Bittersweet, they call it. On one hand, it’s the saddest day of the year in the Skylemar nation. Saying goodbye to those who have become so important to us over the past weeks is a very difficult thing to do.
On the other, the day does culminate in joy, as arms are wrapped around your most precious possession. How wonderful it is to be reunited with those you love, forever and always.
Here at a very quiet Skylemar, our heart overflows with gratitude. To you, who entrusts us with your amazing son, we thank you. We are honored that you’ve selected Skylemar as his home-away-from-home and promise to do everything in our power to cherish him always.
To the most outstanding counselors in the country, please know that you’ve built men of character this summer, and we are forever grateful.
To so many others at Skylemar who help us make a positive difference in the world, one boy at a time, we love you…to the Sky and back.
See you next year, friends. The countdown begins now!
You could feel it in the Skylemar air, despite the messy drizzle falling. There was packing and cleaning to do, but most of all, we just enjoyed being together. Although we laughed and played as always, everyone knew that it would be a long time before most of us will see each other again.
There was a lot of gratitude going around today too. The kids even wrote notes of appreciation to counselors, which become heart-warming surprises sent by mail over the winter.
As always, everyone was most excited about the Final Banquet. It’s a special dinner, with speeches, awards and our favorite show in the world, “Retrospect”.
But here’s where the love really came in.
The entire evening was filled with opportunities to celebrate someone other than yourself. And that’s exactly what they did.
Every speech received a standing ovation. Every photo of a friend drew cheers. Every name announced brought on a frenzy of applause.
It’s true. They came as friends and left as brothers.
Once again Mother Nature gave us a picturesque, sunny beautiful Maine morning as the boys anxiously prepared for today’s final events. On the strength of last night’s Songs and Cheers win, Gray led by just a few points, though the outcome was still clearly in doubt. The boys were a bit more torqued up for this, the final day, anticipating our legendary final closing event this afternoon. Maybe this last morning of activities would paint a different picture when done, so out they went after the regular morning rituals.
Gray pushed ahead with a 4-0 win in Sophomores Soccer and a pair of wins in Juniors Hoops. When Gray also won the first of two Juniors Football contests, Red was reeling. But in Game 2, they mounted a 4th quarter comeback for the ages, erasing a 2 touchdown deficit with 3 late scores to win 52-45 and start another Red run. Wins in Seniors Tennis and Tigers Golf and Bocce kept in going before Gray’s little guys scored a run in the bottom of the last inning to break a 2-2 tie and win Cubs/Lions Baseball 3-2. But Red came right back with a pair of wins in Freshmen Hockey to take the morning, cutting into Gray’s slight lead even more. Then came the announcement that Red had won the all-camp cumulative Archery point (each camper shot throughout the week) and unbelievably, with only the climactic finale left to settle it, we were for all intents and purposes, dead even. Incredible! We were right back where we started when Harry and Will were elected just a week ago – and ready for the big finale.
The Vince Lombari Trophy (NFL). The Commissioner’s Trophy (MLB). The Larry O’Brien Championship Trophy (NBA). The Stanley Cup (NHL). The FIFA World Cup Trophy. These are what the athletes in each of the 5 major world sports play for in football, baseball, basketball, hockey and soccer. Winning one is the ultimate goal of all who participate and with it might come fame and fortune, and the adulation of fans far and wide all over the world. The residuals are endless. Whether the Super Bowl, World Series, or any other, none can compare to what comes with winning – and losing – this afternoon’s closing spectacle to our Color War…TUGS OF WAR.
We don’t play for any trophies. No tangible rewards come from it, yet your boys will talk about it for the rest of their lives. Even more so, the ultimate reward for battling with and against your brothers for the last 5 days is that when the cheers and tears are gone, the love takes over. And it really only takes about five minutes for all to get there. If you’ve ever been fortunate enough to experience it in person, whether camper, staff member or even Director, or feel it vicariously through your child, a friend or maybe this blog, then you have an understanding. For those new to this, hopefully what you see, hear, or read will help you feel the love too.
Late this afternoon, Will called his Red Men to the Hockey Rink, while Harry gathered his Gray troops to the Tennis Courts for the last time. Shep called both teams to the Snow Field where the excitement of the last 5 days would soon be resolved. One by one, each Division’s Red and Gray members would face off for the very last time. Shep reminded everyone that since the score was effectively tied, it would take winning 4 of the 7 Divisions’ tugs (best 2 out of 3 in each) to win Color War. Beginning with the Cubs/Lions and working our way up through the Stars, Shep called the “tuggers to the rope” and when given the signal, George blew the whistle and tug they did.
“PULL! LET’S GO!!! PULL HARDER!!!!”, screamed their leaders, and each responded with all their might. Eyes wincing, bodies twisting, feet dug in, muscles popping. They gave it EVERYTHING they had. Those on the sidelines cheered wildly P-U-L-L-L-L, as if the harder you shouted the stronger they’d be. Each Tug lasted seconds, but it felt like forever, until…the flag crossed… over the line…and George whistled it done.
Once through the lineup, then out again for Round 2. Tug after Tug until finally, it was over – GRAY, the 2024 winner!
Gray swarmed the field, leaping and jumping into anyone’s arms in their path. On the other side, tears abounded for just a few minutes before joining Gray on the field. Hugs and warmth were shared all over as the teams both congratulated and consoled each other before hoisting the two Captains on their shoulders for the trek down to Trickey. The scene just oozes with emotion in every way. Tears of joy and those of sadness filled the eyes of not only the participants, but the well over a hundred plus onlookers as well. The amount of love in the air was simply immeasurable.
Following tradition, all walked behind their leaders to the lake, checked in with the Waterfront Directors, and took turns leaping into the Pond. You see, the waters of Trickey Pond are magical. Jump in, and they wash away the competition. Once again, Skylemar is one.
Waterfront Ceremony for Evening Activity is one of Skylemar’s most sacred and cherished traditions. On this night, we back it way down from the very hectic, action packed week of Color War, to give thanks not only to those who made our summer so special, but to all who made our being here possible. A torch-lit procession to the lake led by our two Captains is how it usually begins, but tonight a steady rain forced us into a last minute detour to the Pavilion. There, after each Captain addressed the camp, Shep took us through the program as if we were down at the lake as a fire burned just outside one end of the Pavilion. Instead of setting a candle-lit “wishing boat” into Trickey’s water, each person in attendance made a wish and tossed a piece of birch into the fire. Legend holds that if you make a wish for someone other than yourself, there’s a pretty good chance it just might come true. Then, instead of campfires outside the bunks, each had their own pizza party inside. Still a wonderful night to cap off a great week and start the process of saying goodbye.
Another sensational, bright, but cooler day in the 04055 – perfect for the Day 4 schedule in store. The boys went through their morning routine of breakfast, inspection and another pre-game team pep rally to get the juices flowing. Gray had taken control, but Red was nipping at their heels, just a few points behind.
This morning’s action was filled with excitement all over the place. On the Sky I Lax field, Gray ran away with the first game, then Red did the same in the second to split Tigers Lacrosse. Somehow, the teams also split the Stars Waterfront point after the Kayak races put up the same times down on the Pond. Back up top on the Freddie Pierce, Gray led 5-0 early before surviving a last inning rally for a 5-4 win in Juniors Softball. The Gray Stars also chipped their way to a match play victory on the Links but dropped a close one in the Bocce Garden.
The Cubs/Lions again provided the most exciting, nail-biting moments. They split a pair of Football games, but only after Gray came from a 38-24 4th quarter deficit to win the Bunkline game 42-38 in a thriller. Red won a back and forth affair on the Rec Hall field, stopping Gray’s last ditch attempt to win it short of the goal line as time expired. It seemed Gray had protected their lead until the results came in from Sky II. Red Sophs swept Tennis by winning the Skills competition on the Har-Tru courts, and carried Seniors Soccer on the Hejduk as well, 4-2. Red not only wasn’t going away, but they had barely won the morning and drew even closer as we broke for lunch.
Afterward, the boys went straight to another Songs and Cheers rehearsal in preparation for tonight’s pivotal on-stage performances. But first they’d get a bit of rest and go right back at it again with an afternoon full of contests that tested them all.
The Juniors halved the Golf matches out on the Course, and Gray finally won stopped Red’s run of wins in Bocce. At the Rink, Red won the first game easily, then scored the equalizer with under a minute left to tie the second 3-3 and carry Stars Hockey. The teams each won a game on the Hoops court in Seniors Basketball, and Red served and volleyed well enough to win Tigers Tennis. Over at Sky II on the Hejduk, Gray Sophomore Laxers won a low scoring, but very tough 4-2 Lacrosse game to again reassert its position on top.
Then Red rattled off wins in both Cubs/Lions Soccer games and another in Freshmen Baseball to close out the afternoon with only a point separating the teams. 4 days in, and we were now virtually tied!
Tonight’s Evening Activity out on the Rec Hall lawn under a star-lit sky would set the stage for tomorrow’s big finish. For days, the teams have been rehearsing, as there would be 8 big points up for grabs. Each would have to perform a set of 6 songs – a Team Cheer and Camp Cheer (1/2 point each), Team Fight Song and Old Camp Song (a full point each), an Original Camp Song (2 points) and Production Number (worth 3 very big points). It’s hard to comprehend how difficult it is for a few 15-year-old leaders to prepare, write, rehearse and put 95+ kids on-stage for such an impactful event, all the while competing so intensely for the past 4 days. But that’s exactly how it’s been for 76 years. And they did quite a job. The two Production Numbers entertained us all. Gray gave us a Jackson 5 medley, and Red created a musical version of College Football’s Saturday GameDay. When it was over, Gray carried the night 5-3 and will take a slight lead into tomorrow’s finale.
Way too close to call…. this one’s going down to the wire for a photo finish!
Mother Nature once again had reared her head. A bit of morning drizzle may have delayed our start, but it certainly didn’t dampen Gray’s spirit. They had turned it around late yesterday and Harry’s Gray team was still flying high. The morning “psyche up” circles were charged with energy from both teams. Will’s Red team may have been stunned by the flip, but he and his leaders let their boys know that they fully believed in them and what was inside each of their followers. “In the heart, in the heart!” they chanted before heading out for Day 3.
Here’s the way the day played out:
Gray continued their command down at Trickey Pond. On paper, Red Sophs had a swimming powerhouse, and it showed as they stroked their way to a sizable lead in the Swim element. However, Gray edged them out in the timed Kayak races, then did the same at the Ski dock to win Sophomores Waterfront. Up on the Bunkline Football Field, Gray’s defense told the story as ballhawk Julian had 3 interceptions in the first half alone to stop potential Red scoring drives, and key another Gray victory.
When Gray won Juniors Tennis, Red was looking for a spark, and it came from their youngest in the Cubs/Lions Division. Cousins Benny and Seth (B3) became the unlikely heroes who provided it. First Seth showed some real savvy in winning 2 of the 3 sets with superb Bocce throws in the Garden, then Benny came back from 1 down with 2 holes to play to win his first ever golf match on the Links, 1 up – securing both wins for Red.
Gray then answered right back with some heroics of their own in Tigers Hoops, but it took all three games to do so. After each team got a blowout win on the outdoor courts. Gray’s overall teamwork, and a little extra boost from Bud in the Gym’s “rubber game” was just enough to overcome Alexander P’s remarkable one-man show, winning it 16-15 and the Tigers Basketball point. The Seniors then split a pair of games in the Hockey Rink, where goalies Alex S and Dillon W shined on one end, and Luke S (hattrick) and Jackson C (twice) on the other.
Lastly, the Captain twins went head-to-head in their favorite sport over at the Hejduk. Both are destined for stardom at the next level, but it was Bobby’s hattrick and Henry B’s outstanding work in the cage that proved the difference in Red’s bounce-back 9-6 victory in Stars Lacrosse. We had reached the halfway mark of this Color War when we broke for lunch, and Gray had padded their lead just a little bit more.
After Songs and Cheers practice, Gray laid down the gauntlet by racing further ahead with wins in Seniors Lacrosse and Tigers Soccer. In Lacrosse, Red put up a great fight and led by 2 before being outgunned by Will A’s 6 goals in a very entertaining 9-7 contest. Their Tigers cruised in Soccer on the Bunkline pitch, 4-1.
Gray Hoopsters looked unbeatable on the upper court in a big win, then saw their Soph teammates knock down a couple of late buckets on the lower court to preserve the full point win in Sophomores Basketball.
Down but not out after Gray won Freshmen Bocce, Red’s heart began to surface just when they needed it most.
Their Freshmen duffers made short work of Gray on the SkyHills Golf Club links to start their own comeback, It continued with a big win in Cubs/Lions Tennis on the hard courts in Sky I and the Har-Tru at Sky II.
You could really feel Red coming on when they finally broke through down at Trickey and captured their first win in the water this week. It wasn’t easy, but Zane’s ski run was just enough to put them over the top and take Stars Waterfront.
They clawed right back in this thing with the most exciting contest of this War, witnessed by several hundred fans who packed the Arena over at the Rink. All the day’s events were complete, including the first 2 of 3 games in Juniors Hockey. Gray had won Game 1, despite the efforts of super netminder Thomas T, credited with at least 20+ mostly spectacular saves. Red came back to take game 2 with a couple of goals from Jordan G and Jackson J, 2-1. Each with a win, the Game 3 winner would decide it, setting up the scene for the most dramatic finish seen in years.
The contest remained scoreless through the first 2 periods, which only served to heighten the magnitude and importance of this game even more as the crowd had grown to capacity. Each shot and save brought screams of support from both sides. The noise level intensified as the clock ticked on. Just a few minutes left and still neither side could finish their chances. Goaltenders Leo S and Ben W had stood tall, each withstanding a barrage of shots from all angles, including several point-blank attempts. The spectators had become so enthusiastic that crowd control from Hockey Director/Referee LJ was needed to back them away from the boards. Then, with just under two minutes remaining, a screened slapshot from the point by Henry L slid by into the lower left corner of the net to give Gray the lead, and the jubilant Gray backers went bonkers. Less than a minute later, Red answered when Teddy dug the puck out of the corner and fed the slot where Jake M snapped a one-timer into the back of the net, sending the frantic Red fans into a frenzy. A tie looked inevitable. But less than :20 seconds later, Jake once again hit the net, this time unassisted, setting off an emotional celebration explosion to win it for Red, 2-1. You’d have thought they had just won the Stanley Cup, only better! Red had indeed come back to win the afternoon and was very much right back in it. So on we go….
A much needed respite from the Red and Gray activities of the day brought everyone together in front of the Rec Hall stage tonight for this summer’s second theatrical production – “Peter Pan”. The cast, crew, set/tech team and directors did a remarkable job. What’s most impressive about these actors was how on earth they had time to learn their lines in between days packed with sports. And by “days” we really mean two weeks to put the whole show together. How fortunate Skylemar is to have the best drama director in the world, Suzie. She’s magical, and can even make Peter Pan fly (with a little help from Noah, Henry, Dut and G).
The boys, rested and ready after Opening Day’s whirlwind of PM activity, awakened to a glorious, bright Maine morning. Red had made an early statement, and Gray was anxious to respond.
“Gray Team to the Pine Grove, Red Team to the Mailhouse” was heard over the PA just after breakfast and regular morning bunk Inspection. Captains Harry and Will brought their troops together for this morning’s “psyche up” meetings in advance of taking the fields and courts all over camp. Encircled by their teammates with arms linking the youngest members with their older brethren, each team’s leaders challenged their group. For Red, an acknowledgement of their success on Day 1, but they wanted more. “Keep the pressure on! Our opponents will not roll over!” Gray’s message was a bit different. “We may be down, but now it’s our time! Let’s dig a little deeper, we can do this!” Both urged their teammates to give it their all, to play smart and composed, to try as hard as possible, and do so with the same SkySportsmanship as they have all summer long. Win or lose, if they gave their absolute best effort, both were confident that doing so would translate into victory. “Bring it in!” the leaders yelled as each team squeezed together with hands raised and roared – Red! Gray! And off they went.
Gray drew closer in the morning activities. The Cubs/Lions Basketball point was decided on Sky II just over at the Gym. Red held on to win by 3 on the upper court as Gray survived a last second shot that rolled around the rim and out at the buzzer to win by 1. But in the Gym, Gray’s size dominated Game 3 to win the point.
On the Hejduk, the Freshmen Laxers played a very tough, hard-fought contest. Although Elliot (twice) and Myles F (his first ever) ripped the back of the net for Gray , two goals each by James and Eli W fueled Red ‘s win, 5-3. Then came news from down at the Pond that Gray swept the Swim, Ski and Boat competition to win Juniors Waterfront.
In Sophomores Football, Sam P was a superstar today, running, passing and defending in leading Gray to victory in a high-scoring affair, 45-34. But on the Fred Pierce Field, Red bounced back with an 8-1 win, led by Noah K and Jared F. In Stars Tennis, Gray Stars served and volleyed their way to victory to get back on the comeback track.
The most excitement of the morning took place at the Rink, where the Tigers played a trio of games. Matthew had a hattrick in Gray’s Game 1 dominant win before Alex S hit the net twice for Red to win Game 2. Game 3 found the rest of the campers in attendance, with all other activities completed. The Arena was packed and loud. Both teams had several breakaway chances to take the lead. But stellar brick-wall performances by both netminders, Spencer S for Gray and Luke P for Red thwarted every opportunity, ending in a scoreless tie to split Tigers Hockey.
As the boys headed to lunch, a bit of rest and the first Songs and Cheers rehearsal (more on that later), Gray had cut into Red’s lead.
And they kept on coming …. The afternoon results came quickly when the Gray Freshmen answered their very tough morning Lacrosse loss, making short work of the Red down at the Snow Field, 7-1 in Freshmen Soccer. The other Soccer game was played over at the Hejduk, where the Gray Stars also won 4-1. When word came from down at Trickey that Gray had won their 4th straight Waterfront point, this time by the Tigers, it was “game on!”
The comeback seemed to continue when Max B returned the opening kick-off for an amazing TD dash, twisting and turning through the entire Red defense. But Red kept their composure, settled down and took control to win Seniors Football by a couple of touchdowns. Gray’s momentum was stopped….at least temporarily.
A double-header in Cubs/Lions Lacrosse at Sky1 showed us once again what we have to look forward to. The equipment itself is bigger than some of the players, but they battled on, splitting a pair of very close games. The results of both contests remained in doubt well into the 4th quarter, exciting the kids and many of their counselors, who just love to watch these little guys compete.
In a bit of an upset on the Hejduk Diamond, Gray jumped out to an early lead, then watched it begin to evaporate as Red mounted a last inning rally. Red went to the bullpen and found their closer when Miles M took the mound and shut the door, preserving the 6-3 win in Sophomores Baseball.
On the Hoops courts, the Juniors showed why our incredible Staff of ballers labeled them as our best Basketball Division. Two fantastic, well-played games on the upper and lower courts put the skills of so many on display. Red won one game 35-30 as Gray took the other 31-27. Again, we’d let the boys in the Gym settle it, where Gray won in a blowout to take Juniors Basketball. Comeback complete and then some….
Over 20 games in a day, and there’s only a few points difference in the score. That’s been typical of Skylemar Color War for the past 76 years. Wondering why? It’s because we leave the picking of the teams to the fifteen year-old Captains and their Lieutenants. No adult involvement whatsoever. It’s a tradition that works.
Movie night to chill out a bit before we go right back at it tomorrow. Stay tuned….
What better way to kick off Skylemar’s 76th Color War than the Annual Red & Gray Buffet – Chef Junior and his staff put out quite a breakfast feast! Only problem was Mother Nature did not cooperate, dumping a steady rain through mid-morning, delaying the actual start of Color War. Barney quickly created a cool morning of inside fun at the Gym, Lodge, Pavilion and Rec Hall for all, while Shep, Nick and George huddled for what they hoped would be our last weather-related schedule adjustment of the summer.
The morning washout only served to build the excitement to get us going even more. In an effort to recover what the rain delayed, Shep jam-packed the afternoon with a double-dose of activities for each Division, set to begin just after lunch. The rain was gone, and a beautiful afternoon was in store.
For the past 75 years, the teams would first meet separately, then march down to the historic Fred Pierce Field for our opening Color War event, the Stars Softball game. This time, all headed there directly from lunch, each gathering as a full team for the very first time, ready for the official start. The buzz was electric with anticipation. Red and Gray spirit filled the air!
Shep called Captains Harry and Will to the field for pre-game instructions, then quieted the crowd and bellowed, “Play Ball”, as the teams took the field. All would watch the first inning together, but not before the ceremonial first pitch. This year a perfect strike was thrown by Lillie, our super terrific Director of Yellowhorn.
Both teams then headed out to venues all over camp, from the Waterfront to Sky II and everywhere in between. Hockey, Tennis, Golf and Bocce, Lacrosse, Football, Basketball, Softball, Baseball and Soccer on land, and Swimming, Boating and Skiing at the Waterfront. It’s a wonder how we got it all in, especially with the amount of great action and close contests. Here’s what happened today:
Due to the time constraint of our double-headers of action, Stars Softball ended in a tie as Gray erased a 3-run deficit with a late rally, giving each team a half point. The extra rest was needed though, when they moved to the Bunkline gridiron for a fantastic Stars Football game. A very tight game throughout, Nick N stepped in at QB to give Gray a boost with his arm to help keep Gray close as a growing number of spectators had surrounded the field after their own contests had completed. The game was tied with the clock winding down when one Will hit the other, connecting on a Red TD bomb to take the lead with only 13 seconds remaining. Gray moved the ensuing possession to the Red 10-yard line in two quick plays and had a chance to tie it with one play left … only to see their potential game-tying completion ruled out of bounds at the back of the end zone, as Red held on to win Stars Football.
The Seniors afternoon started down at Trickey, where Gray dominated the Swim and Kayak portion to win Waterfront. They then went over to the front side of camp for Golf and Bocce. On the Links, three wins for each team in six well-played matches split the Golf point, then Red held off a late Gray rally in the Garden to win Bocce.
The Juniors traveled over to Sky II for a couple of games on the Hejduk Field. In Soccer, goalkeeper TI was great in Gray’s 3-0 victory. After a short break, the players donned the Lax pads and helmets for a nip and tuck battle that ended in a 6-6 tie, splitting the Lacrosse point. Joaquin hit the back of the net three times in the first half for Red, and Alan G scored a goal in both games.
The Sophomores began their activities on the Golf course, where Red had just too much talent and easily secured the Golf point, while their Bocce players also proved to be quite adept on the Lawn in winning Bocce as well. They then moved over to the Rink for a pair of games and showed off some of the best Hockey played this year. In Game 1, Pedro was an impenetrable netminder in a hard fought 1-0 victory for Gray (Enric had the lone tally). Game 2 was scoreless into the last period until the teams scored four times (2 by each team), including a late goal by Red to forge a 2-2 tie – but not enough to keep Gray from winning the Sophomores Hockey point.
The Freshmen played 2 very close games on the Hoops courts. On the upper court, Red thwarted a late Gray comeback effort to win by a bucket in a thrilling finish. Red teammates held on for a 6-point win on the lower court too, winning the Basketball point. A short time later on the Tennis courts on both sides of camp, an outstanding performance from Ari F highlighted the Skills Competition (8 of 10 serves hit the right spot) and helped Red to win Freshmen Tennis as well.
The Tigers’ day found them playing two Football games first before moving down to the Freddie Pierce for their Baseball game. On the Rec Hall field, both Spencer O and CJ had a pick-6 for their teams, but Red scored 2 late TDs to win 31-26. It was a different story on the Bunkline field where Elijah and Hunter ran all over the Gray in Red’s dominant win, splitting the Tigers Football point. Then Max F was unhittable, combining with Lionel in pitching Red to a 4-0 shutout in Tigers Baseball.
Our youngest Division for Color War combines the Cubs/Lions into one group (Bunks 1-7), and somehow, they always seem to provide us with the most excitement and attract the largest crowds of wildly cheering spectators. They first played three Hockey games in the Rink. The first game ended deadlocked at 1 (Henry M and Federico lit the lamp) as the crowd around the arena had grown quite vocal with older teammates intent on cheering them on. Games 2 and 3 saw each team collect a shutout win to split the Hockey point.
After a quick change, the boys headed down to Trickey. The Waterfront point is decided by winning at least two of the 3 elements: Swimming, Kayaking and Skiing. After Gray had won the Swim Meet, Red responded by winning the closest Kayak dual in Skylemar history. A pair of races against your opponents and the clock – the two times are then combined to determine the winner. Red won by less than 1 second, sending the group over to the Ski dock to decide it. The decibel level reached by screaming 7-9 year-olds reverberated up the hill, until Eli B crossed the wake enough times on his final run to win Waterfront for Gray. You just gotta love these little guys, many tasting this kind of spirited competition for the very first time.
What an awesome afternoon! The day’s activities were in the books. Well almost…
After a well-deserved cookout dinner (and showers before and after for all), there was still one event left to play – our traditional 1st night Evening Activity. The Ping Pong Tourney always closes Day 1, and with one point left to be decided, the players took to the tables under the Pavilion lights, encompassed by their teammates. It would take winning 11 of the 21 matches to win, and it took a few hours to decide it. Red won the point and will sleep on a very slight lead.
Before it begins, Color War is sort of in the genre of professional sports. The guys talk about what they would do if they were Captain, just like sports pundits talk about coaches. As people do with a fantasy sports league, the boys “practice” Color War. They do mock drafts and talk about who should be “first pick” and so on. It isn’t done in an unkind way – it’s just sort of factual when it comes to sports.
So please note: Just like with professional sports, their predictions mean absolutely nothing.
Here’s how it went ….
The kids elected the Captains, all votes being equal — check.
The Captains selected the rest of their Lieutenants today, two in each Division — check.
Like with any competition, the goal is to win. The two Captains and their lieutenants spent the day preparing for tonight’s draft. In making their selections, they would consider the factors that are most important to them. It could be athletic ability, leadership strength and so on.
After Taps tonight, Shep supervised the actual draft itself. Only the Captains, four Stars Lieutenants, Nick and Shep were present. Again, the Captains based their selections on whatever they believe is important for a winning team. For instance, they may have considered strength for Tugs, ability to sing for Songs & Cheers, leadership skills for the team, and athleticism.
The process took hours — going through each Division, one by one, back and forth, until all participants had been drafted. By the time the teams were finalized, just about every camper was asleep. That’s when “the pinning” happened.
It’s a magical moment when each boy awakens a bit earlier than usual, probably at sunrise Pinned to their pillow is either a Red or Gray ribbon, signifying what team they’re on. Some tried to stay up to catch the team leaders in the act, but like with the Tooth Fairy, most understand that the best plan was to just go to sleep.
Skylemar’s Color War is about far more than just competitive fun. There’s lots of learning that goes on. You learn how to win and lose with honor, how to bounce back when things don’t go your way, and how great it feels to give it your very best.
Perhaps the most important lesson to learn from Color War is this: You don’t need a title to be the leader of a team. In fact, as we know from politics and the workplace, sometimes a title can have little to do with leadership ability. For example, a President is as strong as his Cabinet. A CEO is as successful as the VP’s who’ve been hired.
For the most part, the guys here realize this. They understand what it means to do the right thing when nobody’s looking. Certainly some were disappointed when their name wasn’t called out for Captain or Lieutenant. Nevertheless, they cheered for the ones who were selected. They’re excited for tomorrow morning and look forward to playing with all their heart for either the Red or the Gray.
It was a fairly typical sweltering hot day in the 04055 — lots of waterfront action and shortened periods with plenty of shade time. The sprinklers were on (today they were elephants), and refreshing treats were served. Lemon Sticks are an annual popular surprise here. It’s half a lemon with a soft peppermint stick in the middle as a “straw”. Peppermint and lemon juice make a great combo.
It was the kinda day best suited for taking it slow, playing some board games and maybe sipping on a cold drink. When life gives you lemons, make lemonade…so we did. We had a case of them, so Lillie and Myke shook up some delicious ice-cold cupfuls.
Sky II Lobster Lunch today, over at the Lodge. There were big red lobsters, corn on the cob, chicken, salads and lots more. It’s something that the oldest of camp really look forward to.
What made today different is that it’s actually one of the most important of the entire year. If you ever went to Skylemar, then you’d know what we mean. Just after 7th period was what we’ve been chanting about for days —
COLOR WAR ELECTIONS 2024!
24 candidates in the Stars Division, each of the highest integrity… experienced, honest, intelligent, fair, compassionate and likable. If only our country had options like these!
Here’s how it happened…
We sat by Bunk in our most sacred space, the Rec Hall. This “house” holds the greatest guys in the whole wide world, as well as their amazing counselors.
Shep explained how our tradition holds that the participants in Color War are the ones to decide who leads both the Red and Gray teams. Each camper has two votes by secret ballot.
Skylemar’s Color War is based on the spirit of fair play and friendship. It’s perhaps one of the few times you’ll be competing hard both with and against those who you truly care about.
All competition happens outside of the cabin. Because the Captains draft by Division, it’s possible that brothers and close friends are on different teams. There could be one camper in a bunk on one team while the rest are on the other. It’s not an issue, because our Color War is kept out of the bunk.
Color War is the perfect opportunity to demonstrate Cool2Care. It’s natural to be happy when you win and disappointed when you lose, but the key is to not overreact. It’s fine to share your emotions, until you react so much that it affects someone else’s fun.
Shep explained that tonight we’ll be electing our two Captains. Each camper’s vote carries the same weight. He asked all former Captains from years past in the room to stand. Only a couple did so. Then he asked all who were on the ballot but did not become Captain to stand. Many did so. “This”, Shep announced, ”is your Skylemar honor roll”.
Those on the ballot voted first, then headed out to the Garden Cabin so the rest of camp could vote secretly. Once they left, each bunk was called to the stage where every camper wrote two names on a slip of paper, then dropped his ballot into the white pickle box.
After all had voted, Shep read the names on each ballot, one-by-one aloud. One more than half the total number of Color War participants was needed to win. Before long (in fact, it was the shortest Election in Skylemar history), we had our two Captains – Harry and Will Snyder. As each ran inside, he was mobbed by adoring fans.
It was also the first time in our history that identical twins were elected. Skylemar campers since the age of 8, we know that Will and Harry will be phenomenal leaders. And we’re confident that their wonderful mother in heaven is beaming with pride.
As the Stars all returned inside the Rec Hall, they moved to the back and “chained it up” (linking arms). The coin flips that followed determined the choice of color (Will is Red, Harry is Gray) as well as the order for selecting their Stars Lieutenants. Red chose Zane Black and Carson Ray while Gray selected Cosme and Jared Rosenblatt to help lead their teams.
It felt like there was a little less disappointment in the air on the part of the other Stars this year as compared to others. Of course, some had hopes that they would be chosen as Captain or a Lieutenant. But it’s hard to dispute the leadership potential of Harry and Will, and every Star will be proud to be on either team. After all, it’s the players who make it happen.
The Stars trip to Quebec was a tremendous success. There’s nothing like going to a new country with 24 of your closest friends for a few days. This is a trip that we’ve been taking for over 70 summers, and it never disappoints.
They saw the sights, shopped, ate, laughed and had adventures to remember forever. Many thanks to the staff who chaperoned this 15-year-old crew. Those of all ages were fantastic to be with.
Way to go, Bunks 16, 17 and 18. They spent the morning volunteering at the Bridgton Hospital. The Hospital has a vegetable garden that was in need of some TLC. We’re especially grateful for the Bridgton Hospital and try to do whatever we can to support their staff. They always take great care of those from Camp Skylemar.
Sebago Lake State Park and ice cream for the Cubs! Ice Skating for Bunks 11-15. Both were ideal excursions for such a hot day.
Lots of action at Trickey Pond all day long. Most exciting was celebrating Ethan K (Bunk 17) beating the Skylemar record for most laps swam in a season. He swam over 1,000 laps (1008 to be exact) which equals 14 miles! He had the crowd both in and out of the water cheering him on.
Those playing in the Skylemar Tennis Grand Slam did so despite the hot sun and humid air. U10 finished up this morning because the rain cut things short yesterday. In the quarters, both Max F and Federico saved match points against each other in the tiebreaker before Federico prevailed, then advanced to the final with a hard-fought semi win. But in the final, Diego (Bunk 8) proved he’s our top 10U players with his victory. The 14U Tourney began (and ended) today and saw the most evenly played matches thus far. However, Nate A swept through his side of the draw, then finished off the final in convincing fashion to claim the title.
Talent Show Part 2 tonight… lots of fun but s-o-o-o much different than the first.
If you recall, the first one was during Week 1 of camp. That’s when we were in the getting-comfortable part of the season, and it took bravery to get on the stage for the first time.
Five weeks later it’s more like a bunch of brothers performing in their own back yard. Even the guys who’ve only been here a couple of weeks jumped right in. No one was nervous, and no one thought twice about being in front of the group. In fact, there were so many interested in participating that Suzie had to put a cap on it — 34 acts… it was a long one!
Lots of group skits, where they ended up cracking up. Lots of sports tricks (soccer, lax, etc.) where mostly, they ended up cracking up. Good old magic tricks, burping, screaming, and regular older-kid silly stuff that they thought was hysterical. Max A drank 4 cups of water. Grady and Dash touched their noses with their tongues.
There was some real talent of course. Simon recited the digits of Pi. The crowd was blown away, and he won a staff shirt. Some of the guys sang songs which was great, and several played the piano or guitar. Best pianist is Asher for sure. He’s truly talented.
We love both Talent Shows, but this one was especially heart-warming. You could feel the strong connection between all of us. That’s what family’s about.
