By now just about all of our Skylemar eagles have landed. It’s a good feeling to know they are with those who love them most.
The early morning was a roller coaster of emotion here. Exhausted boys, men and women hugged and cried, knowing it would be a long time before seeing each other again. Those who were new this summer had no idea they could ever become so close with friends from across the country and abroad.
On the other hand, the boys also knew that joy was around the corner. Soon they would be leaping into the arms of the greatest parents in the world. At home was a real bed, probably air conditioning, a favorite meal, and yes, video games.
The home/camp relationship is one that brings about some good stuff. We miss each other on both ends and appreciate the little things more. Most of all, we learn that people matter most, far more than the things we have.
Knowing that our practically perfect boys are safe and sound will help this Blog writer to potentially get some sleep tonight. Lots of tears have fallen from these eyes as well, especially when any one of them responded on cue with “I love you, too.” Who needs sleep when you’ve got that kind of energy drink?
The countdown is on. Just 323 days until Skylemar 2023!
Forever Grateful Friday. It’s our last day together in 2022 as one Skylemar family.
We talked a lot about gratitude today, to make sure that no one forgot how fortunate we are. It was touching to see how everyone enjoyed each other’s company more than ever, and even petty disagreements disappeared.
The boys wrote heartfelt notes at the Appreciation Station, which we’ll send to counselors after camp. We even encouraged the boys to send an email home, especially if they had something special to say. After all, without you they wouldn’t be here.
Perhaps the most grateful of all is this camp director. Thank you to our amazing parents for having the faith in us to share your precious son. This honor is always in the forefront of our minds.
Thank you to the tremendous staff for doing everything possible to make sure each boy was loved and well-cared for this summer. You are our “secret sauce” that keeps Skylemar stronger than ever.
And thank you to my Color War ghost-writer and editor, Aaron Fink. Only a best friend would stay up till 2 AM each night to correct grammatical errors.
Most of all, thank you to the greatest collection of guys in the whole wide world. We love you to the Sky and back!
For the past week, the boys had laid it all on the line…. extending themselves perhaps beyond what anyone including themselves ever thought they could. When they awoke this morning, there was a quiet tension in the air. The end was near, the victory for half the camp was oh so close; and yet, so were the emotions that were sure to spill out for the other half. But who, which team would celebrate, and who would feel the agony of defeat? Red held the lead for the past 2 days, but Gray continued to chip away, and was poised to make their last run for the gold.
When the morning activities began, Gray jumped right back in it when their Tigers dispatched the Red golfers winning 6 of 8 matches, and their Sophomores won the first Soccer game over at the Hejduk, 6-0. Like they have all week, Red again fought back the Gray surge by winning another Bocce match that went down to the last throw of a deadlocked decisive final game; then put the finishing touches on a clean 2-0 Freshman Hockey game shutout. Red then won the Upper Court Stars Basketball game before Gray answered with a comeback win on the Lower Court. News from the Hejduk spread quick when Red won the 2nd Sophomores Soccer game and Seniors Tennis. Gray was reeling a bit but salvaged a late inning tie in the Cubs Baseball game at the Freddie Pierce to stay close. Any morning move toward the lead hung on the Juniors Football outcome, and eventually, after Red staged a nearly miraculous comeback, Gray did prevail, and the stage was set.
Five days of exhilarating action, spectacular plays, dazzling skills, acrobatic saves, offensive firepower, stalwart defense, great shot-making, buzzer-beaters and last second heroics were just part of the story this week. Most impressive were the daily displays of outstanding teamwork, exemplary leadership and all-around great sportsmanship that have become the fabric of Skylemar sports – it’s what we do!
And it all came down to this – the greatest closing act in all of sports competitions: Tugs of War.
The sweltering heat meant the delay of the most cherished tradition of Color War. The hope was that the pulsating sun would be a bit less unforgiving after 4pm. Nevertheless, the adults who devoted much of their summer to sunscreening withheld the spray, so as not to be the blame for slippery hands. Each and every Skylemar boy was fully focused on one thing only – winning his Tug.
The line of judges and photographers stood at attention across the Snow Field, as the teams entered the arena to join them. Shep welcomed all, and paid tribute to Captains Jack and Grant. They both led the Camp in a positive way, with honor, pride, care and class.
One Division at a time, the two teams are called to the rope. The determined team members aligned in formation when Shep bellowed, “Tuggers to the rope!” They grabbed, locked down their fists, the whistle blew and….
“PULL!”, the crowd screamed. “PULL!”, the Lieutenant shouted as he leapt up and down the line of tuggers.
And they pulled! Faces clenched, muscles popped, minds laser-focused on pulling harder than what they thought was humanly possible. Some wailed with primal strength. Their feet dug firmly in the ground with the resolve that they would …not…get…pulled…over that line….
The whistle blared a 2nd time, signaling each tug’s winner. The victorious jumped and cheered with joy. The defeated slumped back to their team sadly, nevertheless greeted with consoling high-fives.
From Cubs through the Stars, round 1 was done (to win, it’s two out of three). Red needed just two more Tugs to win the 2nd time through…AND THEY DID IT! RED wins Color War 2022!
The Red Men were ecstatic! They leaped into each other’s arms, happier than they could ever imagine. They had worked so hard and got the win they had hoped for!
But oh, the Gray. Many were stunned, shell-shocked, and some fell to the ground in tears. They worked so hard too but did not get the win they had hoped for.
The disappointment did not go unnoticed by Red. They turned to their Gray brothers with outstretched hands and heartfelt hugs. The Captains embraced and everyone headed to Trickey Pond to wash away the competition.
Our waters truly are magical. After jumping into the lake with friends, Skylemar is one! We now bleed both Red and Gray, just as a band of brothers should.
The weather stayed steamy hot, right through our beloved Waterfront Ceremony. The Captains led the torch-lit procession, adding each cabin to the line along the way as we walked silently down to Trickey. It was an enchanting setting at the Waterfront, with a spectacularly-colored bonfire in the middle of the lake.
Shep and the Captains spoke, reminding all to be grateful for those at home and here who made this Skylemar summer possible. Thinking about others is also what our Wishing Boats are all about. Our tradition holds that if you place one in the lake and make a wish for someone other than yourself, it just might come true. See, the water really is magical.
But this time, Mother Nature had other plans. Although the heat-lightning was far in the distance, the winds whipped up, and we thought it best to head back to the cabins. Meanwhile, Blake and his crew delivered pizza and treats to all. The ceremony may have been cut short, but an “in-the-bunk” party was a happy way to “play the cards we were dealt”. It was a fantastic night no matter what!
Moving Day. In the Golf world, it’s the day of jockeying for position – putting yourself within striking distance of the lead for that final push to the top on the last day of the event. In our world, it’s the 4th day of Color War – where the team that’s ahead tries to cement its position on top, and the chaser pulls out all the stops to keep the lead in sight and stands ready to pounce when opportunity knocks. Tonight’s Songs and Cheers competition would provide that opportunity. But before we got there, here’s what happened on the fields, courts and in the water today…
The Red Cubs swept a pair of Football games, then followed up with a dominating win in Sophomores Tennis. Gray, resilient as ever, responded in kind with a big win in Tigers Lacrosse and another in Stars Golf to keep it close.
In the Bocce Garden’s most exciting match of the week, Gray held 2-0 and 4-3 leads (needing 5 to win), before Red came back with some deftly placed shots with the match on the line to eke out a 5-4 Stars Bocce win.
Gray came right back again by stroking their way to a Freshmen Waterfront victory down at Trickey and were poised to make their move. But again, Red pushed back, winning Juniors Softball on the Fred Pierce Field, 7-2, then watched outstanding goalkeeper Jacob N make one spectacular save after another to preserve a 2-0 shutout victory in Seniors Soccer over at the Hejduk. Red continued to hold on as we headed for lunch, but Gray was lurking….
After lunch, then another chance for the teams to polish up their show for tonight’s critical Songs and Cheers (and a bit of needed R&R time in the bunks as well), the boys went right back out to do battle again.
And battle they did…right down to the final whistle of the afternoon. Red continued to set the tone with afternoon wins in Cubs Soccer, Freshmen Baseball and Juniors Golf and Bocce. But not only was Gray undeterred, they rattled off victories in Tigers Tennis, both Sophomores Lacrosse games and Seniors Basketball.
With most activities complete, many of the teams’ participants found themselves camped out around a triple-header of Stars Hockey action at the Rink, a Stanley Cup atmosphere around our biggest guys. The teams had split the first two games, leaving Stars Hockey and the afternoon’s results hanging on every slapshot, breakaway or save…. until finally, with just 5 seconds to go, Harry H netted the game winner, giving Gray the afternoon and the momentum they sought as we headed to Songs and Cheers.
The impact of tonight’s performances could not be ignored with 8 full points at stake – enough to alter the entire complexion of this Color War, as it has numerous times over the past 73 years. It’s a night which bears the fruit of many long hours of preparation and 6 rehearsal sessions, culminating in what each team hopes will be a performance for the ages.
There are 6 requirements in the set, each weighted (not equally) to make up the 8 available points… a Team Cheer, Camp Cheer, Team Fight Song, Old Camp Song, Original Camp Song and Production Number.
Dressed appropriately in team colors, both teams brought the same emotional intensity to the stage as they’ve shown us all week. The boys poured their hearts out, singing proudly (and loudly), hoping to impress Judges Barney, Blake and Matisi…first the Gray, followed by Red. Somehow, they overcame the vocal strain of the past 4 days and gave us two memorable performances. When it was all over, Shep announced the judges’ final scoring decision, 4 ½ – 3 ½ in favor of Red.
The finish line was in sight, but this story has plenty left to be told…Stay tuned!
Another spectacular Maine day greeted the teams this morning, but for the first time, Red had slept on a lead. However, Gray was brimming with confidence and encouraged their gang to keep up the effort, assuring them that the tide would turn their way today.
And so it did, but not before Red jumped out quickly this morning by sweeping Cubs Golf and Bocce. Our two youngest golf prodigies, Red’s Eli W and Gray’s Ethan V went to the last hole all square in an epic match before Eli holed out for the win. Then Red carried Sophomores Waterfront as well, and Gray had dug themselves a bit of a morning hole.
Over on the Hockey rink, Ben K was impenetrable in net as Red won the first game 1-0. Max S had the lone tally. Red then scored late to answer a pair of first half goals by Gray’s DeFran to forge a tie, securing Seniors Hockey for Red.
If you thought Gray might roll over, you thought wrong. At SkyHoops in the Tigers Division, Gray dominated one game, then put on a furious late rally behind Asher’s relentless defense to comeback from 8 points down in the other, and hand Gray Tigers Basketball.
And it didn’t stop there. Gray then swept both Freshman Football games, with Jordan H starring on both sides of the ball. At the Tennis courts at both Sky I and II, again the individual singles and doubles matches were split, but this time Gray won the Skills competition and with it, the point for Juniors Tennis.
To top off the rally over at the Hejduk, Gray came back from an early deficit to win the first Stars Lacrosse game, then watched several talented players from both sides display some fantastic lacrosse acumen in the 2nd. Ultimately, Austin K was the difference in the cage, stopping multiple one-on-one fast break opportunities to preserve Grays’ 5-3 win.
We had reached the halfway point – Red still had the lead, but Gray had climbed a bit closer with lots of War left to compete.
Lunch, Songs and Cheers practice, and then the boys went at it again …
The Stars found themselves down at Trickey, where Gray inched even closer with a resounding victory in the Pond. Red then rattled off a few of their own with a pair of Juniors Hockey wins in the Rink, led by Jacob R’s 4 goal outburst.
In Seniors Lacrosse over at the Hejduk, there was just too much Tosh (6 goals) for Gray as Red rolled 9-3, then followed with another solid outing on the Links, winning Freshmen Golf.
Gray then won Freshmen Bocce to hold Red at bay before Red bounced back, breaking open a halftime tie with a wild 2nd half shootout and a 9-7 win in Tigers Soccer down on the Snow Field.
Again Gray answered, this time with a wonderful effort by their Cubs, who aced their way to a big win in Cubs Tennis. Every time Red began to pull away, Gray answered…until being swept in a trio of Sophomores Basketball contests to close the day. Red won easily in the Gym while Charlie H was leading them in scoring to win a close one on the Lower Court. Finally, to complete the sweep in the closest Hoops game to date, Nathan A let fly a 30+’ heave at the buzzer, burying the 3-pointer to win Game 3 on the Upper Court, and send the accumulated Red faithful into a wild on-court celebration.
Red had taken command …. and all needed a break from the non-stop action and exhilaration that came along with it. What better way to do so then to sit back under the beautiful, moonlit Maine sky and enjoy another of Drama Director Suzie’s productions, an all-time classic – The Wizard of Oz.
We’re especially proud of the four Dorothy’s, Scarecrows, Tin Men, Lions and the rest of the cast. Here’s why…
Despite their passion for Color War, even with the demands of being an involved teammate, these guys somehow fit in the time to rehearse and learn lines. They set the bar higher for all of us. Way to go!
Aunt Em – Eli W
Uncle Henry – Isaac F
Miss Gulch – Jake M
Wicked Witch – Eli D
Glinda – Owen S
Oz – Ethan R
Toto 1,2 – Nolan B, Lionel
Dorothy 1,2,3,4 – Mason, Hayes, Asher, Ethan V
Scarecrow 1,2,3,4 – Teddy S, Lucas, Max P, KJ
Tinman 1,2,3,4 – Cole, Will G, Ethan K, Cooper E
Lion 1,2,3 – Sawyer, Jonathan F, Jagger
Lullaby League – Henry M. Lucas V, Tommy W
Munchkins & Flying Monkeys – Will G, Owen B, Ka’Mari, Elliott R, Noah K
After battling to a Day 1 draw, both teams were determined to get the upper hand today. In the pre-game “psych up” meetings, Red and Gray leaders implored their guys to reach down a little deeper today and continue to give their all. Both were more than satisfied with yesterday’s efforts and confident in their team’s ability to jump out front this morning, and hopefully get control of this Color War.
And the Red Stars did just that. Their bevy of talented racket men made short work of the Gray in dominating Stars Tennis. When Nate F scored in the first 2 minutes of the first Tigers Hockey game on the way to a 4-1 win, it looked like Red was making a move. But Gray won the 2nd game 3-0 to stall any advantage and split the Tigers Hockey point. Of special note though was a Herculean effort in the cage by Wes K who made more than a few spectacular saves to keep his squad in it till the end.
The Red Freshmen are loaded with laxers, and it showed, sweeping a pair of games over at the Hejduk. In Game 1, Mason and TI each hit the net 6 times, but it was Reed S feeding them, with 8 assists to go along with a pair of his own goals. Jordan G led the way in Game 2 as Red cruised.
Gray responded in a big way, hammering the Red in Seniors Softball 11-1, displaying several outstanding web-gems in the process. Speaking of highlight-reel plays, Max B made a superlative catch in one of the Sophomores Football games which ended in a 26-all tie, leaving the whole point up for grabs on the Bunkline field contest. Back and forth they went until Bodin’s TD with less than a minute left won it 44-40, and secured Sophomores Football for Gray.
When word of Red’s first win down at Trickey Pond in Juniors Waterfront made it up the hill (Logan and Joseph made a great double kayak team), the only event left to be finished was over on the Hoops Courts.
It’s always great when our littlest guys provide the most exciting contests, and today, their trio of Basketball games just added to the lore. Gray won the Upper Court game by a deuce, holding off a furious comeback effort by Red, who then rebounded by coasting to a win at the Gym. With most of the other divisions complete, spectators from both sides engulfed the Lower Hoops Court to watch the finish of the 3rd and point-determining Cubs game. Down a point with seconds to play, the ball found its way into Tavi’s hands, who calmly turned and sank the game winner. Chants of “Tavi, Tavi” resounded among the Red faithful as they swarmed the court and hoisted him in the air, elated with the victory that put Red ahead as the morning activities closed.
After a break for lunch, the teams used rest hour to gather for the first of 6 Songs and Cheers practices in preparation for the penultimate Color War night activity (more on that coming in Day 4).
The afternoon dramatics were even better. Roars could be heard from Trickey Pond to Sky II and every place in between.
The Cubs, fresh off the excitement of this morning’s Hoops finish, split a pair of Lacrosse games. In the first, Red dominated with Chase leading the scoring attack. Then Beckett proved to quite the stopper, making several incredible saves to help Gray win the second, 5-3.
Red then swept a pair of double-header Soccer division matches with two wins each on both at Sky I and II. At the Hejduk, Alvaro and Bosco controlled the action in Game 1, then watched Tyler score 3 times in the other, combining for two dominant wins in Stars Soccer. On the Snow Field, Spencer M scored the game winner to offset a pair of tallies by Max F to win 3-2 in the first match. Then 5 different players scored second half goals in Game 2 for the Red to win Freshmen Soccer.
As dominant as Red has been in Soccer, it seems Gray loves the Waterfront! Another win, this time capturing all 3 elements as the Gray Tigers swam, paddled and skied to victory down at Trickey.
Then Gray swept all 3 Basketball games to win Juniors Hoops — and remain within striking distance of the lead. The Sophomores had a Baseball double dip, with one game on the Freddie, and the other over at the Sky II diamond. Pitching from both squads dominated the Fred Pierce game, with Brody, Isaac C and Noah K seemingly unhittable, ending in a scoreless tie. Over at Sky 2, Ollie smashed a 2-run homer, leading the Red to an 8-4 win, and the point for Sophomores Baseball.
By this time, the crowd had ballooned around the Bunkline gridiron for an incredibly tight nip and tuck Seniors Football game. With just under a minute left, the score was tied, but Red was knocking at the door. Four tries from inside the 5-yard line were thwarted by the stout Gray D, giving them the ball back with 30 seconds left. But after a pick on 1st down, Red had the ball back at midfield, with barely enough time for just a couple of plays. After no gain on 1st down and a quick timeout, Red QB Sam heaved a “Hail Mary” pass toward the end zone. Gray’s defender tipped and batted the ball away…. before Theo came out of nowhere to make Skylemar’s version of the Immaculate Reception — a spectacular, diving, fingertip catch with the football just inches from hitting the ground. Theo was mobbed by his teammates and the delirious Red spectators – and gave us the most amazing, gut-wrenching, wild finish we’ve seen thus far. And more importantly, another point for Red, who have now seized the lead.
Whew! Day 2 was in the books…. can’t wait for more tomorrow!
Last night, while all were asleep, the Captains drafted the Color War teams for 2022. It’s a complex and strategic process, with intentional decisions made with one goal in mind…to win. Commissioner Shep oversees, but he plays no role in the selections.
Following the Draft, the magic happened. Long past midnight, the Captains and their assistants “pinned” the pillows of their teammates with the appropriately-colored ribbon. The significance of this tiny slice of Red or Gray fabric is something that only a Skylemar camper or alum truly understands.
A few tried to stay up, but like with the Tooth Fairy, most knew it wise to go to sleep. That’s because in the morning, there’s a fantastic surprise to find.
Beginning at sunrise we heard them shouting, “I’m on Red!”, “I’m on Gray!”, “What team are you on?” — over and over and over… as energetic and exciting as the first day of camp, and way before reveille had sounded.
Red & Gray Breakfast Buffet – the meal everyone’s been waiting for all summer! The Sky Chefs and their assistants put on a huge spread of eggs, bacon, sausage, French toast sticks, hash browns, muffins, cinnamon rolls, bagels, and an enormous fresh-cut fruit salad. It’s a delicious way to kick off Color War 2022!
After breakfast and the usual morning inspection, and with another spectacular Maine weather day in store… “Gray Team to the Mail House, Red Team to the Pine Grove” – the anticipated call for the official opening finally came. The teams gathered for the first of several pre-session “psych up” meetings, where each team surrounded its leaders. Inside the circles, words and cheers of inspiration and encouragement came pouring out of each Captain and his Stars support staff before all headed down to the Fred Pierce Field, home to the traditional opening event, the Stars Softball game.
After a few formalities, Umpire Shep bellowed “Play Ball!” as Red took the field (Chilltop Director Mary Beth threw the ceremonial first pitch). It didn’t take long for Gray to jump out front when 3rd hitter Soren tattooed the first pitch he saw high into the left center field trees with a man on for a quick 2-0 lead. In the bottom half though, Red’s Isaac G led off with a homer of his own before Captain Jack blasted one well up in the treetops behind the left field fence to tie it up 2-2. Eventually Red pulled away for an 11-5 victory, although Caleb W also went deep for Gray. After the first inning was complete, all participants scattered to venues all over camp to begin the 5 days of Red v Gray Divisional play.
The Cubs had a pair of games at the Hockey courts – James T scored twice in a 3-0 win in one game, while Alex K tallied the lone goal for a 1-0 game 2 win, both for the Red.
Down at Trickey, the Seniors split the Boating and Skiing portions, but the Swim meet races decided the Waterfront point for Gray.
Tigers Football went to Gray as well, with Hayes doing much of the damage both running and throwing it. However, in Sophomores Golf and Bocce, Red duffers won 5 of the 8 matches on the SkyLinks to win Golf…before Gray outlasted Red in a Bocce match that went back and forth till the end.
The Freshmen played a Basketball triple-header. Each team won a game played on the Sky I Hoops courts (JJ was terrific in one and Coop E starred in the other), but Red survived a Game 3 thriller in the gym to win Frosh Basketball, the difference being a half-court, 3-point field goal by Ben W…Wow!
The Soccer action over at the Hejduk was as impressive as we’ve seen all summer. In a pair of Juniors contests, Red stormed back from 3-1 halftime deficit to win the first game 5-3 in an extremely well-played match; then Gray answered back when Ben G provided all the offense needed in a hard-fought 1-0 victory.
The boys then broke for lunch with Red on top, and after a much-needed rest hour, the afternoon session moved them had them moving again.
Gray might be establishing some control down at the Waterfront as their Cubs won Gray’s second point of the day there. After Red won the Swim Meet part and Gray took the Kayak Races, it took Jacob W’s winning ski run to decide it.
Gray followed up with wins in both Seniors Golf and Bocce to draw even. And then they took the lead with a win in the first of two Juniors Lax games over at Sky II, where twins Harry and Will showed their overall lacrosse prowess in all facets of the game. But Red quickly responded in a low scoring, defensive battle to win Game 2 and split Juniors Lacrosse.
Orlando pitched the Gray to a 4-1 victory in Tigers Baseball on the Freddie Pierce with Jagger providing the key, late inning hit to break a 1-1 deadlock. On the Hockey courts, Soph Will O scored a hat-trick as Gray cruised to a 5-1 win in the first of 3 games. Then, after the teams dueled to a scoreless tie in the 2nd, Red won Game 3 to split Sophomores Hockey as well.
Each team won a Stars football game too. Red came from behind to win on the Bunkline field, but Malibu threw for 6 TDs and ran for a few more to outlast Red in a high-scoring affair on the Rec Hall gridiron.
And finally, the most spirited contest of the day came from the Sky 2 Tennis courts of all places. After the Freshmen had split the singles and doubles matches over at Sky I, all hustled over to watch the Skills competition on the Har-Tru courts at Sky 2 to decide it. All could hear the cheers from everywhere as the Red crowd erupted when Tennis Director Ted announced the final results in their favor.
Tonight’s annual Ping Pong competition was still left to be played. An exciting evening under the Pavilion lights surrounded by spectators and a wonderful, upbeat but casual vibe felt in the surrounding casual environment (think music, Garden games, and great camaraderie from both sides). Red won some early matches to surge ahead, and eventually held on to win the Ping Pong point.
Great plays, great action and excitement, great competitive spirit and great fun. Incredibly, after all that activity, we’re deadlocked, the score is tied, dead even….and this was only Day 1!
This goes out to the concerned parents of the Stars who did not get elected Captain:
And also…
To the parents of any camper who has ever experienced a blow of disappointment, especially when you think he didn’t deserve it:
Your son is good to go, and he’s better for the experience in the long run. Just ask anyone of the 1,500 grown men on our alumni roster who were not selected.
Here’s what happened last night after the Captains were congratulated…
The 21 Stars who didn’t get chosen were bummed. A couple were stunned or maybe even angry – they were supposed to win. A few were heart broken, at least for now. Some were relieved that the decision was over with.
As they shuffled in, it was a round of “bro hugs” (dap in front + quick embrace) for all. The 223 brothers and 131 staff members surrounded them with love, with most having at least some understanding of how it might feel when things don’t go your way at an important time. The Stars who were disappointed swallowed back tears and carried on with carrying on.
They stayed to clean up the room, carrying benches and picking up trash. Physical activity, especially when you can keep your eyes down, is helpful when you need to sort out emotions.
Heading back to Sky II, many walked together arm-and-arm. They laughed and joked, added a bit of teenage sarcasm, and perhaps talked about things going as expected or conversely how they should have gone.
Bottom line…they bounced back.
Psychologists call it a “coping mechanism”. The writers of articles on parenting call it “resilience”. We look at as “learning to play the cards that you’re dealt”.
We’re never too old or young for exercising our “disappointment muscle”.
Most importantly, those who were not elected will learn a powerful life-lesson over the next 5 days.
That is…You don’t need a title to be a leader.
Think about it. In politics, it’s often the cabinet members and staff who make it happen. In the workplace, sometimes the CEO or chairperson is more of a figurehead than a motivator. In sports, the unsung hero is just about always the most valuable on the team.
Today at lunch the Captains will announce who they’ve selected as Lieutenants for each Division. Again, some boys will be disappointed. The adults watching will cringe when the same top athletes who were chosen last year get picked again. Why not give someone else a chance, we’ll wonder? We will be the ones disappointed when we believe that a poor decision was made by the Captains.
Then we remember…you don’t need a title to be the leader of the team.
There was a buzz of excitement in all directions. Everywhere you turned someone was talking about it… the special event they’ve been waiting for all summer.
At Skylemar, it’s bigger than any mayoral, gubernatorial or presidential one — no electoral college and no party affiliation. It’s democracy as it should be. Just plain and simple — vote for two young men in the Stars Division who will lead Skylemar in a positive way.
It’s Color War Elections 2022!
This year, 23 outstanding candidates on the ballot, every one fully qualified for this leadership position. It’s the job many have dreamt about since being in Bunk 1. Each had hope that maybe, just maybe, he’d be selected by the camper community to be the 147th or 148th Captain of Camp Skylemar.
To ease the tension, Sky II and the JC’s had their annual Lobster Lunch at The Lodge. It’s a happy, relaxed afternoon, that serves to remind the guys of the special bond of friendship they have together.
At 8 PM, the official time had come. We gathered in the Rec Hall, with those on The Ballot sitting on the stage. Each proudly wore his jersey of choice, selected especially for this evening.
Shep welcomed all to one of Skylemar’s oldest and favorite traditions. For Skylemar’s Color War, it is important that the participants are the ones to decide who will lead them.
Shep continued to explain that Color War is unique from any highly competitive experience that the boys will have throughout their lives — and that’s because they will compete with and against those who they truly care for, including the “brothers” they’ve been living with….
Therefore, everything competitive in Color War happens outside of the bunk and away from the picnic tables. It’s fine for you to play your hardest and want to win, but no one needs to overreact. Of course it’s fine to react when you win or lose, but you don’t want to overreact. Where’s the dividing line on that? That’s when your reaction affects someone else.
The spirit of Red and Gray comes down to fair play, friendship and kindness.
Once elected, the Captains will draft the teams. Brothers and good friends may be on opposite teams. It’s possible that within one cabin, there might be five guys on one team and only one on the other. That’s what makes Color War so competitive, fun and fair – the adults have nothing to do with who’s on which team.
Shep then asked for any former Color War Captains present to please stand. Two staff members, Dixon and Blake rose to their feet and were recognized with applause.
“Now,” Shep went on, “will all those who were on The Ballot but not elected, please stand?” It’was quite a powerful moment when dozens around the room stood. Point is, each year there’s a field of outstanding choices, while only two can be elected.
Turning to the great guys on the stage, Shep proclaimed — “Camp Skylemar, these are your candidates for Color War 2022!”
To begin the process, the Stars casted their secret ballots, then headed off to the seclusion of the Garden Cabin while the rest of camp continued. Each camper wrote the names of two Stars Division candidates on the official voting paper. The paper was then folded once and put into the ceremonial pickle pail.
To be elected, a Star needed one more than half of the constituency. This year’s “magic number” was 113. One by one, Shep read off each name who received a vote. When one got to 100, the room heated up. Closer, closer, closer…5, 4, 3, 2, 1 and —
Jack Perlman was the first elected Captain! The boys jumped up and down, cheering wildly as they mobbed him at the door!
The crowd subsided, and the tallies continued for the second Captain until he closed in — again, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1…
Grant Nilsen was elected next and he too was engulfed with hugs and high fives from all over as he reentered the Rec Hall as our 2nd Color War Captain.
Jack and Grant each gave a quick acceptance speech, and then the coin was flipped for color selection. Grant won the toss and chose Gray, so Jack became Red. The coin toss for selecting the 4 Stars Lieutenants was next, and Jack won this one, choosing to select 1st and 4th — and with the first pick selected Bosco to help lead the Red. Grant selecting 2nd and 3rd, chose Soren and Hunter for Gray before Jack then selected Joey to complete the process.
What a night! Two excellent choices were made by the campers of Skylemar. The excitement has just begun!
The Maine Wildlife Park was a fascinating place for the Freshmen to visit. The park is home for injured and orphaned animals that game wardens have determined can’t survive in the wild. The boys saw bear, moose, deer, cougar, lynx, coyote, bobcat, fisher and skunk. The last one reminded us of the time Shep’s bunk got skunked. That was an unforgettable morning.
Tigers headed to Portland for lobster fishing! The crew on the Lucky Catch was amazing with our guys. They taught them how to bait and toss the traps, and then how to pull in the lobsters. The kids were mesmerized by the process and had a fantastic time.
The JC’s left at 6:30 AM and headed to Acadia National Park. They hiked from Thunder Hole (a natural wonder where waves crash into rocks with a thunderous boom) to Sand Beach. They spent time on Cadillac Mountain, which is the first place in the US that you can see the sunrise. Once down, they explored the town of Bar Harbor.
An afternoon Sebago Lake State Park trip made if for an hour, and then came along the thunderstorm warning. We didn’t want to take any chances, so left the beach and instead made some stops in the little town of Naples. A treat from C’s Ice Cream Stand is especially delicious. The “C” stands for Cole, the nephew of the owner who’s an awesome Skylemar camper.
The rain unfortunately stalled our 14U Tennis Camp Championship, with over 120 guys entered to play. That’s quite a testament to Ted, the greatest Tennis Director in the world, along with his outstanding staff. They make tennis periods exciting and fun, and tremendous improvement takes place over the summer.
The storm brought some boomers, but no issues at all. We did have to stay in cabins for a bit, and dinner was delayed…. that just made the grilled chicken extra tasty. Staying indoors also gave time for each bunk to work on their entry for tonight’s Evening Activity — Lip-Sync Battle.
Each cabin picked a song to perform. We turned the Pavilion into theatre-in-the-round and laughed hysterically along with each lip-synced performance. Tonight demonstrated good old-fashioned fun, along with counselor creativity and dedication. It warmed the heart to see how hard these college guys and gals worked to make sure each of their kids shined in the spotlight. Just a one-minute song, but these are the minutes of joy that count forever.
As they say, “One more day! One more day!”. Tomorrow it is!
No matter how much experience one has as a parent or camp director, there are always surprises. At Skylemar, each season is unique, with new reasons to celebrate and challenges to figure out.
On the other hand, some things never change. Kids will always want to be loved and valued, and adults will forever be frustrated that “they just don’t listen”.
Fads come and go, and we’re always surprised when some last longer than others. Rubik’s cubes, sports trading cards and Crocs have stuck around longer than expected, while the fascination with a counselor’s cell phone has definitely dwindled.
When it comes to working with kids, we learn lessons every day. Over the years we’ve compiled a list of random suggestions that we’re confident are good for the world of parenting. Take ‘em or leave ‘em…
Play and let him play. The real kind, not virtual. Outside, creatively, traditionally. Can’t think of much good that screens bring to the parenting table.
Speaking of tables…have dinner together every night when you can. One meal for all, or help yourself to cereal or PB&J. Play “roses & thorns” (name 2 good things and one not so good about the day) or something that gets everyone talking.
Manners matter. It’s never ok to be disrespectful to anyone including siblings and you.
Say “no”, “not now” and “let me get back to you”. They’ll still love you; we promise.
Laugh at your mistakes together…like the time we made lemon chicken and it was too lemony.
Talk to your kids with the lights out at bedtime. In addition to stories, it’s also a good time for “what if” scenarios for the purpose of building confidence for the day ahead.
Simple traditions are fun. Appetizer night, a birthday sign, a secret handshake, etc. Celebrate people!
Remember the double standard — if you don’t want him on his screen, then put yours away too.
Two important words that every kid should understand: “unacceptable” and “inappropriate”. Save them for when you really need them.
Resist the urge to help with homework or projects more than just a tiny bit. He’s the one who’s being educated, and that includes getting it wrong.
Let them feel bored. Let them not like something. Let them feel bad. Kids need to know how to handle these feelings and what to do about them.
Do community service together. It’s a wonderful thing to share.
Kids might believe everything they hear, but that doesn’t mean we should believe everything they say.
Forget about time limits when it comes to correction. If you decide to take something away, give it back when he’s proven that he’s ready, not for a certain amount of time. You decide.
The 3 steps of an apology: Feel sorry, say you’re sorry, do something to show you’re sorry.
Say “I love you” over and over and never give up. That’s the easiest of all.
The camp chanted at every meal…”3 more days! 3 more days!” Tomorrow it will be two more. Then just one. And then…. stay tuned!
Meanwhile, it was a sparkling, sunshiny Maine day here in the 04055. Temps were hot, but with far less humidity.
67 participants in the 16U Tennis Camp Championship! Tennis Director Ted was thrilled with the level of play. Outstanding players included Aaron P, Caleb W, Grant N, Jack P, Jacob R, Sam M, Cosme, Holden F, Sam D, Eli K, James E, Toby, Leo D, Gaines and Charlie F. Bosco and Alex N met in an impressive final with Alex prevailing to become Camp Champ. The 14U tourney is set for Thursday, with nearly half the camp signed up to compete!
Sophomores had their Bones Adventure that started with FunZ Trampoline Park in Lewiston. After jumping for a couple of hours, they headed over to Bates College for lunch. They had a blast scrimmaging on the football field …with big props to Max N, who won the field goal kicking contest.
The Tigers enjoyed an afternoon at Sebago Lake State Park. The water’s shallow, so it’s perfect for tossing a ball or Frisbee. Plus, it’s fun to be a band of brothers in public once in a while.
Back at camp there was League Hoops and just about every other sport. The fishermen record for caught fish in a session over at the Sky II waterfront has now risen to 29! We wonder…is the same one getting caught over and over?
Lots of interesting conversation at Gentleman’s Academy. One of the topics covered was the difference between “bullying” vs “not nice”. The group came to the conclusion that it’s never ok to not be nice, but it happens when you live together. One person might let something roll off their back, while another takes “joking” personally. Somebody might “push someone’s buttons”, which can definitely be mean. Sometimes the person who occasionally teases gets really upset when it’s their turn to be teased.
On the other hand, “bullying” is a much bigger deal. That’s when a person with more power targets someone weaker, over and over. If this ever happens it’s our responsibility to stand up and set things straight, no matter where we are.
The guys also had some thoughts about screen time. They were asked to pretend that they were in charge. After building a daily schedule together, they decided no screen time during the week is best, unless it’s homework. Weekends should be as much as they want, outside of sports and playing outside. It’s always fascinating to ask them “what would you do” questions.
Seniors and Stars had a Social tonight, with real, live girls from a nearby camp. They hung out on the Ski Dock, and those who wished went for boat rides. From what we saw, our guys were perfect gentlemen.
It was a stormy start to the day. After Inspection, we moved into Rainy Day Activities. There was a Karaoke Party in the Lodge, Lego Land in the Gym, and a movie in the Rec Hall. The oldest guys had “bunk games”, which is the code word for “sleep”.
The skies cleared by midday, just in time for our sisters at Camp Mataponi to visit. They stayed for lunch, and their brothers gave them a tour of Skylemar. Meanwhile, our boys with sisters at Camp Fernwood went out for ice cream. For those of you with daughters at either of the two camps, rest assured that we found them to be beautiful and happy!
Just before dinner, long after the girls left, a giant storm blew in… lots of thunder and lightning. In fact, the flagpole in front of the office took a direct hit. The electricity went out, but we have a couple of giant generators that kicked on immediately. Amazingly, the storm left as quick as it came. We were even able to have our Talent Show outside as planned.
Like the first Talent Show, the audience was appreciative and supportive. Everyone cheered no matter what, and there were rounds of “high fives” for all the performers. Plus there was a prize from the Super Prize Bag for each who went on stage.
What’s different about this Talent Show is the slight shift in the vibe. Now that we’ve been brothers for a month, no one has the slightest hesitation about performing in front of the crowd. After all, we’re family.
Ethan V opened the show with breakdancing. Next came Sawyer and Chase with their exercise skit. Best part was Sawyer cracking up. Charlie L and Wes K played a duet on the piano -“Heart & Soul”, of course. Henry G gave us a Skylemar first… blindfolded Origami. Cutest part was that he duct-taped the inside of his sunglasses (hopefully not Ray-Bans) so that he couldn’t see.
Carter S and Mason M wore matching Skylemar uniforms as they sang together. They looked and sounded great. Theo G, Atticus and Jake K mesmerized us with diabolo tricks. Very impressive! Isaac F asked a volunteer from the audience to give him three random words which he’d include in his freestyle rap. Kareem gave him “hot”, “random”, and “blue”, and… he did it!
Kudos to counselor Tojo for choreographing an adorable dance for Bunk 1. Cutest part of this one was seven-year-old Beckett saying, “We’ve got this, guys!” to his bunkmates as they headed to “the green room” (the side porch).
Cooper F, Archie, TI and Spencer B acted out a dunk contest. Brothers Eli and Noah W sang beautifully to “What A Wonderful World”. Jonah K and Everett played the piano beautifully, and Owen B and Lionel did a super-quick baseball handshake.
Rubik’s Cubes continue to make a showing at the Talent Show, year after year. Tonight, Dillon F showed his Rubik’s talent, and James T played piano music in the background as Dash H and Miles B lined up the colors on their cube.
Emmett P and Elliott R did a magic trick with a disappearing rock. Spencer S, Walker W and LT showed off some fantastic dancing. Cole S did a stand-up comedy act. Max P, Hayes, Orlando and Asher did lots of practicing before they performed. They wrote and sang an original camp song, accompanied by Asher on the piano…. who then played again for JJ, who sang his own original rap.
Skylemar’s best dancer, Kyle Y-A, did the Cha Cha Slide, and the audience joined in. Kyle always makes it look easy.
Congratulations to all our Skylemar stars. You made us so proud!
Another undeveloped skill set, thanks to the pandemic … shopping in a real store.
Sky II had their Senior Trip today. After several hours at a water park, they relaxed at an air-conditioned movie. Then their wish came true…to go to Walmart. Why Walmart, you ask? To buy junk food of course. It’s the kind of rule we’re willing to break for the old men of Skylemar.
But when it came time to pay, this is where we saw the deficit. Most had no idea how to do the self-checkout. They didn’t know that the carts are all supposed to be in a line and not a massive traffic jam. One innocently started to walk out the door without paying. Plus, we gave them cash to spend, and who uses that these days? This is what happens when you’re used to cyber-shopping. When it comes to ordering online, we bet these guys are the experts.
Back at camp, it was another half-speed day. Each period had three water breaks, and we used record-breaking amounts of sunscreen.
Another shattered record was at SkyPines. Bunk 5 caught 28 fish in less than two hours. Size doesn’t count, and maybe it was actually 25. Fisherman’s tales…
Clinic sign-ups! This week’s offerings include Baseball “Wrap It Up”, “SkyCombine” at Football, “Cool Reading”, “Happy Gilmore” Golf Clinic, Lax Shooting, Soccer Scrimmaging, “Last Call” Ski Dock, “Emerald City” Props and Scenery, Ziplining, “The Pump Water Weights” at the Lab, “Viking Chess”, Free Swim, Tennis Tourneys, Kayaking, Hockey “Color War Prep”, Fishing and “Ball Handling” on the Hoops courts. Decisions, decisions!
“Super Duper Game Show” for Evening Activity. The game’s a divisional challenge, with trivia and mini games. It’s super fun, and there are many ways that someone can shine. Even just volunteering to be a contestant in front of the whole camp is something to be proud of. Isaac C knew sports trivia best, and he made lots of points for the Sophomores. Shout-out to Caleb V who knew the highest possible score in bowling — it’s 300, in case you get asked.
Here’s some more:
What’s the most-visited website in the world? Google (Archie)
What’s the highest-grossing film of all time? Avatar (Harry S)
What’s the longest-running sitcom? Simpsons (Nolan)
Mini games included Egg-on-Spoon Race (Dylan J), Oreo Forehead-to-Mouth Challenge (Lucas V) and a Potato Sack Race (Boden)
Best part was the finale. Captain Game Show asked for a counselor volunteer from each division who wouldn’t mind having his hair messed up. A counselor, plus three camper/stylists, plus a can of shaving cream. Bet you get the picture!
We know that exercise makes us stronger. To be a champion, you need to go the extra mile. The very best are first to arrive at the gym, and the last to leave. They add the extra set, the extra rep, and take the extra time.
At Skylemar, we have lots of those. The champions are our counselors like D’Arcy and Cole, who play tennis with early risers, even though they weren’t assigned to do so. Or QLew, who has such a positive attitude that it rubs off on others. There’s Holly, Cory, Luci and Kristen who do everything from picking up lost & found, fixing a pair of glasses, making snow cones, to drying tears…none of which are in their job description. Then there’s those who don’t even have an official job title, like Aaron, Bruce, and Leslie who just do whatever it takes to help camp, with asking only for smiles in return.
Physically speaking, at Skylemar we certainly see the positive effects of exercise. Between sports all day and just walking from place to place, we watch the boys grow upwards in ways that make us proud. Some lose weight, some gain and some stay the same, but that’s not the point. It’s about standing up straighter and walking taller than they did the first day.
Conversely, sometimes we forget about the power of exercising the brain. We’re not talking about Sudokus or crossword puzzles – we mean real life experiences that help boys to practice for what comes along in the future.
At camp, all is certainly not perfect. But when little things don’t go your way it exercises the brain, which is good practice for life. For example, suppose a boy would prefer to be in a different cabin. Or perhaps he feels offended by what others say to him. Or maybe he finds certain kids incredibly annoying. If we solve it for him by simply removing him from the situation, he never learns how to correct, adjust, understand and handle stressful times. Instead, here we strive to guide a boy when times are tough, hopefully teaching him to advocate for himself and make the best out of a situation — let something roll off his back, accept those of all types, and to bounce back when feeling down. We all, young and old, learn that happiness is a decision you make, not something that’s given to you.
Like physical exercise, some might want to avoid brain exercise. It’s hard stuff that doesn’t necessarily sound fun. But if you show up and try your best, this practice makes you stronger than ever, getting you ready for whatever comes next.
Our “next” was the Blow-Up Carnival, 10U Intracamp Tennis Championship, 14U Volleyball Intercamp, Water Balloon Catapults and GACU. In between were a dozen sports and 100 opportunities for becoming stronger than ever.
If you see your son making a hand symbol with his index and ring finger down, know that it’s a good thing. It’s sign language for an “I”, “L” and “U”, meaning “I love you”. It’s a reminder that it’s cool2care.
Another reminder were periods of “Porch Time” with Shep. It’s hang-out time, where Shep brings up a topic to discuss, Scooby Snacks are shared, and then it’s question time. Today’s discussion was about ok vs not ok. If you’re not sure if it’s appropriate, ask yourself if you’d do or say it in front of Arleen or Shep. At the end, the questions are always interesting. Sometimes they’re about “the old days” when Shep was a counselor. A lot of times they ask about his hair: “Did you ever have any? If you did have some, what color would it be?”
At “Gentleman’s Academy”, there was lots of discussion as well. That’s when you have a period with this camp director at a pretend “restaurant”. You learn about setting a table, how to be a waiter (serve from the left, clear from the right), napkins on laps and wait till all are served, etc. What’s the proper way to let a waiter know you’re unhappy about something? What do you do when going out to dinner with a friend’s family and the parent insists on paying even though your mom or dad said to use the money they gave you?
“Gentleman’s Academy” usually starts with a walk-through of the big kitchen. The guys are amazed by the giant dishwasher. It’s always cool (literally) to go inside one of the walk-in freezers on a day like today. Today we ended up selecting Ed’s Maintenance Barn for the restaurant. A round of “Thorns & Roses” (when you name two things that you like and one that you don’t) always gets us talking. “Would You Rather” questions and answers are really fun (and funny) too.
It was “Tie Dye Factory” at Chilltop today! All ages love to make these shirts. It’s a laid-back project for the campers, but anything but for Mary Beth. She has to twist, rinse, wash and dry each one of them. Thanks for making it look easy, MB!
At Bruce’s “Cool Tools” some fantastic projects are being made. Check out the wooden games that the boys built.
The 13U lacrosse team had an awesome day at the Hejduk field today. The team showed up with over 30 guys, a great sign for the future of Skylemar lacrosse. The boys impressed in a pair of games of intercamp contests coming away victorious in both. Aidan R represented us well in net, with brother Jared alongside as one of our toughtest defenders. TI helped control the faceoff X, while the Snyder brothers produced well on the offensive side of the ball, and the energy remained high on the sideline throughout.
Spirit Night began with Cool2Care honorable mentions, which included Jake M, Ollie R, Eli D, Nico PH, Dash H and Diego. The chain went from Jacob N to Dylan S, who was described by others as “a hall of famer when it comes to kindness and good manners”. Dylan was awarded a jersey representing one of his counselors’ colleges, which symbolizes how a counselor helps to mold you into a man of fine character. Tonight he wears a University of Maryland shirt with the name Butler on the back. Well deserved!
Have you ever played Handball? It’s a fast-paced game that’s especially popular this summer, especially with the older guys.
Although traditionally played on a court, we play on the Snow Field between two goals. The area used is about the size of a basketball court. Some say it’s a cross between soccer (but only the goalie can use his feet) and Ultimate Frisbee. We typically play 5-on-5, plus goalies.
When you get the ball, you can run to make a goal until you’re tagged. Once tagged, you can no longer shoot, but can take three steps and pass to a teammate. There are two twenty-minute halves, and you play with a specific ball. It’s a fantastic game that’s been played regularly for decades in Europe. It could be the next hot game here too. Remember where you heard that…
And hot it was today. Forecast says temps will continue to climb. The boys want to play no matter what. As long we drink plenty of water, keep up with sunscreen and slow down the pace, we’re good to keep going.
In the shade of the trees is Belay School at the Challenge Course. In Belay School, campers learn how to use specialized equipment and follow rules to keep everyone safe on the High Ropes. The entire group works together down on the ground, while each camper then gets the chance to master the Giant Swing. It’s especially rewarding for eight people to work as one unified team.
Working together is also what we do at SkyPines. Feathers of Fame are awarded to those who are a part of the rustic overnight. Here Sid and Sam teach some basic survival skills and help all to feel comfortable sleeping in a tent. This short time away from the physical cabin can help to solidify relationships.
The Cubs had a bit of time away together in the afternoon. They went blueberry picking! The 100 pints they picked will be perfect for blueberry pancakes tomorrow. Meanwhile, the Stars took a journey to Bridgton. It’s a cute little town about 10 miles away that has a public beach, a some places to eat as well as a few stores to check out.
All-Star Game for Evening Activity! It’s our own “home version” of a Seadogs game, with two teams of staff members. The players wear crazy costumes, the field is decorated with giant cut-outs of fairy tale and Disney characters, and the rules are a bit creative. The camp cheers on the sidelines, while enjoying a special treat of Sea Biscuits. Each time someone’s “out”, Sid the Prize Man raffles off a door prize. There are mascots dancing and silly challenges between innings, like a dog race between Trix, Cubbie and Moose.
It was a beautiful scene at the Fred Pierce Field. A giant group of brothers cheering for their counselors, with a stunning sunset on the horizon.
If there could only be one toy available on a blistering, sticky afternoon, we vote for a garden hose. Just ask Cory.
Cory’s one of our amazing directors who does a million and one things every day at Skylemar. When it’s super-hot, she becomes the Water Hose Wizard. The kids squeal with delight as she sprays a fine mist or a giant arc that gently lands on them. But for those who taunt or try to swipe her nozzle, it’s a steady spray directed in their direction. It’s a blast, literally, for both campers and counselors too.
We certainly can’t complain about the weather. A drought works just fine for sports, as long as there’s a lake to keep us hydrated. But by afternoon, it can be tough to keep moving. That’s when we change up the schedule and switch to a Wacky Water Wednesday, as we did today.
It’s a three-way rotation by division for the Cubs/Tigers, Freshmen and Sophomores. First, there was the group at the Waterfront … splishing, splashing, sliding, swinging and leaping. It’s s all about good, safe fun at Trickey Pond.
Meanwhile, another group was at the SkySlide. Shep and the counselors manned the hoses by the hockey rink, keeping the Slide slick and fast. One by one, they jumped, dropped and sped down feet first, with the JC’s ready to catch each slider at the bottom. Some guys could really fly!
Up top at the Garden was the Water Hose Wizard, sprinklers and old-fashioned baby pools. We really got them for making life-sized bubbles at Yellowhorn, but the guys came up with all kinds of ways to have fun with them. There’s the “how many can we fit in it” game, while others used them as giant shields to protect against Cory’s spray.
The snack was a Skylemar Lemon Stick, which actually is an old Baltimore tradition. You take half a lemon and insert a Bob’s Peppermint Stick. The stick is porous and becomes sort of like a straw. The lemon juice mixed with the mint makes for a refreshing treat.
Where were the Seniors and Stars? They relaxed at the Sky II Waterfront all afternoon. It’s what they like to do – hang out.
And where were the Juniors? They were off camp on a Bones Adventure. That’s when Blake takes you on a surprise trip. Today’s outing ventured to a chocolate factory (well kinda — it wasn’t really what was advertised, but they did enjoy the chocolate), then off to a beach before heading to a very well air-conditioned movie theater. Best part was that the theatre was reserved for Skylemar only.
Evening Activity was a Drive-In Movie on the Bunkline, under a starry sky. Life is better than good. It’s great.
Gigi, Nanny, Abuela, Mooma. Pops, Gramps, Saba, Paw Paw. Ga, Honey, Ducky. Pap Pap, Popsicle, Ha Ha.
If you ask a Skylemar boy what he calls his grandma or grandpa, his face lights up. He glows with adoration and is eager to share the special name. Although just about all live far from here, our unconditional friends like Grammy, Poppo, Baba and Bubbles are VIPs in the Skylemar world.
Grandparents are the ones we missed most on Visiting Day. Thank you for understanding that this just wasn’t the year. Nevertheless, your love-waves were with us from the lake to Sky II.
The boys warmly talk about adventures with Nanna, Nonnie, Abuelo or Grumpy. Mimi bakes the best banana muffins, and Poppy lets us play in his hot tub. Grumpy teaches card games and gambling, while YaYa doesn’t make us eat healthy foods. Most importantly, Pipa, Opa, Sir and Popsy know what we know… that the gift of time is what a child values most.
Grandparents are our forever cheerleaders, and every boy is grateful. Bragging is perfectly fine when you lend an ear. Whether it’s about sports, a play or something that was crafted, Grandy, GPK, Bubbi and Fluffy are always proud. Near, far or up in Heaven, each of us is lucky to be guided by your watchful eye.
Thank you Memaw, Meme, Nonno and Dude for believing in Camp Skylemar, and for making this summer possible. In more ways than one, we couldn’t be here without you!
Lovey, Birdy, Jaddi and Buddy. Geebee, Obo, Zayde and Gdaddy. Can’t forget Lolly & Pop!
It’s fascinating to go through the list of what’s selected for Clinics. Most of the time it’s a totally independent choice, and kids from the same cabin usually go in different directions. Many of the activities end up with a variety of ages participating. If it matters, like in the case of “Basketball Tournament Play”, “Mini-Lax” or Soccer “Skills Training”, the kids would be broken up by age group. If it doesn’t matter, like in the case of “Ski Dawgs Waterskiing”, “Paparazzi Photo”, “Boating & Bracelet Making” or Reading, it’s an especially great way to get to know each other.
Skylemar is family, and our brotherhood happens organically. No matchmaking required. The older guys know that it’s their responsibility to help those younger. The little guys feel safe with the big ones and are frequently getting piggy-back rides. It’s just how we roll.
“Sports Trivia”, for example, should be interesting. Out of 16 boys, 9 are from different cabins. The ages range from 9 to 13. It’s mind-blowing to hear how versed some of them are, no matter the age.
Other Clinics this week include “Golf Bend and Rotation”, Football “Mini Games” (like Razzle Dazzle, Red Zone and Football Newcomb), Hockey “Goalie Clinic”, Volleyball “Intercamp Prep” and “Camp Championship” Tennis. Baseball Barney offered an “All-Star Week” on the Freddie Pierce Field. He’ll pull out the radar gun to see how fast you throw from the mound.
There’s “Under the Sea Snorkeling” at Trickey Pond, and “Decaf Dave’s High Challenge Course”. Sid will offer “Map Making and Orienteering”. Erik will teach his group to play “Viking Clash”. It’s a lawn game that’s popular with the counselors. The Lab will take place at the lake with “Water Weights”. The SkyDeck Clinic will cover “indigenous cuisine of North and South America before European interruption”. Not sure what that means, but we know it will taste great.
Luckily, it didn’t start raining until after Clinic Sign-Up was complete. Some went ice skating in Bridgton, while others played with a huge amount of Lego. There were games at the Garden Cabin and Pavilion, and fun things to make at Chilltop. The Sophomores and Juniors played games at the Gym and Lodge. As for the Seniors and Stars? The schedule said “Bunk Time”. That’s code word for “sleep”.
It’s our friends the Harlem Wizards, back again this year to challenge Skylemar Counselors! We loaded up the buses and headed a few miles down the road to Lake Region High School. It’s so much fun to fill the school gym and show off our Sky pride. We’ve loved the Wizards for many years, ever since our founder Lee brought them to camp in the mid-70’s, and this latest edition still brings their Globetrotter-brand of entertainment with every performance. We not only saw some incredible long-range shooting and lots of flashy dribbling and passing, but a dazzling display of thunderous dunks which nearly bought the house down – and that was just from our guys! The Wizards were amazing as always – and not only put Hayes on the court long enough to score a bucket for their side but held a quick “knock-out” game at the center court circle won by Bunk 1’s Henry (and a new basketball prize). The boys loved every second, cheering for their Skylemar stars…. wonder who had more fun? Congratulations to counselors LT, Will, Coby, DT, Mike, Myke, Jacob, Nate and Rob. You made the show better than ever.
Today was hot enough to fry an egg on the basketball court. Or so we thought. Turns out it’s not the best way to cook an egg, and instead just makes for a messy hoops period.
But at SkyDeck, they know the way to cook eggs. Bunk 2 had a great time making Egg Cups with Adam. They flattened bread and squished it into muffin tins for the crust. Adam taught them the proper way to crack an egg, and they listened intently. Noah W. did it perfectly on the first try! Next, they added crumbled turkey bacon, topped it with cheese and baked. Try it at home – they loved it!
At the Ski Dock, Walker M got right up on the boom for his first time. It doesn’t usually happen that way on the very first try, but the Ski Dock staff is especially patient. When asked how he did it, Walker said he had been watching other people since he got to camp and did exactly what they did.
For our second session guys, today was their first day of camp. It was exciting and fun to welcome new friends! They came from Maryland, DC, Mass, Maine, New York, California, Rhode Island, Connecticut, Virginia, Missouri, Kansas, North Carolina, and Florida. Mexico and France too! For some, English is their second language, and we know they’ll sharpen their skills this summer. Hopefully, the rest of us will learn at least a little from them… Spanish, French, Ukrainian and Arabic.
Also new today was an activity called “Throwing”. It’s directed by our phenomenal NBC (non-bunk counselor) Paige, who throws in college. Not just anything of course – it’s discus and javelin. It’s especially fascinating for all of us, because throwing a discus or javelin is something that most have only seen when watching the Olympics. We found out today that it’s definitely harder than it looks.
Third period was “Red Zone”. That’s when there are three choices for each age group that are located sort of near each other. For example, each Cub got to pick between Football, Gaga and Golf. Tigers got to pick from Baseball, STB and Mini Lax. Freshman choices were Hockey, Volleyball, Spikeball/KanJam. And so it went for the other Divisions as well.
It was a Welcome Campfire for Evening Activity. Cory, her staff and Adventure Man were as entertaining as ever. Avery sounded fantastic on the guitar, and we all sang along with “Lean on Me”. Funniest skit of the night was the JC’s. They came out of the woods wearing togas and did some kind of rain dance.
We sure do need the rain. Hoping for some tomorrow!
John Lennon had it right. All you need is love. And we had plenty of it at Skylemar today.
Whether you were here spreading the positive vibes or you sent them from home, love was in the air. We believe that there are no boys in the universe more adored than those who go to Skylemar.
The balmy, wonderful day was “just right”. Thanks to our rule-following guests, all went according to plan. The boys had the opportunity to do exactly what we had hoped – show off. We’re especially proud of them, and know you are too.
Sure, there were some tears, but we also were surprisingly impressed by the strength and bounce-back-ability that the boys demonstrated. By the time we walked over to the roller rink at the Carnival, everyone was their regular joyful self. It was if we had turned on a switch.
Movie Night was BYOT (bring your own treats), and everyone was glad to share. That was a lot considering the number of snow cones downed at the Carnival, so there might be a tummy ache or two. Sweetest part of the day was when a camper brought down a bag of food to donate to charity, even though we hadn’t even thought about collecting yet.
The “World of Change” collection was a positive part of the day too. If you’d like more information about this nonprofit, go to www.worldofchange.world. Collecting change is an easy way to get kids involved with helping others, and with WOC 100% of donations go towards kid’s causes.
As we know, life is about making good decisions. One of those good ones was when we listened to Dr. Jeff, who encouraged us to host Visiting Day from a medical perspective. We’re grateful to him for guiding us every day.
Most of all, we’re grateful to you. Thank you for entrusting us to care for your most precious possession. We cherish this honor forever and always.
