly impressed by the strength and bounce-back-ability that the boys demonstrated.  By the time we walked over to the roller rink at the Carnival, everyone was their regular joyful self.  It was if we had turned on a switch.

Movie Night was BYOT (bring your own treats), and everyone was glad to share.  That was a lot considering the number of snow cones downed at the Carnival, so there might be a tummy ache or two.  Sweetest part of the day was when a camper brought down a bag of food to donate to charity, even though we hadn’t even thought about collecting yet.

The “World of Change” collection was a positive part of the day too.  If you’d like more information about this nonprofit, go to www.worldofchange.world.  Collecting change is an easy way to get kids involved with helping others, and with WOC 100% of donations go towards kid’s causes.

As we know, life is about making good decisions.  One of those good ones was when we listened to Dr. Jeff, who encouraged us to host Visiting Day from a medical perspective.  We’re grateful to him for guiding us every day.

Most of all, we’re grateful to you.  Thank you for entrusting us to care for your most precious possession.  We cherish this honor forever and always.

Goodbyes can be tough, but they’re a whole lot easier when you know you’ll be seeing each other again.

Take today for example.  Our first session friends departed, but it warmed our hearts to hear the guys talking about next year already.  In the Skylemar World, time goes incredibly fast.  A day equals a week, a week equals a month, and a month equals a year.

Tomorrow, Parent Visiting Day, is one where many of us will re-unite with loved ones.  It’s guaranteed to be an emotional day, with the highs of seeing each other again, as well as the lows of separating.  The great news is that like with those who departed today, we know we’ll be seeing each other again soon.

A number of kids will not have visitors tomorrow, and their Saturday will nevertheless be filled with Skylemar fun.  In fact, the day is actually designed with them in mind.  The boys will play together as always, with the difference being that a couple hundred others will be watching them show off.

We know you’ll respect the guidelines we have in place, which include staying out of buildings except for bathrooms.  Your son of course can go in and out of his cabin as always, but we ask that you kindly remain outside.

Please take a look at the email sent out tonight which explains how the day is planned to go.  Above is a photograph of the schedule, which will be distributed in the morning.  Your son’s cabin number is at the top, and below that number are the activities that you’ll be watching.

Just like every year, there will be boys who cry at various times, and some who may even plead to go home.  That can be especially tough for a parent to see or understand.  In fact, some of our counselors who are former campers were once upon a time that sobbing boy on Visiting Day.  If you ask them today the best thing that happened then was, they’re parents left, we had a Carnival, and all was well.

Can’t wait for a happy day!

Quick question — Who are Willie the Wildcat, Bill the Goat, Buzz the Bee, Testudo the Terrapin, the Sooner Schooner and the Demon Deacon and what could they possibly have in common?  Stumped, are you…?  It’s an easy one for any in the vicinity of Naples today, as the decibel level reached new heights and was heard all over Skylemar and beyond today.  Answer — These are the 6 team mascots of the college participants in the 2022 edition of one of our oldest traditions – Intercollegiate Day.

The school spirit actually began rising a few days ago when Grand Marshall Nick Shep announced the randomly selected teams that would compete for this year’s IC Day “trophy”.  The boys were separated into 7 “classes” (our usual divisions), starting with our youngest “students” — the Cubs (Bunks 1-6) and Tigers (Bunks7-9), then the traditional college hierarchy of Freshmen (Bunks 10-14), Sophomores (Bunks 15-19), Juniors (20-23) and Seniors (25-28), and finally our post-grad class, the Stars (Bunks 29, 30 and JCs).   The 6 “halls of higher education” chosen by their counselor leaders to battle it out in this, the 74th version of this very special day — Northwestern, the US Naval Academy (Navy), Georgia Tech, Maryland, Oklahoma and Wake Forest Universities — were well-represented in a daytime filled with athletic events followed by the nighttime performances of each school’s “Songs and Cheers” (rehearsed for a few days in advance) to determine the overall IC Day winner.

And here’s how the day played out….

The morning routine, from reveille to breakfast to inspection just like always…until all participants were called to the Snow Field, where each team staked claim to their spot on the overlooking bank.  Most kids proudly wore school colors or face-paint, and team banners waved proudly as the overlapping cheers created quite a morning buzz…the Wildcats, Midshipmen, Yellow Jackets, Terps, Sooners and Demon Deacons were ready to rumble!

Nick Shep settled the crowd, then set the scene for IC Day’s official opening event – the Dash, one of the most celebrated of all IC Day activities.  Class by class, the sprinters from each team were called to the starting blocks – 7 exciting races run in about 10 minutes time, with nearly each resulting in a photo finish — 5 of the 7 races really did need a quick replay look from our top-notch camera crew just to be sure of the winner! Maryland put its stamp on the Dash with 3 wins – Alex S (Cubs, B4), Max P (Tigers) and Boden (Sophs) crossed the finish line first for the Terps.  Both Myren (Freshmen, B12) and Sam (Senior, B26) raced to glory for the Wildcats, and Wake Forest’s Elias (B22) was the Juniors champ. To close the event, all lauded Oklahoma’s Grant as he nipped Navy’s Ethan K at the wire to prove he’s “the fastest man in camp.”

Once complete, the boys began a rotation through 6 different athletic activities, moving by class to venues all over camp. Gaga and Steal the Bacon, two events revered by our littlest guys, may have been the most popular activities, especially for the older guys who maybe thought they’d outgrown them.   Both Gaga pits were busy all day as each class competed in a fast-paced, round-robin mini-tourney to score points for their teams; same for Steal the Bacon, played down on the Snow Field, where the Cubs showed that it’s still their game!

Our own legendary Skylemar creation, Buoy Ball, was as popular as ever. Simultaneous action – think baseball with a buoy (bat) and rubberized, oversized “tennis” ball – on both the Middle diamond and Fred Pierce fields saw plenty of great hits and bare-handed fielding gems from all classes.  Power & Finesse was an updated version of an old Skylemar favorite, Lightning — the soccer “knock-out” style game that keeps everyone “in it” (even after apparent elimination) with a chance for reinstatement on every shot taken or save made.  Passing, shooting, and goalie play kept all participants in constant revolving motion.  Nick and his crew also converted the new mini Fiddlestick lax field into another volleyball court just above the existing beach volleyball court.  Again the dual action of simultaneous, round-robin, “knock-out” games in both Newcomb for the younger guys and volleyball for the Upperclassmen presented a showcase of excitement and boisterous support heard all over.

And in Blacktop Hoops at the BBall court, there were 3on3, 4on4, and 5on5 tourneys in most divisions, but just after lunch, Mother Nature dropped in with an early afternoon rain delay when the Seniors were scheduled. The courts slicked up a bit temporarily, so Nick Shep quickly changed course (and the game) to “Hot Shot”, a timed, speed-shooting skill event that built a rather large crowd of spirited onlookers.  Speaking of Mother Nature, her brief appearance did sink the “Sunken Boat Regatta” scheduled down at Trickey, but that didn’t stop the rest of the afternoon from giving all a chance to participate in all other planned activities.  It was a fantastic day of fun, competition, sportsmanship and team spirit – the hallmark of this long-cherished Skylemar favorite. Everyone looked forward to the evening activity, Songs and Cheers, which would ultimately decide our IC Day winner.

After dinner, the schools headed off to their final rehearsal.  The time and effort that went into tonight’s performances started long before today.  Each team’s counselor leaders have been working for weeks picking music, writing lyrics, etc. in preparation for tonight’s show, but they then must somehow, after just a few days of practice, have a group of about 40 boys learn the words and music, and perform their 5 song set (Team Cheer, Camp Cheer, Team Fight Song, Old Camp and Original Camp Song) on the Skylemar stage.  And that they did.  The teams gathered in front of the Rec Hall and one by one, under a beautiful moonlit sky, each team sang their hearts out.  The setting was just magical, and the sounds of Skylemar tradition echoed from each and every performance. Judges Barney, Matissi, and DT were tasked with the final word, and all waited for Shep’s proclamation of the 2022 Intercollegiate Day winner – Northwestern University!

For the first 50+ years of Skylemar, we had the most wonderful drama director who was adored by all:  Craig Gerhard.  He had a way of making the theatre “cool”, and even the most unlikely were willing to give the stage a try.  As a builder of confidence, Craig inspired many to pursue careers involved with public speaking.

When he passed away, we thought there could never be another drama director strong enough to carry Craig’s torch.  It’s a tough job to fill at an all-boys sports camp.  There were a few who did their best, and the program continued.  But not much compared…until 2012, when along came Suzie Hepker.  It’s as if she was sent by Craig.

Suzie is the goddess of the Skylemar stage.  Extremely talented in her own right (she’s an incredible singer and dancer), she’s a phenomenal theatre director who understands and celebrates Skylemar boys.  Not only does she miraculously produce two musicals each summer, but she also runs Evening Activities, birthday parties and a million other things around camp.

Here’s what’s miraculous — Suzie does it all!  It starts with her promoting auditions and keeping them casual.  You simply sign up for a small, medium or big part.  From there she takes care of the casting, directing, choreographing, costuming, set design, scenery …. and basically anything else.

Best part of Suzie is she keeps it fun.  Her patience is heroic, especially with a cast of very short attention spans.  She limits rehearsals to who’s in a specific scene and understands that an intercamp game might take priority for a lead actor.  Somehow, she puts it all together at the dress rehearsal – the one and only time the show is done from start to finish before the performance.  Then, voila! It’s opening night!

Tonight’s performance of “Newsies” was terrific.  Lots of hard work and dedication was put in by Sawyer, Ethan V, Nolan B, Owen S, Luca F, Hayes, Charlie L, Jagger, Elie D, Cooper E, Eli W, Palmer, Max P, Teddy S, Jonathan F, Keith O, Xander and Kyle Y.  We’re so proud of these guys!

What Suzie and the audience understand is that a Skylemar performance is really geared towards the performers.  When they have fun on the stage, we have fun in the audience.  We get a kick out of the actors giggling… or when they forget lines and someone whispers the cue, forgetting that he’s on a microphone.  It’s ok if we can’t hear or don’t quite understand the story. We’ll clap, cheer and whistle just the same.

In fact, watching the audience is fun in itself.  Overall, they’re respectful and do pay attention.  But after all, they’re boys.  And they’re brothers…

So, the little guys up front pop up and down throughout.  One needs a drink… another, the bathroom.  A few are asleep.  One does log-rolls on a blanket.  Many climb on counselors or the older guys.  Sometimes we see the older guys eating seeds or candy, which they’re not supposed to, but it’s ok once in a while to let them get away with something innocent.

Through all of this, Suzie perseveres with a smile.  She, and the cast of “Newsies” are our much-loved Skylemar stars.

“Cool2Care” is the motto we strive to live by at Skylemar.  But never will we be so smug as to think that all is blissfully perfect.  In fact, it’s quite the opposite.  In any one day there are petty arguments about fairness or going first, someone overreacts at a game or in the bunk, or a camper fails to “stop” when others ask him to do so.  One guy is “annoying”, and another doesn’t listen.  Someone says something that is interpreted as “mean”, while another says he was “only joking”.

So it goes when you live together as one giant family.  But here’s the best part about a “Cool2Care” world.  You get second chances.   Just about always there’s a chance to fix a mistake.

We call it the three steps to forgiveness.  First, you feel sorry for whatever you did that upset someone.  Then you say that you’re sorry, which can be the really hard part for a boy.  And finally, you do something to show that you’re sorry which includes not doing it again.

Not a foolproof method, but apologies are powerful.  Every boy should have the opportunity to master the art.

Another side of “Cool2Care” is what you do when nobody’s looking.  You see, caring really isn’t about trying to win the chain.  It’s about what you do, just because….

It’s the simple things that add up to more.  For example, because they care to do the right thing, every single person in the food line says “please” and “thank you” to each of the servers.  That’s eight pleases and thank yous per meal.

Everyone matters and plays an important role at Skylemar.  Palmer didn’t think twice about helping the kitchen guys carry in the food.  A little guy asked one of the maintenance team if they wanted to play basketball.  Best of all, he played.

So, for the handful of moments of forgetting to care, there are 101 times in a day that we do.

Whoever said that parenting is the hardest job in the world has yet to be a camp counselor.

As complicated as it is, you do typically get nine months of prep time to be a parent. The child that arrives weighs just a few pounds and is perfectly content to eat and sleep.  In the years ahead there’s quite a bit of getting-to-know-you time, plus plenty of breaks for school and visits to grandma’s.

On the other hand, a counselor gets a couple of weeks training and then BAM, he’s the parent of septuplets.  He lives with his family of eight in a one-room house, and even shares the same bedroom and bath.  That bed isn’t a queen or a twin – just the same skinny mattress as everyone else.

Not only does he need to keep the house tidy, but he does it with all the kids still in the room.  He nags about clean clothes, teethbrushing and showering, not just for one, but for all in the family.  The kids must make their beds daily, a feat which most parents would never attempt.

In addition to “stay at home parenting”, a counselor goes to work each day as teacher.  With little time for planning and preparation, he must be creative and able to switch gears depending on variables (like personalities, skill levels and attention spans).  Any time in between classes is spent tending to his own brood, cleaning up messes, drying tears or giving piggy-back rides.

Most astonishing is that counselors prove that it really can be done without a screen.  No Netflix or Minecraft.  No YouTube or Fortnite.  Just a good old fashioned deck of cards, a chapter book to read nightly, maybe some board games or a basketball hoop.  But what’s a game without a referee?  Counselors find that there are always petty disputes to settle, rules to establish and ways to make sure that things are fair.

Like a parent, a counselor takes tremendous pride in his boys.  When his “summer son” makes the winning goal, sings the solo or gets up skiing, he beams like never before.  On the other hand, a counselor shares the same frustrations and thinks what we all think…oh, if he’d only listen.

By the end of the season, a counselor has a skillset that you might want to take note of.  His management and communication skills are superb, he can juggle multiple tasks, his problem-solving abilities are extraordinary and his dedication to the mission is unquestionable. If you’re in a position to hire, keep in mind that this is your guy.

Skylemar counselors are our heroes, and for this we are grateful.  Thank you for being brave enough to undertake the hardest job you’ll ever love.

Sparkling blue skies and a warm breeze today!  It was the kind of summertime weather that Maine is best known for.

The kids were still talking about last night’s Staff Talent Show.  It was a really fun time, and campers were especially proud of their own counselors.  There were singers, dancers and so much more.  Myke of Bunk 11 recited a poem that he wrote, dedicated to his campers. Jackson of Bunk 25 played the autoharp.  Do you know what that is?  Tommy of Bunk 7 juggled toilet paper rolls, and others juggled invisible balls.  DRC whistled and Rob did 100 pushups in under a minute.

Most touching part of the night was when Cory and Suzie sang “Skylemar You’ll Linger” at the piano, with Mary Beth signsinging along with them center stage.  It was a perfect way to end a happy night.

Intercamp update:  14U Hoops and 12U Lax.  We won lacrosse 12-10, with Archie causing at least five turnovers.  On the courts, we fought hard but lost the first game in OT, then took the second impressively in a 25- point blowout.  Michael H was the MVP, energizing the rest with great effort and leadership on the floor.

Exciting new Clinics for the week include “Ryder Cup Competition” at Golf, “Tournament Play Tennis” and “3 v 3 Basketball”.  Shep’s “Skylemari Safari” is a backstage tour of Skylemar.  They get to see the maintenance department, kitchen and other interesting spots.  15U Lacrosse has our top coaches preparing the boys for a big tournament coming up. Cutest part of this one is that Henry from Bunk 1 signed up.  He understood that it’s for older players, but he wants to hang with the big guys.  He’ll be the perfect mascot.

Those who select SkyDeck will be making Southeast Asian cuisine.  “Upcycle Projects” at Chilltop include robot and musical instrument-making.  The Ski Dock offers a “Mastery Clinic”.  It’s for guys who are working especially hard on taking the next step in the progression.  SkyPhotos is the place to learn about taking, editing and organizing photos.  Harry from Bunk 30 will help to lead that one.  “Defensive Baseball” is all about fielding ground balls and shagging fly balls.  There’s “Great-Plays-to-Run Football”, Card Games, Low Ropes, Soccer Juggling, “STB Hockey” and “Ultimate Sportsman”, which is about foraging and cooking food outdoors.

Once again the choice is the hardest part.

Deputy Brown, our local police officer, joined us for dinner.  He spoke to the camp reminding all that if someone ever needed assistance here or off camp, he and his team was here to help.  Afterwards, he met with kids who had individual questions, especially about the 30 pounds of gear that he needs to wear.

During the meal came a Cool2Care moment:  We had brownies for dessert, and Spencer S asked Nick to make sure we saved enough for the kitchen crew.

SkyPines Overnights are always a hit.  Each night a different bunk gets to spend the night at the Sky II Waterfront with Sid and Sam.  They come either by foot or canoe, carrying their sleeping bags and backpacks.  After fishing and snorkeling as the sun sets, it’s time to make dinner over the open fire.  It could be a stir fry or grilled cheese hand pie.  S’mores for dessert of course.

Sid and Sam always have lessons about the outdoors to pass on, as well as stories to share around the campfire.  There’s something about staring into the flames together and squeezing into a 12-man tent that reminds us of the brotherhood we have going on here.  Truly extraordinary.

Legend has it that the waters of Trickey Pond may be magical.  From our point of view, they most certainly are.

Considered one of the cleanest bodies of water in the state of Maine, Trickey Pond is our precious gem.  Fed by underground springs, Trickey is about two miles long and half a mile across.  The water is deep (50’ in the center) but is so clear that it looks like you can touch the bottom.

Skylemar’s the only camp on the lake, and our side is protected by over a mile of trees between Sky I and Sky II waterfronts.  It’s just us and some wonderful neighbors, who’ve all grown accustomed to the sound of Skylemar bugles telling them when to wake, eat and go to sleep.

Because Trickey doesn’t connect with other lakes, there is very little power boat traffic.  It’s mostly our four ski and wakesurf boats, plus the fishermen out catching salmon, trout and bass.  We’re especially proud that the Maine Department of the Environment has awarded Trickey Pond the highest water quality designation.  It’s clean enough to drink, so that’s exactly what we do.  Our extensive filtration system assures that drinking water is delicious and healthy, and we test every day just to be sure.

Yes, the waters are magical.  Just jump in and all your troubles are washed away!   That’s because Skylemar’s Waterfront is the place for fun!

Gia, Chas, Blake, Quinn and the rest of the staff run a well-oiled machine.  When the boys arrive for a double period, they’re divided into groups which rotate between swimming lessons, non-motorized boating (sailing, kayaking, canoeing, standup paddleboarding) and the skidock (waterskiing, wakesurfing, wakeboarding and tubing).  Of course there’s always swimming for fun as well, which includes jumping on the Trampoline, climbing and leaping off the Iceberg, flying down the the Beast (the giant slide), bounding off the Rope Swing or diving off the Pontoon.

Beginner swimmers become very comfortable in the water, thanks to a patient and caring staff.  Those who are more advanced improve their strokes, with the guidance of instructors who are also collegiate swimmers.  As mentioned, the water is deep — from 8′ within the docks to around 30′ out beyond them.  Therefore, we all wear lifejackets when playing on the inflatables.  That way a novice can have just as much fun as a friend who’s advanced.

The staff on the Ski Dock work their magic too.  Any camper willing to give skiing a try is guaranteed to get up.  They start on the Boom, just to get the hang of it.  Then next to the short rope, then onto the long one, and off they go.  Part of the fun is being on the dock encouraging friends.

In addition to skiing, the guys especially enjoy Wakesurfing.  It takes a special boat to create a giant wake for surfing.  For most it’s easy to get up on the wake board (but this camp director is still working it), and it’s especially exhilarating when you can drop the rope and surf as if you’re at the ocean.

The past two mornings were Polar Bear Swims.  That’s when you wake up before everyone else, head to the lake and swim across.  Lifeguards swim with you, and kayaking counselors help if you need a lift.  On the other side is Bunk 71, the Finkelstein house.  Yummy donuts await, as well as a motorboat ride back across.

What a great way to start the day!

What are the three most popular times of day at Camp Skylemar?  Breakfast, lunch and dinner.

How’s the food?  Most reply with a one-word answer.  “Amazing!” or “Awesome!”

Ours is “boy food” for sure.  Simple, plenty of it, and sauce always on the side.  It’s a giant all-you-can eat buffet, which includes a hot entree, side dishes plus the good-old-dependables:  pasta, Wowbutter and jelly sandwiches, fruit and a delicious salad or yogurt bar.

The day starts with an assortment of cereals, fresh cut fruit, oatmeal and yogurt with toppings, and a hot entrée of either pancakes, scrambled eggs, waffles, French toast sticks, breakfast burritos, cinnamon rolls, bagels or sunrise sandwiches.

Chicken tenders (the really good kind), tacos, pizza bagels, steak subs, grilled cheese and sliders are some of our favorite lunches.  Dinner is always something delicious like Skypotle (thanks for the idea, Chipotle), Thanksgiving dinner, Jr’s famous grilled chicken, pizza, spaghetti and meatballs, wings, fajitas, lasagna and Cookout (burgers and hot dogs).

Quantities are astounding.  For a single meal it takes either 21 turkeys, 270 pounds of chicken or 75 dozen eggs.  For lunch alone, Chef Mike cuts 60 cucumbers, 120 tomatoes, 5 cases of lettuce plus many pounds of other fresh produce.  Before the kids arrive, the kitchen staff makes and freezes 12,000 meatballs from scratch, because it takes 1,600 per meal.  Certainly, we could buy them ready-made, but our team of chefs are far too particular for that.

What does it take to be the camp with the five-star kitchen?  The most wonderful culinary team in the whole wide world.  It’s a group of professionals dedicated to making every boy happy, and they’ve been with us for a combined total of over 80 years.  Not only does Junior, Benjamin, Carlos, Superman, Mike, Adolfo, David, Bryon, Januel, Jairo and Cesar prepare a feast three times a day for 350 people, but they clean up as well.

As a matter of fact, the Sky-kitchen has the reputation for being one of the cleanest in Maine.  Just ask the Health Inspector!

PS  Hosted the much-anticipated, always exciting 10U Steal the Bacon Tournament today.  Three camps participated and the Skylemar sportsmanship and spirit showed the way — our guys worked hard and once again, brought home the bacon – 2022 STB Champs!

We’re ba-a-a-ck!  It’s been 1,076 days since our last intercamp game (July 27, 2019) and today we rocked!

13U Soccer here at home on the Hejduk Field.  We were down 2-1 at the half, but that was before Coach Eric gave his motivational speech.  Then we stepped it up and ended with a 6-2 victory!  Goals scored by Diego, Max F, Archie, Lucas V and Pelayo.  Other outstanding players included Ignacio, Spencer M, Alex S, Nick P, Bode, Noah K, Max N, Bobby C, Noah L, Ayan, Eddie R, Zane, Jared R, Cosme, Leo F, Charlie F, Holden F. and Gavin K.

15U Hockey brought back a victory as well!  They traveled to a nearby camp and won with intensity, 7-2.   Coach Jake’s report: “Jack P opened it up, Isaac G locked it down, Sam DF was a beast all day and Jacob R was dominant.”  Shout-outs also to Charlie P, Holden W, Leo T, Bob, Tosh, Michael H, Jonathan S, Austin, Grant N, Soren, Cole D, Aaron P, Alex B, Jack C and Zach O.

Meanwhile, the Cubs had a trip of their own.  It was Bones’ Fire Station Bonanza!  They had a full tour of the Naples Fire Department, which was super interesting.  Even the counselors were fascinated. They especially liked seeing all the vehicles, learning about the Jaws of Life and watching how the station operates.  And of course they especially liked the stop at the ice cream shop afterwards.

Juniors and Seniors went Ice Skating at Bridgton Academy.  That’s a boarding school about 10 miles away from camp that has a nice ice rink.  It’s especially fun to have the place to ourselves.

Pine Coneless Auction for Evening Activity!  It’s an annual tradition for the younger half of camp.  Problem was, this time there were very few pinecones to be found.  Some years we have them everywhere, and other years not.  Scientists say this has to do with the previous winter.  If there was a good amount of rain, the tree can focus more on growth and less on seed production.  Conversely, a dry winter means more pinecones.  What we’ve seen for ourselves about pinecones is that sometimes they fall annually, but other times they go for years without touching the ground.

Anyway, instead we tossed plastic colored eggs all over the golf course while the kids weren’t looking.   Thousands of them.

Captain Chicken blew his airhorn, and they were off gathering up their medium of exchange.  When the collection time was over, they pooled their eggs together by Division.  Cubs, Tigers, Freshmen and Sophomores then bid on whatever party they would like to be a part of.  For example, the Tigers won a pizza/movie party in the Garden Cabin.

Almost forgot…we had a visitor today:  Matt Hoidal, the Executive Director of “World of Change”, along with his “Change Truck”.  WOC is a non-profit that empowers kids to make a positive difference for less fortunate children through the collection of loose change.  Matt explained that there’s 62 million dollars in coins being discarded every year.  When that money is donated to “World of Change”, 100% of it goes towards helping kids with housing, food, school supplies and so forth.

One of the ways our guys can help those in need is to donate leftover spending money that Camp dispenses when on a trip.  For example, many of the boys contributed their leftover Seadogs change.  Our hope is to inspire Skylemar campers to be involved with “World of Change” after camp as well.

We’re slo-o-owly testing the waters of the world outside the Skylemar gate.  It’s been a long time (since 2019) that we had vehicles moving in assorted directions throughout the day.

One of the silver linings of the pandemic is that we had no choice but to slow down a bit and depend more on togetherness and creative fun at camp.   This summer we’ll keep this in mind, while also adding some off-camp adventures now and then.

For instance, today we took Bunks 3, 10, 20 and 21 to Sebago Lake State Park.  Although Trickey Pond is by far our favorite, this area of Sebago Lake has a sandy beach and shallow water for tossing a football or Frisbee.   It’s fun to go with cabins of assorted ages, which gives the older guys the opportunity to role model for those younger.  Best of all…there’s a snack bar.  Everyone gets $10, and there’s something about spending it alongside friends that makes it more fun.

Bunk 30 went golfing at Bridgton Highlands Country Club.  The Club’s about 15 miles away and is perfect for those who have become proficient. The weather today was absolutely ideal.

It was an academic trip for the JC’s.   They toured Bates College and met with a fabulous admissions director who happens to be the mother of Cam in Bunk 1, and the wife of Mike Seltzer, Skylemar’s Sports Performance Director.  Mike is the Strength & Conditioning Coach at Bates, and we’re fortunate to have him at Skylemar too.  We also have some top-notch staff members who are Bobcats, like Lowell, Avery and Blake.  Not that we’re plugging the school or anything…

Bunk 18 went on a day hike to Pismire Bluffs.  It’s a comfortable 3-mile trail with incredible views of Crescent Lake.   They came back feeling especially good about the great outdoors.

Here on camp, it was a Cool Tools day.  That’s when Bruce, one of the most brilliant and fun men we know, teaches the guys about hand tools.  Today they were making wooden spoons which is one of those things we never think about how it’s made.

Drive-In Movie Night for Evening Activity.  The whole camp gathers on the hill side, with Crazy Creek chairs or sleeping bags.  Fresh popcorn and candy (aka “canteen”) go hand-in-hand with the show.  It’s a late night, but a happy one.

Nothing says Skylemar more than The Talent Show.

32 brave performers, some with talent, and some not so much.  No matter what, the audience cheers wildly after each act.

The rain brought us into the Rec Hall, with the Seniors and Stars in the back of the room.  They’re the ones who carry on the tradition and set the tone:  performers first, audience second.  With or without talent, those on the stage are shown respect and support.   Even if it’s a magic trick that no one can see…

First up was Jagger, who asked for two volunteers.  That’s the cue for just about everyone to raise their hands straight up and give the “Oooh oooh” noises that annoy teachers.  The volunteers blindfolded him and he painted abstract art.

Ethan V dazzled us with his breakdancing.  Seeing him beam with pride at the end was the very best part.  Xander danced as well, and also shared the “how to’s” with everyone.   Keith O did a dance dressed as a hotdog.   Charlie P juggled, and Jacob W played the drums.  Both were super cool!

Nolan B sang “Raise Me Up”, and Luke P sang “Old Town Road”.  Hayes dedicated his performance of “As It Was” to his mom.  Carter S sang “Panini”, and JJ did a freestyle rap based on the color green.

Sprinkled in throughout the real talent were those who, shall we say, were more “artistically creative”. KJ contorted his body into a bridge and walked backwards.  Brooks did imitations of Kermit the Frog and Mickey Mouse.  Palmer did his version of Forrest Gump, Homer Simpson and Tom Cruise.  Oliver G drew a picture called “Plateau Sunset”.  Magicians were Luke BR, Bronner, Eli W and Barron.

What’s a talent show without marshmallow tossing?   Max P and Asher covered that.  Nate C rolled around in a bongo bag (we told you they were handy), while Iggy, Max and Pelayo juggled a soccer ball.  Isaac F swallowed a sword, which was actually quite impressive.

There were skits we didn’t understand but laughed just the same.  Afterall, the performers were having a blast up there.  Sawyer, Dash, Henry G and Palmer’s skit was called “Boxing Comedy”.  Ryder and Ainsley put on “Epic Fails”.

Bennett S and Henry Z can burp like you wouldn’t believe.  Henry is even capable of speaking while doing this.  Most extraordinary was Lionel, who has a full repertoire of armpit farts.  Oh, to live at a boy’s camp…

Fourteen-year-old Kyle YA once again truly blew us away with his dance moves, as he has for the past few years.  His performance of “Beat It” would make Michael Jackson proud.   He might just have what it takes to be professional some day.

Those who played the piano really do have tremendous talent.  Asher, Azim and Charlie L each played beautifully.

The one who made his camp director tear up in emotion was Matthew R.   He played “Piano Man” as if he’d practiced for months.   The special part came when Matthew began singing the verses into the microphone.  He took over the room with his strong voice, and everyone responded with the chorus.  The kids waved their arms in the air and swayed back and forth.  It was one of those many Skylemar moments to cherish forever.

Great parents are game changers.  Our guys have won the lottery on this one.

Not saying this to flatter the readers, but instead to point out how incredibly fortunate every boy at Skylemar truly is.  You are there to support, encourage, guide and catch him when he falls.  Perhaps some folks may be guilty of “over-parenting”, but nevertheless, there could be no person in the world more loved than a Skylemar boy.

The fun part of the parenting job is to watch your son flourish and grow, as he takes advantage of the opportunity you have provided.  While he’s away at Skylemar, it’s a treat to hear him brag about getting up waterskiing or the friends that he’s made.   It feels especially rewarding to know that here he’s mastering skills in relationship building, independence, decision making, and safe-risk taking.

The not-so-fun part of the parent’s job is to be the “dumping ground”.  Boys need a place to put their feelings, whether happy or sad.  That’s where you come in.

When the road gets bumpy within the culture of childhood, it’s hard as a parent to resist the urge to fix.  The best advice we’ve heard came from 13 year-old camper Marcus (name changed to protect the wisest) whose mother was concerned about his cabin placement.  He “dumped” on her about his nervousness, so mom understandably wanted to get involved.  But Marcus wisely declined her involvement and instead said, “Mom, I’ll figure it out.”

Figuring it out, or FIO as we call it, is one of the casualties of the pandemic.  While isolated at home in front of a screen, our boys were denied the opportunity to be physically accountable to those outside of the family at home.  Their brains were deprived of practice sessions for managing feelings that we know as adults will eventually go away, but to them it may seem daunting.  For example, take a sleepover party.  Experiencing the jitters of going to someone else’s house for the first time, or conversely the disappointment of not being invited, are uncomfortable feelings that get easier with practice.

Our hope at Skylemar is to help our guys catch up a bit and make up for some of that lost time.  For us it’s about doses of good old-fashioned fun, chances for redos and safe risk taking, plus lots of love along the way.  We’ll throw in some make-your-own-sundaes and fireworks on Trickey Pond, and he’ll never suspect that he’s learning.

Eureka!  We found the solution!  It’s a bongo bag!

Perhaps you’ve noticed that boys are challenged by getting dirty laundry into a bag.  But give them a bongo and it’s a game of yucky-sock basketball.  Every Sunday the bongo gets emptied into a magical bag that gets taken away in a big white truck.  Then, “Poof!” – it comes back clean and folded a couple of days later.  Cool part of the bag is that it opens on the side like a suitcase, so all stays folded when you put it away.

Sunday Signups too!  This week’s Clinic offerings include:

• Baseballenstein Baseball Pitching & Hitting
• Bigger Faster Stronger at The Lab
• “Newsie’s” Props & Scenery Making
• Hoops Shooting with LT & Crew
• Robin Hood Archery
• 3 v 3 Hockey Tournament
• Peanut Butter Jelly & a Baseball Bat Reading
• 15 & Under Lacrosse
• Money Shot Golf
• We Say Marco, You Say Polo at the Waterfront
• Steal the Bacon
• Pick & Eat Cooking at SkyDeck
• Soccer Scrimmaging
• 1-on-1 Football
• Big Bertha, Sail Boats & Kayaks
• Shelter Building at SkyPines
• “Aaaaaah” Tennis Serving and Playing

Finished off the day by taking 350 people to the ballpark.  It was the Portland Seadogs vs the New Hampshire Fisher Cats at Hadlock Field.  We sat together, proudly wearing our Skylemar colors.  Quinn B caught a foul ball, and we were featured on the giant screen singing “Sweet Caroline”.  The kids loved the snack bar, especially because whatever you ordered came inside a batting helmet.  Sea Biscuits were the traditional favorite.  That’s two really good chocolate chip cookies with ice cream inside… puts the standard Chipwich to shame.

Following the Seadogs win came the dazzling fireworks.  Amazing!

Best part of the night for this camp director was hearing what another patron had to say: “You can pass on the word that this old guy thought you were a well-behaved crowd.  I’d go to a game with you anytime.”

It’s quite an accomplishment to get 200 boys showered every day.  From their point of view, why shower if I’m going in the lake?  From the Skymom’s perspective, we want to make it happen.

Power Shower Hour is on the schedule daily, and each bunk has a specific shower location.  Every Friday is GACU, and that’s when we really shine.

GACU stands for Great American Clean Up.   It’s the triangle of clean:  first you shower, then you go to the Infirmary for a health check, and then finally, to The Spa.  “The Spa” is Skylingo for “go to the Garden Cabin Porch to soak feet and get nails clipped”.  Giving pedicures wasn’t included in the job description of a Senior Staffer, but our amazing team takes it all in stride.

Funny thing about this.  A prospective parent called to say they heard a rumor that we had a spa at Skylemar, and they wondered if it was true.  If so, we were a little bit too fancy for them.   It’s all in a name, right?

Leagues kicked off with Football, Softball, Soccer and Basketball.    That’s when you play competitively within the Division.  It’s a double period and the intensity is strong.

In addition to a schedule packed with sports, Remote Control Cars were a hit with the little guys.  Bet they’d be popular with the oldest too.  Chocolate Factory is another unique activity that everyone loves and is one of the ways older and younger kids get to know each other.  The scheduled bunk makes chocolate treats for themselves as well as the older cabin of their choice.

First up for FaceTime calls were the Cubs and Tigers.  It was heartwarming to watch the guys show off their Skylemar home, friends and counselors with the iPads.  Cutest of all was when Lionel and Bennett held up screens and introduced parents to each other.

Campfire at the Ring of Champions for Evening Activity!  100% authentic, wholesome, organic and natural fun.  Cory, the greatest campfire leader of all time, starts with the repeat-after-me-do-as-I-do song called “60’s Party”.  Your son will have to explain this, but trust that it’s a riot to see all ages wriggling, dancing and doing the motions.  Next, Barney did a dramatic reading of “My Money Don’t Jiggle” (something on TikTok that the kids seemed to know but their camp director didn’t).  DT led the “Burrito Song” and all joined in.  Counselor Coby played “Wagon Wheel” and we joined in on the chorus.  Super cool was the impromptu linking of arms over shoulders, without any adult telling them to do so.

After s’mores, Adventure Man arrived with his “can of calm”.  One of the interesting things he taught us was how to make a stretcher out of sweatshirts and sticks.

It was a beautiful night, and you could feel the brotherhood.  It sure is good to be us.

Cha-ching!  Cha-ching!  It’s Sade’s Palace!

The place was crawling with millionaires, wallets fat with Skylemoney.  They came from as far as Sky II and as close as Bunk 1 for a rousing night of gambling.  Blackjack, Craps, Roulette, Poker and Wheels of Fortune.  Slot machines too!

The rules of the casino are strictly enforced.  You must be under 18 to enter, and at Sade’s, the house never wins.

Truly the place to see and be seen, VIP special guests (thanks to the counselors, JC’s and Suzie’s costume attic) included Tom Cruise, Indiana Jones and Santa Claus.  Aladdin, Jasmine and the Genie came, and so did the Goddess Athena and a Foot Locker employee.  There were some tacky tourists, a prom queen, flapper girl and Draco Malfoy.  It was a pleasure to welcome the cast of “The Golden Girls” (aka the world’s best nurses found only at Skylemar), and we were especially proud that President Biden attended along with his security detail.   Did you know our Pres is a phenomenal tennis player?

There was Karaoke in the Garden Cabin Porch Lounge, while George’s Bar served up frosty plastic cups of root beer and pretzel rod cigars.  A fortune teller gave each patron a magic red fish, used to forecast the future.   Artists twisted glow sticks into spectacular creations, affordable for even those who’s luck had run out.

Just before closing, The Bank opened up.  There you could purchase a plethora of trinkets and toys, including the ever-popular suction-cup basketball hoop.

Congratulations to Bode Goodman for winning the lottery!  His life will be forever changed since he then had enough to buy 10 inflatable balls.

And thank you to all the grandpas out there who taught our boys how to gamble.  You see, it wasn’t even our idea….