Skylemar Blog

Both teams looked refreshed as they went through the usual morning ritual (breakfast/inspection/psych-up meetings).  Another breezy, cool day for play on tap – just perfect!  Ever since lunchtime yesterday, Gray seemed to cash in on every opportunity, reversing the early trend and looking for a bit of separation.  Red Team leaders encouraged their boys to stay positive and continue to give it their all. Good things will happen, they repeated, with continued maximum effort.  This was their formula to come back as well as their key to success!

And the opportunities were out there too for the taking.  On the Basketball Courts and Gym (Lions triple-header Hoops), at the Hockey rink (Tigers double-header), over at the Hejduk (Freshmen Lacrosse), both Football fields (two Sophomore games), the Middle Diamond (Seniors Softball), both Sky I and II Tennis Courts (Stars) and at the Waterfront (Juniors).

The Red Lions got it started with a “statement game” blowout on the Upper Courts, but then Gray answered with a late bucket by Henry M to tie Game Two, followed by a big Gray win in Game Three to split Lions Hoops.  On the outdoor courts, Red’s Aiden Q and John R led the way, while Spencer S dominated for Gray in the Gym.

The Freshman Lax contest seemed a bit one-sided on paper, but a valiant effort by Hayes (offense) and Dillon F on D kept the outcome in jeopardy til late in the 2^nd half, when the talented Gray squad found their footing in a 13-7 win.  Turbo, Gray, Nate F and Sebi all chipped in with goals for the winners.

Down at Trickey, although Red won the Ski Dock, wins in the Swim Meet and Boating elements carried the point for the Gray Juniors.

Both Football fields lit up the scoreboard, and again, both went Gray’s way.  56-32 in front of the Rec Hall was impressive enough, but Gray exploded for 70 points on the Bunkline Field, highlighted by about a dozen or so highlight-reel receptions by our own Tyreek Hill, Lucas R, who made one spectacular catch after another.

On the Middle Diamond, Eddie had a multi-hit, multi-RBI game at the plate while his defense turned in some stellar play in limiting the Red to just a pair of runs in the Gray Seniors 9-2 Softball victory.

Red’s hopes for a comeback had begun to fade when their Stars quickly dispatched of the Gray on both sides, winning the Singles/Doubles matches and dominating the Stroke Skill competition to win Stars Tennis.

At the Rink, Chase hit the back of the net four times in the Red Tigers shutout win in Game One. Then, despite the efforts of Gray netminder Ethan V and all-around play from Emmett, Red’s Ari F displayed sheer grit and determination from the first “puck” drop til the finish, not to mention scoring the game winner (his 2^nd) in the 3^rd period for a 2-1 win and sweep of Tigers Hockey.

Gray had added to their lead as we broke for lunch and again, a well-deserved rest.

The late morning Tigers victory had Red hoping to carry the momentum into the afternoon and take a bite from Gray’s lead.  When the first of three Junior Basketball games went Gray’s way, the climb seemed a bit tougher. DJ showed some great court sense to lead the way supported by a deft scoring touch from Isaac C on the Lower Court. However, Nick P starred on the Upper Court and their all-around team play in the Gym was enough to win the other two games and snare the Junior Hoops point for Red.

Gray answered with a win in the first of a Sophomores Baseball twin bill over at the Hejduk Diamond. Southpaw Cooper E was terrific on the mound and had a pair of 2-run doubles, but then Red won the “nightcap” 4-0 with Ben W on the mound.

The Seniors Football game in front of the Rec Hall seemed like a blowout win for Gray. But Red stormed back from three TDs down to trail by three late in the 4^th with the ball and a chance to take the lead, until Elias stepped in (with a great pickoff) to save the day, and the win for Gray.

Red Tigers kept the pressure on with a win at the Waterfront.  Director Peter was so impressed with the group of “butterflyers” that he shouted them out as the best he’d seen in his decade on Trickey.  Also most notable was the personal best backstroke win for Gray’s Myles!

Red’s comeback hit full stride when Toby found the net on a long direct free kick to break the scoreless tie, enough for  keeper Jacob, Burnie and the Red defense to win Stars Soccer.

Our littlest guys always provide the spectators with lots to cheer for, and this double dose of Lions Lacrosse did not disappoint (though the Gray may disagree).  Red continued to rebound when Alex K dominated the opener, then a sizable crowd watched Elliott break open a 2-2 game with four straight goals in the 4^th to complete the Red sweep.

To cap off the rally, and cut the Gray lead even further, Red swept a pair of well-played Freshmen Soccer games.  In the first, Nolan’s hat-trick highlighted the 4-2 win, then an early goal by Max P held up in the 1-0 Game 2 victory for Red.

Gray had built quite a stronghold by midday, but the huge Red afternoon brought them nearly all the way back.  Stay tuned, there’s plenty more to come….

Yesterday’s afternoon washout had us wondering if Mother Nature had any idea what was about to happen here.  Captains Sam and Michael had spent the day preparing for last night’s clandestine “draft” of the teams, then notified each new teammate by “pinning” a Red or Gray ribbon on their pillow well after midnight. The excitement of awakening to see which team you’re on, and who else will join you in battle for the next five days, had campers out of their cabins well before Reveille, just like the first day of summer.  And Mother Nature must have known, because she dialed up one of the most magnificent, sunny, cool breezy Maine days of the season for the start of Color War 2023.

For the next five days, all sporting events on the fields, courts, and at the lake, will be competed, Red vs Gray, within each of the seven Color War Divisions – Lions (Bunks 1-7), Tigers (8-10), Freshmen (11-14), Sophomores (15-19), Juniors (20-24), Seniors (25-27) and Stars (28-JCs).  The build-up had reached a crescendo, the buzz infectious!

But first, the annual, ever-popular “Red and Gray Breakfast Buffet” gave us all the energy boost needed to kick-off this most anticipated week. Afterwards, the boys went through their regular morning inspection, eagerly awaiting the PA call that would get the ball rolling. “Gray Team to the Pine Grove, Red Team to the Mail House.”  The Captains would rally their troops for the very first time (bound arm-in-arm in what could only be described as a circle of spirited bedlam) and the first of several team “psych-up” meetings to come.  These are meant to energize, focus, guide and encourage their “brothers” to give maximum effort in every event, every day going forward.

Shep then called both teams to the Middle Diamond (a temporary stand-in for our beloved Fred Pierce Field, which was waterlogged,  due to the remnants of a meddling Mother Nature) where the Stars Division Softball game would open Color War for the 75^th time.  As history dictates, all participants would watch the 1^st inning of the game before heading out to their own divisional contests all over camp.  The ceremonial first pitch was tossed by our own celebrity favorite, do-it-all, behind-the scenes Skylemom, Holly. Umpire Shep roared the long-awaited, traditional proclamation that starts every baseball game anywhere –“PLAY BALL” — and Color War 2023 was off and running.

In the Stars game, Red jumped on top early with a 5-run burst in the top of the first, and built an even bigger lead by the 3^rd.  Then Gray began to chip away with some timely hitting and got within 14-11 in the 5^th, before Captain Michael went deep for the game’s only HR, opening it up for Red.

The Lions moved to the Hockey Arena for a pair of games. They also squeezed their archers in between games to start accumulating points for the total team Archery point, settled after the all divisions have had the chance to shoot.  In the rink, Lionel and Alex B were unbeatable in the nets for both teams in Game 1, resulting in a scoreless tie.  Then a couple of early first period goals set the tone in Game 2, carrying Gray to a 3-1 victory.

In Tigers Football, Jacob W and Dash were terrific for Gray, but it wasn’t enough to overcome the running and passing of QB James T for Red in their 45-36 win on the Bunkline Gridiron.

The Freshmen played two Hoops games on the blacktop, and one in the Gym.  It was a triple-header of very close, well-played games.  The teams split the outdoor contests, then watched a last second shot roll around the rim and out at the buzzer, preserving the tie in Game 3, and splitting the Frosh Basketball point.

Over on the SkyLinks, Red duffers dominated, winning 6 and halving 3 of the ten matches on way to victory in Sophomores Golf.  The rest of the Sophs found their way to the Bocce Garden, where Gray extended the match to three games with a comeback of their own in the 2^nd, before succumbing in the rubber game.

The Juniors put on quite a show over at the Hejduk with two outstanding, hard-fought, very tight Soccer games.  Finley M scored twice to keep Red alive and deadlocked  in Game 1 at 2-2, before Hamish tallied two second half goals to break a 1-1 tie and seal the 2nd game and  the Juniors Soccer win for Red.

The Seniors gave us the most exciting event of the morning down on the Pond.  Gray had already won the Boating portion (kayak races) of the three elements that make up the Waterfront competition (along with Swimming and Skiing).  They were just about to close the door after building a nice lead in the Freestyle Relay that would determine the Swim Meet win, when Leo F dove in as Red’s anchor leg just a few lengths behind.   With his teammates screaming support from the Trickey docks (heard up on the Sky I ball fields and courts) and an Olympian effort to close the gap, Leo came back and touched barely inches ahead to win the relay. Red’s hopes were kept alive…. but alas, only briefly, as Zane B skied impressively and quite steadily in some very choppy Trickey waters to win the Ski element, and the Seniors Waterfront point for Gray.

What an opening morning, with action and excitement all over camp!   Red had taken the early lead as we headed to lunch.

The afternoon promised plenty more, and it sure delivered!  After a hearty meal and a much-needed rest hour, the teams gathered for another “psych-up” meeting before heading back out to venues in all corners of Skylemar.

The littlest guys were down at the lake, where choppy waters prevented the ski-off that would have broken the tie.  Gray won the Swimming element while Red took the Boating, splitting the afternoon Waterfront point.

On the Hockey court, Joaquin knocked in a rebound followed by TI’s insurance goal to go up 2-0.  Good thing for Gray as Mason tallied late to bring Red within one, but it wasn’t quite enough to keep the Gray Sophomores from holding on for the win.

Gray also won Tigers Baseball 7-3, doing most of the damage early before giving up a few late runs.

When word spread of the Gray Juniors win in the first Lax game over at the Hejduk, it seemed up to the Red Juniors to put a stop to the Gray afternoon run.  They controlled much of the Game 2 action, but Harvey‘s debut in the cage was sensational, making saves on shots from all angles, preserving the 2-2 tie that gave the Juniors Lacrosse point to Gray.

It finally appeared that Red had halted Gray’s afternoon momentum when their Freshmen volleyed their way out of a deep hole created by Gray’s advantage in the Tennis Stroke Skills portion on the Sky II Tennis courts.  Red won 4 of the 6 singles and doubles matches played at both Sky’s I and II to stem the tide.  But then news of the Gray Seniors Bocce win followed (another three game, extended match that was decided on the final throws), and left a gathering gallery of fans closely monitoring Seniors Golf.  Gray led 5-4 with one match left on the course. The crowd watched intently as Noah L vs Harry went the distance, but ended in a tie, also preserving the Seniors Golf point for Gray, 5 ½-4 ½.

The most fantastic finish of the day came in the sometimes-rough, always-tough Stars Football game.  Red jumped out early, scoring the first two times it had the ball for a 16-0 lead before the teams spent the better part of the next 3 quarters trading touchdowns.  Late in the 4^th quarter, Gray, playing behind for most of the game, got the defensive stop they needed and one more possession to try to win it. A minute later, when Captain Sam went sliding on his knees to snare a long TD pass in the corner of the endzone with eight seconds left, Gray had all but completed the most improbable comeback.  But wait, Red was not done.  After the ensuing kick-off return, Red had three seconds left, enough time to get off one final play.  Then a long bomb from QB Michael was hauled in by Sam M as he lunged toward the goal line, rolled into the endzone and raised his hands high above awaiting the referee’s call. With confirmation by ‘instant replay” (sharpshooting photo director Shannon had the money shot)  the play came up inches short of the goal line, again preserving the victory for Gray.

Red had taken the morning lead, but Gray responded in a huge way, nearly sweeping the afternoon, and seizing command as the action-packed athletic activities of the day ended.

Tonight’s traditional first night event, the Ping Pong Competition would close Day 1, but no one could have figured it ending in equally thrilling fashion.  With 21 matches on the docket, it would take 11 wins to grab the Ping Pong point. The bright moonlit Maine sky backlit the tri-table arena under the Pavilion lights making for a spectacular setting.  Red surged ahead winning seven of the first eleven matches before Gray went on a streak of their own to go up 10-8 on the verge of victory. But then, Red evened it up at 10, leaving Red’s Charlie F vs Gray’s Nick N alone playing their 3^rd and deciding game (they split the first 2 of 3) in the middle of 220 sets of Red and Gray eyes focused solely on them.  Back and forth it went.  Each point seemed like it went on forever, each daring the other to miss (rarely) until finally…. finally…. Nick and his Gray Team carried Ping Pong, and at least for tonight, will sleep on the lead.  Whew…good night!

Veteran Skyparents have probably read about Elections year after year.  It’s easy to imagine the excitement in the Rec Hall as the votes are tallied, and it’s understandable why this process is so important to the kids.

But when you’re a parent of a boy on the Ballot, you see Election Night through a whole new lens.

Of course there are many who had their heart set on becoming Captain. Even those who say that they wouldn’t want the responsibility have a glimmer of hope that it could possibly be them.  Parents may wonder if their son was ok, and how he would handle the disappointment.

But just so you know, the brotherhood of 20 was totally fine after the Election.  Sure, there was a sting, which happens anytime something doesn’t go to plan.  But these guys are smart and strong, and they bounce back quickly when given the opportunity to do so.  Plus, it’s a lot easier to handle disappointment when you’re not the only one feeling it.

Most importantly, the Stars will soon learn a valuable life-long lesson.  That is, you don’t have to be chosen as the captain to be the leader of the team.  These guys all have a team to run!

No doubt, the two Captains selected are outstanding guys, who will be terrific role models for all.  But the kids look up to every member of the Stars Division, and count on all of them to lead Camp Skylemar’s Color War 2023.

By now the secret draft is complete, and the Color War magic begins.  While all are asleep, the Captains will pin either a Red or Gray ribbon to the pillow of each Skylemar camper, signifying their team.  Tomorrow cannot come soon enough!

Tonight was proof.  Even one vote matters.

Here’s how it happened…

They’ve been counting down since July 19^th.  “10 more days!”, they would chant at meals.  Then “9 more days!”, and so forth.  Until today, the one that many consider to be the most important of the year.

It was the night that our 15-year-old campers have thought about since they were Cubs.  For those of all ages, it was the most talked about and highly anticipated evenings of the summer.  COLOR WAR ELECTIONS 2023!

It’s a nerve-racking day for the Stars Division.  Each of the 22 young men have the opportunity to be selected by the camp as Captain of the Red or Gray Team.  But as we know, no one can ever be sure how a democratic election will turn out.

The Stars truly are an impressive and united group.  Even our first year camper Mel was welcomed so warmly that you’d never believe he hadn’t been here for years.  You could see the genuine love for each other at the Annual Sky II Lobster Lunch.

The camaraderie continued through 7^th period, as those on The Ballot put on their “lucky jersey” and linked arms for photo opps.  As the camp filled the Rec Hall, the Stars took their seats on the Gerhard Stage, overlooking their many brothers of all ages.

“Welcome to Skylemar’s 75^th Color War Election”, Shep bellowed.  He explained that the traditions of Color War dated back to 1948, and the foundation established by Lee and Herb is just as important now as always.

To begin with, Skylemar’s Color War is played entirely on the fields and courts.  Sincere sportsmanship is paramount.  Color War stays out of the cabin.  Inside the cabin and at meals it’s bunk-brothers as always.

Each camper, no matter the age, will cast a vote for two Stars who they believe should be the leaders of Skylemar.  On one hand, it’s a difficult decision because there are so many good choices.  On the other, each on The Ballot has the potential to be an amazing leader.

Skylemar’s Color War is competitive and fair, because the Captains secretly draft the teams by Division.  There is no adult involvement.  Captains select strategically with the goal of winning as their primary focus.  They not only consider athletic ability, but also factors like theatrical talent for Songs and Cheers as well as who they think would be best for motivating the team. Because the Captains consider the Division overall, the bunks are not divided equally.  Brothers, cousins, friends and bunkmates are not necessarily on the same team, and it could end up with just one person in the cabin on Red and all the rest on Gray.  That’s why it’s important that Color War stays out of the cabin.

Each camper should play with all of their heart.  However, win or lose, the key is to not overreact.  Be joyful when you play well, but never gloat.  Be disappointed when things don’t go your way but shake it off and keep trying.

A powerful moment came when Shep asked those in the audience who were former Captains to stand.  A small number of grown men came to their feet.  Next Shep asked for those who were on The Ballot but did not win to come forward.  For this, several dozen stood.  The point was – Red and Gray will have one captain each, but the many team members matter most.

The candidates were introduced, and here’s how it went…

The magic number was 110 tonight – representing one more than ½ the total participants in this year’s Color War, and the number of votes needed to win election as one of our two Captains.  First the candidates voted, then kept secluded away in the Garden Cabin.  One by one, each boy approached the Stage and wrote 2 names on a slip of paper before dropping it into the ballot bucket.

When all had voted, Shep then reached into the bucket and read each, one by one, as Nick recorded and tallied the votes.  The countdown was on….”10!”, “9!”, “8!”… The kids screamed as one candidate’s tally got close to the magic number until finally …”3!”, “2!”, “1!”… and….

The crowd had worked itself up in frenzied anticipation for the 1^st elected Captain of 2023:  Sam DeFrancesca!  DeFran was mobbed as he stormed through the Rec Hall doors into the arms of his constituents!

One down, one to go, as Shep then continued the process.  But no other candidate reached the magic number!  There were just too many great candidates to choose from, spreading the vote amongst them.  So a second ballot was needed (without DeFran on it), and the process started all over again.  This time the boys only had to vote for one person. Once again, after all had voted, the Sheps read and tallied the votes. The noisy countdown for our second Captain had reached a fever pitch at 109, one short of the necessary votes to win!  The crowd was suddenly silenced by the empty bucket, leaving us one vote shy of electing the second Captain.

So amazingly, a third ballot became necessary, and we started all over again.  This time, the candidate pool was reduced to only the top 3 vote-getters from Ballot Two as the only choices for Ballot Three.  Each boy voted, now for the third time before Shep and Nick once again did their thing, reading aloud and tallying the votes.  And finally…  Michael Hildebrandt was elected as our second Captain! He too was embraced in a wild Rec Hall celebration.

Once the crowd had settled, there were still a few administrative details needed to be sorted out to get set for Sunday’s Color War start, namely the selection of colors and each team’s Stars Lieutenants. After a couple of coin flips, one to determine who gets to pick color, the other to determine the picking order for the lieutenants, Sam chose Gray and selected Grant and Tosh as his top assistants.  Captain Michael chose Sam M and Jesse to help lead his Red Team.

Tomorrow night, Shep will assemble the Red and Gray team leaders well after dark to select their entire teams, setting the stage for Sunday’s opening of a most thrilling week.  Stay tuned, this is only the beginning.

It was one of those weird weather days.  Mother Nature couldn’t decide between sun or rain, so it ended up muggy with lots of back and forth.   We’d get on the courts and fields and then it would rain.  Then we’d go under cover long enough for an over-the-PA trivia game and the sun would break through.  We’d try again, and there’d be a downpour.  By afternoon we switched to a Rainy Day Schedule in the Lodge, Gym, Garden Cabin, and SkyDeck.

In the Rec Hall was a super fun game show — Thrift Store Price is Right. It’s played kind of like the TV show, but in our case the items to price come from our local Goodwill.  Lots of “junk for the bunk”, like a wooden foot massager, golf ball personalizer, hand-held pinball game, a monster riding a motorcycle, Chicago Bears wall art and a happy honeymoon picture frame.  Not exactly what they’ve always wanted, but when it comes to a competition, they feel like they need it!

Each Bunk sends up a representative to guess the price, and the two bunks that are closest get to play a “mini-game” to win the item they priced.  For example, in one game the contestants each blew up a balloon and then let the air out to push cups off the table.  First team to knock off 8 cups with air only was the winner.  In another round they put on a slinky head band, bent over and then tried to be the first team to toss their head back to make the slinky recoil.  Another game involved one volunteer with a tongue-depressor in his mouth, and teammates stacking dice on top of the tongue-depressor. Highest tower wins!

Most exciting was the Showcase Showdown, which included a blue dinosaur and a trip for their cabin to Causeway Dairy Bar in “downtown” Naples.  Price was $96.50.  This trip will head out tomorrow sometime.  Meanwhile, lots of other trips are now home-sweet-home.

The Lions had an amazing experience lobster fishing.  They learned about the process and were lucky enough to catch the biggest lobster of the season – a 3 1/2 pounder!  Afterwards they went to see where Maine potato donuts are made… and got to taste them too!

The JCs are back from their Boston trip.  After touring Harvard, they went to a Red Sox game.  It was a two-hour rain delay, but since they were the special guests of a Skylemar alum, they were comfortable and happy.  Maybe a little sleepy in the morning, since they didn’t get back until after 2 AM.

We’re especially proud of the Seniors, who climbed Mt. Lafayette in the Presidential Range.   It was an eight-mile hike up to the top, where they slept and ate in an AMC hut.  The hut was one in the series of rustic bunkhouses scattered throughout the Appalachian Trail.

There were a number of other camps on the trail, but eight (yes, they counted) different hikers said that we were the best group.  That’s because our guys climbed as a unified group, who were kind and friendly to all. The team of workers in the hut said that we were the “greatest camp ever”.

Each of our hikers was given the responsibility to be in charge for 20 minutes.  That meant they needed to encourage the group and lead the discussion about topics like demonstrating the Cool2Care concept at home.  Shout-out to Logan G for being considerate to all and especially aware of safety, Noah L for “walking the walk and not talking the talk” as well as for appreciating opportunity, and to Dylan J for an extra positive attitude which even included helping the hut crew clean up after dinner.

Our international travelers are back as well.  The Stars trip to Quebec was as memorable as always. There’s so much to learn there, especially because the primary language is French.  They explored the Old City and gained an understanding of the culture and history.  They also did lots of shopping and eating.

Highlights included the many street performers, the Plains of Abraham (historic battlefield), Chez Marie Bakery (freshly baked bread from outdoor stone ovens), Montmorency Falls (taller than Niagara), and the Shrine of Sainte-Anne-de-Beaupré.

Visiting the Shrine is especially memorable, because suspended from the ceilings are crutches and wheelchairs of the hundreds of thousands who have come in hopes of being healed.  It’s a powerful testament of faith that those of any religion are touched by.

Most touching for us was to hear about how the guys decided all on their own to chip in and buy the bus driver a gift.  We’re told they were polite and respectful wherever they went.

That’s our boys!

We are the luckiest.  Not only does Skylemar have the greatest guys in the whole wide world, but we also have Trickey Pond.

Designated by the Maine Department of Environmental Protection (DEP) as “highest water quality”, Trickey Pond is considered to be a gem out of the 6,000 bodies of water in the State.  A couple of miles long and half mile across, Trickey Pond has exceptional clarity.  You can see all the way down 40 feet.  In fact, it’s so clean that it’s the water we filter and drink.

No one knows for sure where the name “Trickey” actually comes from.  Some say there was at one time a General Trickey (which makes sense because of the odd spelling) who the pond was named for.  Others say it has to do with the tricky sounds of the loons, and maybe the first mapmaker wasn’t such a good speller.

Trickey doesn’t feed into other bodies of water, so it’s typically quiet and serene. Those with big boats go elsewhere.  The lake is primarily enjoyed by Skylemar, some homeowners, a campground and occasional fishermen.  The fishing is awesome with plenty of land-locked salmon and smallmouth bass.  There’s also trout, splake, smelt and perch too.

To campers and staff, Trickey Pond is the favorite place for playing on the inflatables, swimming, fishing, snorkeling, skiing, tubing, paddleboarding, kayaking, canoeing, sailing, wakesurfing, splashing and playing by the beach.  There’s no place better, especially on a very hot day.

To us, Trickey Pond is our responsibility.  Not only do Peter, Joel and the entire waterfront staff have the duty to keep all safe in the water, but we also have the responsibility to keep the lake as healthy as possible for our neighbors as well.  We’re committed to doing the best we can environmentally, so in addition to a mile of tree-lined shores, at the beach we’ve added erosion control mulch, water-bars and numerous plantings.

We’re proud that those across and down the lake are our friends, and we strive to be good, dependable neighbors.  It makes us smile to hear that they know when it’s time to wake or go to sleep because of our bugles, and sometimes they forget to eat lunch after the camp season ends when there are no reminders.

Also important for keeping our lake in top-notch shape is the Trickey Pond Environmental Protection Association (TPEPA).  This organization staffs boat inspectors at the boat launch to make sure that invasive species don’t enter the lake. They sponsor studies and advise all of us on best practices.  If you are able to help support this non-profit, please CLICK HERE (www.trickeypond.org).

Today was a sweltering hot Trickey Pond kind of day.  It also was a Wacky Water Wednesday in the afternoon.  While some were at the lake, others were up top playing water games and getting wet by the garden hose.   No matter what toys they come out with, a regular old hose is still the most fun.  The refreshing snack was a Lemon Stick… a soft, porous candy cane that goes into a lemon.  The stick then becomes a straw, making the lemon juice and peppermint a tasty combo.

The biggest kids, our counselors, probably had the most fun spraying and getting sprayed.  When they have fun, the kids have even more.

Time does not stand still at Skylemar.  In fact, it runs a whole lot faster.

So much is packed into every hour at camp that a day equals a week, a week equals a month and a month equals a year.  What was such a big deal three days ago has long been forgotten.

At this point in the season each cabin is in the groove.  For the most part everyone knows and accepts each other’s idiosyncrasies.  Sure, there are minor disagreements, but for the most part we’re a band of brothers.

We saw it on the tennis courts during the Camp Championships.  In between match play, the courts were filled with those casually hitting. Leopold asked his partner Cooper E for help with his serve.  Coop offered some tips and patiently coached his friend on toss and follow-through.  As Leopold followed the instructions of his 12-year-old coach, those of us on the other side of the court were impressed with the improvement.

When the tournament began, it was surprising to see that the first match was actually Cooper vs Leopold.  Even though Cooper was determined to win the match, he had taken the time to help his opponent become a better player.  Now that’s brotherhood.

Tonight’s Talent Show II was a more relaxed vibe than the first.  This time most of the acts fell into the silly category, which is as to be expected at this point of the season.  That’s because everyone’s now totally comfortable performing in front of their Skylemar family, and they know that it’s fine to giggle and the audience laughs too.  Theo burped, Ethan K and Eli W made duck noises, Jacob W screamed, Carter S whistled.  Spencer S read a page of a book, and Bunk 26 read some kind of poem.  Several others played sports, tossed hats, rapped, flipped, danced or dressed up like Spiderman.  Sawyer did an excellent impression of Shep.  Truly talented was Asher on the piano, and the Nolan-Hayes Duo.  Nolan played “Riptide” on the ukulele while Hayes sang.  Such a happy night, and the winners were especially pleased with their prize of a much-too-big staff shirt.

Love was in the air, as we said farewell to Senior Staffers Lexie and Mitch.  They will be married in just a few weeks, so it was time to head back to Wisconsin for wedding prep.  Their parting gift was a book of advice for the newlyweds, written by Skylemar campers.  There were lots of traditional suggestions like “don’t go to bed angry”, but our favorite one was far more direct:  “Please flush the toilet”.

Only at Skylemar.  After all, he did say “please”.

The top three times of the day at Skylemar:  Breakfast, lunch and dinner.

To the kids, it’s magic.  You show up when the bugle blows and poof!  There’s an elaborate buffet of entrees and side dishes just waiting to be eaten.  Of course we know where it comes from – the SkyKitchen that over the years has been recognized by the health inspector as one of the cleanest and most well-run in the state.  Plus the food is delicious!

There’s a large kitchen staff, because we recognize how important food is to a boy.   If we combine all the years that this group’s been working at Skylemar it comes to over 150!   Head Chef Junior is in charge.  He has three assistants: Juan Carlos, Superman and Mike, plus a crew of eight (Julio, Jonathan, Billy, Antonio, Avid, Byron, Jairo and Cesar) for food prep and cleaning.  Rich is our Food Service Director Emeritus, who has trained Blake to handle the daily ordering, amongst many other tasks.  RoseMaria, assisted by Jayde, are the dynamic duo of special diets, who make sure everyone with unique circumstances has exactly what he needs and enjoys.

For just one breakfast, the crew cracks 1,260 eggs.  While most chefs use a liquid egg product for such a large crowd, Junior is a purist.  He grew up on a farm, so only believes in the kind that you crack.  Some chefs might use fruit from a bag, but Junior insists on cutting the cantaloupe and honeydew melon fresh daily.  As for meatballs, most kitchens would buy them pre-made and frozen.  Not Junior – he makes them from scratch.  Before the kids even arrive, he and the crew spend days making 14,400 balls.

The quantities are staggering, and so are the costs.  For one dinner it’s 23 turkeys, 100 pounds each of potatoes and stuffing, but only 20 pounds of peas (not a fan fav…).  Served with that is 70 pounds of pasta for those who don’t care for Thanksgiving Dinner, plus 150 heads of lettuce, 200 each of tomatoes and cucumbers,  plus more.   $7K is the minimum cost per day to feed our guys.

Each year we get emails from parents asking for some of Junior’s cooking secrets.  For one, he’s a big believer in slow, moist heat.  For example, when he makes grilled chicken he undercooks just a bit, and then puts it in a warmer at 175 degrees for an hour.  A warmer equates to a regular oven with a pan of water on the bottom shelf for added moisture.  This way the chicken is never dry.

Here’s a few more tips:

Rice – Baking makes it perfect, and there’s far less sticky mess.  Mix boiling water and rice with a 2:1 ratio in a baking pan.  Cover and bake at 350 for 45 minutes.

Caesar Salad – Toss romaine generously with powered garlic.  Add homemade croutons and Ken’s Pepper Parmesan or Ranch dressing.  Toss in parmesan cheese.   This is much better than Caesar-flavored dressing, but you’d think that it was.

Croutons – Cut leftover bread cubes from French bread or hamburger/hot dog buns.  Toss with olive oil, and then powdered garlic and Adobo seasoning.  Bake at 350 for 10 minutes.  The guys love to snack on these too.

Preparing three meals is long, hard and hot.  In fact, it’s about 10 degrees hotter in the kitchen than whatever it is outside.  Nevertheless, our dedicated kitchen staff makes it happen with a smile.  They aim to please and we are grateful.

Fantastic news! The sun shined brightly today, and the weatherman promises no rain for the next six days!

There’s such a great vibe in the air.  Polar Bears are swimming, the Camp Championship Tennis Tournament is happening, and Leagues (competitive sports played within each Division) are in full swing.  The Fred Pierce Field is still soggy, but Hejduk Field at Sky II is totally dry and ready to go for Baseball and Soccer Leagues.

Interestingly, both of those fields, along with Snow Field, were named for our very special and much loved Maintenance Directors.  Fred Pierce was before our time, but Burt Hejduk, Rich Snow and now Ed Bartlett are some of the most brilliant, talented and highly skilled people we have ever met.

Ed’s day begins at 5 AM, with a daily test of the water system.  Then it’s on to vehicle checks and a morning walk-thru.  He needs to be sure that everything’s just right in over 50 buildings on 200 acres.  His Maintenance Crew of 14 wonderful workers must all be assigned to mowing, cleaning, repairing, building and a million other things that are involved with caring for Camp Skylemar.  How blessed we are to have such a loyal dream-team protecting this facility.

Tonight Ed and his crew set-up an amazing “block party” at Sky II, with giant inflatable activities that included bungee runs, slides, obstacle courses and blow-up sports.  The music had us dancing, and the snow cones were especially refreshing on such a warm night.  It was a true community feel, as our older guys played with those much younger, and vice versa.

There are things to look forward to every day at Skylemar.  Most important one of all is just being together.

A framed quote by the Dalai Lama sits on the office shelf.  It reads, “My religion is very simple.  My religion is kindness”.

We could say the same about Cool2Care at Skylemar.  It’s our guiding principle, almost like a religion.

But here’s the thing.  Just like any core value, it doesn’t mean that it’s followed all the time.  After all, we’re human.

In any one day at Skylemar there are five hundred examples of kindness and doing the right thing.  On the other hand, there are also dozens of times that someone forgets.

“Forgetting” means not being sensitive to the feelings of others… or just plain being not nice.  Occasionally it means losing a temper.    In order for a child to learn from his mistakes, at Skylemar he’s given the opportunity to fix them.

Taking this a step further…

As humans, there are things we could do, as well as things we should do.  Our hope is to instill the value of doing what you should do, as opposed to what you could do.

For example, you could load your plate with food, take a few bites, and throw most of it away.  But should you?

Or, if someone is treating another unkindly, you could join in.  But should you?

Coulds vs shoulds apply to everyone, not just kids.  For example, consider social media.  You could post something that’s considered offensive by others.  Perhaps it’s a negative review about a restaurant you just tried.  But should you?

The Sophomore Division had the opportunity to learn about coulds and shoulds today.  While on an overnight trip, these 12-year-olds misbehaved in a movie theatre.  Of course not every boy was throwing popcorn and not all acted disrespectfully.  But the poor behavior was definitely contagious, and the kids did not respond to the counselors correction.

So…Blake had the manager turn off the movie.  The boys cleaned the floor.  They apologized to the staff. And the rest of the trip was cancelled.

Once back at camp, there was a serious talk with the Division about coulds and shoulds.  You could act in a way that embarrasses others.  But should you?

From our point of view, we could have had no consequence and just continued on with the trip.  But should we have?

In the “fixing” discussion, Shep gave the opportunity for all to speak and tell their side of the story.  It was important for those who didn’t act inappropriately to be supported, and they did exactly what the world needs more of — they spoke up on behalf of what was wrong, and explained how things should have been right.

Those at the meeting who knew that they personally had mistakes to fix were invited to stay for an in-depth conversation.  The discussion included the four steps of an apology:

• First, you need to feel sorry about whatever happened.
• Then you need to apologize to all the right people.
• Next you have to do whatever it takes to prove that you’re sorry.
• The final step is to remember the mistake, and never do it again.

In our world, “proving” means to go the extra mile at being your kindest self.  Be the one who demonstrates how to do the right thing.  Have fun, but put on the brakes for yourself and others.  Always remember that shoulds matter more than the coulds.

Tomorrow we trrrryyyyyyy again.  We’ll turn the page and start fresh, remembering how much we love these guys.  Lots of learning every day.  After all, it’s for-real here.

The Tigers went to college!

Bunks 8, 9 and 10 went on an excursion to Lewiston, Maine.  First stop was the trampoline park which everyone loved.  Funnest part was that we had the entire place to ourselves.

Then on to Bates College!  Recent grads Blake and Malcolm took the kids to some special parts of campus, like the dining hall.  It was a different kind of all-you-can-eat buffet, which included everything from fast-food to Israeli couscous.  Most exciting was the soda dispensers where you could make your own drink out of a little bit of everything.   Food scientists in the making!

After playing games on the collegiate-sized turf, they were treated to a Q&A with one of the Bates lacrosse coaches.  Interestingly, even these 10-year-olds had questions for him about the recruiting and admissions process.  Up next was the Planetarium Show, which most had never experienced before.   For the counselors, the dark room with twinkling stars was especially relaxing.

Meanwhile, other groups were out on day hikes.  The little guys climbed Douglas Mountain, while those with legs a little longer hiked Bald Pate.  Both have spectacular views at the top… and blueberries to pick too!

The Lions went to Pineland Farms in New Gloucester.  It’s a 5,000-acre working farm that also has an education center as well as recreational activities.  They learned lots about cows and their incredibly gentle nature.  The boys also enjoyed the  tour… and some great ice cream too!

It was white-water rafting today for the Sophomores.  Exhilarating… and they loved it!  After a movie they settled in at their NH campsite for the night.

Here at camp we enjoyed a perfect Maine day.  It was good-mood weather and finally the schedule went exactly to plan… sport to sport, court to court and down to Trickey Pond.  We even fit in GACU, thanks to our wonderful nurses and the crew who ran The Spa.

Evening Activity was Magician Peter Boie.  Ours is a savvy and intelligent audience, which is not so easy for the average magician.  Luckily, Peter really can pull a rabbit out of a hat.  He’s also great at including lots of volunteers, who eagerly raise their hands to be chosen.  As you know, Skylemar guys are always happy to be a part of the show.

It’s a double-power shower for this camp director!  After hitting “publish” last night and heading to bed, Moose, our Newfoundland, found a skunk.   Luckily it’s a hot, humid day… perfect for bath after bath.

For our four-legged campers, Skylemar is dog nirvana.   Here they are lavished with pats, pets and belly rubs.  They spend the day mostly in the office and appreciate the many visitors who stop by throughout any one day.

Seven dogs make up Bunk 0.  Summit the Husky is stunning and gentle, and a bit aloof.  Given the opportunity off leash, she’d run to Philadelphia.   Finn is the jolly Golden Retriever, with a warm, friendly temperament.  Billy Bob, who’s a little of this and that, is the best behaved and sticks with Catie at the Ropes Course.

Cubbie, the black King Charles Spaniel, is the oldest and is blind in one eye. The kids ask questions about this, and show genuine concern. Her sister Trix loves to be held, so she’s definitely a crowd-pleaser with the younger bunks.  Moose, the now-stinky giant, is the leader of the pack.  She sneaks into the Pavilion occasionally, and “vacuums” under the tables.

Slugger is the toddler, which in dog years converts to the Cubs Division.  His attention span is “age appropriate”, and he’s the most interested in what Skylemar has lots of – balls.  Near the tennis courts he’s like a kid in a candy store.

Interestingly, the dogs seem to know whoever belongs here.  An occasional delivery truck is greeted with loud barking, but never the regulars.  Julian, the daily UPS driver brings treats, and the dogs get excited when he pulls in the lot.  Maybe dogs really can see the color brown.

The theory that gentle dogs are good for mental health is something we totally buy into.  Research shows that petting and interacting with a dog lowers the stress hormone cortisol, and increases the feel-good hormone oxytocin.  What we see here is that a loving dog is sometimes exactly what’s needed when someone needs any kind of a boost.

Tonight was the search for other animals around camp.  It was the Wild Game Hunt.  That’s when the counselors hide, and the kids have to find them.  Each is worth a certain number of points, and they can often be found in trees or under something.  Best spot we’ve seen was right out in the open.  A counselor got inside a duffle bag that was on the office porch.  No one gave it a second thought!

Parents are the most important people in the world to their son.  But no matter how hard they try, there’s one thing they can never be — a Skylemar JC.

Through the lens of a camper, the JC’s (which stands for Junior Counselor) are pretty much the coolest guys ever.  They’re Skylemar grads, who return in sort of a hybrid position.  They live together at Hilltop and spend part of the day playing sports with the oldest guys.  The rest of the day is spent as the “big brother” to a cabin of little guys.  They’re with them at meals, Rest Hours, Evening Activities and other times in between.  What they offer the kids is the best gift of all – their time.

JCs are fun.  Take tonight for example.  It was Campfire Night, but it couldn’t be at the Ring of Champions because of the rain.  Instead we were in the Rec Hall.  Cory was as amazing as ever with her “Princess Pat” and “Banana” song.  Aiden and Sarah were awesome on the guitar singing “Take Me To Church” by Hozier, and Adventure Man intrigued by teaching all how to make a poncho out of a trash bag.

But the super funny and impressive part was when the JCs were involved.  First, they did the synchronized swim skit.  You may have seen it before, where a blue tarp is held up and they pretend to be swimming in a pool.  But this was better than usual because they set up mattresses on the other side, allowing them to “dive” right in.  Everyone loved it.

Even better was the JCs “C2C Rap” that followed.  It went like this:

[Verse 1 – Malibu Fru]

Yo, gather ’round, Skylemar fam, let’s make it clear,

C2C, yeah that’s the motto we hold dear,

It’s cool to care for others, that’s our vibe,

Welcoming all, spreading love worldwide.

[Verse 2 – Jack C]

Teaching skills, we got it goin’ on,

Passin’ knowledge, makin’ bonds strong,

From archery to arts, we share the know-how,

C2C in action, watch us now.

[Verse 3 – Eli K]

Good manners never go out of style,

Holdin’ doors, lettin’ others smile,

Respect and kindness, that’s our stance,

C2C means giving everyone a chance.

[Verse 4 – Zach O]

Jake, Jack, Eli, we’re in the game,

But hold up, here comes Grant, bringin’ the flame,

As a camp united, hand in hand, (hold up the C2C hand sign)

C2C brothers, we make Skylemar grand.

[Verse 5 – Grant N]

Skylemar’s our home, we protect and cherish,

From sunrise to sunset, we never let it perish,

Caring for our camp, in every little way,

It’s in our hearts, every single day.

[Verse 6 – Burnie]

I’m Burnie, oh yeah, the campfire’s gettin’ hotter,

C2C spreadin’, like wildfire, not water,

Camp Skylemar, oh, it’s the place to be,

Cool to care, it’s our united decree.

[Verse 7 – All]

Cool2Care, Skylemar’s motto blazing,

Caring for others, for ourselves, and Sky fam’s raising,

JC squad up here standing with pride,

Spreading love and care our way far and wide.

So remember, Sky fam, as we ignite,

C2C in our hearts, shining so bright,

At campfire tonight, let the world see,

Cool2Care, the motto that sets us free.

Campers truly look up to JC’s, and this year’s group are outstanding role models.  Over the years they’ve been a group that has continuously made us proud, and we’re glad they’re back in 2023.

Sports Highlight

Over at the Hejduk diamond at Sky II, we hosted a 12U Baseball tourney that ran most of the day.  In Game 1 of their AM/PM double-header, our squad found themselves locked up in a scoreless pitcher’s duel into the last inning.  Sam P reached base to open the bottom half of the last inning, stole 2^nd, and scored on a walk-off, head-first slide a few moments later to win it for us, 1-0.  Both Cooper’s E & F were dominant on the mound throughout, combining for the shutout.  In Game 2, the offense came alive after falling behind 4-2 early, tied it up late, then were on the verge of the double-header sweep… until the threat of a storm ended our own threat (2 on, none out) and play was called at 4-apiece.

Very, very once-in-a-while does it happen.  If you’re lucky enough to have a birthday at camp then you get to do it.  For everyone else it was during the Lip Sync Battle.  Shep actually came up with the idea.

Yes, it’s true.  We got to stand on the table.

It was last night during the pouring rain while the air was really hot.  Therefore, it made the most sense for all of us to be in the open-air Pavilion for Evening Activity.  In order for all to see the dancers and singers, Shep moved three picnic tables together to become a stage.

Each Bunk got to pick a song, which they turned into sort of a music video.  Some were hysterical and some were just silly.  But one thing’s for sure: those on the picnic-table stage had a blast.  Pretty much every song had the entire audience singing along.  The vibe was all about fun.

More performances today, but this time it was the counselors presenting the show. The Staff Talent Show was fantastic, and we especially loved how the kids cheered for their own counselors.  There were musicians, comedians, jugglers, and dramatic readers.  Pretty much everyone truly had talent.

Counselors were also on stage for Clinic Commercials.  With temps in the 90’s, we watched from the shade under the trees  — advertisements for this week’s Clinic options included “Anybody Can Play Football” and “Dribble & Pass Soccer”.  “Boating and Bracelets” combines Chilltop with the Sail Dock for those who want to make a bracelet while out on a boat.  There was “Field Games & Low Elements” to challenge you down at the Ropes Course and “Volleyball not Newcomb” as well.  “Ski Dawgs” was open to all who want to improve their waterskiing and wakesurfing skills.  “Camp Championship Tennis” offers competitive play for every age group in preparation for our own Divisional upcoming tourneys.

Coach Jim will host a “Hockey Combine” for all to sharpen their skills.  Coach Mitch’s “Baseball Fielding Clinic” will focus on defensive play, both grounders and fly balls.  Coach Peter advertised the Swim Dock’s focus – “Racing Techniques at the Waterfront” – and a chance to break some records.  “SkyDines” (a cool combo of Sky Deck and Sky Pines) offers our youngest groups the chance to learn how to cook on an open fire. “Let It Rip Shooting” on the Lacrosse field will challenge laxers to beat Bryce’s 92 on the radar gun.

It’s the “British Open” here too on the Skylemar links, offering 5-hole matches in Match Play, Scramble, and Stroke Play formats!  “Hoop It Up”  with the greatest basketball counselors of all time if you “want to play like MJ, handle the ball like Chris Paul, or score in a flurry like Steph Curry.”   Over at “Gainsville”, the focus will be explosivity, endurance and strength…to get bigger, stronger and faster.

The choice is yours!

A little bit of Mary Poppins.  A touch of the Tooth Fairy.  A favorite Auntie.  The big sister you’ve always wanted.

That’s a Skylemar Tough Chick.

She’s strong, sharp, clever and beautiful, inside and out.  She’s gentle, kind and just who you need when a hug is in order.

It takes a very special lady to work at an all-boys camp.  First, you need talent and expertise in a particular area, like swimming or health care.  Then comes the important part.  You need to feel comfortable living in a boy’s world.

For instance, you need to understand when a lacrosse game takes precedence over play rehearsal or a hard-to-get orthodontist appointment.  You need to notice when a boy wears a shirt two days in a row, remembering that counselors are big boys too.  And of course you need to find just a teeny-tiny bit of humor in someone burping the ABC’s.

Cookie baker, jibit-buyer, bedtime story-reader.  She’s tough enough to clip toenails, clean up whatever’s nasty, and go through dirty laundry in search of a missing something.  And as you know, these guys are always missing something.

She’s who you turn to for solutions.  Need a shirt for an intercamp game, just minutes before departure?  Just ask any one of the SkyGirls, and she’ll make it happen.

They help even the most timid to feel comfortable swimming, creating and performing.  They have a start-to-finish attitude every day — set up, play, clean up, repeat.  They take pride in being an influencer, making a positive difference in the world, one boy at a time.

Our heroines put the kids first.  Always.  They help to make others look good and be their best.  For instance, the boys might not even know that three fairy princesses (Betty, Mary and Solana) appear while they’re on the fields and re-clean the bunk bathrooms.

When all are dragging because of the rain, the girls dig deep and bring on the positive energy.  They go the extra mile or whatever it takes to be a valuable, fun, loyal and much loved member of the Skylemar family.

So favorite SkyGirls, we love you forever.  You’re practically perfect in every way.

They’re here!  The greatest parents in the whole wide world!

Despite numerous plane delays and cancellations, and even though a local parade stopped traffic for what seemed like forever, 400-some guests made it to Skylemar today.  Those who were able to join us were treated to a running-leap-into-a-giant hug.  Love waves were in the air, along with the heat and high humidity.

Campers proudly showed off for those they love most on the fields, courts and waterfront.  The staff truly appreciated that parents were spectators while the kids played, so that the day could be as “sky-normal” as possible.

For those not able to join us, don’t worry!  Your son was adopted by hundreds and lavished with love as well.  In fact, a few told their parents that there’s no need to come next year – Luci gives presents.

We were impressed by those who kept up with the Skylemar pace, moving from place to place, sport to sport.  All were exhausted, but as you know, boys have a way of just going and going.  Every tear was dried by the time the guys climbed through the giant obstacle course, jumped across the “Big Baller”, and tried to “dunk” their favorite staff member.   It was back to regular camp life at the Drive-In Movie, except for some little guys who fell asleep right on the grass.

Thank you for coming, and for respecting the rules of Parent Visiting Day.  OK, maybe some of you broke the one about bringing no more food than can be consumed in two days (wink wink).

But no matter what, he and we love you, to the Sky and back.

If only the parents could see this.

It’s something we’ve wished for over and over.  In fact, that was the impetus for writing this Blog in the first place.  Our hope is to give you a peek into the world of Skylemar, without spoiling the magic.

There are things you’d see that would melt your heart, like when little guys cuddle up on the lap of a tattooed, brawny football player.   Or when the fifteen-year-olds interrupt Nick Shep’s lax announcement by yelling “shout-out Mel!” in support of a teammate who didn’t make it on the field, but who nevertheless cheered with all his might.

You’d feel proud each time he tried something new, especially without your suggestion.  It could be Waterskiing or the Zipline or being on stage doing a touchdown dance.

You might be a little bit appalled if you saw the shape of their cabin at 3:30 in the afternoon.  Then again, there’s no mom, dad or housekeeper to follow up, and this bedroom holds the stuff of 8 brothers.

On the other hand, in the morning you’d be impressed to see these guys making beds, emptying trash and cleaning a toilet (well, kinda…).  They come up with ingenious ways to handle these tasks, like sweeping with socks or pushing the dirt off the steps with a dustpan (that’s your kid, Lauren S).

You’d be astonished to hear with your very own ears a “yes, please” and “no thank you” from every single boy, over and over, as they approach each server in the buffet line.  For the most part you’d feel good about the choices he makes when it comes to food.   Maybe the pasta option is something you’d prefer not to continue at home, but then again, the salad bar rocks as long as there’s croutons.

For sure you would know that you raised him right if you watched him settle an argument, take up for a friend or make a full apology. You’d sit back and smile if you saw him filling our charity box with much of his Visiting Day treats.  He knows there are kids who don’t have what he has.

For those who are able, you’ll see just a little tomorrow at 10.  We do our best to make the day as “real” as possible, so kindly follow the schedule and enjoy watching your son.  There are a number of boys and counselors who don’t have visitors, so please refrain from going into the cabin.  It’s an “outside” day, rain or shine.

TODAY’S SPORTS UPDATE:

Tomorrow’s Visiting Day marks the halfway point in our summer season, and like Baseball’s All-Star Game, our participation in the Annual 15U Lacrosse Tourney has remained a Midsummer Classic.  This year’s players signed up early in the season as Coach Nick Shep began grooming his squad back when our 1^st weekly clinics program began.  Blessed with talent from California to Florida, this year’s bunch was determined more than ever to get back the title so elusive of late.  In the semi-final, our boys fell behind by 3 goals early before the Skylemar long poles (Defran, Jack and Zane) set up shop in front of stopper Jesse R , then watched the offense gel for a 7-3 victory.

The scoring continued as we opened the final by scoring the first 3 goals.  The enthusiastic bench buzzed with passionate support as unsung hero Mel did all he could to keep the sideline energized, and our eyes on the prize. Tosh was everywhere – winning faceoffs at the X, hustling, defending and vacuuming ground balls all over the field. The offense kept clicking ‘til late in the game when it was Jesse’s time to really shine. Up by just one goal with the clock ticking down, Jesse became a brick wall in the cage, rejecting several late attempts to draw the game even including, an incredible game-saving stop from point blank range with just seconds left to preserve the 7-6 Championship win!

Victory was sweet – the celebration even sweeter!  Armed with the title, the bus pulled into camp…the news had already begun to spread.  Like arriving home after a Super Bowl win, the team and their coaches were swarmed by the excited campers who sped to the Shack.  The team then suddenly, and collectively, sprinted down to Trickey’s rewarding waters and plunged on in.  The raucous celebration continued until finally, at the behest of his club’s incessant chants, Coach Nick quickly addressed the team from the dock one final time — and hurled himself in, capping off one for the ages.

The Pac-12,  Big10, Centennial and the ACC… these are the NCAA athletic conferences well-represented today in the 75^th edition of one of our most treasured traditions,  Intercollegiate Day 2023!  Just a few days ago the entire camp was divided into 5 institutions of higher learning – Arizona, Michigan, and Southern California, as well as Johns Hopkins and Wake Forest Universities.

A full day of events packed the day with fun and plenty of activities from the Snow Field to the Gaga pits, and everywhere in between.

After the morning inspection, everyone was called to the Bunkline field.  Nick Shep welcomed all, then introduced one of IC Day’s most anticipated events, officially opening the day-long competition – the Dash.  Each squad sent a sprinter to the line to run for glory – hoping to get his team off to a great start.  One by one, 8 exciting races were run, with a couple of photo finishes to boot. Arizona’s Henry M , Alan G and Semaj, Michigan’s Hunter S, Wake’s Alex Sw, Trojan Max P and Blue Jay Elias G all broke the tape to first to win their races.  Wildcat Grant proved once again that he’s the “fastest man in camp” by winning the Stars Division for the 2^nd year in a row!

Nick Shep’s redesigned program then had all 8 Divisions rotate through 7 different activities throughout the day, competing in mini round-robin style knockout tournaments ‘til a winner for each event determined, then moving on …including our newest addition to the IC Day repertoire, Pickleball.  The oldest guys even got to go at it in a couple of sports traditionally meant for the younger guys like Gaga and Steal the Bacon.  There were 3 v 3 and 4 v 4 half-court hoops games for the younger divisions, and full court runs for the older guys (Blacktop Hoops).  World Cup Soccer, Buoy Ball (with a few new twists including a Home Run Derby) and Newcomb/Volleyball rounded out the daytime activities.  Points were awarded for 1^st place thru 5^th, and scores cumulated all day long.

After a brief hiatus of a few years (and a break for lunch and another Songs and Cheers rehearsal), the ever-popular Golf Long-Drive Competition returned to the IC Day schedule.  All 5 teams gathered around the Rec Hall Porch and Pumphouse (aka the Water Park)  to watch the Seniors and Stars jumpstart the afternoon contests. Sam D won the Stars for the Arizona Wildcats, but didn’t quite catch up to Senior Champ Zane B who blasted the longest of the day for the Wolverines of Michigan before all headed back out on the fields and courts.

After the afternoon’s events were completed, Nick Shep tallied the scores, and announced at dinner that the Wake Forest Demon Deacons had become the team to beat, building a bit of separation between themselves and the rest.  The evening of Songs and Cheers was on tap to determine the final outcome, and the weather cooperated — a beautiful night of Skylemar spirit filled the air.

Each team’s leaders had put in plenty of overtime in advance, preparing a setlist of 5 Songs and Cheers (3 of which must be original) for tonight’s performance – Team Cheer, Camp Cheer, Team Fight Song, Old Camp Song and an Original Camp Song.  Michigan went first, followed by Wake, then the Trojans from USC took the stage.  The Blue Jays from Hopkins were next, and the Wildcats closed the performances.  The boys sung their hearts out… original songs were written to tunes from Billy Joel, Ed Sheeran, Run- D.M.C., Fall Out Boy, Zach Bryan, Ice Cube, the Beatles and more…There were solos and duets, a brother trio and a quartet. When all 5 colleges had performed, everyone “patiently” awaited (well, we squeezed in a boisterous rendition of “Paddy Murphy”) the final word from Judges Barney, Suzie and DT, tasked with the very tough job of deciding the winner.  It was one of the closest calls in years, and finally passed on their decision to Shep who delivered the news:

“The Winner of Intercollegiate Day 2023 —- ARIZONA!”

Lookout, Broadway!  Here we come!

Skylemar’s first big musical of 2023 was a smash hit… Madagascar!

Drama Director Suzie once again blew us away by getting a production off the ground in 10 days.  That includes casting, rehearsing, costuming, set design and choreography.  All this while working around the actor’s requirement to shower or their involvement with intercamp games.

Speaking of choreography – this was some of the best we’ve seen on the Skylemar stage.  Suzie’s assistant Grace directed these sequences, and  each was phenomenal.   Grace waved her magic wand and turned regular Skylemar campers into talented dancers!

The part of Alex the Lion was played by Hayes.  Marty the Zebra was played by Nolan B, Gloria the Hippo was Ethan V, Melman the Giraffe was Palmer.  Jake P (B18), Luke P (B6) and Cooper E (B18) were the zookeepers.  Penguins were Sawyer, Eli W, Max P (B14) and Jagger.  Mason the zoo animal was played by Keith O.  By the way, these guys can sing too!

There were lots of friends who had several small roles, and they had to come on stage at just the right time.  That’s not easy to keep track of, and this crew stayed right with it — Henry M (B2), KJ, Alexander D (B2), Owen B, Levi W, Eli D (B18), plus counselors Ant and D-Man.  We love that Suzie’s plays feature those of all ages.

The stage crew was brilliant as well.  Many thanks to Mary Beth, Calla and all who helped paint the scenery.  George H, Nate and Ryder handled the lighting.  The crew who set up each scene included Alex K (B6), Jacob K (B6), Easton, Myles F, Baron, Dash H, Alexander S (B8), Semaj, Turbo, Ethan K (B11), Balty, Asher, Jack M (B15) and Thomas L.

The Skylemar audience is always polite and supportive, and this one was no different.  They realize that the performers have worked incredibly hard, and that the brave ones were up on the stage.  No matter the size of the part, it’s impressive to be in a Skylemar production.  Next week Suzie and Grace will hold auditions for the Second Session show.  Wonder what it will be?

To have great parents means you win the lottery of life.  Each of us at Camp Skylemar is blessed with a jackpot.

No matter how many moms or dads in the household, there could be no one more loved than a Skylemar boy.  From tackling the daunting packing process, to the overwhelming task of completing numerous forms, Skylemar parents do everything in their power to help their son to succeed.

Skylemoms and Dads believe in the value of the gift of opportunity.   They see Skylemar as a solid practice ground for skills of a lifetime, like how to forge friendships, become independent, safe risk taking, resiliency and building self-confidence.

Our parents recognize that at times they are simply the equipment manager, and other times the coach.  It all can be tricky and often it’s easier to just “fix” the problem.  Instead, Skyparents know that there are lots of stumbles and falls in the journey of life.  What matters most is that you get up and tr-r-r-y again.

Thank you for seeing that there’s tremendous value in taking a break from the comforts of home, and instead having your son join our people-powered community.  The decision to send your son to Skylemar is one that we pledge to be your best.

Tonight the wonderful mother of a former camper passed away.   Of course we feel it deeply whenever there is a loss in the Skylemar community.  But back ten years ago when Ally V’s son needed regular medical attention, instead of keeping him home near his physicians, she did what many of you would do.  She packed her duffle and came to camp with him.

As our founder Lee taught us, we will always remember to remember that you have entrusted us with your most precious possession.  For this honor we are forever grateful.

You know that universal symbol that looks like taffy pulling with your hands?  It’s the way the director tells the news anchor to stretch out the segment.  Stretching is also what a camp director does during morning announcements, in hopes that the rain subsides enough for the kids to go back to their cabins for clean-up.

Athletic Director Mitch handled that masterfully after breakfast, while Shep was down at the lake working with a diver at anchoring some new giant inflatables.   Since all the intercamp games and other outdoor events had to be canceled, (it was some serious rain today), there wasn’t too much to talk about.  So…he called on Waterfront Director Peter (who happens to be a bird-calling expert) to teach us all how to sound like an owl.  Moose demonstrated some dog tricks in exchange for scrambled eggs.  Luci taught all how to wrap a towel around your waist after a shower in a way that stays tight — the secret is rolling at the top.   The #1 stretcher was Barney and counselor Ty “shadow boxing”.  It’s definitely the in-thing so far this summer, thanks to TikTok.  Check it out, because the game seems to be a part of being cool these days.

There was no stopping the rain though, so we moved right into a Rainy Day Schedule.  Catapult Making was super-fun in the Rec Hall.  Each boy worked hard on his popsicle stick model.  There was plenty of action in the Gym, and games of Pool, Ping Pong and Foosball in the Lodge.  Egg Dropping from the second floor where the Kitchen Crew lives was really exciting.   They wrapped eggs in bubble wrap and whatever else, to see what it took for the egg to land without cracking.  There were dozens of board games played in the Garden Cabin.  Several even helped Blake order food for the kitchen.  They’re now ready to be contestants on “The Price is Right”.  The Pavilion was a hot spot for Karaoke.   Kids singing Karaoke is one of the cutest things ever for an adult to watch.

On an all-out rainy day like this one we come up with all kinds of creative ideas for those under the age of 13.   It’s really important to get them out of the bunk, so that cabin fever (which leads to balls going through screens) doesn’t set in.  Instead of relaxing when it rains, energy seems to be at an all-time high.  On the other hand, our Seniors and Stars over at Sky II take advantage of the weather for plenty of napping or perhaps some weight-lifting over at the Gym.

Good food always helps to turn around moods when the weather doesn’t cooperate.  The special surprise was Make-Your-Own-Sundae Buffet in the afternoon.  The Stars Division did the serving, while everyone else filled their bowls to the brim with candy toppings.  Don’t worry – this only happens once a season.

Our dinner guests were sisters and cousins who attend nearby camps.  We invite them twice a summer, in hopes that the girls can come at least once.  Two hours is the perfect amount of time… just enough but not too much.

The heroes of today (and every day) are our Counselors.  Think about how challenging it is to be on vacation with the kids and it rains every day.  Or even just what it would be like to have 8 kids of your own in a one-room apartment.  What about that sleepover party you host just once a year, and all that goes into it?  Skylemar counselors host a party round-the-clock, every day and night.

When it rains, the workload doubles for a Counselor.  As you know, boys thrive with space to run and play outdoors.  When the weather throws a curveball, that knocks out the running and playing.

So, it was well-deserved break time for our team of super-heroes.  While the older guys had Socials, the rest of the kids got to watch movies in assorted areas around camp.  We hope that the pitter patter on the cabin roof lulls them to sleep with the happiest of dreams.

Sunday Signups! The whole camp gathers in front of the Rec Hall, while the counselors pitch “commercials” advertising what they’re offering for Clinic periods.  It’s fun to watch them perform, and exciting to learn about all the choices for the third period of the day for the next week.

Each camper makes his own choice.  There’s Tennis Applications, where you get to put your skills to use.  Swim Dock Beach Party, Street Hockey’s Back, Beach Volleyball and Forty-yard Dash Training.  There’s Sunfish Sailing, Baseball, Gainsville Upper Body Strength, 3D Archery Course and Recyclable Art…and Waterskiing & Wakesurfing, Fruit Dropping at the Ropes Course (yes, that’s dropping fruit from way up high), and the always popular SkyDeck Culinary Arts.  Reclaim the 15U Lax Title is open to everyone ready to work hard.  Shep’s Backlot Safari takes you all over camp to places you’ve probably never seen, like the Maintenance Department and the Farmhouse attic.  Exciting stuff!

It’s hard to believe that it’s been a week since the last laundry day and GACU, but here we are again.  Any staff member that works The Spa will forever be a bigger tipper at the nail salon.  Not easy!

Great news for the Waterfront!  The all-new Beast is back.  That’s our giant slide, which had to be replaced because a seam ripped.  Now we have a brand new one, along with something else to play on called a “Rockit”.  Stay tuned for photos once we try it out.

Boom Chicka Boom!   It was Campfire night at the Ring of Champions, and that’s a favorite song that Cory leads.  The skit that followed was especially funny this time.  Barney was in the waiting room of a doctor’s office, and while there he caught what every other patient had.   This meant he was sneezing, slapping himself and continuously singing opera.  Then a pregnant lady came in, Barney realized what could happen, so he ran.  It was good, wholesome boy-humor.  Another fun part of the night was Will doing a dramatic reading of “Bohemian Rhapsody”.  DT nailed the Burrito Song, while Sarah and Bri sang some Taylor Swift.  S’mores for all, and a practical life-lesson from our friend Adventure Man.

Rain is the forecast for tomorrow.  Not to worry – there’s always a plan!

It’s a refreshing way to jump-start the day – the Polar Bear swim!

62 campers from Bunks 1-14 woke up at 6:30 AM and made their way down to the lake.  The entire waterfront staff plus many additional volunteers saw that everyone was safe and comfortable for this annual event.

Trickey Pond is over two miles in length and about a half a mile across.  Polar Bears are the brave ones who swim across, from the Skylemar docks to Bunk 71.  Bunk 71 is the summer house on the other side, owned by the Finkelstein family.

Lifeguards swim alongside the boys, and counselors kayak right behind, just in case you need to hold on for a rest.   Once you get to the other side, Aaron and Leslie are there with donuts for the tired bears.  The motor boats bring you back over, all in time for breakfast.  A special surprise while heading back to camp was seeing a family of loons, who were clearly confused by so many people in their swim area.

The weather was pleasant – not too hot and not rainy, so pretty much every activity was played.  Nate C (B28) caught the biggest fish at SkyPines.  While many were enjoying baseball, tennis, basketball and lacrosse, others were tie-dyeing shirts or painting faces.  Bunks 4, 5, 22, 23 and 24 went Ice Skating in a rink that’s just 10 miles away.

There was no 6^th period, because we’re having company!  For these guests a shower was in order, or at the very least, a clean T-shirt…or maybe, just maybe a hair brushing?

Pouring out of school buses and vans came 200+ girls from Camp Fernwood.  It was our turn to host the annual event, and we were proud to do so.  Tonight Skylemar became more beautiful than ever!

At first it was a football field with Fernwood on one side… Skylemar on the other.  Everyone stared at each other, with equal amounts of whispers and giggles.  The ladies took a few steps towards the guys, and the guys took a few steps back.  Again and again, until our team ran out of space.  Not to worry – we were saved by the siblings, who each crossed the invisible border to join the other.  This broke the ice, and for the most part, you might say we became a co-ed camp, at least for a few hours.

Following a delish dinner, Counselor Karaoke was impressive and funny too.  Staff from both camps provided excellent entertainment.  Our guys cheered wildly when someone in the SkyFamily took their turn.  From there the Stars and Seniors went to the lake for boat rides and hanging out.  The rest played yard games, volleyball, badminton, tennis, mini golf, crafts at Chilltop, and some more singing.

Speaking of singing, we were reminded tonight about how much girls like to sing.  And giggle.  And scream.  No doubt, they’d win in a decibel contest.

In the end, even those who had little to do with the girls admitted that they had a great time.  The boys who were “lucky” proudly showed others that they had gotten a phone number.  Funny thing is, both camps don’t allow phone calls.  Then again, it’s more about the “win”.

Happy Anniversary, Camp Skylemar!  It’s our 75^th year of spending the summer with the greatest guys in the whole wide world.

Part of our summer-long celebration includes a giant brass raffle drum, with a ping pong ball for each camper and counselor inside.  Whenever Nick Shep takes over the microphone after the meal, everyone hopes it’s to pick a ball which correlates to someone getting a prize.  Tonight’s winner of Skylemar swag was Barrett B (B17)!

75 years sounds like a long time, but something happened tonight that’s a first in Skylemar history.  Here’s how it went down:

It started to rain during Spirit Night, so we moved into the Pavilion.  From there Nick described this week’s Cool2Care chain recipient as one who has always been extremely respectful, kind and cognizant of how to be a great Skylemar community member.  This week’s honor goes to Coop E (B18)!

Bunk 27 led Spirit Night, which started out as it traditionally does.  Athletic Director “DT” (Danny Thomas) gave the sermonette, and talked about what he was grateful for during his 9-year run at Skylemar.  He said, “I’ve learned many things from our fearless leader Shep.  One I remember is when you speak in public and have the opportunity to shout out to your significant other, you should.”

DT then offered a touching tribute to Luci, his best friend.   “We’ve grown so much together here at Skylemar, so I think it’s only fitting that we take this next step together, along with all of you”, he said looking out in the audience.

As he took her hand, the crowd responded with giggles of hushed excitement…. “Is he gonna?”…. “Whaaaat??”….. “No way!”…. “Oh my gosh….“ Is he going to?”…. “That’s crazy!” — and then….

He bent down on one knee, pulled something out of his pocket and the audience cheered so loud we could hardly hear him say it….”Luci Shepherd, will you marry me?”.  She said, “YES” and the crowd went wild!  Leaps into the air, high fives, hugs!!  It was as if they had all won the lottery!

Then came the engagement party — mini-pizza, mozzarella sticks, pigs in a blanket and best of all, Shirley Temples! Cheers to the happy couple!  Tonight was one of those evenings so energized with excitement and celebration, that we hardly remember the spectacular Maine day we had earlier.  The brilliant sunshine found activities going on from one end of camp to the other, and everywhere in between.  The magic waters of Trickey Pond may have been the most welcoming place to be, but that didn’t stop us from hosting three Intercamp round-robin tournaments here today (10U Basketball, 11U Tennis, and 12U Soccer) and sending out three other teams as well (13U & 15U Tennis and 14U Soccer).

In Tennis, highlight performances were turned in by Toby, Ari M, Nathan A, Will G, Jack L and Sconsett.

Both Hoops courts saw plenty of 10U action all afternoon.  Lance dominated the backboards in two games, and Elijah E played great D all over the court. Spencer O provided much of the offensive spark for our club.

Right alongside on the Hockey court, JJ kept us in the first game’s defensive battle with outstanding work in the cage.  Jordans G and H led an explosion on offense in a big 2^nd game win.

And finally, the 14U Soccer team continued to show marked improvement in just a few days of play under Coach Paul’s guidance. In the opening round, Elias G and Leo F led the way, then Leopold’s debut in the net and some great defensive work by Lucas V and Ignacio held a very tough opponent scoreless after allowing an early tally in a come from behind 2-1 victory.  Finley hit the upper right corner to tie it, and then Sherman scored the game winner midway through the 2^nd half for the win.

Definitely a day and night to remember!

Intercamp action has gotten off to a rousing start with contests in Soccer, Basketball, Baseball and Lacrosse.

Paul Harrison, our Soccer Director (well, Football in his world) arrived here direct from Istanbul where he cheered on his beloved, native Man City club’s Champions League title. His impact on the 15U team (and our entire Soccer program) showed well in their first games of the season.

In a similar format, our 14U Hoops team split a couple of very close games and showed that they too will be very tough to beat.

Our 13U Baseball club played a doubleheader – with the same mixed results.  Isaac C and Jacob R starred both on the mound and at the plate, where Noah K did the most damage with a bases-loaded triple to knock in 3 runs…before Bron closed it out by striking out the side.

You already heard of the 12U Lax tourney win, a very talented young group.  Coaches and teammates raved over the tournament’s MVP, Archie, who was incredible in the goal with 16 saves in the final!  When Coach Rook gave his report to camp, the Pavilion rocked with the Skylemar spirit that already has become infectious to our newest campers.

Trip season kicked off as well, with the Tigers traveling to the Ossipee Valley Fair.   It’s an old-fashioned country fair, with lots of things most of our guys would have never seen before.  For instance, dairy clipping (shaving a cow?!), a frog jumping contest plus all kinds of farm animals.  Sawyer and Harry FC won the egg toss!

Pine Cone Auction was the surprise Evening Activity.  Because pinecones only drop once every few years, there were none to pick up.  So…we tossed colored eggs all over the golf course.  The boys scrambled to find as many as they could, as well as some golf balls that needed to be shagged.  They were worth double, since tomorrow is a lawn-mowing morning.  Extra points for the “chicken dance” too.

The big 10-hour activity for this camp director and her fantastic assistant Cory was ACA Accreditation.  Once every five years, camps who are members of the American Camping Association have to meet hundreds of standards to demonstrate that we go above and beyond to be best in the country.  The process involves a dozen binders filled with written plans and explanations, on-site interviews and many hours of physical inspection.  This is nothing we have to do but is instead something we want to do.  Proud to report that Skylemar exceeded expectations and passed with flying colors.

We woke to a big yellow surprise in the sky.  The sun!

The boys hit the fields and courts with gusto.  The schedule went exactly to plan, with the perfect combo of land and water sports.  We don’t know how Barney does it so well.  It’s amazing how he orchestrates every minute of the day, which includes precisely where each of our 300+ people need to be…and when.

From the sunshine to the dedication of staff members like Barney, today we remembered to appreciate.  In fact, a group of kids in the Cool2Care Clinic made a special treat for each counselor.  It was a Rice Krispies treat decorated specifically for each.  They were given out after the Counselor Meeting was heartwarming to watch some of the counselors take a photo of what they received before it disappeared.

Several parents have asked about the best way to show counselors that they are appreciated.  In fairness to all, counselors, by contract, may not accept tips.  But what they can accept is an email or letter of gratitude.  These are read aloud at meetings, and it’s a tremendous moral boost.  If you’d like one to be shared, we’ll pass it along (arleen@skylemar.com).

Your camp director was especially grateful when the six school buses showed up on time to take the entire camp to the Sea Dogs game.  It’s one of the favorite nights of the summer, when the entire camp goes to Portland to watch the Red Sox AA affiliate  “play ball”!  Best part of all is just being together.

Skylemar’s pretty well-known over at the Sea Dogs home, Hadlock Field.  Most of the ushers have been there for decades, and they tell us that we have the reputation of being their favorite camp.  As you know, a little bit of good manners goes a long way.

Since the beginning of Skylemar time, kids have written home to “send candy”, even though it’s not supposed to happen.  For some, letters and postcards include tidbits about the Skylemar day, while for others it’s a simple “I love you” at most.  Every so often letters can be confusing.  Yesterday he wrote that he has lots of friends, and everyone’s nice.  Today it said the opposite.  Since 1948, some things haven’t changed.

What also hasn’t changed is the job description of a mom or a dad.  Although parenting styles differ, you will love your son to the Sky and back, more than anyone in the world, and there’s nothing you want more than for him to be happy.  An important part of your job is to listen, and feel good that your son uses you as a sounding board, in good times and not so good.

In terms of written requests, of course fads come and go.  Today’s ask is typically for Jibbitz and trading cards which are definitely back in style.  In terms of the news, here’s what’s hot for 2023 —  branding.

“I started my own brand” is a phrase that’s been used quite a bit lately.  “It’s called Over Armor”, one explained.  Jack Mc (B15) knows all about consistent branding, and whatever he designs must have a dolphin on it somewhere.

This clothing creativity takes place at Chilltop with Mary Beth.  That’s where the kids get to create really cool stuff, and the “in” thing to do is to decorate clothing.  T-shirts, bucket hats, bandanas, and other items that start out white before the boys embellish.  Soon Mary Beth will tackle what a kid loves most and teachers can usually do without…tie-dye.  Tying up shirts in rubber bands and dipping them in color is super fun!

Another fun part of today was actually about doing for others.  The executive director (Matt Hoidal)  of “World of Change” came to talk to us about his charity that’s geared towards kids helping kids.  Matt explains that there is 62 million dollars in coins that get thrown away each year.  If we instead collect these coins, just one jar-full can be turned into 240 meals for kids in need.

You may recall the Cool2Care change bags that were sent to the boys during the school year.  Many of the guys brought these to camp filled with quarters, nickels and dimes.  We combined all the money into one big bowl, and then each camper put a handful of change into the “Change The World Truck”.  Matt reminded us that we can make a positive difference in the world, one person at a time.

An extra fun part of today was watching fireworks at the lake.  The whole camp relaxed on the beach and docks, oohing and aahing over the amazing display.  Before things got started there was a boat parade, and the annual Counselor Belly Flop contest.

And finally, it’s always fun to be on a team playing a game against another camp.  But it’s especially great to win!  Congrats to our U12 Lacrosse team, who brought home our first Intercamp Tournament Championship trophy!

You probably read about it in the news.  All the celebrities and notables were there.  Even President Biden, along with his Secret Service of course.

It’s definitely the place to see and be seen…performers like Elton John, Luke Combs and Machine Gun Kelly.   Athletes like Mac Jones and John Cena, plus surprise comebacks like Barbie & Ken, Harry Potter, Dorothy, Buddy the Elf and of course, Elvis.

What makes it especially exclusive is that it’s only open one night a year.

It’s SADE’S PALACE!

Sade’s is a casino with rules.  For one, you must be under 18 to enter.  Hours are 7 PM-9 PM, July 3 only.  No need to bring money because everyone gets a wad of cash.  Most importantly, the house never wins.

There’s Wheels of Fortune, Blackjack and Roulette.  High-Low, Dice Games, Craps and Poker… and Checkers, Chess and Pick-a-Pig.  There’s a bank of slot machines that ring, zing and sing.  Fortune Tellers are on hand to only share the greatest news.

Also caught on camera this evening were Thing One and Thing Two, Sustainabatman, Lilo with Stitch, Buzz Light Year, T-Rex, some tacky tourists, a sloth, platypus, Juliet (but no Romeo), Guy Fieri and many more.

Need to grab a bite or wet your whistle? Jr’s Grill had a fantastic menu. There was root beer, pretzel rods and ice cream cups.

And, oh the music… Karaoke at its best!  Singing live tonight were customers coming from as close as Bunk 1 to as far as Bunk 30.  Regulars too, like Santa Claus, Angry Bird, Simba, Woody from Toy Story and several Spidermen.

This just in:  Elliot McG won the lottery!  Millions went right into the palm of his hand!

Where better to spend all the hard-earned cash than the SkyStore.  Here there are valuable trinkets to purchase, like blow-up balls, basketball hoops, yoyo’s and whoopee-cushions.  The selection was jaw-dropping.

By now all the true VIP customers are home safe and sound, snug in their beds.  By daybreak the Palace will have disappeared, but only until July, 2024.

PS  Many thanks to Holly, Suzie our Drama Queen and the celebrities (aka counselors) who were willing to make us all smile.

We are a soggy bunch, here in Maine.  Shoes make squishy sounds, and even raincoats are soaked through.  Nevertheless, there’s lots of smiles and laughter, as our tireless staff makes lemonade out of very wet lemons.

Making things happen, figuring it out, creating people-powered fun and blanketing all with love is part of the job description for those on our leadership team.  Made up primarily of teachers, coaches and those who work with children year-round, the Senior Staff inspires the counselors to be the best they can be.  They basically plan, supervise and help to execute every minute of the Skylemar day, and there’s no task they won’t cover.  They give hugs and advice, wipe away tears, shout cheers of encouragement and navigate the twists and turns of a day.

For example, we have an important goal of keeping Skylemar boys clean and healthy.  As you probably know from living with at least one, sometimes this is no easy task.  Plus, ours live in a ten-in-one-room, they need to change their own sheets every week, and in a boy’s mind there’s far more interesting things to do here than taking a shower.

So…

At breakfast today Senior Staffers marched into the Pavilion, dressed as warriors with a broom as their weapon and a trash can lid as their shield.  Barnicus, the Warrior of Clean (aka Program Director Barney) leads the chant with the kids – it goes clap, clap, “CLEAN”! clap, clap, “CLEAN”!

Barnicus explains that today is GACU, which stands for Great American Clean Up.  This is the weekly time when each cabin participates in a “trifecta of clean”:  Super Bunk Inspection, health check with the Infirmary, and a visit to “The Spa” for nail trimming.

Enter stage left comes the costumed character Laundrus Aurelius, leader of the Laundronites (aka Athletic Director “DT”).  He explains that today the Laundronites of camp must change their sheets and then put all dirty clothes in the magical bag that goes to the laundry service.  A chariot takes away the incredible bags and in two days they reappear with clean, folded clothes inside.

Meanwhile, as the rain poured steadily with no end in sight, director Cory was busy creating an indoor schedule packed with fun.  She delegates to the other Senior Staffers and NBC’s (Non-Bunk Counselors) exactly what activity each is responsible for, and then orchestrates the day like a symphony conductor.

There’s the Lego Extravaganza, Card Shark Game Show, Karaoke, Cookie Baking, and games at the Gym and Lodge.  Some went on a trip to Ice Skating in Bridgton, while others decorated t-shirts with Mary Beth.  Media Director Shannon welcomed groups to the WSKY Media Center, for green-screen video making with her staff.

The hardest working and most appreciated were the NBC’s & Sr Staff who ran The Spa throughout the day.  As the boys drank cucumber water and soaked their stinky feet in tubs of soapy warm water, the staff sat on yoga pillows as they trimmed nails on the Garden Cabin porch.  Since the boys over age 13 can do it themselves, that meant only 2,240 nails needed to be cut.

Like we said, this is a team that does whatever it takes.

If you want to see organic, all-natural Cool2Care stuff in action, come to a Skylemar Talent Show.  It’s an uplifting night that will do a heart good.

Certainly it takes nerve to perform in front of 350 people.  But on the Skylemar stage it’s more like singing or dancing in your own home with a bunch of brothers cheering you on.

The Seniors and Stars sit in the back, and they set the tone.  No matter who performs, whether actually  talented or not so much, the oldest campers lead the cheers and boisterous applause.  It’s a respectful and grateful audience, who encourages do-overs when a mistake is made.  When the performers get silly and laugh, we laugh too.

Anyone can enter, and there’s a solid showing from those in all age groups.  Whether age 7 or 15, talented or not, in the eyes of our audience each performance is amazing.  It’s a laid back and stress-free way to practice capturing a crowd.  Plus, each actor, musician or dancer gets to select a trinket from the Super Prize Bag.

Here’s how it went down:

Hayes and Max P (B14) did noodle battling while Asher played theme music on the piano.  Troy C (B1) demonstrated some outstanding dance moves.  He was awesome.  Jacob W (B9) screamed into the microphone.  Yup, that’s it.  Ryder’s magic act was the ideal follow-up.  He made water disappear by drinking it.  Oliver G (B8) drew a picture that the audience couldn’t see, but they cheered for him anyway.

Eli W (B9), Marco, Azim, Matthew R (B18) and David G (B12)  were all phenomenal on the piano.  Grady and Bud told jokes.  What do you call a dog with wings?  A dog with wings.  Speaking of wings, Judah did a back flip that amazed all of us.  Spencer O (B5) and Matthew M (B5) did a skit kinda-thing with a pretend punch.  Some things you just have to see with your own eyes.

Henry Z (B10) was extremely talented at burping.  LaJuan did the Rubik’s Cube.  Sawyer and Dash acted out some kind of military skit that we didn’t understand but loved just the same.  Keith (B22) did a circus dance.  Ethan V (B10) and Alex G(B23) each had an act that showed off their dance skills.  Really impressive!

Where else in the world would you see fruit surgery performed?  Actors Barron, Alex S (B8), Easton and Balty assured us that they weren’t real doctors.

Bunk 2 danced and sang to a song that they wrote on the first day of camp.  Counselors say they’ve sung it every day since, sometimes as early as 6 AM…

The Cool2Care Tally:

• Thousands of “yes, pleases” proudly said during meals.
• Hundreds of examples of kids being welcoming to others.
• Many times, people have picked up trash that they hadn’t dropped.
• Several notes of praise for others placed inside the Cool2Care Cooler.

And that’s just one week at Skylemar.

This evening’s Spirit Night begins by honoring a camper who embodies Skylemar’s Cool2Care motto.  It’s appropriate timing, because Spirit Night is when we gather together as one camp family, slow down the pace, and take the time to be grateful.

Tonight’s Cool2Care Chain was awarded to a camper who hasn’t had the easiest road since the beginning of camp.  Although he’s fine now, he was in the Infirmary with a virus for at least three days.  Nevertheless, he always had a smile on his face.  He has a glass half-full attitude, and even wrote three notes of appreciation to the nursing staff during his stay.  This 9-year-old camper taught us a lesson:

When you feel down, do for others and things will turn around.

In addition to The Chain, the recipient gets a jersey with his counselor’s college on the front.  This signifies that life’s successes are not just about yourself, but they are also about the positive role models you’ve encountered along the way.  “Goshen College” was written across the front of this one.

Congratulations to Jacob K (Bunk 6), the first C2C chain recipient for 2023.

As the camp sat on the front lawn listening and participating in Spirit Night, you could feel the love of brotherhood.  In fact, we’ve even become accustomed to greeting each other with a “secret” hand symbol.  It’s middle-and-ring-finger down with the other three digits up, which in sign language means “I love you”.

Camp songs, popsicles and positive wishes for those at home who gave us the opportunity of Skylemar.  We are the luckiest people in the whole wide world.