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Wild Game Hunt last night!

That’s when the counselors hide in crazy places (like trees) and the kids have to find them.  Each counselor is worth points, and the Division who finds the most wins.  Can’t decide who loves this more – the counselors who dress up in wild game costumes and hide, or the camper “hunters” who find their favorite animals.

The Freshman Division headed to New Hampshire to the Cranmore Mountain Adventure Park.  They took the quad lift up the mountain for some spectacular views.  After lunch (you guessed it…chicken tenders) it was time for Bungee Trampolining.  That’s when you put on a harness and jump super high.

Summer Tubing!  It’s just like snow tubing with water instead of the white stuff.  The Mountain Coaster was lots of fun too.  Each person had their own yellow car and could go down the track at whatever speed they wished.

Spyder Mountain was a mesh maze that you climbed through.  The Soaring Eagle was a mountain zip line ride.  There was a Giant Swing like we have at camp, plus inflatable bounce houses.  Best part of the trip for Leader DT was all the compliments he got from total strangers on our manners.

Four vans returned the Juniors back to camp, safe and sound.  They’ve been gone the past couple of days for their trip to Acadia National Park.

First stop was Fort Knox and Penobscot Narrows Observatory.  Fort Knox is an interesting piece of history, which protected the state in the 1800’s.  The Penobscot Narrows is the tallest publicly accessible observatory at 440’.  Inside was a 360-degree view of the river and the Maine countryside.

After a picnic lunch, they headed to Sand Beach inside Acadia.  Most took the plunge in the chilly Atlantic Ocean.  Back at the campground, they made chicken quesadillas and roasted marshmallows for s’mores.  A representative from each of the four vans gave an oral argument as to why their van was “the most lit”.  Jonny H was the winner, based on his enthusiasm and his description of the diverse music selection.

Homemade egg sandwiches were the way to start the morning, and then off they went to hike Beech Mountain.  Leaders of the hike who led the way and encouraged all were Sebastian, Reed, Archie, Jonny H, Isaiah L and Joaquin.

The surprise stop on the way home was celebrated by all… Chick-fil-A.  What did the world do before the invention of chicken tenders?

They saw the movie “Twisters”, wrote a note of gratitude to a Skylemar role model, and headed for the 04055.  It’s good to have these guys back… way too quiet without them.

Here at camp we had a rainy afternoon.  It was kinda nice for a change.  Some watched the Olympic Basketball game, while others had a Gym/Lodge flip — part of the time you played dodgeball, and part of the time you played the games in the Lodge.

The Freshmen had the Catapult Challenge.  Each group of 3-4 was given popsicle sticks, rubber bands, spoons and just a tiny bit of tape.  Then it was up to them to build a catapult that could launch a ping pong ball the farthest — lots of future engineers in our house.

It’s an interesting question to ask a camper.  What does Arleen do all day?  Most frequent response: “She works.”

A more elaborate answer: “She works on stuff.”

The most specific answer: “She does papers.”

Favorite answer: “She walks around and says hi to people.”

Truth is, she tries to “do papers”, but sometimes accidentally pays Sysco $6,000 instead of $600 because some tears need to be dried, the kitchen says that the yogurt didn’t come in, a counselor’s car needs a jump start, the guys in the Sophomore Division started a water balloon fight while Myke’s on his day off, and some little guys waiting for the shower in her office want to know if she’ll play Uno with them.

You might say she’s the person behind the curtain who drives the engine of the Skylemar machine.   Except that her curtain is wide open, with an office that overflows with kids, counselors and dogs.

She does a lot of problem solving and “behind the back door” stuff.  Typically the goal is to look into an issue without anyone knowing who told her about it.

240 boys + 140 staff = a minimum of 76 mini kerfuffles to solve each day.

This summer marks 42 years of her loving every minute on the job, which means she prefers to not take a day off.  Relaxing is much too stressful.  So is sleeping, as you may have guessed from the timing of Blog posts.

They say it takes 10 years to be an expert, so that she is, four times over, when it comes to boys.  No expert has it right all the time, but here are some random observations pertaining to boys and parenting from just this week alone:

• Perhaps we should replace the phrase “I just want him to be happy” with “I just want him to decide to be happy”.  Happiness isn’t a gift or reward.  It’s a decision that comes from within.
• When it comes to big decisions, go ahead and make them.  It takes a huge load off your son.  It gives him someone other than himself to blame if things don’t go as he had hoped.
• Practice really does make a difference in getting things right.  It’s not easy being a kid or teen.  Then again, it’s not easy being an adult.  Give your son the opportunity to practice “life”.  Let him share with you his challenges, but instead of solving, ask him what he can do about it.
• Boys need something to “hate”, although the word is stronger than the feeling.  In fact, all people do. Best to make it something inconsequential, like making a bed, getting a haircut or wearing socks.
• Boys like percentages.  If he complains about one person in his bunk, but really likes the other six, point out that 85% is a whole lot better than 15%.
• Best advice to a parent trying to arrange playdates for a 6^th grader coming to camp for the first time: “Mom, can I please pick my own friends?”
• Best athletic advice a parent can give their son: “Be the hardest worker and the one having the most fun.“ Joel Shinofield
• A glimpse into the thought process of an 8-year-old boy explaining why he hit another: “He said something mean to me, so I wanted him to feel like I did”.

And finally:

• Love your job… whatever it is.  Love people… whoever they are.  Your son will follow the leader.

Rain came today, and then went, and then came back, and then went again.  That meant flip-flopping between rainy day and regular schedules.  Of course there’s nothing wrong with playing in a drizzle, but we do need to be mindful of what might be slippery.  We subbed in Pickleball, Golf, Ping Pong, Chilltop and giant bubble-making at Yellowhorn.

The weather was actually fine for the Seniors, who had an overnight trip to Franconia Notch, New Hampshire.  They hiked the trail to Lonesome Lake, set in the valley of the Presidential Range of the White Mountains.

It was a two-hour trek, so there was time for leadership positions to be rotated.  The person in the front carried the lifeguard tube, and he set the pace for the group.  The person in the back carried the football and was responsible for encouraging and keeping tabs on everyone.

At the top, they went for a dip in the frigid cold lake (hence the lifeguard tube).  They talked about the importance of slowing down in life, as opposed to scrolling through it.  Everyone got the message and took in the moment.

They spent the night in the AMC hut.  It’s one of eight rustic lodges run by the Appalachian Mountain Club, that provides hikers with a hearty meal and an overnight stay.  The AMC “Croo”, as the staff is called, prepared a dinner of stuffed shells, vegetables, focaccia bread and chocolate cake.  Somehow even the pickiest of eaters are satisfied with whatever is prepared when it’s served in the Hut.

Phyllis, a 74-year-old naturalist, befriended the boys and told tales of hiking the entire Appalachian Trail twice, as well as the Pacific Crest Trail.  Our guys showed genuine interest and respect for her and asked lots of good questions.

After a hearty breakfast, and a hike around the perimeter of the lake, they paused for some writing.  They wrote three letters:  One to their future self, which they’ll get next year on the last day of camp; one to someone who gave them the opportunity to be at Skylemar; and one to someone who made their Skylemar experience special.

Once down the mountain, they had a Chipotle picnic in a park, where they invented a game called Ultimate Football Basketball.  They stopped for ice cream, and then home sweet home.   It sure felt good to be back in their own bed.

Meanwhile…

The Cubs had a trip of their own this afternoon.  They went to the Gem and Mineral Museum in Bethel, Maine.  The guided tour was exceptional, especially because the founder of the museum was there, in-person.  Upstairs was a world-renowned collection of meteorites, and in the basement, a research facility.  On the floors in between were fascinating hands-on displays of assorted gems and minerals, many of which came from South Africa.  This was a celebrity moment for camper Anton, because he’s from South Africa too.

Especially memorable was that each boy got to hold a piece of the Moon as well as Mars.  As a matter of fact, this museum is the only place in the world where you can touch both of them at the same time.

The boys were so into the gems that they didn’t want to leave.  That meant that they had to skip stopping for ice cream on the way home.  We owe them one.

You just gotta love a Super Awesome Game Show, especially when Suzie, Barney and Mason are in charge.  It’s a divisional show-down, with lights, music and plenty of action.

Cubs, Lions, Tigers, Freshmen, Sophomores and Juniors competed against each other, in assorted stunt activities as well as trivia.   It was a totally fair game no matter how old you were, because let’s face it, there’s some things that little guys just do better.  Take hula hooping for example.  Plus, cheering for your counselors can be extra loud no matter how old you are.

But sometimes you just can’t tell who will win.  Counselors had to do squats for as long as they could, with a camper on their back.  You’d think that the winner would have a 45-pounder on him.  But tonight it was golf counselor Cooper weighted down with a thirteen-year-old Archie that took first place.

Extra smart in the trivia sections about geography and animals were Elijah E, Theo R, Bernie, Sawyer, Sam P and Lionel.  Brooks, Luke Y and Royal knew the most about Film and TV.

The Simon Says battle got down to two experts.  It was Grady vs Jacob W for the longest time, until one little, tiny slip and… Grady wins!

Counselors were great sports about the stunts, and all were willing to get dirty.  For example, the Egg Toss.  It’s crazy how far athletes can toss an egg and catch it — until one slight slip-up and…splat!

Highlight was the Beauty Parlor.  Each Division sent three campers and one counselor to the stage.  With a can of shaving cream, the kids had to give their counselor a new hair style… several mohawks appeared.

Earlier today was Clinic Sign-ups.  Commercials were at their best because this is actually the last week. Lots of Color War prep was offered.  Here’s the roster:

Waterskiing is for those who want to cross the wake.  Record holder is Tomas Z who crossed 184 wakes in 60 seconds.

Tennis will work on topspin, slice and backspin.  Lots of tricks will be shared at Lax.  They’ll learn to go behind-the-back and around-the-world, get better at coming up with ground balls and use the radar gun too.

The Vikings came to introduce Shep’s “Viking Voyage” for reading.  Sail Dock offered the last chance to learn to sail.  “Perfect Your Putt” at golf, “Cardio Football” out front, “Action & Skill” week at Hoops.  “Hockey Warriors” will work on in-game strategies.  Track & Field will cover the long jump, shot put and running a dash.

Soccer will cover it all.  SkyRopes will teach you anything and everything at the course.  “Robinhood Archery” and “Professor Good Coach Baseball” are other options.  The Olympic Training Center will teach about muscles —  lengthening, isolating and contracting.

Challenge the records at H2O’s “Olympic Time Trials” or “Be the Face” of Sky SportsCenter.  Last but very important – “Props & Scenery” for those who want to help Suzie with all that’s needed to make “Peter Pan” come alive.

We love all the choices

Polar Bear Swim once again!  Over 100 campers and staff members made their way across the lake.  It’s an invigorating accomplishment to tackle first thing in the world.

The Sophomore Division headed out on an excursion to southern Maine!  Blake and Myke led the trip, so first things first — the kids each wrote a note of gratitude to members of the Skylemar community.

On the way to the movies to see “Despicable Me 4”, the guys were assigned bus partners.  They were tasked with finding out something they had in common with each other, which would be shared later in the trip.

This all coincides with a C2C message we’re trying to get across this summer.  What does it mean to “be a man”?  It means to be inclusive and open to being with all kinds of people.  It means to care about and appreciate others.  It means to stand up for someone when another says something unkind.  In building men of fine character, this is the kind of stuff that gets woven into any one day.   Twist is, most of the time the kids don’t even notice.

Ferry Beach State Park was glorious, with sand dunes and the majestic ocean.  Without direction, the entire age group linked arms and ran into the freezing cold water.  Then they made giant sand forts – yes, 12-year-olds still love to build in sand.

They played games like “Flinch Ball”, and one where the bus partners locked arms and you had to catch a ball each with one hand.  When they took a break, it was interesting to hear what duos had in common.  Everyone had something of course, like enjoyment of a particular sport or how meaningful something like a dog is to them.  This trip’s special guest was a Park Ranger.  He talked about the endangered species in the coast of Maine.

By late afternoon it was time to head to the Sanford Mainers baseball game. It’s a family-style ballpark for the New England Collegiate Baseball League.  It was really fun to be there together.

Meanwhile, back at camp, it was our weekly GACU (Great American Clean Up).  That’s when you get assigned a period for a health check at the Infirmary, plus feet soaks and nail clipping at “The Spa” (the Garden Cabin porch).  Added bonus was a sheet changing requirement for every camper.

Another bonus was the 16U Grand Slam Tennis Tournament, to crown this summer’s top player.  We saw some of the most exciting matches we’ve seen on the courts all summer. One semifinal seemed to go on forever — a marathon, 2 1/2  hour riveting match that needed a tiebreaker to decide it.  Back and forth they went, with both players staving off multiple match points before Nick N outlasted Holden to advance to the final.  There, he faced another formidable opponent, understandably a bit fresher, but clearly just as talented. Congrats to Charlie F, our 2024 Camp Champ!

Sky II Carnival for Evening Activity!  Hejduk Field was filled with inflatable challenges and games.  There were obstacle courses, bouncy houses, bungee run, soccer darts and lots more.  Snowballs were the perfect treat for such a joyful and warm summer night.  They were served “Baltimore Style”.  That’s in a cup with just a little bit of marshmallow.  No surprise – blue raspberry continues to be the fan favorite.

It takes an extra special lady to even consider working at an all-boys camp.  At Skylemar, ours are supercalifragilisticexpialidocious.  Just like Mary Poppins, they’re practically perfect in every way.

Each outstanding gal comes to us with an impressive background.  They are top collegiate athletes, teachers, coaches, nurses and experts in their field.  Most importantly, every one of them has what it takes to serve as a role model and caregiver for your most precious possession.

They’re here for the same purpose as a male counselor – to make a positive difference in the world, one boy at a time.  They work just as hard, get paid the same money and their role is equally important.

But the difference is…they do it in an all-boy world.

There’s the obvious stuff, like the giggling surrounding bodily noises and the toilet seats that are never down.  Then there’s Bunk 14, who may need help holding one of their salamanders.  Or there’s the tennis ball that had to be pulled out from a toilet of a bunk not to be named.  After all, the guys just wanted to see if it would flush…

Of course there’s the toenails that need to be clipped, and the feet that need to be scrubbed.  Meds that need to be delivered because guys are just “too busy” to remember.  Lost & Found that continuously needs to be picked up, signs that need to be painted, wet sheets that need to be changed before the kids finish breakfast, and little guy tears that need to be dried because from his point of view he “never gets to go first”.

Each NBC (stands for Non-Bunk Counselor) has a primary role at Skylemar like teaching swimming, boating, tennis or golf.  They might be in charge of healthcare, art, cleaning, programming, office work, taking photos, serving special diets, designing gardens, speaking to parents or leading trips and campouts.    But on top of that, they tackle a million other things, like putting the kids to bed, keeping them somewhat organized and being the best big sister a boy could imagine.

The ladies of Skylemar are extraordinary, and they are adored by all.  They go above and beyond, and do whatever it takes to make the Skylemar machine work.

So, to the Skylemar Superwomen, we thank you.  We are the luckiest to have you in our Skylemar world.

What comes to mind when you think of Maine?  Lobster!  Even if you don’t eat them, it’s fun to learn about them.

The Lions Division headed to Portland for a Lucky Catch Lobster Tour.  Before heading to the pier, they played Buoyball and had a picnic lunch at Payson Park.  It’s a beautiful spot that overlooks the Back Bay.

While they were on the pier waiting for the boat to dock, a special guest spoke to them about clean energy and offshore wind projects.  Luke McD shouted: “Let’s go for clean energy!” and it made the day of the Offshore Wind Project Coordinator.

The crew of Lucky Catch is super nice as well as informative.  The boys got to pull lobster traps and learned the correct way to hold them without getting pinched.   They used a special tool to put the thick rubber bands around their claws.

Interestingly, it takes about seven years for a lobster to be old enough to eat.  The boys used a measuring instrument to determine the age.  There has to be 3.25 inches between the head and the tail.

Some thoughtful questions were asked of the crew.  Henry DS asked if fishermen supported each other when working or does everyone totally do their own thing?  Turns out they do help each other quite a bit, and there’s a lot of sharing going on.  Bait for example.

Back at camp…

Not only did we have plenty of fun at Skylemar, but a lucky thing happened.  Oliver G (B13) was swimming and he saw something sparkle.  He dove down and found a gold ring.  Turns out Jake P (B22) had lost it a year ago!  It was a special ring that his father had given him, and now it’s back where it belongs.

It was the annual Staff All-Star Game for Evening Activity – except this time the guys decided to switch it up from Softball on the Freddie Pierce to Basketball on the Blacktop.  And what a show they put on!

Led by maybe the greatest summer Hoop staff ever assembled, the Trickey Pond Penguins took on the Hilltop Hippos in a game that went down to the final ticks of the clock. A couple of late 3s in the final 20 seconds brought the Hippos from behind to win it. There were mascots, “concession stand” popsicles, Slam Dunk and 3-point Shooting Contests, raffles and prizes. Pregame, in-game and on-court interviews from sportscasters Elton and Jared R kept everyone interested and informed.

The break at Halftime gave the Stars a chance to make a half-court shot… and on their 4^th attempt, Lucas V did just that, calmly sinking one that set off a wild celebration.

The players displayed their superb ball handling skills and drained 3s from all over, but the spectacular, high-flying acrobatic dunks excited everyone most. Music pumped throughout – the place was rockin’ — and the vibe: Electric!

Thank you to the captains (brothers Myke and Noah) – and your teammates for not only giving us such a super fun evening, but for bringing the same energy to the courts all summer long.

Trickey Pond Penguins                             Hilltop Hippos

Noah                                                              Myke

Gideon                                                           DQ

Zay                                                                  DT

Pac-Man                                                        Eli

Barney                                                           Unc

Dut                                                                 Henry

Frog (mascot penguin)                              Lippy (mascot hippo)

PS.   DQ won the Slam Dunk Contest with a spectacular, off-the-bounce, 360, windmill jam from down under — and in an upset of sorts, Baseball Director Unc shot his way to the 3-point title.  Who knew?

It was a Bates College Bones Bonanza for the Tigers Division!  Bates, located just about 40 minutes away, is Blake (aka “Bones”) Shep’s alma mater, and our campers were excited to try out college life for a day.

The Tigers were some of the first to be on the new turf of the Bates football field.  They played an awesome game of flag football, with real refs and field goals.  The game recap included talking about some important sports stuff, like what it means to be a positive teammate.

A guest speaker stopped by to talk about sustainability.  They learned about not wasting food, which was especially important because they were having lunch in the Bates Dining Hall.  Called “The Commons”, this “all you can eat” establishment has won lots of top awards on the college ranking websites.  Once again, chicken nuggets that cost real money were most popular.  Filling water bottles with chocolate milk was fun, and so was mixing every kind of soda in one cup.  You know, it’s the kind of thing a boy likes to do.

Another special guest speaker (a public health expert – the guys were surprisingly into it) greeted them, and next it was off to the movie theater.  “Inside Out Two” was a great one to see.

When they returned, some sisters were here!  Our beautiful sisters from Camp Mataponi and Camp Walden came over for dinner and a visit.  Such a pleasure to have them.

It was a Band of Brothers evening.  As explained earlier, there are 12 Bands, each with an animal name that’s native to Maine.  A Band is comprised with a couple of boys from each age group, and the leaders are those in the Stars Division (the oldest).  It’s a solid way to build relationships between those of different ages.

Pine Cone Auction time!  Each Band worked together as a team, but because there were no pine cones they found golf balls instead.  You had to keep your clothes on, but you could get creative on where you carried what was collected.

The golf balls became the medium of exchange to purchase parties.  Those with the most balls got first pick.  Here’s a description of what went on:

Pirate Booty Sunset Cruise – A night of swashbuckling fun and pirate themed delights on Trickey Pond!   

Breakfast Burrito Bash – Learn to make your own Colorado-style breakfast burrito!

Chilling with Sundaes and Crafts – Make a sundae and make a masterpiece!

World of Meat & Cheese – Charcuterie board making!

Counselor Hangout – Relax and enjoy the Counselor Barn, just like the counselors do!

Pickle Ball Party – Play the game and eat them too.  Pickles of every variety!

Camden Yards – Crab chips, popcorn, lemonade and a few innings of the Orioles game!

Chocolate Fiesta – Dipped fruit and cookie baking!

Sky II Hotspot – Dodgeball plus a campfire at the Red Cabin!

Croquet and Tropical Drinks – Play the game in the garden and mix up some smoothies!

Disk Golf and Moon Pies – Play the game on Hejduk Field and try an old-fashioned snack.

Camplified Cold Stone – DIY Cold Stone Creamery-style ice cream making in the SkyDeck!

Wow!  No matter what you won, it was an awesome night!

One of the many things that Shep’s good at is weather predicting.  Of course, he uses assorted apps and a NOA station, but mostly he says he “feels it in his eyes”.

Take last night for example.  Bunk 3 was at SkyPines for an overnight.  That’s when you grab your sleeping bag and camp out at an especially beautiful part of Sky II.  The kids learn about putting up a tent, building fires and how to cook over the open flame.  They go fishing and splashing in the shallow water and play whatever games Directors Sam and Santi have in store for them.  It’s a great time, and especially cool to stay in the tents with your bunkmates.

As Bunk 3 went over, Shep felt it in his eyes.  That’s when he decided to leave a van with the keys inside just beyond where the kids were camping.

Lucky he did, because around 4:15 AM a storm whipped up.  Santi, Sam and the counselors were able to wake the boys, get them into the van, and everyone finished sleeping back in their cozy, dry cabin.

So far this summer we’ve had the least number of rainy days than we can remember in a season.  That’s the complete opposite of last year, when it seemed like there was rain several times each week.   Instead, we’ve been blessed with many hot and sunny days in 2024, perfect for Trickey Pond.

Careful what you wish for, but it’s been such a run of the sun that we actually hoped for at least a little rain.  That’s exactly what we got this morning.  It was the first Rainy Day Schedule of Skylemar 76^th year.

Here’s what we did…

Legos!  They get our vote for “best toy” award for boys of all ages.  And we have plenty.  We opened up some giant tarps and poured out huge containers filled with millions of pieces…literally!  Laying down on the floor to build with the many shapes was relaxing and cathartic.  It was exactly what the boys needed.

Some played good old-fashioned board games.  We have a couple hundred here to pick from.  Remember – we had a whole lot of rain last year.

The Super Suzie Trivia Game took place in the Pavilion = and art projects too, like fish painting!  Meanwhile, some played Dodgeball in the gym, while others had Porch Time with Shep.  That’s when groups get together on Shep’s Porch to talk about stuff.  Shep has a topic to cover (like what to do if you see someone being unkind to a bunkmate), and then the guys are allowed to ask him any question.  The most frequently asked — “if you had hair, what color would it be?”.

The Lodge was lots of fun, with all the ping pong and pool tables.  There’s foosball too.  The oldest Divisions, Seniors and Stars did what they like to do best on a rainy day.  Sleep.

There were pockets of hazy sunshine as well.  That’s when we switched gears and got outside for Softball, Pickleball, Lax, SkyRopes, Waterfront and lots more.

Even though it officially stopped raining by dusk, Movie Night was in the Rec Hall instead of at The Drive-in (the area near Bunk 1 with the big wooden screen).  That was the decision, because Shep was feeling it in his eyes.  Good thing, too, because a minute after everyone was back in their cabin, heavy rain fell from the sky.

There’s a 50% chance of rain tomorrow.  Whatever it is, it is!

The official first day of Second Session.  Great weather… check.  New friends… check.  Pumped up staff… check.

The morning was packed with activities all over camp.  Waterfront, Football, Baseball, Ropes, Hoops, Volleyball, Tennis, Track & Field, Golf and Olympic Training Center.  OTC takes place in the Gym, working with our Strength & Conditioning Coach Mitch.   In Yellowhorn (outdoor science), they made marshmallow towers and spaghetti bridges.  Cool Tools is directed by our good friend and favorite engineer Bruce, who works with the guys on building things out of wood.  Today’s project was a really cool moose mount.

Clinic Sign Ups today.  That’s when counselors do “commercials”, advertising what they’re offering during third period this week.  The Ski Dock offered the “Never Ever Clinic”, for those skiing and boarding for the first time.  With the start of the Olympics just a few days away, a few offered clinics keeping that in mind. Track and Field will specialize on techniques needed become a faster sprinter and throw the discus and shotput farther.  Fitness will focus on the snatch, clean and jerk of “Olympic Weightlifting” at the Gym, while Tennis will concentrate on singles and doubles play.  Over at SkyDeck, they’ll be making dumplings from all over the world, and Shep’s Reading Clinic promises to prepare you for college.

It’s the “Get It Right Clinic” at SkyHoops, where all 10 coaches will provide one-on-one instruction to all who sign up.  “Water Volleyball” and “Splish Splash” sound like fun down at Trickey Pond — and there’s Sailing too.  Chilltop will go remote there this week, working arts and craft projects lakeside.

Rook asked those in the audience to raise their hands if they never played lacrosse before, or only played it at Skylemar.  A surprisingly large number held their hands high, which makes sense since lacrosse is a more regional sport.  The Lax Fundamentals Clinic is perfect for this group.

“Super Pitching” at Baseball where the coaches will teach you about safely developing proper throwing motion and how to keep your pitching arm healthy.  “Next Level Football” will advance your skills as will “Hockey Refresher” at the rink. There’s also “Philosophy of Golf” and Soccer “Goalkeeping and Shooting” clinic.  GoPro cameras will be “fun-tastic” to use on the zipline, Giant Swing and Skywalk at the Ropes Course, and “Favorites and Hits” up at Yellowhorn.   “Ultimate Outdoorsman” is all about building forts, fires, orienteering and fishing.

Hardest part is deciding which to choose!

Meanwhile, Bunk 19 went on a community service project with Holly.  They headed to Back Cove in Portland, where they volunteered for an organization called “Friends of Casco Bay”.  Lots of trash there had accumulated, so the boys put on gloves and got it all picked up.

“Peter Pan” auditions today!  That’s Suzie’s next big production.  Forty-some kids of all ages asked for a part, and Suzie will deliver.  Not that it matters, but it helps…lots of boy parts in this show.  We wonder how she plans on making Peter Pan fly.

Staff Talent Show for Evening Activity.  And guess what…they do have talent!  We knew they were exceptional athletes, but had no idea that they could sing, stunt, play instruments and do golf tricks.

Gideon could spin far more than just balls with his finger.  He demoed spinning clipboards and books too.  Holden did impressions, Reed and Austin did the ever-popular “pick-me, pick-me” magic tricks and Zay gave us a Sea Dogs quote.  Not sure if it goes in the category of “talent”, but definitely funny.   Rayann did 9 flips in the air.  Then DQ joined her for backwards flips plus a cheerleader stunt.  Rumor has it…a certain camp director held her breath for this act.

Lippy played a camp song on the piano.  Marcus read a poem that he wrote. We’re pretty sure the Backstreet Boys were here tonight, with a couple of not-so-attractive “girls” who we guess were fans.  Ky, Roxy, Payton and Landon honestly blew us away with their singing… really impressive.

In the interest of bringing good luck to the Baltimore Ravens, Creed (aka Nick, Beags and Blake) was on stage singing “Higher”.  We all sang along and noted that Beags was especially impressive on the blow-up guitar.

Best part of the show was seeing how proud the kids were of their own counselors.  Such a happy time!

Welcome Home.

It’s the phrase that Shep combines with a warm hug when each person gets to camp.  No marketing tag line here – it’s simply the truth.   Camp Skylemar is summer home to the greatest guys in the whole wide world.  Yup – we keep repeating that phrase too, because it’s also the truth.

Today we welcomed home guys from Germany, England, Mexico plus 22 states in the US.  Those places get added to our current roster of origins which also includes Spain, France, Venezuela and Austria.  Boys of all different sizes, shapes, hair styles, likes and not-so-much’s.  What ties us together is a Cool2Care attitude and a willingness to try all the different activities that Skylemar has to offer.

Sports is our vehicle of positive change.  It’s not about being a great athlete, but more about trying your best and the take-aways that come with the experience.  For example, waterskiing — it might look like just getting up.  But it’s really about taking a safe chance, listening skills, focus, independence, trust and being self-reliant.  Those waiting on the dock learn to encourage others, foster relationships and how to help someone feel better when things don’t go to plan.  That’s how we build confidence, Skylemar-style.

It’s amazing how most who arrived this afternoon already seem comfortable and at ease.  We’re excited to take on the first day of real camp with them in the morning!

The love waves could be felt for miles.  Even a global tech outage, plane cancellations and roads closed due to a parade could not stop our superheroes from getting to Skylemar today.

There is nothing more joyous than seeing a boy leap into the arms of his mom or dad, especially after a long time apart.  We truly are the luckiest people in the world.

Thank you for giving your son the opportunity to show off his friends, counselors and summer home.  We hope you see what we see – he shines in remarkable ways.

Of course it’s an emotional day for those of all ages, and for some it’s sort of a roller coaster ride.  On the other hand, it’s extraordinary to see how quickly the boys switch gears back to regular camp mode when it comes to a Carnival.

Dinner, 7^th Period, and then Movie Night.  All should sleep tight this evening.

Every night we count our blessings.  All 240 of them plus their parents, and the 148 Skylemar staff members who do whatever it takes to care for the greatest guys in the whole wide world.  Thank you for sharing yours with us.

It’s a bittersweet couple of days.  Those staying first session were glad to see their parents again, but it’s a tough thing to leave those you’ve spent every minute with for the past three weeks.  We watched several guys stretch out saying goodbye for as long as they could.

Tomorrow is more of the same.  Glorious and wonderful to see those we love most, but oh so sad for many of us at 3pm departure.  Luckily, we have Carnival as soon as the cars drive away.  Lots of spirit-lifting here – it’s what we do.

Speaking of…it was Spirit Night here.  There were reminders woven into the evening about how fortunate we are to have so much love surrounding us, whether from those at home or here at camp.  We’re especially good at taking care of our friends, so will share our parents with those who don’t have visitors tomorrow.

It was a first-ever for Cool2Care chain recipients.  The all-time highest number of recognition cards were entered into the C2C Cooler – over 50!  This led to the most chain recipients in Skylemar history – five!

This person demonstrates Cool2Care by…

“…encouraging others to be their best, being a good friend, and helping to make you feel ok when you miss a shot.”

This person is Robbie G (B6).

“…being kind all the time.  Everything he does is kind.  He’ll check on you if you don’t seem ok.”

This person is Eli F (B27).

“…being the one to help me when I got hurt.  He helps all of us by being a good friend.” 

This person is Alexander D (B4).

“…always following the rules when no one is watching.”

This person is Dash H (B13).

“…persevering and motivating our team, and always showing good sportsmanship.”

This person is Colin H (B12).

We’re ready to take on the happy as well as the not-so-much tomorrow!  Let’s go!

Heartwarming Moment: 

You may recall that Ethan P won 2500+ jelly beans by guessing the number just about correctly.  Today he set up a stand sharing them with all of camp.  You even got to pick your favorite colors.

Smile Maker:

“My mom makes the best mocktails”, said a camper while preparing a meal at SkyDeck.  “What makes it a mocktail?”, said his friend.  And the answer please: “ I don’t know.  I think it doesn’t have caffeine in it.”

Kid logic:

“I think I’ll stay for 3 weeks because I love camp so much that if I stay for 6 weeks, I’ll miss it even more during the winter.”

And the Oscar goes to:

The entire cast of  “Tarzan”, performed on the Skylemar stage.  It was amazing – the audience was blown away!  Acting (including perfect British accents by Ethan K and Max A) and singing were especially great.  Dance moves by the gorillas were impressive and adorable.

Solid Decision:

Suzie picking “Tarzan” as the first musical of 2024.  Our guys make spectacular apes.

The Kindest, Greatest, Most Fun and Usually Patient:

Skylemar counselors.  The staff of 2024 is a team of all-stars, and we can’t wait for you to meet them.  Their devotion to your son is quite remarkable.  It’s incredibly rewarding to watch each boy stand taller and become more confident, relaxed and comfortable over the past three weeks, thanks to them.

As you know, Skylemar is perhaps the only camp in the country with a counselor staff made up of collegiate athletes from universities in the USA, as well as Skylemar alum.  Counselors are here to pass on their knowledge, and make a positive difference in the world, one kid at a time.

Like you, they care about their boys.  Like you, they worry about them.  Like you, every once in a while, they lose their temper.   They’re by no means perfect, but then again, no “parent” is.

For those coming Saturday, you’ve got a big group to meet.  For those who are unable, please know that your son will be well-taken-care-of by his Skylemar counselor.

Ann Arbor, Baton Rouge, Clemson, Knoxville and Madison. The Big House, Death Valley (x 2) and Rocky Top – some of the most storied and historic venues anywhere, and home to some of the most prominent and spirited collegiate athletic programs in the country. But not on this day.

Today, Naples, Maine was where it all went down, hosting five of the most powerful and spirited universities in the country.  It’s one of Skylemar’s oldest (76 years!) and most cherished traditions – Intercollegiate Day.

The Michigan Wolverines, LSU Tigers, Clemson Tigers, Tennessee Vols and Wisconsin Badgers were set to compete (by Division) in tests of skill, accuracy,  quickness, agility, teamwork, song and fun. IC Day Director Nick Shep crafted an event-filled day, where participation from everyone was the standard, in some non-traditional ways. There was Newcomb and Beach Volleyball, 3v3 Blacktop Hoops, Steal the Bacon, Team Gaga, World Cup Soccer, Buoy Ball and Pickleball.  Of course, classics like the Dash and the Golf Long Drive competition were most popular, with the entire camp gathering in support of their selected participants. Here’s how the day unfolded….

Just after breakfast and morning inspection, Nick called all down to the Snow Field for the official start of IC Day 2024.  The first event was the much-anticipated Dash.  One runner for each team with a race in each of the eight Divisions.  The first two ended in photo-finishes.  Congrats to the winners – Everett K and Lionel (Michigan), Luke McD and Max P (Wisconsin), Jackson (Tennessee), Alex Sw (LSU), and Clemson’s Will A and Cosme (‘the fastest man in camp”)!

Each Division then moved around to venues all over camp.  From the Pickleball courts to the Fred Pierce Field and everywhere in between, points were scored and tallied for their respective teams.  The action was non-stop right up until we broke for lunch, and the cheers could be heard reverberating from the Gaga Pit to the Volleyball court. Camaraderie and team spirit were the name of the game, and smiles filled the morning activities at every site.

Last night’s brief downpour had cooled us off a tiny bit, but the glorious morning gave way to another afternoon of steamy heat and humidity.  So Nick adjusted the after-lunch schedule to allow for some rest and a Songs and Cheers rehearsal.  The whole camp gathered together under the shade of the Rec Hall porch and Big Tree to watch the Long Drive Competition among the Seniors and Stars.  Bode G (Wisconsin) flew his tee shot well past the other Seniors, and Jared R (Clemson) launched one nearly 300 yards to win the Stars Division.  Then, all Divisions had a chance to rejuvenate down at the Pond until just before dinner.  Waterfront Director Peter and his full lifeguard staff gave all competitors a much needed respite from the heat and allowed the magical water of Trickey Pond to do its thing. Feeling refreshed, the teams headed to dinner, then a final rehearsal before IC Day’s culminating event – Songs and Cheers.

The team leaders have actually been working for a couple of weeks in preparation for tonight’s big show, putting in countless hours after Taps for several long nights in advance.  It’s not so easy to pick tunes and write fresh lyrics, and then spend just a few days teaching and rehearsing a group of boys aged 7 and up for tonight’s onstage performances. Judges LJ, Blake and Beags would have a very tough job as well, deciding which was the best. The teams were tasked with performing a set of 5 songs (Team Cheer, Camp Cheer, Team Fight Song, Old Camp Song and Original Camp Song), and that they did. One after the other, each team took the stage and impressed us all with the results of their efforts.  A tough choice indeed.

The judges returned and Nick quieted the boisterous crowd.  The winner of Intercollegiate Day 2024 – the Tennessee Volunteers!

Oh, the heat.  It’s so hot here you could fry an egg on a sidewalk.

So we tried.  But the egg frying experiment was an epic failure.  It just makes a mess on a basketball court.

We’ve gotten used to scheduling in high heat over the past few days.  Barney now puts the court sports  in the morning, and then puts the slower-speed and the in-the-shade activities in the afternoon.

Some weather appropriate trips went out today.  The older guys went to Sebago Lake State Park.  That’s a public beach not too far away.  The water’s very shallow, so it’s fun for tossing a football or a Frisbee.  If you’re lucky, a girls camp will be there at the same time.  No matter what, the snack bar’s always a hit.  Once again, paying cash for an ice cream sandwich makes it taste much better than the same one here.

The Tigers and Freshmen cooled off with some air conditioning!  They went to Smitty’s Theatre to see “Despicable Me 4”.  It’s the kind of place where you sit at tables and there are waiters to serve the food.  As expected, our group was well-mannered and made us proud.  Best of all, counselors had the opportunity to shut their eyes for just a couple hours.

Some of those who really love golf headed to Bridgton Highlands Country Club, despite the 94 degree temps.  From what we hear that’s not anywhere near as hot as some places in the country.

For us here at camp, the best place to be is Trickey Pond.  In fact, the ski dock’s been so busy this summer that we made the decision to add a fifth boat to our fleet.  It’s a Mastercraft NXT, and we call her “Big Blue”.   Also new this summer is a pontoon boat, that’s big enough for a cabin of kids.  It’s perfect for Pontoon Parties and exploring the other side of the lake.

Tonight was to be the first big play of the season, “Tarzan”.  Those in the show have been working hard for days, practicing lines, songs and dances, all in the hot sun.   The dress rehearsal was so successful this morning that Suzie gave the cast the afternoon off.   By 7:30 the lights were up, mics ready to go, all the actors were in costume and face paint and then…we were warned of a potential big storm.  Since the show was to be on the outdoor stage, we made a last-minute change.  Instead…it’s movie night!  Bunks 1-14 watched inside the Rec Hall, and 25-30 were in the Lodge.

Of course the show will go on!  We look forward to watching an amazing performance later in the week, featuring Ari, Luke P, KJ, Cooper E, Barron, Campbell, Henry M, Sawyer, Nolan, Ethan K, Max A, Henry Z, Ethan V, Max P, Levi, Alexander D, Charlie F, Theo Q, Noah P and Lincoln.

Skylemar campers have won the jackpot when it comes to their parents.  There are no boys in the world who could ever be more loved or better cared for.    When your son is happy, you are too.  When he struggles, you are the one who feels the pain.  As his greatest cheerleader and trusted confidant, you have a special way of turning things right when they go upside down.

You are the best.

Some say that parenting is difficult.  Then again, no one ever said it was easy to be the one in charge.  Typically, there’s a reason why those at the top make a high salary.  A parent’s year-end bonus just happens to be far more valuable.  You get love, hugs and pride-filled moments.

As the boss, wise decision-making is based on what’s best for the company.  For a parent, that’s the family.  Like a boss, a parent’s job is to make decisions for those who don’t have enough experience to do so on their own.

It all starts with hiring the right people.  Your best acquisition came about the moment your son came into your life.  As a great boss, you see potential and do what it takes to develop talent.

Strong bosses like you are the motivators.  They build the team up, without tearing them down.  They understand that fair is not necessarily the same for all.  Fair is what a person needs to succeed.

The job of both a boss and a parent is to listen to complaints and consider all the factors and ramifications.  They understand that the best “fixes” don’t necessarily come about through elimination.  Sometimes it takes a little extra time, understanding and sensitivity to work through a situation.  And of course…the boss knows that every once in a while, a tale may be told with some extra embellishment.

The best bosses are clear on goals and know what it takes to get there. They set high but achievable standards and are ready to pivot when the unexpected comes along.  They understand human nature and accept that even though 100 positive things happen in a day, the two not so good are what one remembers.

As for feedback, that’s a little bit trickier.  No matter how it’s packaged, no one likes to be criticized, especially by the boss.  But a gentle conversation goes a very long way.  A caring boss opens the door by asking, “what do you feel went right?” and “what do you feel needs improvement?”.

Respectfully and with understanding and compassion, the boss is not afraid to say no.  Sounds hard, but it’s not.  It’s a rule to remember.  When in doubt…just say no.

The best bosses are forever adored.  They are who we look up to and aspire to be.  How lucky your son is, to have the greatest in the world.

It’s the Polar Bear Swim!

76 campers in Bunks 1-15 signed up to swim across the lake this morning.  They woke up at 6AM, and the first group was in the water by 6:45.  30 staff members also woke up early to accompany them for safety, swimming with the kids and in boats.

It was a huge accomplishment, especially for the younger half of camp.  They ended up at Bunk 71 (aka The Fink’s House), where a donut and a really cool Bunk 71 bracelet awaited.  Boat rides back, and all are ready for breakfast!

Congrats to Anton, Fernando, Paul, Julian, Lincoln, Charlie, Billy, 2 Everett’s, Jonah P, Theo Q, Micah, Benny, 2 Seths, Brantley, 4 Alex’s, Morgan, Eli W, 3 Henry’s, Max W, Quinn, Federico, James P, Max R, Noah W, Connor N, Liam, Isiah, 3 Dylan’s, Levi, Dae, Hendrik, Tiago, Robbie, 2 Luke’s, Marcus, Mac, Diego G, Emmett, Logan, Grant, Royal, Elijah, Ka’Mari, Aiden, Lionel, Declan, Cambell, Ezra, Jack, Spencer, Hunter, Grady, Mason, Colin, Solo, Miles, Oliver G, Dash, Elliott, Jacob W,  Noah L, Leo V, Max A, Ari, Barron, Ethan V and Bash.

Bunk 16 and up swim the Polar Bear tomorrow!

Clinic Sign-ups were just before lunch.  Commercials were funny as usual, with lots of guest stars.  SkyDeck and SkyPines combined to make SkyDines.  That’s cooking on the open fire.  Down at Trickey, the Ski Dock will rock as the “Wake Dock” specializing in wakesurfing and wakeboarding. “The Monster Challenge”, another perennial favorite at the Swim Dock, is a real test – a course that includes jumping off the Pontoon tower and conquering the Iceberg and Beast in a race against the clock.   The Sail Dock will add a little something extra to its kayaking, paddle boarding, and sailing – the pontoon boat will drop anchor in a few special Pond spots for snorkeling.

SkyTennis will work on how to close out matches with an improved overhead smash to finish off points.  Our Basketball guys will focus on dribbling and ball handling skills.  Football will expand those skills dependent on the legs – route running and being elusive with the ball. “British Open” Golf, “Anything Volleyball” and “El Jefe” Hockey will allow for further development (and fun) in each of those regimens. Track and Field will concentrate on building overall athleticism and introduce plyometrics to the equation.

Shep’s Great Adventure is a backstage tour of all the places that campers typically don’t go to at Skylemar.  They’ll learn about the water system, freezers, basement and costume attic. The Lax group will play a 3 v 3 Mini-Lax tourney and Baseball will prep for upcoming Intercamp action.  The “Lippy Zippy Zipline” clinic down at SkyRopes sounds like a lot of fun.  “Recyclateria” was advertised with guys wearing “Boxbot” costumes made out of boxes.  They’ll make sculptures and games out of recyclables. DMan’s “SkySportsCenter” hopes to have the kids produce an episode like ESPN’s own broadcast, from start to finish.  Quite a week 3 lineup!

The Ring of Champions Campfire was one of the greatest tonight.  The highlight was the Stars doing a skit called Roman Water Ritual.  They dressed up in togas, played Zen music and looked serious as they circled the crowd.  Then they’d stop, take a sip of water, and squirted the water in the air.  It was kind of like a human water fountain.  When Adventure Man came, he made a point of reminding us that it’s only ok to spit water if you’re in a skit — kind of like a “don’t try this at home” warning.  Then he taught us what to do in case of a nosebleed.  He also pulled out the Applause-o-meter to measure the cheers as to what’s more helpful…duct tape or zip ties.  Which is your favorite?

You have to change your sheets.

It’s one of those things that most boys can’t wrap their heads around.  Saturday is sheet-changing day, and one boy asked, “but if I did it last week do I have to do it today?”.  Name withheld to protect the adorable.

This time we had some leverage.  If you wanted to go to the all-camp social tonight, you needed to change your sheets.  That incentive got the job done.

The once-again sweltering hot day included the full variety of activities on land and water.  Those at the Olympic Training Center (aka The Gym) never gave up, despite the high temperatures.  Coach Mitch, our Strength & Conditioning Director, runs an outstanding and age-appropriate program that the boys love.

They also look forward to a special period called “Chocolate Factory”.  The activity has four parts: learning, cooking, eating and giving.  The learning part covered the history of chocolate, and they queried how the Mayans and Aztecs ever thought of turning cacao beans into something delicious. They did blindfold taste-testing of chocolate with different percentages of cocoa.  That was easy – the tastiest had the lowest cocoa and highest sugar.

The cooking part involved melting the chocolate, and then dipping strawberries, pretzels and Oreos into it.  They made some for themselves, and then some for another bunk as a surprise.  That’s the giving part.

Meanwhile, a Swim Meet covering all age Divisions, and tourneys in 15U Volleyball, 11U Baseball, 10U and 13U Soccer, and 14U Lacrosse had many traveling in and out of camp. The 13U boys swept through untarnished and brought us another Championship trophy, but all teams represented Skylemar well.  Our Intercamp athletes are especially proud to wear the Red and Gray…. and we’re proud of them all too!

We were especially proud of our gentlemen tonight at that social mentioned above.  It was the Fernwood/Skylemar All-Camp, which has become an annual event over the years.  Each summer we alternate locations, and this time we got to make the trip to Fernwood.  The kickoff was a counselor contest, and our team was out to impress.  It was a happy night of dinner and hanging out together.  Or in many cases hanging out separately but looking at each other.  (wink!)

What do you do if you’re getting married, but the guest list is 300 over the limit?

You host a Rehearsal Wedding.

Directors Luci and DT (aka Danny) got “hitched” tonight, which was a first in Skylemar history.  The 46 campers in the bridal party (it was a signup, just like intercamp) made up a magnificent team of bridesmaids, groomsmen, flower girls and ring bearer.  It was a very fair system… you told Suzie who you wanted to be.  The rest of us got to watch them being silly, which is especially fun at Skylemar.

The Ring of Champions was the location of the ceremony.  The attire was “sporty casual”, although the bride herself wore the finest of couture, designed by campers at Chilltop.  The groom wore an especially sharp basketball jersey.

Barnicus, Skylemar’s Warrior of Clean, officiated.  Repeat after me vows were for better and for even better, in hot days and rainy, for as long as they both have GACU duties plus lots more hilarious stuff (but you have to be a camper to get the jokes…sorry).  Then the guests repeated vows too, promising to be Luci and DT’s lawfully wedded best friends.

The couple exchanged Ring Pops, kissed and the audience went wild!

Then it was time to get up and dance…IT’S A WEDDING BLOCK PARTY!

Dr. Barter’s four-piece band rocked the Skylemar stage.  They were super great, and it felt like they enjoyed the lively vibe.  Not every wedding has a dunk tank, but ours sure did.   (Note to counselors:  If you agree to get dunked, go early in the line-up.  The water’s a whole lot cleaner.)

There were bubbles and axe throwing (deep breath – plastic axes), cornhole and badminton, Kan Jam and Spikeball, photo booth and video messages.  Especially exciting was the “gift table”.  That’s where campers could decorate a set of king- sized sheets that was the wedding gift for Luci and DT.

Catering was superb and very kid-friendly.  Pigs in a blanket, mozzarella sticks and good old chicken nuggets.  Signature Mocktails (Shirley Temples, Fauxmosas and Mock-Jitos) were refreshing on such a humid night.  One drink used mint that was grown in the Sky Garden.

Time for dessert!  Chef Junior and Chef Benjamin worked hard to build the 6-layer “pyramid of cake”.  We added fresh flowers from Kristen’s Gardens to give it the wedding glow.  The boys waited patiently while Luci made the first cut, and then they fed each other a bite.  They were the good kind of bride and groom – no smooshing cake in the face.

A final round of hugs for the new couple, and it was time for Taps.  What a perfect way to celebrate love at Skylemar.

July 11 is Shirley Day at Camp Skylemar!  Shirley was Lee’s wife, who truly lived by the Cool2Care motto.  She loved people, Skylemar and ice cream.  Each year we celebrate her life with a spectacular spread of make-your-own-sundaes, and today was the day.  We’re grateful to have her watching over us from above.

It was exciting to welcome our Special Guest Coach today to the Skylemar gridiron.  Greg Pyke is a second team All-SEC lineman from the University of Georgia, who then signed to play with the Buffalo Bills and Arizona Cardinals.  He finished his NFL career in 2018, and now is a teacher and coach at Boys’ Latin School in Baltimore.  Best of all, he’s a super great person who ran an outstanding program today at Skylemar called “NFL Prep”.  The guys really focused on practicing Greg’s unique set of drills, despite the high heat and humidity.  They had lots of questions for him and were thrilled to get autographs.

Bunks 8-10 and 16-17 cooled down at the ice rink that’s located just 10 miles from camp.  It’s especially fun to have the whole rink to ourselves.  Some have skated before, but for others, it’s a whole new sport.

Meanwhile, the Stars Division went to Portland for a community service project.  They spent the morning cleaning up a beach.  They definitely made a positive difference, and many were grateful for their help.

The Cubs went to the Ossipee Valley Fair.  They learned a lot about cows, but most important to them was that they got to spend $10 on food.  Somehow the chicken nuggets taste better when you use your own money.  Most important to us was the compliments Blake got about the manners our little guys have.

Lots of Intercamp activity today too.  Sky Tennis in three age groups headed out for an all-day tourney with several other camps.  Outstanding matches all around with several players moving on to the latter stages in each group. Oscar, Coop (14U) and Asher (12U) advanced through their draws, and our youngest group produced an all-Skylemar final in singles with Diego LP capturing the title.  In the 10U doubles, Max R and Federico came close in a hard fought final but still proved to be a formidable pairing.

Our 12U Hoopsters also hit the road as well with mixed results. However, more than any individual performances of note, Coach Myke was most impressed by the improvement shown by this team in just a few short weeks.  This game was their best effort of the season.

Hockey tournaments both home (15U) and away (13U) brought more Championship hardware to our mantle. We hosted the 15U event where our most dominant group showed why they’re the best amongst all camps — ready to take on all comers with a resounding 10-4 title game victory. Shout-outs to each member of this team from Coach LJ.  He couldn’t help but get a bit emotional (like a Proud Papa) as he remembered them as little ones when they first walked into our rink.

The 13U squad used their 6-1 semi-final win as a springboard for a great performance in a very hotly contested final. Ignacio completed the hat trick, scoring the lone 3^rd period goal to break a 2-2 tie.  Netminder Thomas L, the defensive MVP, shut the door to win the Cup, 3-2.

Dinner tonight was by Band of Brothers.  It’s really fun to change it up every so often and be with our Band.  We even stuck together during 7^th period.  The Loons and Wolves had Free Swim at the Waterfront, the Bald Eagles, Bats and Deer had Country Club Special (Tennis, Golf & Pickleball), The Bears and Cubs had Bunkline Bonanza (Lacrosse and Soccer), the Owls and Foxes had Court Sport Special, while the Moose, Dock Spiders and Lobsters had Yard Games.

We got the low down from World of Change today.  Our combined contributions came to $1,187.54!  This will provide more than 1,200 meals for those who don’t have enough to eat, 4 backpacks filled with essentials, three beds and pillows for kids sleeping on the floor, plus partial support for a pet therapy program.  That’s a lot to be proud of!

Two Jack Ms were coincidentally awarded the Cool2Care Chain (Bunk 11 & 20) at Spirit Night.  Both are two of the nicest people we know, who never have an unkind word to say about anyone.  Congrats!

Naples, Maine certainly has its place on the map.  But did you know the quaint little town is also home to the only gambling casino in the world where the house never wins?  Wish you could come, but you must be under 18 to enter.    Plus, you’d have to act quickly.  This gaming establishment is only open one night a year.

It’s SADE’S PALACE!

Wheels of Fortune, Dice Games, Blackjack, Roulette.  Poker, Horse Racing, Bingo and Craps.  Best of all, Sade’s knows how to treat a customer… they give away cash,   $100 in Skylemoney, for all big spenders.

What a star-studded night for the paparazzi.  In attendance was Jayson Tatum, Kaitlin Clark and a couple of boxers from the US Olympic team.  There was the cast of Scooby Doo, Toy Story, Harry Potter and Baywatch.  The Incredible Hulk, Spiderman and the real Superman stopped by.  Also Kevin Hart, Captain Jack Sparrow, Janis Joplin, Bob Marley, William Wallace from “Brave Heart” and Buddy the Elf.  Mrs. Claus and a Reindeer, Dorothy from “The Wizard of Oz”, Barbie, Cleopatra and Happy Gilmore were spied.  Couples included Tarzan and Jane, Peter Pan and Tinker Bell, Thing One and Thing Two (who brought along baby Thing Three).  A seemingly youthful President Biden made an appearance, along with his Secret Service.  The White House visit did place heavy demands on Sade’s Security Team.

The cameras didn’t stop clicking at the Step and Repeat.  You might even know some of the a-list celebrities personally.  Rumor has it — at least one has had dinner at your house.

Speaking of food…the grill had it all.  Burgers, Hot Dogs, Salads and Ice Cream.  We overheard Seth R (of the famous Bunk 7) proudly say that tonight he had his first root beer.

Tiago won the lottery!  Thousands of dollars went to him, which came in handy when he went shopping later that night.  Ethan P (of the prominent Bunk 1) won the “Guess How Many Jellybeans” in the jar — $2,543 went to him, along with a lifetime supply of toothbrushes.

As the evening grew late, Harry Winston’s was kind enough to share their newest line of glow-in-the-dark jewelry.  Of course these pieces were only on loan…

Every big winner had a wad of cash to blow at Sade’s Gift Shop.  There were yo-yos and squishy balls, splat eggs and whoopee cushions, inflatable balls and all types of sunglasses, basketball hoops and fuzzy dice.  Anything and everything!

Well, that’s a wrap for Sade’s 2024.  Special thanks to Maria Von Trapp (aka Suzie) and the amazing personalities who made the magic happen.  See you next year!

There’s nothing more joyous than a Skylemar Talent Show.  There were 39 brave participants, some with talent, and some not so much.    No matter how silly or how many “wait, let me start overs”, the audience responded with cheers, whistles and claps.  Each performer is rewarded with a trinket from the Super Prize Bag.  Not bribery, just an incentive.

Levi (B5) kicked off the show with his Griddy dance.  Not sure why he had his shirt pulled over his head, but it was really funny.

Charlie F (B2) impressed us all with his headstand.  MC’s DMan and Caleb were ready to catch him, just in case.

Jacob W (B14) screamed.  Yes Dad, that’s what he did.

Theo R, Henry Z, Sawyer and Jonathan L from B15, along with Dash H and Alex S (B13) did the Slow-mo World Boxing Champion skit.

Liam S, Connor S and Bash of B5 did something with their thumbs.  Robert T (B25) laughed into the microphone.

Theo Q and Jonah P of B2, along with Paul M (B1) did push-ups.  Barron and Oliver G drank four cups of water in 30 seconds.  Also on the time clock was Lajuan G who did the Rubik’s Cube in 93 seconds.

Dae, Tiago and Robby G did a Shadow Boxing skit.  Isaiah A and Dylan S were outstanding Shadow Boxers as well.

What would a Skylemar Talent Show be without an arm-farting routine?  We can thank Jack M (B11) for that, and Dylan R as well.  Dylan held the microphone.

Max W (B4) played beautifully on the piano. Brantley played “Old McDonald”, and the audience sang along.

Seth F (B3) played a Skylemar song on the electric guitar.  Really impressive!

Also impressive was Ethan P (B1) and Micah (B2) who sang the Rainbow Friends “Purple” song.   Ethan V (B15) sang “We Will Rock You”, and we all sang too.

Beckett, Alexander D and Henry M of B4 did some breakdancing.  Oliver G played the harmonica on his knees.  Not sure about the knees, but he definitely has some talent.

Another Skylemar staple are the magicians.  Tonight was Campbell and Emmett L who each had a trick.  The audience loves being asked to volunteer.  Lots of tall hands go up, along with “oooooh ooooohs” in hopes of being selected.

Nolan B (B18) was the big winner of the night, playing and singing “Soul Sister” on the ukulele.  He was fantastic.

There were some other big winners today…

The most anticipated Intercamp action of the summer took our boys on the road, but this year’s 15U Lax squad had the added pressure of defending the crown won at last year’s tourney.

This annual event has become the most talked about Lacrosse tournament of the New England camp scene for many years, and last year’s triumph had been a long time coming.

After a slow start, the Skylemar attackman got it going and eased by their first round opponent 10-2; then let the defense take over in a convincing 9-3 semifinal victory, sending us to the Championship game.

In the final, twins Will and Harry once again led the way and showed why they might be the best and most talented tandem of Sky Laxers ever.  Once we had the lead, Zane B wreaked havoc all over the field, disrupting any chance of a comeback, while defensive MVP Henry B was spectacular between the pipes.

Lucas V and Leo chipped in with added scoring and all-around hustle. Coach Nick lauded the entire team for their effort in bringing back another Championship trophy.

The on-field celebration carried over to Skylemar when the boys arrived back home.  The team bus was swarmed as kids came running from everywhere to greet the Champs and let them know just how excited and proud we all were.  Then, to cap it off, a wild dash and splash into the rewarding waters of Trickey.  Yes, even this camp director jumped into the fun.

It was so hot today we had to take it sl-o-o-o-o-o-w….

We did our best to keep activities in the shade, and took water breaks every 20 minutes.  By afternoon it was sweltering, so we canceled the schedule and switched to a Wacky Water Afternoon.

Lucky for us, we have Trickey Pond.  Skylemar has well over a mile of frontage, so we have access to the lake at several points.  First, there’s the Sky I Waterfront, where most of the action takes place.  In addition to swimming in the lanes, there’s all kinds of toys to play on.  There’s an assortment of giant inflatables – things you climb up, slide down, jump off and bounce on.  Peter and his amazing staff offer stand-up paddle boards, kayaks, canoes, sailboats, water basketball and all kinds of creative games and challenges.

By today’s standards, there really is no difference between what’s called a lake vs a pond, at least in Maine.  Trickey is about 2 miles long, and a half mile across.  It’s very deep (30+ feet in the center), which is why we wear life jackets when we play on inflatables, and of course we need them when using a boat.  That way everyone can have fun, no matter their swim level.  What’s most amazing about our Trickey Pond is the clarity.  It’s incredibly clean, and you can see right through to the bottom when you look over the dock’s edge.

The Sky II waterfront is located at Sky Pines, on the other side of camp.  Here the water is shallow for quite a distance, sort of like a sandbar.  This area is ideal for fishing, and snorkeling’s great here too.  Today’s group used the Corcls, which are circular orange boats, kind of like a flat kayak but round.

The older guys had Hillbilly Hot Tubs, Ice Baths and Yard Games.  And what is a Hillbilly Hot Tub you might ask?  It’s when you put a giant tarp in the bed of a truck and fill it with water.  Definitely a first for just about everyone, and loads of fun, too!

Ice Baths are large bins and baby pools filled with water and ice cubes. They fill the boyish desire to “see how much I can stand”, like when they eat hot peppers or a lemon and tell their friends that they like it.  Today it was about how long they could stay in the icy water.  Quite a while for most!

Back at Sky I, there was Water Warships.  That’s when there’s a giant tarp hung between two teams, and the game’s played sort of like Battleship with spongy water balls tossed across to make the plays.   The game went well for the first half hour, and then everyone just started throwing wet balls at the counselors.

One group had ice-cream making, followed by crafts at Chilltop.  The ice cream, made with whipping cream, sugar and flavorings, was surprisingly delicious.   The craft was sand art, which is always popular.  That is, until the cap comes off the bottle.

Another group had Hose Games and snow cones.   It’s super joyful stuff – squeals of laughter from all.  As for snow cones, “blue” (blue raspberry) is definitely the most requested.  We’ve been trying to get rid of what the kids call “cream-de-men-they” (mint flavored but the label says “Cream de Menthe”) for a long time now.

Forever the favorite hotspot is the Sky Water Slide, which runs down the hockey court hill.  It spans quite a distance, so you definitely get a good ride.

To top off the fun, each location got a visit from the Sky Ice Cream Truck.

Once again, we’re exhausted.  Crossing our fingers that all get sleep tonight.  More hot tomorrow!

It’s a boy!

The “gender reveal” for Nick and Sarah’s baby was celebrated with 200 boys and 140 staff this afternoon.  Now that’s a Shepherd kind of party.  Your camp directors opened the sealed envelope and there it was – the blue card!  THE CROWD WENT WILD!

“I was hoping it would be a boy so he can be a camper with us!”, said Myles F (B13).

After congratulatory red and blue Gatorades, everyone was invited to fill out a card with their recommendation for a baby name.   Lots of Herbs, Lees and Skylers in the mix, plus some really clever ones too.  We’re excited for the little guy to be welcomed home this winter.

Of course, a girl would have been just as great.  It was fun to have some “in the house” when our sisters and cousins from Camp Fernwood came for dinner.  The brothers here were perfect gentlemen.

Ring of Champions Campfire for Evening Activity.  It was one of the best!  Everyone loves the “Boom Chica Boom” song, and this time there was a new verse about the Sea Dogs.  Five counselors did the “Wee Skit” that had everyone laughing.  Ask your son about this one.  Eli K led an amazing rendition of the “A Roosta Sha” song, and we all did the actions.  Beags did a dramatic reading of “Sweet Caroline”, and then everyone sang a verse.  Somehow this song has turned into an annual favorite here.  Adventure Man used inflatable lobsters to teach us what to do if someone is choking.  The “musical snack” featured Cory on the guitar playing “Country Roads”.  It’s heartwarming to see the guys lock arms without anyone telling them to do so.

It’s been a steady roll of steamy hot weather.  No complaints about that, but we’re definitely exhausted.  The Bunkline’s quiet tonight, so hopefully the guys are getting some much-needed rest.  Like we said…hopefully.

Let the intercamp games begin!

Soccer…Lacrosse…Hoops…Tennis…Baseball!

Some games are home; some are away.  It seems like every day teams in different age groups are coming or going.  You can sign up to play in a U12 Baseball game on Monday, a Tennis tournament on Tuesday and then a Lax game later in the week.    We play to win, but always keep it classy.

The coaches on Skylemar teams stand out from the rest.  They’re motivational, strategic and they help each player to feel good about themselves.  We’re not the “participation trophy” type of place.  Instead, our counselors take tremendous pride in building our athletes.  They instill the necessary skills while always keeping sportsmanship front and center.

Sometimes the coaches on the other side make us wince, but you can count on those from Skylemar to encourage, support and stand by our boys whether or not things go our way.

Occasionally we’re asked how we hold our own as a camp of 200 boys playing against those with several hundred more.  We do so by knowing the kids and remembering the sage advice of one of our directors, Joel S:  “Be the hardest worker and the one having the most fun.”

Today was the U10 Steal-the-Bacon tournament on our Hejduk Field at Sky II.  Four camps participated, and “Bacon Fest 2024” dominated this stifling hot afternoon.  Coached by members of our Stars Division, these little guys truly gave it their all.  Special shout outs to Alex K (Bunk 10), Grady A (B12), Lionel Z (B9) for sportsmanship, and Aiden Q (B9) for MVP.  Caidyn (B8) and Max A (B15) were key players, despite having just learned how to play the game.

Not sure how to play?  Just ask your son.

Evening Activity was Spirit Night, led by Bunk 22.  That’s when we slow down and join together in a night of appreciation.  You might call it a non-denominational service, which includes some traditional songs, an opening poem, a prayer for our country, a time when we send thanks out to those at home and an Apache blessing.  Shep shares a reading, and tonight’s was written by someone he knows – Kathleen Kennedy Townsend.  She’s the niece of President John F. Kennedy, and she wrote about some of the beliefs that JFK stood by.  For example, he knew that there’s far more that makes us the same, as opposed to different – we breathe the same air and live on the same planet.  He also believed in citizen involvement, no matter how old or young you are.

Counselor Luke S gave an incredible sermonette, in tribute to his cousin Mariah Wilson who passed away.  She was an extremely accomplished athlete, who not only graduated from Dartmouth with an engineering degree, but  had the courage and strength to train in her sport of cycling as a sponsored professional.  Luke’s message to Skylemar was to be a Mariah:  When you have opportunity, take advantage of it with everything you’ve got.  Do everything in your power to be your best.

Nick Shep gave his Cool2Care message.  He explained that if you care for yourself and care for others every day, you’ll have a fantastic summer (as well as a fantastic life!).  Two campers were introduced as the recipients of the Cool2Care chain for the week.

The first was described as an expert at doing the right thing when nobody’s looking.  He’s kind.  He’s fun.  He’s embraced his Band of Brothers already.  This recipient is Noah K (B27).

The second is a new camper, who has incredible manners that makes us all feel honored and appreciated.  He’s a shining light at Skylemar, and his name is Luke McD (B6).

Spirit Night wraps up with popsicles, and a big round of camp songs.  This activity serves as a good reminder of how we are one giant Skylemar family, and we’re the luckiest people in the whole wide world.

Here’s the recipe.  You crack and scramble 1,080 eggs, flip 974 pancakes, make 8 gallons of oatmeal and then you’ve got breakfast.

Lunch could be 200 pounds of chicken tenders or 980 grilled cheese sandwiches.  Of course, there’s a salad bar too, so that’s another 40 heads of lettuce, 60 cucumbers (our most popular vegetable), 50 green peppers, 40 carrots plus a case of kidney beans.  And don’t forget the WB&J’s (Wow Butter and Jelly) – there’s 152 of them made at this meal alone.

Turkey dinner takes 22 birds, 120 pounds of mashed potatoes, 9 ovens filled with stuffing, and just two pans of peas (not too many pea fans here).  Spaghetti requires 100 pounds of pasta along with 1,800 meatballs in Full Red Stanislaus Marinara (a restaurant brand), 126 loaves for garlic bread, and 150 heads of romaine for Caesar salad (the fan favorite).

And then you have to clean the dishes.  And pots.  Three times…every day.

Head Chef Junior is the maestro of the Skylemar kitchen orchestra, and definitely our camp MVP.   There are 350 hungry people counting on him, and he truly delivers.  Along with his staff of loyal assistant chefs and dedicated crew of 10, together they have over 140 years of Skylemar experience.  As they say, practice makes perfect.

Talk about perfect.  It’s kind of magical how he gets everything out, piping hot.  For example, Junior makes 800 pieces of grilled chicken, and each is cooked to perfection.  Not a single piece is the least bit dry.  His secret weapon is called a “proofing cabinet”, which is a large holding box that’s 115 degrees with added humidity.  For a meal served at 5:30, he starts grilling at 2pm.  The pieces grilled early are not fully cooked, because they’ll be in the cabinet for several hours.   It’s all about the timing.

A home version of a proofing cabinet could be a winner on Shark Tank.  It’s much more practical than an air fryer.  If you put a chicken dinner or lasagna in the box before taking your son to his soccer practice, by the time you got home it would be hot and ready… not the least bit dried out because of the moist air inside.

Each winter we get a few emails saying that a boy will only eat something the way it was made at camp.  “How do you make it?” they ask.  Just in case that becomes you, here are some tips, straight from the chef:

– Caesar Salad:  Sprinkle chopped romaine heavily with garlic powder.  Pour on Ken’s Pepper Parmesan dressing (never use bottled Caesar).  Toss with parmesan cheese and homemade croutons. Best croutons are made from leftover grilled cheese sandwiches.   

– Perfect rice is made in the oven, as opposed to the stovetop.  Boil water and pour over rice in the standard ratio.  Cover pan with foil and bake at 350 for 45 minutes.  No stick and a much easier cleanup.

– How does he get the ground beef so fine for tacos?  “Wash it” before it goes in the skillet.  The extra water in the beef is what makes it crumble perfectly.  Then drain as usual. 

Oh, yes – one important piece of advice.  Don’t ever run out.  After all, they’re hungry!

Here’s a follow-up on yesterday’s Cool2Care/World of Change effort…

Camper X is an especially picky eater.  Mom suggested a reward system of paying him a dollar for every time he eats whatever is served.   “Hmmmm,” says Camper X.  “I don’t really need the money.”  He contemplates and then says, “But I could give the money to World of Change”.

His response made us smile, but also got us thinking.  It truly is a gift to be able to give to charity.  And it feels whole lot better to give a dollar than to get one.  Maybe a twist on traditional “allowance-giving” is something to consider… like this: When you contribute to the household, mom and dad will give you the gift of being able to help someone else.

The sun shines on!  We’ve been on a roll of fantastic, warm weather.  Even though we didn’t get back from the Sea Dogs game until 11pm (yikes!), our guys ran and swam just as usual.  Periods like Yellowhorn (outdoor science – they’re making scented slime) and Chilltop (crafts) were a welcome respite.

We took care of a couple of important things today.  First was a “Safety Exercise” following breakfast.  That’s when we practice listening well and moving together with our counselors in the event that Shep, Arleen, George or Nick ever tell us to do so.  We keep it that simple.

Second most important was GACU!  That stands for Great American Clean Up, and what better day for that then July 4.  That’s when each camper goes to “The Spa” (Garden Cabin porch) for nail clipping and feet washing, and then on to the Infirmary for a meeting with the nurses.  Special thanks to the loyal staff members who gave the pedicures.  Now that’s dedication.

We spent the evening at Trickey Pond for our own fireworks show.  Shep meticulously arranged a perfect viewing spot for each Bunk – on a dock, in a ski boat, on the beach and so forth.  The warmup for the show was the Counselor Belly Flop Contest.  Counselors of all sizes, shapes and abilities did whatever it took to make the kids laugh.  Most impressive was RayAnn. She absolutely blew our minds with the most graceful cartwheel off the dock, rotating into a perfect horizontal flat position as she splashed into the pond.  Definitely the Skylemar winner!

We’re especially fortunate to have wonderful neighbors on Trickey Pond.  We work together to keep our lake healthy and clean (check out www.trickeypond.org) and stand ready to lend a hand when anyone’s in need.  It was fun to see these friends forming a boat parade passing by our waterfront.  Greg from across the lake was the “fireworks master”.  He put on a spellbinding show!

There’s always something to celebrate at Skylemar.  It could be that “the Wed Sox beat the Wockies”, as reported by an adorable voice on The Morning Show that’s blasted over the PA system.  Or maybe that it’s Laundry Day, or it’s chicken tenders for lunch or that a friend got up for the first time skiing.

The best celebration comes if you’re lucky enough to have a birthday boy in your bunk.

It begins with Morning Announcements, when Drama Director Suzie shouts out, “Hey Camp Skylemar.  Today’s a very special day because it’s _____’s birthday.  Let’s all wish him a happy birthday… (and then the camp responds with) ALL DAY LONG!    A rockin’ birthday song plays, we all cheer and the birthday boy takes a lap through the Pavilion for a round of high-fives.

Lunch is a “Private Party” in the Garden Cabin – bunk members only.  Pizza, treats and goodie bags.  At dinner the whole camp sings the traditional birthday song and there’s cupcakes for the bunk.  It’s sweet to have a friend born June 29 through August 10.

Today we also celebrated doing the right thing.  Remember the money bags we sent in the winter?  They were to hold the coins collected for the charity “World of Change”.  The director of this non-profit, which collects loose change to fund programs for impoverished children, came to see us today.

WOC’s Director Matt told us that when you add it all together, there’s at least 10 billion dollars of spare change that’s not being used.  People throw away approximately 62 million per year!  One out of every five kids doesn’t have enough to eat, but just one jar filled with coins amounting to $70 represents 280 meals in a food pantry.  For the price of a video game, 93 children can have breakfast, lunch and dinner.

Matt brought his special truck, that’s set up sort of like an old fashioned toll booth.  Each camper got to pour in change, and could designate it either for food, housing or beds for those in need.  The kids were incredibly generous.  In fact, camper Tim C. donated $248.  That’s 1,000 meals!

We’ll collect the change leftover from cash given out on trips and donate that to WOC.  Counselors have already donated $65 in change from the staff soda machine.  We don’t charge them for the sodas, but instead ask that they donate $1 to WOC each time they take one.  Although we don’t know our total donation yet, if you consider the leftover Sea Dogs cash, it should be quite substantial.

Speaking of Sea Dogs, the entire camp loaded up seven buses this afternoon and headed to Portland to watch the Sea Dogs play the NH Fisher Cats.  Camper Ethan V (Bunk 15) won the lottery and was selected to throw out the first pitch.  His many fans in the stadium cheered wildly as he threw a perfect strike.

It was a sensational game, and the fireworks afterwards were spectacular.   In fact, the game itself had its own share of fireworks (including a couple of ejections) as the Sea Dogs came back with a late-inning grand slam to win 8-5!

Come as friends, leave as brothers.

That’s how we roll at Skylemar.

It’s cool to care about each other here, and we’re totally good with saying “I love you”.  Of course we say it with some swagger, like a chant -”LOVE ON TWO, ONE TWO (clap)” – or we give the sign language symbol (index and pinkie up, ring and middle finger down) without thinking twice.

Of course we’re not 100% on point – no human is.  Occasionally we neglect to be kind, and sometimes it takes another person to remind us of this.

What makes us most proud about the Skylemar culture is how great the older guys treat those who are younger.  This year we’ve expanded and formalized the opportunity for those of all ages to really become unified with a program called “Band of Brothers”.

As you know, age groups are called “Divisions” (Cubs, Lions, Tigers, Freshmen, Sophomores, Juniors, Seniors and Stars).  Two or three campers from each Division are assigned to a particular “Band”, which is led by our Sky II campers.  Each Band is named after an animal native to Maine:  Wolves, Bald Eagles, Moose, Owls, Loon, Lobster, Bears, Deer, Dock Spiders, Foxes, Bats and Otters.

For example, on the Moose Band there would be a Major (a Senior Staff member), two Leaders (14/15 year olds), and then two or three boys of each age (7-13).  About twice a week we’ll come together in Bands for an activity or meal.

At tonight’s Band of Brothers Kickoff, there were super fun and silly races — a wheelbarrow relay, an over under relay along with some hula hooping… lots of cheers, laughter and high fives all around!

Another special opportunity came today for those who were at Sky Pines.  It’s a beautiful spot on the water’s edge where we do campcraft activities, fishing and snorkeling.  It’s also where we do overnight camping.  Some of the guys were there for fire building (they learn the different styles, like log cabin, teepee, etc.) and on their way through the trails, they saw the most beautiful owl!  We often hear owls, but it’s quite a rarity to see one.

It’s a happy thought to think that this owl somehow could be Herb, one of the founders of Skylemar, who passed away many years ago.  Herb and Lee (who we like to think of as the Bald Eagle who soars over camp) were the first Skylemar Band of Brothers.  They were best friends, although several years apart in age.  Maybe, just maybe, our owl came in view as if to say, “Keep up the kind work.  You’re doing this right”.

Heard this today…

Setting:  At Chilltop, working on a craft project with Bunk 1

Mary Beth:  It would be great if you would add some more detail to that etching.

Bunkmate:  What’s detail?

Fernando:  I know!  Detail means you need to add good things to something.

Only at Skylemar.

(Clap)(Clap) Clean! (Clap)(Clap) Clean!

The chant spreads throughout the Pavilion, and in they come…

Barnicus and Laundricus, the Warriors of Clean.

The two warriors are our mythical characters in charge of cabin cleanliness.  They explain that after breakfast each camper makes their bed, and then does a chore that’s assigned with a turn of the Job Wheel.  There’s sweep, dustpan, sink, porch, clothesline, and yes, even toilet cleaning.

Barnicus directs the Inspection challenge, where each bunk competes for the highest score.  Laundricus, as you might guess, is in charge of clean sheets on the bed, and laundry in the bongo-hamper.  The warriors remind us of the importance of keeping things straight when 8+ people are living in one room.  But don’t worry about the toilet, mom.  Secret is that Mary, Betty and Vicky (our super-star housekeeping team) sneak in while the kids are at activities and re-do the bathrooms.

Beautiful weather means lots of action at Trickey Pond.  Waterfront Director Peter has an amazing staff who teaches swimming, diving, sailing, kayaking, canoeing, fishing plus all the accomplishments you can master behind one of several motorboats.  After working on swimming and boating skills, there’s always time for simply having fun in the sparkling clear water.  There’s The Beast, which is a giant inflatable sliding board.  The Iceberg has a climbing wall on one side and a slide on the other.  There’s the Trampoline, Pontoon Tower and a giant wobbly thing that lots of people can climb on at the same time.  We call that the UFO.

All these giant toys are super fun to play on, but the water is 30’ deep in Trickey.  That’s why we all wear life jackets, just to be safe.  Then everyone of all abilities can have a great time together.

Activities up top today included Football, Track & Field, Golf, Hockey, Soccer, Yellowhorn (outdoor science), Baseball, Hoops and Tennis.  Some had Porch Time with Shep.  That’s when you hang on Shep’s porch and talk about important stuff while eating Scooby Snacks.  Today’s topic was about everyone having the right to have fun here, and if you see someone being treated unkindly you should stand up and speak out.  Everyone discussed and signed the Skylemar Code of Honor.   Here’s what it says:

Skylemar is all about being together with friends, enjoying the outdoors, playing games and showing kindness.

At Skylemar, I promise to be the best person I can be, and agree with the following:

The Directors, Counselors and Staff are responsible for my safety. I will do my best to listen to them when they ask me to do or not to do something.

I will do my best to treat everyone kindly– the way that they wish to be treated.

Everyone is entitled to have fun. I promise not to ruin someone else’s fun.                             

It is my responsibility to tell Shep or Arleen if something is wrong. It is also my responsibility to politely remind others to be kind if they forget.

I will respect other’s property, as they will respect mine; this includes body and belongings.

If someone asks me to “stop”, I will.

Skylemar is about people, not about electronics. I promise I do not have a cell phone or any electronic with internet access or video capability.

I understand why we have these rules at Skylemar and agree to follow them.

No matter your age, it’s a Skylemar plan that all can agree on.

Lots of early risers at Skylemar, especially the first day — we call them the “Sunshine Squad”.  Beginning at 7 AM, campers have their choice of an assortment of activities like Tennis, Basketball, Gaga, Soccer, Mini Golf, Yard Games and Dog Walking.  Meanwhile, others still have an hour left to sleep.

Pancakes, yogurt, oatmeal, cold cereals, peaches and bananas for breakfast.  Along with the buffet comes the morning paper.  Just like The New York Times, this paper is packed with all you need to know, and it changes every day.

It’s called “The Daily Schedule” – and determines where each person at Skylemar is to be, at any one time.  As you see on today’s that’s posted below, across the top are the bunk numbers (1-30).  Down the left side are the seven periods.  It reads that Bunks 1-12 had Waterfront for first and second period, while Bunks 13-15 were at the Challenge Course.  Bunks 16 and 17 had Soccer followed by Baseball, 18 and 19 had Hockey followed by Volleyball, and so forth.

Third period is our weekly elective called Clinic Period.  This is the opportunity for each camper to independently choose an activity that they’d like to focus on for a full hour, for a five-day cycle.  Today, the whole camp gathered in the shade to for the Clinic Sign-ups.  That’s when the counselors get a chance to advertise what they’re offering this week — performing skits we call “Commercials”.

For example, there was “Slapshot” Hockey, “Shoot the Juice” Soccer, “Bump Your Skills” Volleyball and “King of the Court” Tennis.  There’s plenty of offerings where skills and fundamentals will be sharpened with the help of individualized attention from our amazing Football, Baseball and Basketball staffs.  There’s “Splish Splash” at the Waterfront, where you get to play on all the inflatables… plus “Pirates of the Caribbean” Sailing, too.  We saw ads for “Intercamp Prep” Lax Clinic, “3D Tech” Golf, “Master of the Challenge” Course, “Fire Building” at Sky Pines, and even making a “Skylemar Sports Center” video.  At “Take Me Out to The Ballgame” Crafts, kids can make signs and t-shirts for the upcoming Seadogs Baseball Game trip. SkyDeck Cooking will focus on cuisine from the Mediterranean culture.  The “Ski Dock Will Rock” as always, with wakeboarding, skiing and surfing.  If you want to slow down, there’s “Reading Rabbit”, when you just get to relax with a good book.

The Schedule may look confusing to an outsider.  But it’s easy to follow for us because every period change is announced over the camp-wide PA system.  What makes the paper version especially important is that it provides pertinent information for the counselors.  Their names are written by every activity that they are teaching, both on and off the field.  For instance, staff are assigned Foot Patrol periods.  Foot Patrol is part of our security program, which divides our 200 acres into “zones of awareness”.  Extra sets of eyes go inside and outside buildings, making sure everyone is safely where they’re supposed to be.

7^th period is another part of the schedule that the boys are excited to see.  It comes after dinner and is typically a more casual time.  Campers can choose any one of at least 15 activities each and every day.

Tonight’s Evening Activity was a Skylemar favorite…The Ring of Champions Campfire.

The night featured lots of traditional tunes, chants and repeat-after-me songs.  “60’s Party” and “The Burrito Song” are Skylemar classics that everyone loved.  The “Dating Game” and “Mama Bear” skits had all of us laughing.  Adventure Man made an appearance as he does every Campfire, teaching us survival skills in his own unique way.

While we enjoyed s’mores, Nick introduced “Cool2Care”.  It’s what we call the Skylemar vibe, focused on caring about ourselves, others and the world around us.  Members of our oldest Division, the Stars, shared with all what Cool2Care means to them.  It’s super inspiring to listen to 15-year-olds who truly are outstanding gentlemen.

9 PM and it’s time to turn in.  Phew…a whole lot goes on in a Skylemar day.  When the sun rises, we’ll be back at it again.   Thank goodness we have our Program Director “Barney”.  He’s the one who spends many hours creating this daily masterpiece.  He accomplishes what no computer can do, taking into account factors like the distance to walk between activities, personalities of the counselors, an equal distribution of staff duties, a variety of activities for campers, and the weather of course.  It’s a much harder puzzle than any Sudoku or crossword.   By midnight, the paper is published, just in time to come hot off the press and into our hands once again!