Skylemar Blog

As you walk thru the archway at the Skylemar office, a sign hangs that says, “Come as friends, leave as brothers.”   That truly is the way it is here.

Sure, there are those you find annoying or frustrating.  And perhaps there are some who you prefer over others.  Yes, there are times when someone says something they shouldn’t.  One may be insensitive, and another might struggle with letting a comment roll off their back.

But when you get down to it, as summer brothers, we do care about each other.  When someone hurts or feels sad, we feel it too.  As Jack L said in his Meal Minute, someone is always watching out for you at Skylemar.  Could be a little guy looking up to someone older, or a counselor watching over their campers.  Could be a nurse tending to cuts and bruises, or a chef making sure all are well fed.  Could be our maintenance director fixing the screen that a ball magically went through, or maybe a dog greeting you warmly.

One of the warmest and most welcoming places at Skylemar is the Waterfront.  Peter Solomon, the world’s greatest Waterfront Director, is also one of those hard-to-find people who’s the whole package:  he’s kind, brilliant, sensitive, caring, fun and supportive.  Along with his fabulous assistants Lexie, Paige and Quinn, Peter supervises and trains a staff of 20+.  Everyone working at Trickey Pond has been Lifeguard certified, and they do whatever it takes to make being in the water safe, fun and empowering.

Some kids come to camp already comfortable in the water.  But others may be timid or don’t know how to swim.  Rarely does anyone know how to sail or ski before getting to Skylemar for the first time.   The staff knows that Skylemar is the perfect place to learn, no matter your level.  In fact, the main reason we wear life jackets while playing is so that everyone can have fun on the inflatables, not just the strong swimmers.

The Waterfront Staff feels great when the kids feel great.  They get in the water with the boys, patiently explain and come up with creative plans to make things interesting.  Whether someone is a beginner or advanced, the staff at Trickey Pond shares the pride when a boy does well.

Tonight’s Viking Pine Cone Auction was Bunk pride all the way.  When our Viking leader (Shep in costume) raised his sword, everyone ran across the Golf Course and gathered colored eggs.  The eggs became the medium of exchange for each bunk to go home with a prize.  Up for auction were t-shirts, indoor and outdoor games (like a glow-in-the-dark basketball and Monster ping pong), gift certificates (breakfast burrito making with Cory) and assorted snacks.  Each bunk went home with something special.

As we sang “Taps” tonight, as we do regularly, we thought about so many who we love and are fortunate to have watching over us.  Through ups and downs, ins and outs, at camp or home, there’s one thing we know for sure.  We are blessed.

So many comings and goings.  It’s trip season!

Beach Day for the Freshmen!  But first, some community service.  They volunteered for an environmental nonprofit called Friends of Casco Bay and were assigned to pick up trash at Riverbank Park.  Once the work was done, they headed to Crescent Beach State Park for relaxing on the sand and splashing in the very cold ocean.  Next it was on to the movie theater for “Jurassic World”.  A few who took a pass on the movie instead had a card game marathon with Blake.  New for this year is the Portland Hearts of Pine professional soccer team, so the group caught a game at Fitzpatrick Stadium.  Lots of fun to root for the home team, especially at such an awesome venue.

The Lions headed to Portland for lobster fishing.  They loved wearing the heavy bibs that the lobstermen use and actually got to pull a trap… and throw one in as well.   Lots of interesting lobster facts such as — Did you know the ones we eat are at least seven years old?  The traps have an opening for lobsters to come in and out of, until they reach the size that they can’t fit through the hole.  So over the years the lobsters think it’s a good place to get free food, till that one day when they get too big and that’s all folks.   Once the Lions returned to shore,  they cooled down in an air-conditioned movie theater for the new version of “How to Train a Dragon”.  Then they met up with the Freshmen at the soccer game just long enough to grab some pizza and watch a half.  These guys were exhausted.

The Tigers went to Bates College and saw what it was like to be a college athlete for the day.  They played a full flag football game on Garcelon Field in the center of campus.  Lunch was at The Commons, which Princeton Review considers to be one of the top college cafeterias in the country.  Our guys thought it was the best because you could put lots of different kinds of soda into one cup.  Funny part for the staff was that there was a psychology conference going on, so our sweaty boys got to mingle with the professors.  Then on to the movie theater to see “The Smurfs”.  No need to see that one again….

The Acadia Trip was an overnight, which departed long before breakfast.  The Juniors reported that the 2.5 hour drive was well worth the ride.  As they drove to the Fort Knox historic sight, they had a powerful discussion about rural America and got to see a wide variety of ways that people live.  Once at Acadia State Park, they headed to Sand Beach for a giant Junior cold plunge.  There were rocks to climb and shells to find.  Counselor Leo is a marine science major, so he taught the group a bit about marine life.  They even got to see a seal.

Back at the campground, it was chicken quesadillas for dinner.  During the campfire, each camper took a turn speaking about who they aspire to be like and why.  Quite a few said mom or dad.  Dion Sanders and LeBron James were mentioned too.  In the morning, they hiked Beech Mountain and took in the spectacular ocean views.  They too stopped at the movies on the way back.  The new “Superman” gets excellent reviews from the Skylemar critics.

Half day trips have been lots of fun too.  The Cubs went blueberry picking at Goss Berry Farm.  These berries actually grew on tall bushes, sort of like small trees that were bigger than the kids.  They were proud to bring back 65 fresh-picked boxes for the entire camp to enjoy.  Blueberries, yogurt and granola are now the most popular part of breakfast.

Some of the Stars had a special afternoon at Camp Sunshine.  That’s a camp for terminally ill children and their families, where we have the honor of volunteering.  Our guys played with their little ones, and helped with craft projects.  Very impactful.

And finally…congrats to Miles B, Oliver G, Elliott SR, Palmer, Ryder K, Jack L who traveled to the Chess Intercamp Tournament.  Elliott SR made it to the semi-finals!

Speaking of trips…Bunk 27 learned how to change a tire today.  And Bunk 9 learned how to distill water.  You just never know!

Heard this today…

After lobster fishing, eating an ice cream cone and spilling something at dinner, a certain Cub refused to change out of his shirt and put on pajamas at bedtime.  “But my mother always lets me sleep in my dirty clothes”, he explained.

… only at Skylemar.

And this…

A camper in Bunk 27 (which means there are 8 possible teenagers) comes into the office and says, “I need the thing that covers my mattress.”

“You mean a sheet?” Cory asks.

“Yeah,” he replies.  “I think that’s what it’s called.  It’s the thing with the four corners and one of them always pops off.”

… only at Skylemar.

Almost in a league with the Navy Seals are Skylemar’s special forces.  40-strong, this elite group of master minds are able to inspire and motivate, plan and execute, organize and lead.  Frankly, they leave many of our warriors in the dust.

They are the SkyWomen.

On one hand, they are sugar and spice and everything nice.  Each is truly beautiful, inside and out, and the boys and staff adore them.  On the other hand, they command respect and are of the highest integrity.  They understand the rewards of doing for others, and demonstrate compassion, dedication and a get-it-done attitude.  As we like to say… they “get it”.

Each is a specialist in a particular area (like Waterfront, Chilltop, Basketball, Volleyball, etc.), but also has a clear understanding of doing whatever it takes to make the Skylemar machine work. MVL’s (most valuable ladies) often work behind the scenes (like in the office, bus driving, or housekeeping), with the intent of making others look better.  Let’s just say that this is the squad we count on to make the magic happen.

Honestly, it takes a certain type of girl to work at an all-boys camp, and it’s not for everyone.  We get five female applicants for every one male, so it’s tough to get a job at Skylemar.  Having brothers at home does give you a bit of a “leg up.”  When we ask, “how do you feel about burping and farting?”, their reaction gives us a clue.  Laugh and you’re good to go forward.  Come across as uncomfortable with the question, then a boys’ world just isn’t for you.

They juggle their specialty with NBC (non-bunk counselor) duties, like putting the kids to bed, helping them clean, sitting with them during meals, and so forth.  They’re extra good at noticing the little things about each camper — like who wore the same shirt two days in a row, or who might feel a little left out.

Most importantly, they truly love each Skylemar boy.   They give these guys the most valuable gift – their time.  Together they play games, read, talk, laugh, solve problems and celebrate successes.    They are the greatest big sisters and summer moms that anyone could ever ask for.

They take care of your sons (as well as their camp director) in the most incredible ways, and figure out ways for each to succeed and be proud of himself.  There is one thing we know for sure…no camp in the country could ever be as lucky as Skylemar.

Like the biggest star in the Sky, our world shines brightly, thanks to Lillie, Paige, Mary Beth, Abby, Suzie, Rachel, Lexie, Holly, Kristen, Sam, Margie, Luci, Cory, Leslie, Maya, Calais, Ava E and G, Roxy, Leah, Karina, Cassidy, Bella, Hannah, Lauren, Annabelle, Kate, Mindy, Ami, Marianne, Nadine, Brooke, Betty, Mary, Vicky, Joni, Serena, Heather, DJ and Toppa.

These gals are the greatest!

One of the best parts of Skylemar being just for boys is that it’s old-t-shirt, worn-in leather-couch comfortable.   It’s all so easy – just be kind, be eager to play and smile.  That’s really all it takes.  Of course we play to win, but when the game doesn’t go your way,’ you know you can get back at it tomorrow.

It’s a boy’s world here — the food (lots of it), the sports (shirts optional on a hot day), the movies (Minecraft), the songs (loud) and the bodily noises that get them all laughing.  Best of all, nerves seem to disappear when you’re part of a skit or a show or even just speaking in front of the group.  At Skylemar, you can let your guard down and be yourself.

You see it in the counselors for sure.  Those who were more reserved the first few days of staff training now feel totally at home and are willing to do just about anything to make the kids smile and laugh.  Take tonight’s Super Spectacular Staff Talent Show.  Most of the acts were the kind of things we all do when we’re in the car or shower singing along with the radio, feeling like our voices sound pretty darn good.  There were skits, songs, raps, dances and sports tricks.  Sam O showed how strong he was by lifting campers.  Jayden sang so incredibly that we felt like we were at a live concert.  And those guys in colorful costumes and crazy hair who worked the audience singing “Let It Go”…you just had to be there.

The counselors brought this same kind of positive energy to Sunday Signups Even Though It’s Monday. A full slate of Clinic activities for the coming week were “advertised” today by their practitioners (AKA Counselor/Staff who specialize in each).  Each commercial is an effort to entice the campers to choose their activity for the week, many with great creativity and humor.

Here’s the rundown of the choices:

The Ski Dock will host a “2^nd Session Refresher” for those that just arrived, while the Sail Dock’s “Americas Cup” will focus on jibing and tacking skills.  In between the docks, The Swim crew will hold a Lifeguarding clinic, and of course, offer lots of fun on the inflatables.

“MB Dox and Rocks” will bring Chilltop (Arts and Crafts) to the Ropes and Challenge course for climbing the Wall, hunting for rocks, then painting them.  Archery will find campers “Hunting Big Game” on the course in the woods beyond the targets.

There’s Baseball “Face Off”, a focus on pitching and hitting, and our Volleyball squad will work with our most interested diggers and setters.  The Football staff entertained us with some awesome touchdown celebrations, perfect for  getting to work on your own in “Catching TDs and Making Big Plays”.  Lacrosse for those wanting to join the formidable “Legends of SkyLax” will target shooting, defense and goalie play.  With netminders in mind, “Goalie Wars” sounds like a blast on the Hockey rink.

Over at Sky 2, Fishing will have anglers casting at SkyPines.  Strength and Conditioning in the Gym continues to work on proper form, working with kettle bells as  they move to techniques in dead lift and bench press. Sprinting and Hurdling in Track and Field fill the rest of the fitness offerings this week.

Hoops has “All Star Challenge – Beat the Professor”, where all who sign up will test their skills in ball handling and shooting — with a chance for prizes in both 3-point shooting and dribbling contests against their coaches.  “Everything Soccer” needs no explanation and remains a popular choice.

Shep’s Reading clinic will rediscover the works of Dr. Seuss, an all-time favorite!  SkyDeck will go “Around the World” to teach a bit of cooking and sampling from all over, limited to the Tigers division (bunks 7-12) only this week.

Golf will again focus on the fundamentals of the swing, with plenty of chipping and putting on and around the green.  Finally, the Tennis courts on both sides will be full of those prepping for the last Intercamp matches, and our own Camp Championships.

Hardest part is choosing!

Come as friends.  Leave as brothers.  That’s what it says on the arbor as you enter Camp Skylemar.

Today we welcomed 80 new friends from Maryland, Massachusetts, New York, Connecticut, Oklahoma, Louisiana, Texas, Maine, Colorado, California, Pennsylvania, Georgia, Florida and Washington DC.  Those who traveled especially far came from Venezuela, Austria, Mexico, England, Spain and France.

It feels so very great when everyone finally gets here.  Many thanks to those at home and camp who drove, flew and escorted, and did whatever it took to get the boys safely to Skylemar.

As the drivers arrived, the sky opened up, thunder rumbled and down came sheets of rain.  It was a scramble to get duffel bags inside, and instead of the kids coming to greet, we brought the new friends to the indoor activities.

Program Director Barney scrapped his outdoor plan for the day and instead pulled out a Rainy Day Rotation.  Groups went from one building to the next, with super fun activities in each space.

There was Catapult Building in the Rec Hall.  Once each group created a catapult, there was a contest for whose worked the best — mighty impressive structures!

Lego – the best toy a boy could have, and we have lots of it!  Even the counselors are excited to play with our mountains of pieces.

Lots to choose from at Board Games in the Pavilion, Garden Cabin and Batcave.  All the classics – Monopoly, Life, Trouble, Uno.  Each year we get the new ones too, but these stand the test of time.

What’s not to like about Cookie Baking?  Best part is you get to eat them too.

The Lodge was a fun place to hang.  Here there are pool tables, ping pong, foosball and darts.  Dodge Ball in the Gym was also a blast.

By 8pm the rain had stopped, but it was too damp for an outdoor campfire.  So we had one indoors.  Too warm for the fireplace, but Cory had a better idea.  While all the campers sat in Crazy Creek chairs and watched, she sprinkled Fritos (which Adventure Man taught us made for a decent firestarter) on top of some counselors.  Then a fire-breathing dragon took a great big breath and “lit” the flames.  Turns out it was a human fire, made of Ky, Andy and Rook, dressed in orange, yellow and red.

We sang “60’s Party” with Cory, which is an opening tradition.  Then came the best part.  Bunk 25 did a synchronized swimming routine.  They entered wearing bathing suits, goggles and rain jackets.  Off came the jackets and they “dove” into the blue tarp “pool”.  Arms up, fan to the side. Feet up, big kicks. More swan dives.  But the funniest part was the noises they made as they “swam” the wood floor.  Let’s just say they did anything for a laugh, and that they received.

Back by popular demand, counselor Eli K led us in the “Aroostasha” song. It was great to see everyone, even the guys who just got here, laughing, singing and doing the hand motions.

George, Barney and DT added a SNL-type skit called “Session One Update”.  Then Nick led the Cool2Care segment, where the guys of Bunk 30 talked about the Cool2Care moments that stuck with them.  For example, Eli said that during a baseball game a younger camper struck out three times.  He was crushed.  One of the oldest guys, who wasn’t even on either team, walked up and said, “You didn’t give up… that’s what matters”.   Max said, “It’s not always big, dramatic stuff.  Sometimes Cool2Care is just a high five, a saved seat, or a look that says, ‘You’re not alone’.  We all have the chance to live it every day.  Be the reason someone feels included.  Be the reason someone smiles.  Be Cool2Care”.

The all-camp song was a fantastic version of “Let It Be”, with Cory on the piano.  As we sang, the positive energy vibrated in the sturdy walls of our beloved Rec Hall.  It was a safe, warm feeling of community tonight.

There were lots more at the Campfire, likes s’mores of course.  Adventure Man came, showing all of his gadgets.  He taught how to go down an incline when you don’t want to fall.  Instead of going sideways, dig your heals in and go ahead.

Can’t wait for tomorrow.  Heard that the sun will be shining!

Despite minor interruptions like trips, intercamp games, power showers and letter writing, the show must go on.  And it sure did!  “Finding Nemo” was a smash hit on the Skylemar stage.

It’s amazing what our magical Drama Director Suzie can make happen in just a few weeks.  Singing, dancing, music, acting, set design, lighting, costumes, learning lines and best of all, lots of fun.  That’s theater, Skylemar-style.

Congratulations to an all-star cast, including Shay, Ethan P, Nolan, Quinn C, Ethan V, Cooper E, Eli D, Jonah P, Jake P, Sawyer, Levi, KJ, Henry Z, Jack G, Noah W, Seth R, Lajuan, Lincoln, Sam S, Kash, and Alfie.  Counselors Ed, Frog, Noah, Wyatt and Ben were great as seagulls too.

The best part of a Skylemar musical is watching how much fun the actors have on stage.  They do an amazing job of learning so much in a very short time.  Well done, everyone.  The audience loved it!

Also on stage tonight was Bunk 19, who led Spirit Night.  Shep read an inspirational story about two-time Olympian gymnast Aly Raisman, whose brother was a Skylemar camper for many years.   Here’s a side note that Shep didn’t share:  When she was in her first Olympics, the Raisman family went along to London, while Skylemar watched on TV.  We were all so proud of our SkySister!  The timing was such that our Final Banquet fell on the same day as Closing Ceremonies.  Despite the celebrations surrounding Aly winning the gold, brother Brett, our camper, really wanted to be back to the US for Final Banquet.  So… Aly’s father did whatever it took to get on the first plane he could with Brett, rented a car and drove for hours, pulled into our parking lot and Brett ran to greet his bunkmates for dinner.  Meanwhile, dad took a well-deserved nap in the car.

Point is, and the one that Shep did talk about, is that a parent’s love for their Skylemar boy is bigger than the biggest of the big.  Tomorrow is Parent Visiting Day, when many get to perform for their parents on the fields, courts and lake.  It’s the opportunity to show love for those who are visiting, and also the opportunity to show love towards those who don’t have visitors.

We look forward to welcoming the greatest parents in the whole wide world to Camp Skylemar.

They say that parenting is the hardest job in the world.  We beg to differ.  Being a Skylemar camp counselor might just be a whole lot more.

You see, becoming a parent is almost always a slow process.  In most cases you have nine months to prepare, and then the rest comes gradually, year after year.  For the most part, parents have a whole lot of time to figure it out.

As for a camp counselor…he had just two weeks to get ready.  Then…BAM!  The kids appear and they’re already seven, or ten or thirteen years old.  Not just one to care for, but WHAMMO… Septuplets!

For a cabin of six, that’s 192 teeth to get brushed morning and night, and way too many times to nag about wearing sunscreen.  There are shoes to find and socks to pick up.  There are beds to make, a floor to sweep and a toilet to clean.  Try doing that with all of your kids in the house.

Sometimes there are tears to dry and poorly timed questions to answer.  A fair share of arguments to settle, especially between “brothers”.  Lots of directions to repeat, and repeat, and repeat.  If only they’d listen, a camp counselor thinks.  Sound familiar?

There’s no privacy for a counselor, no home office to hide in or video to keep the kids occupied.   No master bedroom with the bathroom adjacent.  Just a kid-sized cot for a full-grown man, and bathroom shared by the whole family.

Some counselors are quiet, some are loud.  Some are “chill” (as per the older guys) while some run a “tight ship”.  Some take to the job naturally, while others have more of a learning curve.  Some who grew up with us are experts at all-things Skylemar, while a few might forget that they are now the adults who must do whatever it takes to care for those other than themselves.

No matter the style, we know for sure that each Skylemar counselor truly cares for those under his wing.  Like you, they hurt when he’s sad and worry terribly when something doesn’t seem right.  They call them “my kids” and feel a tremendous sense of pride when one of their own conquers a challenge.

Just like a parent, every once in a while, a counselor loses his cool, or perhaps says something in frustration.  Those are the times that they ask for a “re-do”, and almost always do what it takes to clear the slate and trrrrrryyyyy again.

A counselor learns far more in a summer than any college course could possibly teach.  Not only have they learned about caring for others and what it takes to keep them safe, but they also master the arts of negotiation, self-discipline, strategy and organization.  Take it from us, if you’re looking to hire, these are the finest.

Their shirt says it all.  “Staff For A Summer — Hero For A Lifetime.”  It’s for these heroes we are eternally grateful.  We love them to the Sky and back… and hope you will too.

If there’s one thing we hope that a boy brings home from Skylemar, it’s an attitude of gratitude.

It starts with the little things, like manners in the buffet lines.  There are typically 10 stations (main course, two sides, two options, pasta, sauce, wow & jelly, salad bar and dessert). As a boy approaches each server, he says “yes, please” or “no thank you” every single time.  Yes, every single time.

Everyone matters most at Skylemar, and we appreciate each person’s contribution to our community.  Shep frequently recognizes those behind the scenes, like the maintenance department and those who work in the very hot kitchen.   One day Fernando, a groundskeeper, was surprised that some kids asked him to play basketball when he was weed-whacking nearby.  Our response:  So did you play?

The natural beauty around camp is something we never take for granted.  Ed and his maintenance department (Marc, Jimmy, Fernando, Mary, Betty, Myron, Vicky, Jonathan, Toppa, Emilio, DJ, Heather and Jeff) take tremendous pride in keeping everything looking and working just right.  Then there’s Kristen, our horticulturist, who puts her heart and soul into every flower and all things Skylemar.  Seeing beauty in every direction definitely has a positive impact on our mood and well-being.

Speaking of well-being…everyone appreciates our nurses and doctors.  Where else besides Skylemar  do you have a talented medical team available to you round the clock, with no appointment necessary?

We cheer for friends and staff members at least a hundred times a day and give public shout-outs after meals.  When someone has the nerve to speak to the whole camp in a meaningful way, they are given a standing ovation.

Take today, for example.  Three meals and three Meal Minutes, thanks to Bode, Eli and Tristan in the Stars Division.  Through their words, they truly demonstrated their attitude of gratitude.

Each spoke about their camp experiences, and what they learned over the years that they wish they had realized in the beginning.  For example, Bode learned that we should advocate for ourselves, that there’s always an appropriate time and a place, that your past does not define you, that it’s a good idea to ask people questions about themselves, and that you don’t always have to be the loud kid who is the center of attention.   The audience appreciated his advice, and gave him a standing O.

Eli talked about his earliest years at Skylemar, and how at first, he didn’t always participate because he was worried about not knowing how to play the game well.  He now knows that you can’t let your fear get the best of you.  He said, “At Skylemar, everyone wants you to play.”  He found that he enjoyed himself much more when he gave it try.  He said, “Don’t fear something new, but instead take it as an opportunity to have more fun.  Who knows – you might really like it”.  The audience appreciated his honesty and guidance, and gave him a standing O.

Tristan, our only camper from France, spoke about how scared he was when he came to Skylemar for the first time.  He was all alone in a country that spoke a different language.  He had to remind himself that he trusted his parents to find the right camp, where he would be well cared for.  He spoke about how grateful he was for every staff member and camper, who patiently answered his questions and made him feel welcome.  We adore Tristan and are grateful that he and his parents took a chance on us.  Standing O!

As for Skylemar parents, these are the ones for which we are most thankful.  We are confident that each of us here have won the lottery by giving us those who love us more than anything imaginable.  Although for some it can be hard to say, we know that each Skylemar camper is grateful to those at home for the opportunity to be here.  Your camp directors thank you to the Sky and back, for sharing with us your most precious possession.

Today we were especially grateful for Nick Shep.  He has spent a tremendous amount of time creating  some exciting new elements to our Intercollegiate Day program.  He kicked off tomorrow’s big day with two newfangled events:  The 5k Relay and the Cardboard Boat Race.  These were the first points-earning opportunities, so the team spirit was evident in both exciting races.

The 5K Race had kids running from the furthest points of our 200 acres, and everywhere in between…a 3.1-mile track meet! Congrats to Noah K who was the first to cross the finish line.  On the pond, the Boat Race was as entertaining as it was competitive, as all 4 state university teams (another first) wildly cheered on their paddlers.  Three of the four collegiate vessels actually made it cleanly across without a piece of the boat, or their “captain”, from falling off!  When it was over, the Volunteers of Tennessee had claimed both events, and will take a lead into the full day/night of activities tomorrow.  More then, stay tuned!

Most of the time things are juuuust right… like when our sisters who attend nearby camps come to visit.  The siblings give each other warm hugs, have dinner together, meet friends, play tennis and hang out til it’s time to go.  They’re happy to see each other, then seem equally happy to return to routine at their very own camp.  Perfect.

The 30-minute drive, the one hour hike, and the 1.5 mile trek up Douglas Mountain was ideal for the Cubs and Lions today.  At the top was an observation tower built by the former owner of the land, who donated the property to the town for all to enjoy. The view was spectacular, and you could see as far away as Portland.  They talked about the Latin phrase that was carved into the stone — “Non Sibi Sed Omnibus”.  That means “not for oneself, but for all”.  Now that’s C2C!

Also “just right” is our Stars Division.  This is a group who truly takes advantage of the leadership opportunities offered at Skylemar.  The younger guys look up to them, and the Stars just about always remember the importance of this.

A Meal Minute, which takes place during announcements after a meal, gives any Star who wishes to do so the opportunity to practice public speaking.  The Stars camper writes his own motivational message about something related to camp and presents to all.  Way to go, Palmer and Noah, who both did a fantastic job.

As mentioned before, the older guys also lead their own Band of Brothers, which puts them in charge of 12-14 kids of assorted ages for a special dinner. After the meal they painted flags with their team insignia and played a giant trivia game.   The insignia is also on the bracelet each camper proudly wears.

Now for the twists and turns of the day…

As mentioned yesterday, the Intercollegiate Cardboard Boat Race was supposed to be today.  The oldest guys on each team got together to make a boat out of cardboard, duct tape and trash bags for their college team.  The whole camp was supposed to go down to the lake to watch the Stars “sail” their boats, but 13U and 15U Hoops as well as 11U Soccer were a bit delayed and still competing at another camp.  So the schedule was adjusted to instead do the race right after dinner.

The North Atlantic Wrestling Association Show was to be our evening activity.  A giant ring was set up for this on the Mini Lax Field below the hockey rink, and all were excited to see these pros perform.  There was a 30% chance of rain, but multiple weather apps seemed to guarantee we had a window of time to stay dry right after dinner.  So the Boat Race was again postponed, and we headed straight from the meal to the wrestling ring.

But this time Mother Nature outsmarted the weatherman.  Buckets of water poured from the sky, so back inside we went.  It was disappointing to miss two fun events right after the other, but you know Shep always has a Plan B.

It’s a Tootsie Roll night!   Bunks sit together at their table, and those in Tootsie Roll costumes hand out laminated playing cards to each group.  The game is played like Bingo, with Shep (also dressed as a Tootsie) calling out the cards (i.e. “Nine of hearts!”).  Get three in a row, and you holler “Tootsie Roll” to win.  Prize is…you guessed it.  Even though Tootsies are nowhere near as cool as Sour Patch Kids, tonight they were extra special.  You would think they were playing for gold!

              Heard this today…

Walking with several of the Cubs, Lions and Tigers after Strength & Conditioning Clinic, they were discussing braces and palette expanders.  “I’m getting braces,” Keats proudly affirms.  Pointing to his front teeth he innocently asks, “See how these two are social distancing?

… only at Skylemar.

Heard this today, too…

While playing “Would You Rather”, the question was asked “Would you rather be royalty or a Rockefeller?”  “What’s a Rockefeller?”, one of them asked.  “I don’t know”, said another.  “Maybe it’s a rock collector”, said the wisest.  (names withheld to protect history teachers).

… only at Skylemar.

On a misty Saturday morning at 6 AM, 55 polar bears are spied in Trickey Pond!

Ranging in age from 7 to 10, the giant pack is accompanied across the lake by 42 lifeguards, kayakers and boat drivers.   It’s a half mile swim across, and everyone wears a life jacket just to be safe.  Once on the other side, you end up at Nate and Benny F’s house, which is directly across from Skylemar.  High fives and donuts await, and then the motorboats bring you back to camp in time for breakfast.

Being a Skylemar Polar Bear is a tremendous accomplishment.  We’re grateful for each camper who gives it a try, as well as to the many staff members who sacrifice sleep time so that the kids can succeed.  The older half of camp has their turn to swim across tomorrow.

Throughout the day it was activities as normal, but there was something out of the norm.  For the one and only time this summer the schedule read “Welcome Camp Fernwood” in the 6^th period slot.

Here’s the story…

You may have heard the old folk tale about a farmer who complains about his noisy house to a Rabbi.  Rabbi advises bringing chickens inside.  He does it and the house is even more chaotic, so he goes back to the Rabbi.  Rabbi says to bring in a goat, he does it, it’s worse, and again he returns.  Rabbi says to bring in a horse.  Same thing happens and he’s told to bring in a cow.  And on it goes until it’s unbelievably loud and there’s no space left.  What should I do, he asks.

The Rabbi says to now take all the animals out of the house.  He removes each, one by one.  It gets quieter and calmer, and when he’s left with his own children, it’s SO very silent and serene.  He never complained again and lived happily ever after.

This story “checks out”, starting at 5:00 this evening.  Before then we always thought our house was loud.  But afterwards, when the beautiful ladies from Camp Fernwood came over for dinner and a social, our house got a whole lot noisier.

After dinner, we got through “the awkward stage” with the Super Duper Counselor Game Show: Fernwood Edition.   It was our counselors vs theirs, for trivia, hula-hooping and egg toss.   Everyone loved cheering for their own.

Sky II had a beach party with Fernwood’s oldest, while the rest of us hung out on the front lawn.  There was volleyball, badminton, mini golf, pickleball, ladder ball, cornhole and frisbee.  Chilltop was packed with boys and girls, making bracelets and watercolor paintings.  The ladies dominated Karaoke, but everyone sang along.  For some Sky guys this just wasn’t their jam, so they stuck together and tossed a ball as usual.  But others kinda huddled in small packs — and together got the nerve up to talk to a group of girls.  Those with sisters at Fernwood gave our guys the extra boost of confidence.

Towards the end there was some sharing of phone numbers (but they don’t have phones…) and some trading of bracelets.  When they loaded the buses and drove away, we felt like that farmer in the story above.  Skylemar…is now…so…very…quiet.

At least for now!

Lots of Intercamp action the last few days.  We hosted an 11U Baseball twin bill and sent teams on the road in 12U Basketball and 13U Soccer.  On the Fred Pierce Field, the 11U group was led by the pitching arms of Morgan, Colin, and southpaw Jonah P.  At the plate, Bradley C was the clear star, smacking a home run over the Freddie Pierce fence into the right center field trees to become maybe the youngest Skylemarian ever to do so – amazing!

In Hoops action, Lance led all scorers and rebounders while Nidal proved to be like a coach on the court, handling the ball and running the offensive show.  Alex B (B13) was shouted out for not only his hustle on the court, but his inspirational team spirit from the sideline.

In Soccer, the 13U squad were led by goal scorers Ignacio L (4 goals),  Sam P  (twice), and Nolan. David G was outstanding in the net delivering back-to-back shutouts  – and the team brought home our first championship trophy of the season!  Congrats to all participants who wear the Red and Gray with such pride, displaying the tradition of Skylemar spirit and sportsmanship no matter the results, and wherever we go!

Meanwhile, several trips have gone out too.  There’s been several successful overnight campouts at Sebago Lake State Park.  The park’s just a few miles away, but it feels like much farther.  There’s a nice campground, bike trails and a shallow beach to splash in.

The Sophomores took a trip to Morse Mountain, a research and conservation area in Phippsburg, Maine.  They hiked four miles!  Every camper had the opportunity to lead the pack and set the pace.  When their turn was done, each got to name a specific way they would try to live the values of Cool2Care when they got home.  Elliot R (Bunk 21) said “I’ll accept that change is a natural way of life”.  Henry Z (Bunk 19) said “I’ll do a better job of going to bed when I’m told”.  Deep stuff!

After the long trek they finally got to their destination.  The ocean… and water that was absolutely freeeeeezing!  Super fun to talk yourself into going in.  The ice cream stop on the way home was the ideal way to end a fantastic day.

The Tigers went to the Ossipee Valley Fair.  It’s a good old-fashioned event, with animal exhibits, oxen-pull, and a frog jumping contest.  Of course… we had to enter, and guess what?  Beckett (Bunk 7) was the champion!  He came home with a blue ribbon.  Some of the boys thought this would be a good activity for camp, but where in the world do you get giant frogs?

At this evening’s Spirit Night, Roshan K and Elijah E were awarded the Cool2Care chains.  Two great guys who take advantage of every opportunity on the fields and courts, while also truly caring for others.

The Sermonette was given by counselor Patrick (aka RPG in Bunk 10).  Patrick, a college football player, talked about the challenges of spraining his ankle a week ago.  He said:

“This made me realize something very quickly that I hadn’t thought of before.  When you come to Skylemar, you’re more than just a camper or a staff member.  You’re a part of a family that shows unconditional caring, love and kindness.  This family accepts your weaknesses and strengths, and builds you up and helps you grow not only as an athlete, artist or student, but most importantly, as a person.  We all have the ability to grow and nurture one another so we can all be our best”.   

He ended with a quote that his dad often used: “Show me your friends and I’ll show you your future.”  From what we’ve got going on here the future’s looking bright!

Heard this today…

While getting his feet scrubbed by hard working, brave staff “volunteers” who run The Spa at GACU, Caleb D lays back in his rocking chair and says, “Can I just stay here forever?”

… only at Skylemar.

If you really want to know the Skylemar ethos, you just gotta check out the Talent Show.

Tonight’s show included 32 acts!  That meant a total of 57 campers were brave enough to go on stage and perform in front of the entire camp.   Some acts were super impressive and proved that Skylemar really does have talent.  Some…not so much, but lots of fun, nevertheless.

None of the performers seemed the least bit nervous, and they comfortably danced and sang as if in their own living room.  Well…that’s because they were.  It’s just that now they have a couple hundred brothers along.

Every act got cheers, applause and whistles.  The audience was attentive at all the right times and joined in the laughter with those on stage cracking up.  You see at Skylemar when the performers have fun, the audience does too.

Participants of all ages and abilities took the stage, and each act was celebrated for whatever it was.  Take the wide age range of piano players for example.  Alfie is in Bunk 2, Seth F is in Bunk 5, Campbell’s in 13 and Asher’s in 24, and the audience loved them all.

Intrinsic rewards went along with performing.  Plus, there’s a tangible incentive as well.  Everyone who went up on stage got to pick a trinket from The Super Prize Bag… even for a friend who held the microphone too.  Judges named the Top Prize Winners at the end, and all received a very coveted, staff t-shirt.

In addition to the pianists, here’s some of our most talented:

Ethan P (Bunk 2) and Micah (Bunk 6) were the very first singers.  They sang “Waving Through the Window” and were amazing.  Grant (Bunk 16) was impressive singing, “Country Roads”.  Sawyer (Bunk 20) sang an incredible acapella version of “What a Wonderful World”.  Nolan played the ukulele and sang along to “Hey There Delilah”.  Amazing!

Ryan Frumin (Bunk 18) blew us away (no pun intended) on the trumpet.  He played the theme songs to “Jurassic Park” and “Home Alone”.

Lots of magicians in the house.  Best part about card tricks is that they always start with “May I have a volunteer?”.  Hands shot up everywhere with excited ‘Oooh! Oooh!’ and ‘Pick Me! Pick Me!’ echoing all around.  Nice jobs — Hunter (Bunk 17), Luke (Bunk 13), Declan O (Bunk 5), Alex B (Bunk 3), Bash (Bunk 12) and  Grady (Bunk 18).

Talented, or perhaps not so much, included:

• Max A and Theo R (Bunk 19) drank three cups of water.
• Skyer (Bunk 6) and Owen B (Bunk 7) did lacrosse tricks, sorta. Other sporting talents — Gabe (Bunk 4) demonstrated how not to play lacrosse. Blaine, Lincoln and Kash (Bunk 3) played basketball with a human hoop.  Ari, Ethan and Henry (Bunk 19) did a baseball skit. Henry, Alexander and Beckett (Bunk 7) did something with soccer.
• Levi and Chase (Bunk 12) danced, kinda.
• Lionel (Bunk 14) walked. Said he was practicing for weeks.
• Twins Jack and Luke (Bunk 4) ran around pulling an imaginary string.
• Bud (Bunk 14) read an entire book in 7 seconds, with fuzzy dice on his head.
• Shay (Bunk 8) is double jointed, so he spun his arms 360 degrees.
• Theo Q and Jonah P (Bunk 6) sang along to “I Bought it on eBay”.
• Alex and Ulrich (Bunk 13) flipped cups.
• Brothers Lincoln and Morgan jumped rope and tried to juggle bananas.
• All of Bunk 24 did some kind of cooking show using Bongo hampers and lacrosse sticks.

Jack M did leg farting.  What’s a Skylemar Talent Show without bodily noises?  Some acts never go out of style!

It’s one part Shep, one part all the counselors, one part older kids … and it becomes contagious.  Immediately the rest of the camp catches it.  And that’s how we make it Skylemar….

It’s the vibe!  It’s the cheers and laughter.  It’s that upbeat positive atmosphere that you feel most of all at Skylemar meals.  Yes, our boys are loud.  At meals it’s a happy, feel-good, joyful kind of loud.  There’s the silliness of the little guys and the sarcasm of the Sophomores and in no time everyone’s laughing.

We cheer wildly at post-meal announcements.  It’s the kind where you stand up and maybe even jump up and down.  Like today it was announced, “Laundry’s back!”.  The crowd roared with delight!  Bet you don’t get that at home after you do a load.

The laundry service here is a luxury that would be nice to have year-round.  The boys toss dirty clothes into their Bongo (a popup hamper), because we’ve learned that more clothes end up in the right place if they can “make a basket”, as opposed to opening a draw string laundry bag.

Sunday is outgoing laundry day.  That’s when you empty your Bongo into the specially designed laundry bag, and it gets taken away in a big truck.  Here’s what makes the bag special — you fill it from the top, zipper it up, and on the side there are straps to turn it into a backpack.  But that’s not all….

The truck comes back two days later (today), and your bag awaits on the porch.  Once at your bed, this time you open it with a three-quarter zipper on the long end, like a suitcase.  Inside are your clothes, nicely folded and in perfect piles ready to go in your cubby.  It’s magic!

More great news today:  Arlington and Lance have won the Green Arrow at Archery!  Everyone clapped and cheered.  “He’s in my bunk!”, someone hollered.

Wing Night for dinner!  ” Yeeeeaaah!!!” they roared.  Even the ones who don’t like wings were clapping.

Barnicus and Laundricus came to announce the winners of the Clean 300.  It’s Bunk 11 and Bunk 26!  Yes, Bunk 26 – clean 14-year-old boys!  Definitely something to cheer about!

Now on with the day!

Cubs and Lions went on a trip to Pineland Farms.  They had a barnyard tour, and learned about the animals on a working farm.

Bunk 26 volunteered at the Naples Food Pantry.  They were a huge help carrying cases of food that would be distributed to thirty-some families in need.  The regular workers were very appreciative of the extra hands, and raved about how polite our boys were.  We hope to do this every week.

It was activities as usual at camp, but the humid air felt like a storm was brewing.  And it was.  By afternoon there was thunder and rain, which meant routine safety procedures for staff.  When the weather’s in question, all are called to their cabins with counselors, and Senior Staff are assigned to areas of awareness.  There are always 30+ handheld radios on air at any one time here, so we can easily communicate.  Communication at a time of need is one of the reasons our counselors do have cell phones in the cabin.  Sure, that may mean that they’re texting when they shouldn’t be, but for us, safety takes priority.  Turns out it was just a passing storm, so on to dinner.  Pizza, pasta and salad tonight.

“BESTEST” was the Evening Activity.  Lots of cheering at this one!  It’s a competition by Division.  The MC gave a prompt, and each Division selected volunteers to perform the response.  Here were the prompts:

Show us your “bestest”…

– Impression of a mosquito hitting a windshield

– Impression of a hibachi chef

– Air band performance

– Impression of a fish being caught in Trickey Pond

– Handshake between three members of your team

– Best impression of an argument between a zip tie and a roll of duct tape

Where do they come up with this stuff?

Heard this today…

Assistant Director Cory gave 7-year-old Kash a high five at breakfast.  His hand was covered in syrup!

                                …only at Skylemar.

At Skylemar, it’s rare that someone knows the time of day, let alone the date.  No need for clocks – we go by our stomachs.   If we forget, there’s a bugle for breakfast, lunch and dinner, and a reminder for snack on the way to Third Period.

For the most part, time flies at Skylemar.  But because our “year” equals six weeks, everything is magnified.  So much gets packed into daylight hours that a day basically equals a week, and a week therefore equals a month.

Our calendar is planned far in advance, and each day is meticulously orchestrated by Barney, to the point where every one of our 350 people here know exactly where they should be at any moment of time.  But as happens in the regular world, things come up that we don’t expect.  Therefore, we always need to create the following:  Plan A, Plan B and Plan C.

Here’s an example…The camp had been booked for a 6 PM Seadogs game since the schedule came out in the winter.  Hundreds of tickets were purchased, 7 buses and drivers were reserved, and the entire staff was on duty so that there would be a ratio at the ballpark of one or two boys for every staff member.  That was Plan A.  Things were to go pretty much the same way they had for the past 35 years.

Then on July 4^th, the day when the bus company was closed, we find out that the time of the game had been miscommunicated, and it was actually going to be played at 1pm.  Although the Seadogs were apologetic and offered for us to attend on an alternate night, that would mean complications with staffing.  Sticking with the 1pm game also meant we’d need to change the buses, which didn’t seem possible since it was already a holiday weekend. Sherlock Shepherd (aka your camp director) texted with a friend of a friend of a friend, and ultimately got the cell number of the bus dispatcher.  We rearranged buses, changed the daily schedule,  switched around meals, sprayed every child with sunscreen and loaded the buses for the hour drive to Portland.  That was Plan B.

Turns out today was the hottest day so far this season.  There was a breeze at camp, but nothing in the ballpark.  Seats were sweaty, faces were dripping and even the Seadogs announcer reminded the crowd to hydrate.  Although the campers were their joyful selves, Shep could sense sunburns and “the crankies” coming.  It was way too blistering to enjoy a game.  After giving it a four-inning-try (about two hours) which was enough time for the kids to spend their $30 on ballpark food, the decision was made to rally the buses and head back to camp.

Plan C:  Once we were home sweet home, we had to get these guys cooled off.  Amen for Trickey Pond.  We grabbed swimsuits and headed to the lake for quick dips.  The dinner menu was changed to build-your-own Super Subs, with chilled watermelon and orange slices for dessert.

After a long day with our energy zapped,  Evening Activity as planned was postponed.  Instead we did what any good parent would do.  We put on a movie (wink wink).  All will sleep well tonight.

Let’s take it backwards…

After a day filled with good, hard play, we slowed it down with Spirit Night for Evening Activity.  It’s a weekly time when the camp gathers together on the Rec Hall field for a non-denominational service focused on gratitude, love and appreciation.

Each week a different bunk gets to lead Spirit Night. Tonight, it was Bunk 24.  First, we sing “We Meet Again in Gladness” and then the opening poem is read.  The candle is “lit” (battery operated), and the responsive reading goes like this:

“We light this candle in fellowship with our friends.  We light this candle with love for our families.  We light this candle in gratitude for all those who have helped us.  We light this candle in hope of peace, kindness and compassion.  We light this candle to reach out to those in need.  We light this candle for those who are not here now.  We light this candle to see within and brighten our days ahead.”

There’s a Prayer for our Country, and we sing a patriotic song.  This week’s reading by Shep was about the courage of Margaret Bancroft, who was a pioneer in educating those with special needs.  We say a Prayer of Thanks and silently send out positive energy to those we love at home while Cory plays the piano.

Tonight’s “Sermonette” was presented by counselor Eli K. of Bunk 14.  Eli was a Skylemar camper for seven years before becoming a staff member two years ago.  He read a selection of his college essay, which reflected on his experience as a camp counselor.  He inspired us with describing how he never let his medical condition define himself at Skylemar, and encouraged us to face challenges, try something new at camp, push yourself and then push a little farther.  Wow – now that’s a Skylemar counselor.

Next came Nick’s Cool2Care presentation.  Cool2Care (C2C) means that it’s cool to care about yourself, others and the world around you.  It’s cool to want to win, because it’s important to want to do well.  No matter how it turns out, you gotta keep it classy.  Nick explained that in every sport you either win or you learn.  Losing gives you an even bigger opportunity to get better.

Nick read a number of the C2C cards out of the C2C Cooler.  When you notice someone demonstrating kindness, you can write an acknowledgment and leave it in the cooler.  Two campers were awarded the highest weekly honor – the Cool2Care Chain.  Despite the big age difference, both are campers who similarly care about others and go out of their way to make others feel good.  Both Nico PH in Bunk 29 and Ethan P in Bunk 2 truly make our Skylemar world a better place.

Speaking of Cool2Care, remember those red money boxes that were sent home in the spring to collect coins for our favorite charity, “World of Change”?  The director of this children-helping-children nonprofit came to camp with his special “World of Change” truck.  It’s sort of like an old fashioned toll booth on wheels.  The boys tossed in their coins, and soon we’ll find out how much we collected.

Continuing backwards…

Earlier in the day was when we “practiced what we preached”.  Here’s how that went down…

The U10 Steal the Bacon Tournament held here at Skylemar is always one of the most exciting and spirited of the year.  Several camps attend, and there are numerous teams.  Our campers and their coaches practice for this and put their heart and soul into winning.  Despite it all, this was one of those times to learn instead of win.  In true Skylemar form, we kept it classy.  Starting tomorrow we take advantage of the opportunity to get better.  STB 2026 belongs to us!

How do we celebrate the 4^th of July at Skylemar?  We start by cleaning up!  It’s GACU – The Great American Cleanup.  Shep calls it “the trifecta of clean”.  First you take a power shower, next head over to The Spa, then it’s on to the Infirmary for a health check.

Where is this Skylemar Spa you might ask?  It’s on the porch of the Garden Cabin.  Mellow music plays, cucumber water is served, and the boys sit in rocking chairs.  Their dirty, yucky feet go in tubs of water and then our warrior “manicurists” attack with nail clippers.  Many thanks to Adam, Rook, Ellie, Karina, Leah, Maya and Sam who went above and beyond to get the job done.

Weather conditions were perfect for every activity on the courts and fields, with low humidity and clear skies.  The wind was strong, which meant that the lake was choppy — perfect for tubing and sailing (and capsizing…).  Meanwhile, the Tigers went on a trip to the Maine Wildlife Park.  It’s a refuge for over 30 species of local wildlife that can’t be returned to their natural habitat.

Dinner was delicious at the Band of Brothers Kickoff: pigs-in-a-blanket, barbecue chicken, corn on the cob, sweet peas and Greek salad.   In addition to a bunk and division, each camper is assigned to a “Band”.  It’s sort of a family within the overall camp family.  Each Band has a few campers from every age group, with two Stars as their Leader.  It’s one of the many ways that kids of all ages get to know each other at Skylemar, and it gives the older guys the chance to serve as role models for those younger.

There are 12 bands: Bears, Owls, Wolves, Deer, Bald Eagles, Otters, Loons, Foxes, Moose, Lobsters, Bats, Dock Spiders.  They officially get together for occasional competitions, Evening Activities and special meals where each Band sits together as a group.

Tonight’s competition was the “Spaghetti Mini Marshmallow Challenge”.  The goal was for each group to build a tower as tall as possible.  Twist was that only the little guys in the Band could do the building, while the older ones did the coaching.  Congratulations to the Loons – 26 inches tall!

After a traditional “7^th”, the choice period with about 15 options, we headed down to Trickey Pond for a very special celebration.  Everyone was seated by bunk on either the beach or docks, where we enjoyed Patriotic Popsicles (red, white and blue).  Music played and we all sang along (i.e. “Born in the USA”).  The counselor Belly Flop Contest was hysterical.  Way to go, Preston, for being the champion.

When the sky got dark it was time for Skylemar’s fireworks display.  This spectacular display is shared with all our wonderful neighbors on Trickey Pond.  Many thanks to our good friend and pyrotechnician Greg who lives across the lake.

Nothing like a July 4^th miracle!  Ten days ago, during Staff Orientation, a lost black dachshund was first spied at Camp Skylemar.  Since that sighting, the family has come daily, calling his name.  Staff members have been looking across our 200 acres (we never told the kids, of course), but at this point it was assumed the little dog moved on to another location.  With the smells of Skylemar’s chicken grilling and picnic tables with nibbles underneath, the assumption was that if the dog was here, at this point he would have been seen again.  A week has passed with no sign of him.

Then comes the miracle…tonight Sebastian was found underneath the Skylemar Rec Hall!  Program Director Barney and Waterski Director Quinn were the heroes who crawled on all-fours and did whatever it took to rescue the pup.  Goes to show you should never give up!

It’s the hottest ticket on the East Coast.  The waiting list is 364 days long — definitely the place to see and be seen.  Hours are limited, so you must be on time.

Leaving the Bellagio in the dust, it’s the one and only gambling casino where the house never wins.  It’s…

SADE’S PALACE!

You must be under 16 to enter.

No money?  No problem.  All gamblers get $100, plus unlimited credit.

Dine without reservations.  The menu is exclusive, with just one frozen specialty available in chocolate, vanilla or strawberry.

All the beer (root beer, that is)  you can drink, and it’s on the house.

Step right in and check out the star-filled gambling hall.  Sightings tonight included Mickey Mouse, the cast from the “Wizard of Oz”, Mario, Yoshi, Bill Nye, Belle and her Beast and an Angry Bird.  Also spied was George Washington, Abe Lincoln, Thomas Jefferson, Harry Potter, Hermione and Ron.  There was Linguini from “Ratatouille” along with Vector and Minion of “Despicable Me” fame.  Moose and a Moose, and Bumble Bee, plus the real Shep, too.  Lots of other interesting and good-looking stars showed up, with all the above clothing courtesy of the one-and-only Suzie’s “Costume Attic”.  No wonder security was so tight.

The floor was  abuzz with activity.  There’s Blackjack, Poker, Wheels of Fortune.  Bingo, Craps, Roulette and Dice games. Slot Machines, Checkers, Guess the Jelly beans and Fortune-telling too.

Don’t know how to play?  No problem.  Most of the dealers didn’t either.  They made up the rules and did whatever it took to make sure that the customer always wins.

There was cheering and laughing, excitement and amazement.  The crowd stayed on the edge of their seats to learn who had won the 50-50 raffle… it was Luke S of Bunk 29!  Then, the drum roll played in suspense of the announcing who won the Guess the Jelly Beans contest (how many in the jar?), and the winner…. Dae of Bunk 11!  Yes – Dae was awarded all 1,662 colorful beans!

The patrons played to win… and win… and win some more!  And then….

What do you do with a giant wad of Skylemoney?  You go to the gift shop of course.  This pop-up’s packed with imports from faraway lands. Squishy balls and whoopie cushions.  Hacky sacks and wind up teeth.  Yo-yos and sunglasses.  Inflatable footballs, basketballs, soccer balls and baseballs.  Guitars and saxophones too.

9:30 PM and that’s all folks.  See you next year!

If you want to be the coolest parent in the world, it’s important that you know what you’re talking about. Here’s a cheat-sheet of assorted “SkyLingo” to set you up for success:

C2C – Our motto, aka Cool2Care.

Sade’s Palace – It’s tomorrow night… lots of casino fun for those 16 and under!

Drip –  hand sanitizer…. you “drip” into buildings and before you eat.

Happy Hour – the sixth period of the day when Seniors and Stars have a choice of supervised “hanging out” time, or can head to the waterfront.

Foot Patrol – Counselors assigned throughout the day to make sure that everyone is where they’re supposed to be.

STB – Steal the Bacon.  It’s a game you’ll hear more about soon.

GACU – A weekly health check, that stands for Great American Clean-Up.

Looney Tunes – the seven counselor teams this year… Tweety Bird, Road Runner, Taz, Bugs Bunny, Foghorn Leghorn, Yosemite Sam and Road Runner.

S&C – Strength and Conditioning with Coach Tom

PSH – Power Shower Hour (self-explanatory)

SkyDeck – our fabulous outdoor kitchen for learning the culture, cooking and sampling of some amazing international cuisine,

Chilltop — the place for creativity… home to all kinds of arts and crafts.

Batcave – Luci and Cory’s office.

SkyPines – a fun-filled overnight stay in tents near the Sky II waterfront.

Polar Bear – pre-breakfast morning swim across the lake.

IC Day – Intercollegiate Day…. a one day event when our four college teams compete on and off the field

Color War – may not seem unique, but never make the mistake of adding an “S” and calling it “Color Wars”.  That might be ok at other places, but Skylemar guys take these intensely competitive days in August very seriously.  There’s no messing with this name.

DT, DRC, H, MB – Daniel Thomas, John D’Arcy, George Houghton and Mary Beth Fedirko.

Frog, Bones, Beags, Barney, etc., etc.– nicknames for those Staffers who’ve been here the longest.

The list goes on and on…!

Hot, humid and so much going on!  The schedule was jam-packed in all Divisions…Cubs: Bunks 1-3, Lions: Bunks 4-6, Tigers: Bunks 7-12, Freshmen:  Bunks 13-18, Sophomores:  Bunks 19-21, Juniors: Bunks 22-24, Seniors: Bunks 25-27, and Stars: Bunks 28-30.

Lots of firsts today as well.  Marcus W (Bunk 11) caught the first fish of the season, and it was a big one!

The Tigers took the first trip of the year, to Ice Skating in Bridgton.  That’s a town about 15 minutes away that has an ice rink located at a boarding school.  The cool air and slippery ice were perfect for such a steamy day.  Skating with Skyfriends is super fun, whether it’s your first time or one of many.

The premier play of the 2025 season is “Finding Nemo”.  Those of all ages were invited to try-out, and Drama Director Suzie had the difficult job of deciding who gets what part.  It’s tough because there’s a lot of talent in this house.

First bullseye at Archery!  Congrats to Henry Z!

Pontoon Party Night for lucky Bunks 1 and 2.  That’s when you take a cruise around Trickey Pond to see the other side of the lake, probably for the first time.  It’s a relaxing way to spend 7^th Period, and the snack menu is appropriate…Swedish fish.

The camp-wide Scavenger Hunt was an awesome and high-energy Evening Activity.  Teams were made up of an older Bunk combined with a younger Bunk.  Each team had to unlock the clue at a particular location by finding specific items, answering trivia questions or performing a stunt.  For example, to unlock Mary Beth’s clue they had to bring her a pair of Nike sneakers, two blueberries and a pair of colorful sunglasses.  They had to dance the Macarena, show five different letters in ASL and figure out how many years Mary Beth has been a teacher.

One more first — the first Intercamp action of the season saw our 15U Soccer club play a trio of games in a round-robin tourney on the road, finishing with a win a loss and a tie.  Coach Spencer lauded the total team effort, led by 7 different goal scorers – well done boys!

In any one Skylemar day there’s a whole lot of learning going on.  Certainly, we learn how to build relationships and live together as a community.  We learn about what it takes to be a good friend, take care of ourselves and the importance of doing for others.

There’s lots of games that may be new to many, and the counselors are amazing at passing on the knowledge of their particular sport.  The boys discover that Skylemar’s a great place to take safe chances, like trying a new activity that you’ve never done before or even one that you’re not so great at.  That’s why the daily schedule is a combination of assigned periods, along with a couple of electives.  The boys are encouraged to give all a try.

The best kind of learning is fun, and that’s the world of Skylemar.  For example, this morning the camp welcomed Barnicus and Laundricus, the Warriors of Clean, with the traditional chant: “clap clap CLEAN…clap clap CLEAN…!”  The two warriors spoke about Cabin Inspection, and what it takes to keep things tidy.  Each bunk has a Job Wheel that moves one space to the right each day, assuring that everyone has a particular job while things are kept fair.  The Warriors called on Dr. Jeff to speak, who told us about what it takes to keep ourselves healthy.  This included how to do a self-tick check, which means paying attention to creases behind the knees and elbows, as well as our hair and ankles.  Ticks are rare here because of our robust eradication program, but it’s important to check, especially after a day hike off premises.

Shep did some teaching at his Porch Times.  That’s when your bunk takes a break from sports and instead, hangs with Shep and has a treat of Scooby Snacks.  He asks lots of questions (like “what was your favorite activity so far?”) and always has an important message to share.  Today’s was about the “golden rule”, and how to treat others.  If you hear someone being unkind to someone else, it’s your responsibility to stand up and say, “that’s not cool”.

Good decision-making is something else we learn about at Skylemar.  We talk about the big long-term decisions that matter most, but on a daily basis, it’s mostly about the little ones.  For example, each week we have Sunday Sign-up, when the kids decide which Clinic to choose for the week ahead.  The sign-up is a special event within itself, because the counselors do “commercials” advertising what they’re offering.  Just about all of the skits are hilarious and include dances and even some mind-blowing acrobatics.

For example, this week’s choices include: “Ninja Warrior Course & the Monster Challenge” at the Waterfront, “Sultans of Swing” through the trees at the Ropes Course, “MVP Hoops” Basketball, Snow Field Soccer, “Baseball  Basics” with Professor Good Coach, “Mad Science” at Yellowhorn, Beach Volleyball, “Cultures and Cuisines of South China” at the Sky Deck kitchen, “Koolio and his Ski Dock Llamas” Waterskiing, “Reading Pirates”, Poster-making and other Sea Dogs Merch at Chilltop, “Full Pads” Lacrosse, “Sail the Seven Seas”, “Ground Strokes Week” Tennis,  “Swingmasters” Golf, “Nitty-Gritty” Football, and Steal the Bacon.

Which would you choose?